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​How does a respectful and healthy relationship sound like, feel like or look like?​
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How does one show respect for his or her partner in a healthy relationship?

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Based on your group’s scenario, take on the role of the friend of someone who is in an unhealthy relationship and discuss:​

Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why? (You may use the checklist given) ​

How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship?  Should your friend end this relationship? Why? ​

Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he or she do to end the relationship in a safe manner?  What are his or her other sources of help?

If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup?  ​

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As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why? What could you say or do to help?

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Q1: Unhealthy.

the guy is threatening her and making her feel stressed

Q2:

she feels very confused and distress

Yes. end the relationship. The relationship is also affecting her mental health

can be normal friends but not that close

Q3:

she still care about him

she does not want to hurt him with her words and actions

meet up with the guy to make sure the guy have a support system

someone to keep a lookout for him

mother, friends, siblings, councillor, therapist

Q4:

bring her out

distract her

do some of her favourite things

let her cry it out yea

talk to them

meet new people

Q5

yes. not part of the relationship

may feel offended

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nini, tierra, raeanne, yun en, novisha, shivani, supritha, nuryn

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nini, tierra, raeanne, yun en, novisha, shivani, supritha, nuryn

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1) This relationship is unhealthy as

-he is controlling towards her

-controls what she wears or looks like

-pressures her into activities

-threatens her with breaking up

-threatens to hurt her

-ignores her boundaries and emotions

-laughs off her problems when she tries to communicate

-takes advantage of her body

2) She is feeling scared and conflicted as she still wants to give her boyfriend another chance. She is scared about ending the relationship because he may harm her. Yes she should end this relationship as he is disregarding her feelings and does not respect her.

3) It is difficult for her to end the relationship as she might be in danger. She should share her relationship with a trustable adult or friend before ending it.

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unhealthy. The girlfriend is very controlling and abusive and does not trust the boyfriend at all. prob falsely accuse you of flirting with others or of cheating on her, gets rough

Very stressed, very scared, restricted miserable, He is probably covering for her. Threatened by her.

he still probably loves her, and may think about the memories they made in past. Probably believes that he can change her.

He should confide with a trusted friend. Make a pros and cons list.

i would find it difficult to intervene because i do not want to seem unsupportive of their relationship. I also do not want to bring up my suspicions as it seems like i am accusing his GF

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Unhealthy. She criticises her boyfriend for his achievements and she is insecure about them not spending more time together

Feels demoralised and moody, very discouraged.

They need to have a talk before deciding to end their relationship. He should express his thoughts and feelings to his girlfriend. If she does not try to stop, they can consider breaking up as this is toxic to their mental health.

Talk to your peers about it