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Observe how the client is making me feel

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It's okay to tell me if you don't agree with what I am saying

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It's okay to tell me if you don't agree with what I am saying

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it can be difficult to have a conversation like this with someone you don't know

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it can be difficult to have a conversation like this with someone you don't know

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I'm sensing you're not wanting to talk about this with me right now.

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I'm sensing you're not wanting to talk about this with me right now.

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I can imagine it's tough to engage in a process you may feel you're forced to be in.  

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I can imagine it's tough to engage in a process you may feel you're forced to be in.  

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It must be hard for you to share what is happening but I notice that you are hearing me (point out your observations / student's body language). 

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It must be hard for you to share what is happening but I notice that you are hearing me (point out your observations / student's body language). 

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It looks like your feelings don't match with what we are talking about here. I wonder if this is too difficult for you to be real right now.

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These questions I’m asking are tough ones and may make you feel uncomfortable and worried about being judged. Know that I have heard a lot and I won’t be surprised or overwhelmed by anything that’s being said

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I am glad you are here and wondering if you have some worry about what this time with me is going to look like.....

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You are a good communicator and right now your facial expression is telling me lots about what I think is your frustration. How has this powerful form of communication been strength for you, in other situations?

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I see you eye rolling me! (use some humour)

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I see you eye rolling me! (use some humour)

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Your body language is telling me that something is not right about what I am asking, what I am saying, or how I am understanding you But you are here, still responding, and that tells me you you have something you want, here. Help me understand what you want...

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Have you met with lots of social workers before like this…and it hasn’t been really helpful?