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How do we combat adultism when i

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girl bye. WHAT ABOUT ME!!!?

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Very condescending

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you're too young to have experienced "hard times"

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you're too young to have experienced "hard times"

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I think about how adults sometimes treat every kid like their own, like they can demand things of every young person just because they're young, even if they don't know them.

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I think about how adults sometimes treat every kid like their own, like they can demand things of every young person just because they're young, even if they don't know them.

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"But what will the aunties/uncles think?"

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"But what will the aunties/uncles think?"

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Privileging other adults criticism over my needs

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being told that you are too young to be tired

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being told that you are too young to be tired

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Dealing with invalidity of feelings, experiences, hard work, efforts, etc.

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Dealing with invalidity of feelings, experiences, hard work, efforts, etc.

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Not living with parents allows for freedom.

PARENTS GUILT TRIPPING YOU FOR PROVIDING FOR YOU BUT THAT IS THEIR JOB. YOU SUPPOSED TO FEED ME AND LET ME LIVE WITH YOU...

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Young girls sometimes  have more expected of them and have more responsibility than their male counterparts

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I think about how not to translate this to the next generation. For my future kids or whoever, I don't want them to experience or be told the same things I am still dealing with.

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I think about how not to translate this to the next generation. For my future kids or whoever, I don't want them to experience or be told the same things I am still dealing with.

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Taking on adult responsibility.
Oldest daughter comes with expectations.
Gender expectations.
legally expectations v. family dynamic expectation.

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Looking "young" not matter how old I am. The negative impact of "black don't crack". 

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Looking "young" not matter how old I am. The negative impact of "black don't crack". 

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As a result, I always wonder, do I offer enough as a "young-looking-person" even when I know I am

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adult responsibilities but no adult privileges

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I think about the juxtaposition of increase freedom of identity exploration but also the increase of disciplinary and instructive environments. 

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I think about the juxtaposition of increase freedom of identity exploration but also the increase of disciplinary and instructive environments. 

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What does it mean to be an adult?
Had to grow up faster.
Being questioned.
They want me to be an adult but yet you question or don't let me be one.

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When do my elders start respecting me? How do I set boundaries?

Some ways my elders have done to raise me were not the best. Reworking that.

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adults want me to be what they wished they could be... imposing their own beliefs onto me

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adults want me to be what they wished they could be... imposing their own beliefs onto me

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No agency...

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How to respect elders who normally haven’t respected me.