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Hello, twin moms!!!! I´m Graziele, but you can call me Grazi!!!!

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Hello, twin moms!!!! I´m Graziele, but you can call me Grazi!!!!

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At 31, I had my twins, who are now 19 years old. It was so incredible that on a sad Monday, when I thought my pregnancy wasn’t progressing, I had an ultrasound and, wow, the doctor said, “It’s twins!".

I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry; I just had this incredible feeling of having those two lives growing inside me.

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I always thought I wanted to be a mother. When we got married, my husband and I thought about having two children. But since there are no cases of twins in our family, it never occurred to us that we might have two babies at once.

When I got pregnant at 30, I imagined continuing to work in the job I had I held a position as a sales coordinator, and my salary was very good.

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When I first found out I was expecting twins, a whirlwind of emotions took over. The early years were a blend of overwhelming chaos and unparalleled joy. From sleepless nights to figuring out how to manage two infants simultaneously, the challenge was immense but the rewards were even greater. In those initial months, I learned that patience and flexibility were my new best friends. The beauty of watching my twins discover the world together, share their first smiles, and develop their unique personalities made every sleepless night and every spilled bottle worth it. The bond between them was something I had never seen before, and it was a constant reminder of why every difficult moment was worth it. Looking back, I see how those early days set the foundation for our relationship. They taught me the importance of celebrating small victories and finding joy in the little things, which became essential lessons as they grew.

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Making the decision to leave my career and become a full-time mother was one of the most challenging yet fulfilling choices I've ever made. With twins, the demands of parenting were significantly higher, and balancing a career with their needs seemed almost impossible. It was not just a personal choice but also a societal one, as I faced judgment and prejudice for stepping away from the workforce. Many people questioned if I was "wasting my potential" or not contributing enough to society. But what they didn’t see was the immense value of being present for every milestone, every scraped knee, and every late-night cuddle. In dedicating myself to raising my twins, I discovered a new sense of purpose and a deep satisfaction in witnessing their growth firsthand. While the societal stigma still lingers, I’ve learned to embrace my role and find pride in the daily moments of motherhood that cannot be measured by a paycheck.

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As my twins transitioned from toddlers to teenagers, the challenges shifted but the journey remained as profound as ever. The teenage years brought new complexities, from navigating their individual identities to managing the social pressures they faced. During this time, communication became key. I learned to balance guidance with respect for their growing independence. Our relationship evolved from one of constant caregiving to one of mutual understanding and support. It was a period of learning to let go while staying connected, celebrating their achievements, and offering comfort during their struggles. Despite the challenges, these years also brought deeper connections and new joys. Watching them pursue their passions, form their own opinions, and prepare to embark on their own paths was a reminder of how far we had come together.

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As my twins are about to enter adulthood, I find myself reflecting on the past 19 years with a mix of nostalgia and excitement. The transition from raising children to supporting young adults comes with its own set of challenges and rewards. I’ve learned to let go of the day-to-day responsibilities and instead focus on being a supportive guide as they make their own decisions. It’s a bittersweet shift, filled with pride in their accomplishments and the sadness of seeing them grow up. Looking back, I cherish every moment and lesson learned throughout this journey. The decision to stay home and the struggles with societal expectations have all contributed to the richness of this experience. Embracing this new chapter means finding joy in watching my twins step into their own futures, knowing that they are well-prepared for the world.