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Hello! I hope i can help each and every one of you. I

am willing to help you and be your friend in need.

Whenever you need someone to talk to or just advice,

send me a message and I'll be glad to help you!

This weeks advice topic is relationships. If you have a

problem with you significant other or someone you like

or your ex, let me know! Thank you for trusting me!

-Em

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Dear Em:

Hey my name is Mackenzie. I have a problem with my current boyfriend. We’ve been together for almost a year now and none of his friend really knows me. To be honest, I don’t even think he tells anyone about me. My friend sat me down and told me that he has been flirting with other girls and he doesn’t even claim me. I don’t know what to do, because I love him a lot and I don’t want to lose him but I feel like he has a whole different life that I don’t know about.

Dear Mackenzie:

Hi! You are in a pretty tough situation. I think you should really sit down with him in all seriousness and just ask him. If he is being suspicious and you really don’t believe him, I personally think you should take time to think. Think of everything he does for you. Does he hold your hand in public? Bring you out to places where he knows everybody? & the biggest two: Is he worth it? And do you deserve this kind of treatment? It sounds like a relationship full of lies on his part. I hope everything works out and you make the best decision for yourself.

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http://www.thesavvygal.com/six-ways-to-save-yourself-from-an-abusive-relationship/

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http://www.thesavvygal.com/ask-dr-v-living-with-my-messy-boyfriend/

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Dear Em:

I haven’t been with my ex for a month now but he just can’t get over me! He is non-stop texting and calling me. He is acting as if we’ve never broken up. He keeps texting me “oh I’m coming over today” “I’ll always be in love with you” or “I’m never leaving your side”. He is honestly so psycho! I am afraid of him. I don’t want this to be a major issue, but I’m getting concerned on my safety.

Dear Anonymous:

I am very concerned. I know you don’t want this to be a big situation, but it is. You should talk to an officer or lawyer, and possibly get a restraining  order, if you are afraid for your safety. I hope everything works out!

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Dear Em:

My name is Kaitlin. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We moved in to an apartment about a month ago. I’ve never noticed how big of a slob he is. I can’t stand it! He leaves his clothes everywhere and never cleans up his mess. I’m not really good at telling someone how I feel and I don’t like sounding mean. What should I leave him if he doesn’t change? Should I try talking to him…..Again? Help!!

Dear Kaitlin:

I completely understand your situation. I think you should try talking but don’t go easy on him; make sure he’s taking you serious. I wouldn’t throw away a 2 year relationship. But if you really don’t feel comfortable living with him, I would move out but still try to work on your relationship and maybe someday he will smarten up and understand your reasoning. I hope things work out!