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Dear Agony auntI have a problem. I am 14 years old and a girl. And i am getting sexually abused by my teacher. He touches me inappropriately in the private parts and i need help. It is getting very uncomfortable for an example he will look at me and i will feel very vulnerable and then he takes advantage off me but nobody in my class seems to notice it. He says if i tell anyone about it he will rape me. I have been thinking about dropping out of my school, i have not been to school for over a month and i just feel like that that is the only good choice hereFrom Girlwithproblems Hello there Girlwithproblems I am sorry to hear about  what your teacher he is doing to you, but the best you can do is probably talk to the principal and family about it i am sure they will understand. if you know you can trust them then talk about your problems. i am truly sorry that he is trying to take advantage  you  love agony aunt

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Dear Agony auntI have a problem. I am 14 years old and a girl. And i am getting sexually abused by my teacher. He touches me inappropriately in the private parts and i need help. It is getting very uncomfortable for an example he will look at me and i will feel very vulnerable and then he takes advantage off me but nobody in my class seems to notice it. He says if i tell anyone about it he will rape me. I have been thinking about dropping out of my school, i have not been to school for over a month and i just feel like that that is the only good choice hereFrom Girlwithproblems Hello there Girlwithproblems I am sorry to hear about  what your teacher he is doing to you, but the best you can do is probably talk to the principal and family about it i am sure they will understand. if you know you can trust them then talk about your problems. i am truly sorry that he is trying to take advantage  you  love agony aunt

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Adolescence “Agony, Aunt”

The girl's problem

The problem

Hi .. I'm a 15 year old girl and my life has just gone down since I have come to after-school.

Some weeks after I got up at my after-school, my parents went apart.

And my big brother has been hospitalized because he drove wrong.

I do not know what to do with my parents, they hardly talk to each other after they leave.

And my mother wants me to stay with her and my dad wants me to stay with him.

And I really do not know what to do because I do not want to hurt them and I just want to be there for my brother, but it's hard to think about everything with my parents and after-school, I do not have been in school ever since with my brother.

I know it's stupid that I'm not up at school, but he needs me when our parents are scared all the time!

Sometimes I just wish I had never been to school, do not misunderstand me, I love my after-school but right now I just do not want to be there, they do not understand that it's hard for me.

So I just get away from there, will not be anywhere else.

Then will you help me?, I do not know soon what to do more.

The answer

Hi..

I can hear that everything has gone a little bit down since you went to after-school.

But you must know that nothing is with you or your brother for that matter.

And understand that you are there for your brother, but you have to take care of your after-school and your parents will probably figure it out at one point, it do not just have to be right now.

So when your brother has returned home, I think you should get back to your after-school again and start over with it all.

Hope I could help you.

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What is wrong with me?
Hi..
I have a problem with self harm. I hurt myself every day but I do not really know why? .. I'm good at school and have lots of friends, it's also smooth at home and everything is just fine.
But I hurt myself and made it for several years,
it's quite a long time since i started so can not even remember why i did it or which one was the first one ..
But self-harm makes me really sad. My body has been filled with scars ... And it makes me really sad and look at myself.
I have not told anyone at all even if it has been going on for several years ... And now I've come to a point in my life, where I can feel it's deeply ridiculous.
The self-harm prevents me from living my life, in that I do not show my body to anyone, not even my parents have seen me in shorts or a short-sleeved blouse last year's time .. And it's really hard for me and carrying The fear that somebody should assume constant suspicion. And although I thought it's deeply ridiculous I'm doing this I can not stop ...
I'm thinking about just committing suicide to make it all disappear, but also not "courageous" to commit suicide because I can not help thinking about what congestion it can have for my family, if i kill myself ..
But what should I do? How do I stop it? Can you remove the ears so everything will be like before?
I hope you / you understand my problem ..
Hope you will answer! ...
Greetings the girl who soon gives up

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Dear Agony aunt.

My teacher is always getting angry at me when i answer wrong, sometimes he even pushes me and says that my carrier is on the line, i am very hurt about this and i don’t want to say it to the principal because i think he won’t take me serious. It hurts when he pushes and punches after me, i have not been in school for 2 weeks now and im always crying myself to sleep and it’s sad. My family is worried about me not going outside anymore.

From Anonymous

Dear Anonymous.

I am sorry to hear about your teacher and what he is doing to you, but the best you can do is probably talk to the principal and family about it. You don’t have to worry about going outside, the best thing you can do is to be with your friends and if you know you can trust them then talk about your problems. I am sorry that he is trying to punch you

From Agony aunt YEET

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I am addicted to Social Networking Sites

Dear agony aunt

I am a guy that think I am addicted to social network sites.

Can you please help me find out  if I am addicted to networking sites, or you could give me some advice to how I can stop being so addicted to my mobile, computer and playstation.

From a worried teenager

answer from agony aunt:

Dear worried teenager

I can understand your problem with social network sites.

I think that you could leave it at home when you are going to school.

You could also say that you could maximum use your mobile 2-3 hours per day.

I hope that my advice could help you.

Goodbye

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Dear Agony Aunt.

My classmates are talking behind my back me cus I dont have any gucci, they call me broke and says that I am a trash can.

Whenever we have sports, they show all there new gucci and supreme clothes, and because I don't have any, they roast me.

can you pls tell me what to do?

From Anonymous.

Dear  Anonymous.

I suggest you move school because, they are not very good classmates if they bully you, just because of what you wear.

If that isn't a option then you can ask the teacher if you can change by yourself, and don't take what they say personal.

Hope this helped you<3

Love Agony aunt.

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Dear Agony aunt

I am 14 years old, I am a girl and I hate my teacher, because my teacher hits me, everytime I answer wrong

My teacher says to me “ If you tell someone I will kill you”.

The worst time was when he hit me because I thought London was a country, he hit me so hard that I got a bloody nose and my class just laughed.

Please help me.

From Anonymous.

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Dear Anonymous

I am sorry about your life, I think you should tell your school inspector, parents or the police because you have a very big problem.

You teacher is a monster, he is very evil.

I hope you say that to someone

From Agony Aunt

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Agony Aunt -

Dear Agony aunt -

Yesterday i received an inappropriate photo,  from one of my classmates.

It wasn't him tho, it was some person that i didn't know and now i don’t know what to do.
Should i call the police, should i say it to my parents, or should i just confront him and say that it’s not okay to share images like that. Please help me.

Dear anonym -

If you received such photos like that, tell him that it’s not acceptable,

to share such kind on the internet.
If the person, who is on this particular image, is under 15, it is catogorised as childporn and should be shown to the police, so they can take the case up. At this point your parents are probably involved, so there's really no way that they aren't getting involved.
- Love Agony Aunt.

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The Agony Aunt

Dear  Emily

I am a girl on 14 years old I have a problem.

I was going to party Friday night, but I knew if I asked  my parents to go  to a  party,  with someone that was 2 years older than me, they would definitely say no.

But I went to the party anyway. I said to my parents, that I went over to Vilma but I didn't go there. I went to the party and became drunk.

I became very tired and would like to go home and sleep. But I could not go home to myself because I told my parents that I was going to sleep at Vilma´s. So I asked my friend  if I could  go with her to sleep at her house. She said it was okay, we went home to her place.

In the morning i went  home to Vilma, because my parents would pick me up.

Do you think  that I shall tell my parents what i really was doing that friday night?

From the confused girl.

Answer

Dear  confused girl

I think that you should tell your parents what you really was doing that friday night because you seem like you feel very guilty. I think you should tell them because you would feel better. Your parents will be proud of

you for telling the truth even though they might get mad at first.

Love from Emily.

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Dear Agony Aunt

I am a girl at 14 years and I have a problem.

I have just moved to a new school, so the problem is, I have no friends here.

I loved my old school and I have a lot of friends there, but my father got a new job here, so me and my family had to move.

There is some girls at my new school, that I really want to be with. The problem is just I do not know how to ask if we can be together after school, because I am a shy girl.

So my questions is:

Do you have any ideas for how I can ask them?

From the shy girl

Dear Shy girl

It’s nice to hear, that you loved your old school, but sometimes it’s good with changes.

At first I will give you an advice that you just have to be yourself.

You can maybe be with them in the break, and then they maybe ask you if you want to be with them after school. But if they don’t ask you, will I mean it’s best just to ask them.

I hope you can use my advice and get a lot of friends.

From the Agony Aunt

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Dear Agony Aunt.

My classmates are talking behind my back me cus I dont have any gucci, they call me broke and says that I am a trash can.

Whenever we have sports, they show all there new gucci and supreme clothes, and because I don't have any, they roast me.

can you pls tell me what to do?

From Anonymous.

Dear  Anonymous.

I suggest you move school because, they are not very good classmates if they bully you, just because of what you wear.

If that isn't a option then you can ask the teacher if you can change by yourself, and don't take what they say personal.

Hope this helped you<3

Love Agony aunt.

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Dear Mailbox

I’m a 15 year old girl, and i have a big problem with myself.

I have a lovely family there cares about me alot. But i have a really big secret that i haven’t told anyone yet. I self harm, i self harm almost every day. I cut my arm with a blazer, it hurts. Sometimes i cry and laugh at the same time when i cut. And i can self decide how much it’s gonna hurt. But i hate that i cut, i hate that i’m hiding so much from my parents and friends.

But I kinda hate myself for not being like other people. I hate that i’m not good at my classes, I hate that some of the girls from my class hates me and talking about me behind my back.

But i’m lucky that i have a best friend named Lucy, she’s so sweet, and helps me with everything I found hard. I love her! But she don’t know about my scars, and i feel that i should tell her.

I wear long sleeves and pants, even though it’s summer and hot outside. People ask why i wear so much clothes, but i just don’t answer them.

I’m really tired of walking with long sleeves and pants. I want to have T-Shirts on.

But last week from one of my class saw one of my cuts because i was washing my hands. She just stared at my cuts. But i just said that it was my cat. (I have 2 cats at home)

I don’t know how to tell my parents or if i should tell them. I’m just so scared.

Please help me!

Regard the 15 year old girl

Dear anonymous

I see that you have a lot of problems, I would say that you need someone to talk to.

But i know it’s hard.

I think it’s really cool that you don’t want to wear long sleeves anymore, and dont want to cut!

I hope that you stops and get it out to world:)

It will always be good to talk with your parents, like, get it out to the world. show them your scars, but be ready for all the questions.

And you should try and show your best friend your scars, and your story. You could also have your parents with you so they can help you answer the hard questions, and see if that goes well.

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Dear Agony aunt

I´m a 15 year old girl and I have a problem about one of my good friends. Maybe it's not a big problem, but it fills a lot to me in my weekday.

She is very sweet and funny, but sometime she is jealous of me. When I do things or say something, where there is people around, she doesn't answer me and look sad at me. When we are alone, she is happy and never jealous of me. It's very tiresome, for I can't tell it to her, because i´m afraid to lose her.

What should I do without to lose her?
Regard the 15 years old girl.
Answer:

Dear girl

It's never fun to be afraid to lose a good friend, but I think you should talk to her. Explain your problem to her, when you are alone, face to face. Tell her how much it fills in your weekday, but remember to say some good things about her. It can maybe be a little hard, if you only say how irritable it is. I'm sure she will understand, if you explain your problem to her. She has maybe an explanation. Maybe she has problems at home or she said at something, she doesn't has tell you.

I hope my answer could help you.
- Agony aunt

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Dear Agony Aunt.

I'm in deep deep trouble, I'm about 7 weeks pregnant and I am only 15.

I found out a few weeks ago after waking up sick every morning then being fine for the rest of the day, I told my older sister at 20 how I was feeling and she told me to take a test.

I don't even know how to tell my friends and boyfriend, let alone tell my mom and dad.

I've started showing but not very much but it's noticeable so I wear big shirts trying to hide it but it's very hard.

I don't wanna get rid of my own child but I don't know how my mom and dad will take it, or if my friends and boyfriend will stay with me if I tell them, I am scared that everyone will hate me for wanting my own child to have a life and grow up, I need some advice on how to tell my parents and save up for this baby i would dearly appreciate it i need the help.

Please reply as fast as possible.

Thank you beforehand.

Love Annie

Dear Annie

Take it slow and do what you feel is best, it's your choice on keeping this baby or not, if your parents don't like it then that's too bad you shouldn't get rid of it just because they don't want you to have it, if you want it then have it, you could start a day job and save up the money for clothes, diapers, and a crib for it, maybe if you are lucky your mom and dad will help, anyway i wish you the best with this.

Had it been me I would have kept it.

hopefully i could help you!

All love Agony Aunt.