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Own a real estate business have jujubes River house and backyard and have a skate park and pool and tramp and huge yard and big golden retriever and live by the beach

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Lightning McQueen car

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David Dobrik is the world’s sexiest heartthrob and has more than 15 million subscribers on Youtube. Everyone wants to be his best friend including me, and he just seems to keep getting bigger and bigger. But what makes this 20-something, average-looking Youtuber so searingly hot to women? And how can you learn to harness his magic sauce? Learn everything on this episode of Classic Charm.

Here’s the first thing I want to get out the way. NO. It’s not because of his popularity or money. Most of you watching this already know this. There are a bunch of other Youtuber’s his age with more subs and money and you don’t see them getting Teen Choice Award type stuff, getting invited on TV shows, and making actual real friendships with celebrities like he does. It’s very clear, and you don’t have to debate this—David is different.

Chances are this is your first time on my channel, since I only have like 8k subscribers I know that. I’ve been a dating and social skills expert since 2005. Yup more than 15 years mothatrucka. And what has always fascinated me is the enigmatic personality trait known as charm. Most people don’t have it. Some do. But you know it when you see it. I’m here to figure it out for you. So I don’t care about how David only posts 4 minute videos or has the best merch. That doesn’t interest me. What interests me is why he’s been named the Sexiest Heartthrob by People magazine and why every attractive girl is attracted to him despite the fact that he doesn’t look like a Harry or a Tim-Tim.

So what’s the first big thing that I think makes David stick out from everyone else? If you are some sort of entertainer, an influencer, an actor, a musician, whatever—you are likely obsessed with being cool. Cool is the ultimate thing to be for most entertainment-brained people. Dress with the coolest, newest clothes. Buy the newest tech. Hook-up with the hottest girls you possibly can. Eat at the top restaurants. Get drunk at the hottest nightclubs. Go on the most enviable vacations. David Dobrik literally cares about none of that. He cares so little I think it goes below zero care. It goes into the negative numbers. David explicitly does not eat fancy food (he actually just eats the same cheap meal every day), he doesn’t drink alcohol, he wears literally the same clothes, he films his vlogs with the same old camera he’s had for years (without a fancy microphone, mind you), and he doesn’t try flirting with hot women. In fact, he does the opposite. When most guys are around cute girls, they will do whatever they can to try to look cool in front of them. But David does what I’ve been teaching my students for years. What does he do? He does—nothing. He treats hot women just as though they were part of the gang. He treats them like all his other friends. This one thing is what short circuits pretty women’s brains. They are expecting some form of flirting—even maybe some sort of anti-flirting. But with David, women literally are just confused at how he doesn’t give a 🤬 🤬 if they find him attractive or not. And what happens when you treat women like you would your best friend? Suddenly her walls drop. She turns into her real self with you. And she sees your actual real self. And then it’s just two people standing metaphorically naked in front of each other. And there’s nothing left to do in that situation except have metaphorical S-E-X. Or you can have real sex, doesn’t matter to me.

Because guys don’t realize that the real version of cool that women actually like is the one where you don’t give one flying pig 🤬 about being cool. So then what does David actually care about? I mean, this should be pretty obvious. He likes having fun with his friends.

David knows that looking cool or attractive or valuable to others has nothing to with having fun in life. It’s also why it may sometimes look like he doesn’t even get attracted to anyone. I disagree. Are you ready for some deep stuff? Usually, when you see a hot girl walking past you or on instagram or whatever, you think you’re attracted to that girl. I have weird news for you. You’re not. What’s really happening is you see someone that you think is highly valued by society, and you know that if you just had that someone then you’d be admired and envied. You ever feel that tight squeeze in your chest when you see someone like that? Yup, that’s not sexual attraction. That’s something called desperation—and it has very little to do with sex. You think it’s attraction because it has to do with a good looking person and you feel strongly about it. But attraction is a literal word. When you are attracted to someone, you actually feeling a pull towards them. You feel really, really good on the inside. And you don’t feel anxious about the situation. You just want to keep getting closer to that person, physically *and* emotionally. And this can only happen when you’re in front of the person, interacting with them, feeling each other real hard. It’s why David says he’s really picky when it comes to dating. David’s not any more picky than the next guy. It’s just that David isn’t desperate, so when he feels attraction, he’s actually really feeling attracted. Why do you think he dated Liza? It’s obvious how well they both connect on so many levels. Look at how they are when they’re together. Look at how genuinely giddy they both are. Look at how close in proximity they are. THAT is what attraction looks like. And attraction between a man and a woman can only happen when both of them are being real as 🤬 with each other.

Ok well how do you not care about being cool or having other men see how valuable you are by ‘having’ a valuable girl? Well first, realize that it has literally zero contribution to your happiness. David understands this. Looking cool doesn’t make you laugh-your-🤬-off-at-every-little-thing-that-happens level happy. Well what does make you David Dobrik-level happy? Hmm… how about Step 1: Finding people that share your interests, in Dave’s case that’s comedy and filmmaking. Step 2: Have a ton of fun with those people. Step 3: Show those people that you care about them. No—I mean like REALLY show them you care about them. Step 4: Grow with those people professionally and personally.

That’s it. I just gave you the formula to happiness. You worried about dating? Don’t. If you just follow that formula and stop trying to look so 🤬 cool you will guaranteed find people you are wildly attracted to that want to do disgusting things with your body—and they won’t even make you pay for it.

Okay that’s it. I was gonna teach you a lot of other stuff about David and how he’s so attractive to chicks but I went way over my time today. Who knows if anyone’s gonna like this anyway? Here’s a deal—if you guys can get this to over 100 thousand views then I’ll make a part two. If that goes over 100k ill make a part three. You get the idea.

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live the led stake dance cali vibes

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Find your people and go to college w them

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Find your people and go to college w them

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Find

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share like david dobrik and bishop hoggan and give tons back

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Look in Google drive
hygge
https://www.dwell.com/home/1968-original-mid-century-modern-turnbull-binker-barn-for-sale-at-the-sea-ranch-9feb0e52

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Or for kids
Live by a huge grassy feild

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I want to use all that my parents gave me and give my kids even more variety and better. I love my parents house style and im inspired by Jake and kerries so I wanna make my a mixture of both
Anyways I wanna house full of light and in a coldesac full of kids and I want a 4 wheeler and a pool and a tramp and for our house to be the party house and huge windows and tons of space and a theater room and I wanna have a full jam packed fun life full of activities and stuff to do and I want a lds tight community and a house where everyone comes to hang out or even family stay and I want to be so polite and make people want to stay again and have busy but epic lives and I want a wife who asks her kids if they feel loved enough each day.

I couldn't ask for a better childhood mine is already more than epic. But I do wanna give my kids both the good house ways from my parents and uncle jake. They both have pros and cons but I pick mine anyway. But I do wanna take notes from Jake and take all the good from both sides and mash em

I'll work hard so my kids can afford it. I want an lds nuclear family and a big Christmas decorated house like Julia barker and lukes house. And I want it to be snowy sometimes but then sunny most of the time and like Cali. And also I want a riverhouse and be the house that gets the teenagers to hang out. I want to be the leader who mashes the girls with the dudes and makes em party so they have an excuse to talk to eachother which they were secretly hoping for anyways. I wanna be the house that hosts stuff and parties hard. That would be epic. I wanna be a great dad and leader and have a fun job with lots of traveling and I want my kids to give presents and I wanna give presents to everyone I can just to be nice. I wanna be rich and give away as much as I can in a thoughtful happy way. I wanna just splurge people in gifts and goods and go above in beyond for Christmas traditions and have tons of family over and have crazy times as a family getting mcdonalds and having house scavenger hunts and I want a lively neighborhood and kids who play all around and do epic things as a community.that would be rad

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Find a wife who loves being a mom and its her passion

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Find a wife who loves being a mom and its her passion

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I want someone like aunt kerrie who loves being a mom and puts so much effort into making their family tight and happy. A mom who makes so many fun traditions and makes her kids give eachother presents and does all she can to make her kids best friends and her family loving of eachother.

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Get a hygge house with super bright lights like julias

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Get a hygge house with super bright lights like julias

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Hire house designer

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Dirt bike and atv and 4 wheeler

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and laugh heads off over every little thing and goof off

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and a nerf room and secret passageways

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Eat a bunch of crazy food

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Stay tight with my family and have family reunions

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Stay tight with my family and have family reunions

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be a temple worker

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Be rich enough to vacation a bunch and not worry about anything

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Be rich enough to vacation a bunch and not worry about anything

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Make people laugh with clean comedy
like these dudes

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and a hot tub in the snow.

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have lake or river house

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like these guys here
guy 1

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get married to best friend and laugh a lot

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get married to best friend and laugh a lot

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I need at least 1 girl