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My felling lonely!
By TĐ>>Sunday,October 10,2021 at 7.0 pm
Current mood:Im so upset
My parents work late on weekdays and most weekend,Im extremely alone at home with the housemaid or tutor.I fell lonely all the time.I wish my parents could spend more time with me. Cooking delicious meals for me, taking me out or listening to my problems.How can I make him understand this?

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By Somq >> Saturday, October 9, 2021 at 9.36 A.M
Current mood: I’m so upset!
I've had my hair cut short for a few days. One evening, my mother and I watched TV together at home. Mom advised me to keep my hair long. Because my mother feels that girls with short hair are very paradoxical. Mom says I don't look sexist. I feel very sad about that. My mother does not understand my preferences. She is always interested in social prejudices placed on women. That hairstyles that look like men shouldn't be cut. I hope she will change her mind and be more open in her mind. If you're supportive of my looks, I'll be happy for that. How can I make her understand this?

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Re: I lost my original English
By: FBI
Sunday, October 10, 2021 at 8.30pm.
Current mood: I'm very confused!
Since elementary school I have been very resistant to learning English. When I went to junior high school, I lost my roots from elementary school so I didn't understand anything, so I didn't want to study anymore. It wasn't until high school that I realized how important English is, not only for the university entrance exam but also after graduating from school and going to work. Now I just started to focus on learning English, but because I lost my roots so much, I feel like I can't get in and even if I take extra classes, it won't be very effective. Can anyone tell me how to learn English more effectively?

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by theonewhovincicarry >> Sunday, October 10, 2021 at 7.30 P.M.

Current mood: I'm extremly tired and displeased

I'm 16 already but my parents are always trying to control me. They only let me to use smart phone 55 minutes per day and there is no Facebook, Instagram, Zalo, Pinterest, Google Meet,etc in my phone. My phone is often checked by my father even though I have talked to he many time that I need private space in my life. Now it's impossible for me to connect to my friends when staying at home. I find difficult in doing online homework or receive notification too. Everyday I have many things in to do list and I need tools to help me in manage my work. There are many activities and work in my club so I often have online meeting with others member and talk about work on social media. But now I can't do anything of them just because of my father's prohibition. I have explained to my parents 7749 times but it's seemed futile. Now I'm so depressed and feel unreasonable.

Can you please give me some advice? Thanks in advance

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Re: I am fail to keep pace with schoolwork.
by àÁa >> Sunday, October 10,2021 at 7p.m
Current mood: I'm so depressed.
At the age of seventeen, I'm not a straight A student, but last year I met the basic requirement to get a place at one of the country's most prestigious seats of learning which is one of my biggest life-altering events. During a first year studying, my friends has shown a marked improvement about every subjects. For example, A has a natural talent for English, she achieved full marks in the last class test. Or on the ongoing assessment, B always shows his considerable initiative in the way he approach his project. Despite the fact that i make great investment in term of time and money for my study, i couldn't get the right grades, which not only forces me to cram for the exam but also makes me experience from presistent doubt. The stress of lagging behind my friends has gradually brought me to the brink of a mental breakdown. I wish I could develop a practical plan to cope with my bad situation.
What could I do?

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Re: I have a problem with my best friend

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by ctt >> Monday, October 3, 10_ at 16 P.M
Current mood: I’m so sad and worried
I've recently had a problem with a friendship that I'm not sure how to handle. The incident occurred last week, when I damaged the flower vase she adored. It was a vase of flowers her mother gave her for her fifteenth birthday. She was very upset because it was the last present before her mum went abroad. She thinks about that vase a lot since she misses her mother so much. Unfortunately, I bumped into the flowerpot and broke it. She became enraged and declared that she would no longer be my friend. I knew it was entirely my fault, but no matter how many times I apologized to her, she refused to listen to me this time. I hope she can forgive me. I don't want our friendship to end in this manner because we've known each other for a long time. How do I make her not mad at me?

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by j >> Sunday,October 10, 10 __ at 3 P.M

My sister is seven years older than I am.  She just has came back home after 2 years live in Korean. In the past, my bond is pretty close-knit. But after a long time we just spoke together through Face Time. And now I feel so shy when meet her. I tried to start a conversation with her, but after a few sentences it was over. i think the age gap between my sister and me. By addition, we haven't seen each other for a long time. It makes us apart. I wish I got on well with my sister as before. How can I do this?

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by idk >> Saturday, October 10, 2021 at 19.50 PM

Current mood: I’m so worried

Anna is my best friend and she is also one of the best students in my class. She is good at Physics and got good marks in every exams. Last week, we had a Physics test and Anna was very confident in that test. But yesterday, when our teacher returned the test, I can’t believe that her score was extremely low. Anna was very disappointed and she cried. She is so depressed that she didn’t go to school this morning. I called Anna but she didn’t pick up. I really know her level and I understand that the low grade was probably just because she wasn’t careful in the test. I tried to cheer her up but it was useless. I want to make her feel better and more confident in her study. What can I do for her?

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Re:My laziness in learning

By:レアル猫>> Saturday, October 9, 2021 at 9:30 a.m

Current mood : Bored

Now I’m 16 years old and I am very lazy in learning. After school, I often play games and I don’t care with my homework. In my free time, I surf the Internet and do nothing except that. My mom is so worried about this so I want to use smartphone less time more than I did in the part. I have a dream that I wish I would become an IT coder or film editor. In my opinion I think I can make my dream to become the truth but I’m so lazy to  do it. How can I use smartphone reasonable and study harder in the future to make my dream comes true?

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by SoMebody >> Sunday, October 10, 2021 at 6. P.M.
Current mood: I'm so worried!
Yeah, for sure that, in this Monday afternoon, we will have an aptitude exam of mathematics. Aaand, I'm like a cat on hot bricks, I really don't understand the lesson. Naah, I comprehend what teacher said, but I do not know how to apply that knowledge into a real exercise. I even can't do these activity alone! Maybe, but only a few task that I can solve it by myself. I really afraid that I will not uphold my ability in doing that test. I start trying to review all knowledge, but It not really effect. What should I do know? Not only in the exam, but also for my math scores and my learning in mathematics. Hope for you guys advice. Thanks so much.

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Re: i often postpone everything i have to do

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By abc >> Sunday, October 10, 2021 at 6p.m
Current mood: I'm so upset!
I can't do everything as planned. For example, i have a lot of work to get done, but instead of focusing on doing it, i do other things like chatting, surfing the social networks, watching movies... I know i shouldn't do that but i don't really feel like doing it and have no motivation. That procrastination took up a lot of my time. I know it's really harmful, it negatively affects the quality of my work but i don't know how to get rid of it. That makes me so bad and disappointing. I wish i could manage my time and organize my work better. How can i most effectively accomplish my targets

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By ....... >>Sunday,October 10,2021 at 4:00pm
Current mood: I'm confused
I have many friends but none of them are my best friend.I don't have someone i really trust to talk or share my feeling to.Everyone have best friend and i really like the feeling of having a best friend.I need someone that i can talk with everywhen t want and help me if i have a problem or simple that can share my hobby with.I'm can feel that i'm a introvert and an unapproachable person and it very hard to me to make friends with someone .So to make close with someone is harder thing.what should i do?

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Re:the way i liveBy:hehe123>>Sunday,October 10,2021 at 17.24 pmCurrent mood:I'm contemplating

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Re:the way i liveBy:hehe123>>Sunday,October 10,2021 at 17.24 pmCurrent mood:I'm contemplating

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Personally, I'm trying to learn to love myself and be completely content with the things I can't change. The way I see it is that I have to spend the rest of my life on my own, and if I hate who I am then I live a life full of anxiety and self-hatred. I hope to reach a state of self-acceptance where I don't need a romantic relationship to feel loved, where nothing really matters because I'm with the person I love the most, myself.
I'm not saying I want to give up all my worldly pleasures or anything like that, I still like fast cars and nice clothes. I just mean I hope one day I can find joy in the simple things in life and enjoy life alone.
I don't know how long it will take, if any, but that's what keeps happening. If you find anything wrong with the way I live, tell me, I'm always listening.

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Re: I don’t know how to cook, housework just know only study but now my study is bad too.
By Loho >> Sunday, October 10, 2021 at 3.05 P.M
Current mood: I’m so nervous, disappointed in myself.
Now, I’m studying in grade 11 but I only know cook rice, water morning- glory, I even don’t know fry eggs… About housework I only wash dishes after the meal and don’t have to do anything then. One of the reasons that my parents quite pamper me and worry about my study so they don’t want me to do housework. But my learning results are getting worse and worse. I know my parents are very disappointed and me too. At the moment I’m disoriented and frustrated in the matter of study. I wish I can be parents’ good and excellent children. What should I do?

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Re: I have lost my best friend of the opposite sex.

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By Sora >> Sunday, October 10, 2021 at 3.15 pm
Current mood: I am very sad and regretful
She and I have been very close friends since we were in 10th grade. We have similar interests, and it's fun to talk to each other. Even in the situation of having to study online, we still communicate with each other every day. And because of those actions, I fell in love with her. But I know that we need to study for the upcoming college entrance exam so I didn't express my feelings to her. Until one day in the summer, she asked me if I loved that girl. And I said "No, I love you, not her". At that time, I really didn't understand why I said that. I don't want to lose this relationship. Luckily she didn't make things worse and we continued to be friends. But after that day, I didn't understand what was wrong with me and i kept creating situations that neither she nor I want. I caused our friendship to fall apart just because I wanted to have a romantic relationship with her. I tried to apologize to her a lot and tried to reconcile with her. I thought everything would be fine. But after going back to school, she was no longer close to me, she kept avoiding me and we could only talk through text messages. I tried asking her why she was like that. I have tried to find stories to tell her in class, but I still found that our relationship remained the same. When talking to people, she is very happy but when I go to talk to her, she avoids me and only answers yes or no. When I see her talking to another guy, I feel breathless, heartbroken, jealous and depressed. I don't want our friendship to end and I don't want to be romantically involved with her yet. I just want to go back to being best friends of the opposite sex with her. What should I do to protect this relationship, please help me.

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Re: Being overprotected
By kon mòe nguk ngốk😽🤌 >> Sunday, October 10, 2021 at 08:14 A.M

Current mood: I'm so annoyed!

I am the last-born daughter in my family. Therefore, my parents always try to protect and look after me in the best way. It was great when I was a child. I stayed with my parents all the time, including sleeping with them. I could not play what I wanted because they said it was unsafe. That was quite easily understandable because they were just anxious about my safety. But I am 16 years old now, I know what to do. However, my parents are still the same. They still want to control me. This is so uncomfortable. For instance, they are always controlling my social interactions. They do not allow me to be friends with boys. Moreover, they take my phone to check the messages without asking me. Once they saw me talking to a boy and I was detained for 2 days. My parents do not realise that they are overinvolved in my daily life. I know that my parents just hope the best for me. But they do not know that they are overprotective. I wish they would change. How can I make them understand what they do for me is unnecessary?

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Re: My study schedule
by Lonely Pig )) Sunday, October 10, 2021 at 10.30 AM
Current mood: I'm so nervous
In this term, I'm now at grade 11 and I have only 2 years to prepare for the university entrance exam. I have had many extra classes with main lessons at school per a week. I have a lot of homework. So it's hard for me to finish them. I always to stay up late and snatch every break time at school to do the homework from extra classes and school. I feel tired and don't want to continue this situation anymore. What a pity, I can't because  just studying at school can't provide enough knowledge to pass the university entrance exam. What more, my classmates study much more than me. What should I do now?

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Re: Conflict between me and my family when choosing my career
by Sirius A >> Sunday, October 10, 2021, at 11:18 A.M.
Current mood: I’m so annoyed and confused.
I am about to graduate from high school; therefore, I have to choose a branch to study at university. I have a passion for information technology (IT), so I want to learn about it after leaving high school. But my family doesn’t allow me to choose IT. They suppose that this field is too difficult for me to learn about, not to mention, there are a large number of pupils who compete mutually to get into university and study this branch so I can’t pass the entrance exam. In addition, my family even thinks jobs relevant to IT are often unstable, so I'm not sure to have a good life after graduation. My family, especially my parents and grandparents, advise me to follow in their steps and be a teacher because I will have a lot of opportunities to become a public servant. If being a public servant, I won’t have to worry about being dismissed or looking for work. They said that they won’t let me study IT at university. Therefore, I’m disappointed and unpleasant. I know they are worried about my future so they impose their views on me. But I think this is my life and I have the right to decide what job I will do. Furthermore, I don’t want to change my mind and not fulfill my dream just because of my family’s disapproval. I wish my family stopped controlling me and supported my decision. What do you advise me to do?

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Re: My feeling of fatigue towards math
By Ted >> Sunday, October 10, at 10.02 am
Current mood: I'm so bored and disappointed
Last week we learned a new math problem. When I first listened to the teacher, I felt that I understood the lesson. But when I started to put it into practice, I didn't feel good at all. Meanwhile, my friends can apply it to homework quickly and smoothly, and I have to wait for the teacher to correct the lesson before I can write it down in my notebook. I don't know what to do now. I feel very tired and have a headache every time I do the math. I wish I could understand the lesson and be able to do more exercises on my own instead of waiting in vain. What should I do?

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Re: My helpless feeling with Math !
by 7a1 >> Sunday, October 9, 2021 at 8.20 am
Current mood: I'm so tired and disappointed
Yesterday afternoon, my class had math class and my teacher had some spatial geometry problems for us to solve. These are all quite difficult problems, but many of my friends can do them easily, while I struggle just waiting for her to solve and then copy them into my notebook. Actually at that time I felt very bored and helpless, I wished I could solve the homework like them but I couldn't. What should I do?

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Re: Tanas is driving mad!
By Pearl. >> Sunday, October 9, at 24.00 pm
Current mood: I’ m so powerless
All day in week, my friend always disturb me everywhere. In school, he always play game and listen to music. It makes me not attend to lesson. That’s reason for that he can’t finish his homework and he always call me to help them do the homework. He said that he wanted to be a professional gamer; I respect his dream but I think his habit can be a bad influence on me.
What should I do?

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Re: my best friend may suffer chronic stress
By hehe>>Saturday, October 9, 2021, at 10.45 am
Current mood: I'm so unhappy
This afternoon, I met my best friend to hang out with her and chatted about all things that we experienced this week. But after some short stories, she began to talk about how she was feeling exhausted and depressed both physically and mentally when she had to endure the pressure of studying. When I heard what she said, I was so shocked and tried to comfort her stay calm, and try to focus on positive things or thinking about the results that she could achieve if she worked hard every day. I hope she will soon get over that bad time and recover soon. How can I help her feel better during this time?