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Change: is the lack of effect on the family's heirarchy ....not all the times the system seem to respond according to the said heirarchy...i suggest for further enhancement on the heirarchy.

Surrender: Is my pride.....im a logical yet lack the ation kind of being....

Understand: Why is our system onhome not always valid or effective.....sometimes those on higher position seem to have the prejudiced opinion on half said word....like sometiems normal kind of dropped word is misunderstood to be a further corrupred....or in lighter terms....a bad word.....how ever not all unclear words broke protocol or in other lighter terms.... rule.

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"One thing" I want to change, surrender, and to understand at my home

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"One thing" I want to change, surrender, and to understand at my home

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Change: lifestyle

Surrender: my siblings

Understand: everything

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Change - Change my attitude - be more willing to communicate with them despite busy schedule

Surrender - Surrender future plans (God's will more than mine)

Understand - Understand that it's their first time to be parents

Yeh

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Change: How me and my sisters talk to each other

Surrender: Struggles and secrets

Understand: How all my family members feel about me and life in general

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to surrender: my presence

to change: my attitude

to understand: communication

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My attitude, and ung pagsagot ko po sa parents ko huhu

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Change:

My sleeping habits (aayusin Ung higaan, gigising ng mas maaga, hnd na mangha hampas ng unan kapag manggigising)

Surrender:

I'm surrendering mostly my laziness

Understand:

I'll try to understand me weird habits and knowing if that would offend people around me

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One thing I want to change: Household roles

One thing I want to surrender: Nothing???? (I dunno, as in ,wala, dahil transparent kami sa bahay fr).

One thing I want to understand: the reason behind being financially irresponsible

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change - pagiging overly independent

surrender - my worries

understand - me and my situation and struggles

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Change — the way I help with household chores.

Surrender — the hurts and traumas I had that is caused by any of my family member.

Understand — my parents' struggles and why the members of my family act the way they do.

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Change:the way i act sometimes

Surrender:my bad habits

Understand:my role at our home

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Change:
One thing I want to change is my shyness and being lazy

Surrender:
Maybe it's the habit I have of being shy and sometimes not reading the bible because of my laziness

Understand
One thing I want to understand more about is the value of family, the story topics in the bible

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I want to change: my pride during arguments and my attitude when I get corrected.

I want to surrender: How I help at home.

I want to understand: My parents' point of view when it comes to decisions.

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CHANGE:

pagiging mahirap or something sa pagiging financially unstable

SURRENDER:

i want to surrender the most sa bahay ay yung kung paano ko sila at kailan ma-forgive sa lahat ng ginawa at ginagawa sa akin ng parents ko

UNDERSTAND:

their reasons for everything, especially why sila nagsiseek ng validation sa iba, at bakit hindi mawala yung galit ko sa kanila

why deep inside myself nag-eexpect pa rin ako ng something from my parents

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Change :

I want to change the things I do when it comes to fights or the laziness I have

Surrender :

I want to surrender yun katigasan ko ng ulo(warning! : baka matigas parin ulo ko soo.. 😘) ,and the secrets that I have been keeping to myself

Understand :

I want to understand the struggles of my family and kung bakit nila ako pinapagalitan kahit di ko nmn kasalanan, chares! 😔

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Change: Relation

Surrender: Problems

Understand: Emotions

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One thing I want to change

My attitude

One thing I want to surender

my faults

One thing I want to understand

Their side of the conflict

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I want to change:my ego and pride into submission and humblenes.                                           I want surender my one sided perspective and stop thinking that others don't contribute.          I want to understand the behavior and character of my family more just like how they want to understand.

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I want to change:my ego and pride into submission and humblenes.                                           I want surender my one sided perspective and stop thinking that others don't contribute.          I want to understand the behavior and character of my family more just like how they want to understand.

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1 thing you want to

CHANGE- 1 day i will be the bread winner of the family and as panganay balang araw ako naman ang magaalaga sa aking parents and kapatid ko

SURRENDER-

UNDERSTAND- i want them to understand na kahit may mga times na di ako nasunod sakanila or di ko napaparamdam sakanila na mahalaga sila. I want them to understand na kahit ganon ako i still love them superr

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1. Gusto ko baguhin sa sarili ko ay ang sensitivity ko, narealize ko na masyadong malambot ang puso ko pag dating sa mga salita, at yun din ang sabi ni mama at papa. Sa totoo lang hindi nag mmake sense sa'kin, na bakit kailangan mag salita na hindi naman minimean, tapos wala na nasaktan na ako diba? eme hahahahaha

before ko baguhin to unti unti, gusto ko lang mag rant about sa mga katanungan ko. Kasalanan ko ba na ganto ako kalambot ang puso ko? kasalanan ko ba na lumaki ako na mabilis masaktan? ineedure ko sa totoo lang, every time na nasasabihan ako ng mga salita na nagpapababa ng confidence sa'kin, kada nag sasabi sila ng salitang TAPOS, tinitiis ko, kasi everytime na mag sasalita ako, sasabihan akong sensitive na hindi ako marunong kumilatis ng salita na hindi naman nila ibig sabihin talaga. Sana lang maisip nila ang nararamdaman ko bilang anak din.

Ito ang babaguhin ko, para na lang din sa pagbabago sa family, bilang panganay din na anak at bilang lalaki.

2. Ang gusto ko naman isurrender ay ang hindi pag sabi sa kanila ng nararamdaman ko. Sa totoo lang, sanay ako na mag open sa kanila, sadyang habang tumatagal napapansin ko na naiinvalidate lang ako, na imbis na makareceive ako ng emotional support, sesermonan pa ako, sa totoo lang masakit yon.

Dapat ko maintindihan, kasi magulang sila at anak lang ako. Dapat ko maintindihan, kasi DAPAT. Hindi ba parang unfair?

Sa kabila ng lahat, mahal na mahal ko pa rin sila, I still forgive them kasi hindi ko kaya na magkimkim ng damdamin sa kanila. So yan ang gusto ko isurrender

3. Ang gusto ko naman intindihin ay magulang sila, tumatanda, at andyan na ang pride na kinalakihan nila. kailangan ko maintindihan kasi alam ko na best ang gusto nila para sa akin, sa amin ng kapatid ko.