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Son not really. My father yes. He can be quite stubborn. Because he has Parkinsons, he always don’t accept our help and don’t listen to us.

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In some way yes. Sometimes I don’t really know what to talk to them about. Because my Chinese is not very good, I sometimes struggle to find the words to try to talk to them. Sometimes I don’t really know what they want. For example my grandfather, he sometimes has trouble standing up after sitting for too long. When I want to help him, he say he doesn’t need help but I see him struggling and I don’t really know what to do.

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Yes sometimes. Especially when my parents quarrel. When they quarrel, everyone is tense and on edge. We cannot enjoy our meals properly because we are uncomfortable and we don’t really know what to do.

24b: How do you think you can overcome these instances?
I guess communication. I can start talking to my parents and try to help them resolve their conflict. Like explain what I think and tell them that whatever happened, we can get through it together as a family and we should not quarrel.

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Fufil parents wishes and goals. Independence, help out parents with chores, run errands for them and offer more help

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Fufil parents wishes and goals. Independence, help out parents with chores, run errands for them and offer more help
More space and privacy

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Ya

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Cook more nice food, learn new recipes.

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Yes.

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Find a way for people in Queenstown to interact with the community as I do not interact with them, example giving out vouchers.
Does not believe that community can actually help. Thinks that his family is reserved and families should solve their own problems because a family knows each other the best, not the community.

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Set aside time every week or month to spend with parents or grandparents, share interesting stories with each other

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I do not think can

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It comes with age. It is something you cannot really force.   It has to be mutual between the 2 parties.

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More a family conversation and  just be open.

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No. Because family problems should be taken care of by the family and the community cannot do anything

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Go on more holidays together. Family trips I guess.

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No

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Not really. family don’t really stress about family time.

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Food events,holiday together, a day trip to somewhere else everybody can go together as a family.

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No.

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Yes. Family always expects him to do many things but he has his own set of responsibilities to take care of.

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Recently went to USS. Queuing up for each theme ride or park, we share our experiences whether good or bad, try to forget about it and experience the joy

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No. Because he works irregular hours, he would work during the hours when his family are busy, so he can be more flexible in spending time with his family.

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Shopping, eating dinner together, watch shows

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I guess so. Because my family is very old fashioned. Many topics and opinions we don’t agree on so I would just take it and not say anything. It doesn’t really stress me but it is annoying.

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When we go overseas, very fun, like discover new foods and places together.

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The weekend as weekdays are quite boring, studying for Uni

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Every night eating with family members

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Not close

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9/10

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We like to cycle. Go out for nice dinners. Staying in hotels.

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Stress time is only when they are not well, they are sick. Ya then that’s about it.

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We went japan, Tokyo. Eat, shopping, buy things, buy souvenier.

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Sleep, the holidays, cause can can sleep without academic stress

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Recently went to USS. Queuing up for each theme ride or park, we share our experiences whether good or bad, try to forget about it and experience the joy

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on average 1 to 2 hours

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Once a week during weekends, go walk around shopping mall, get groceries

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Once a week.

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Do craft and I also do craft for church on certain sundays.

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Get married, have a good career, experience the ups and downs in life, travel around the world

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Selfish people as I dont like people who thinks more about themselves than other people
Having to juggle schoolwork and family

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Play badminton together but after covid we didn’t play.

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Everyday ya most of the time dinner la most of the time.

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His grandchildren coming over to visit.

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Not close at all

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5/10

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9/10

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No la not necessary la it can be anytime in the day when we all at home.

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Almost every night.

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Yes. Every night during dinner time when family comes together to share their life stories

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Ya once in a while.

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Sorry I do not think I can share any because my family is very conservative.

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Not really.

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Having a good life, like enjoying it and being happy. Doing something I like.

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Ya, if need to talk one to one then we talk one to one la dinner time then we will just all talk together.

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Yes.

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Maybe if I can help somebody and get things done, then I just do it la. Like the sundays school they need craft teacher, they dont have enough craft teacher, so I volunteer myself as a craft teacher la

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Play sports like football and cycle

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Quite close

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As a Christian, he is motivated in life to help people experience the love of God.

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Almost every night. Usually during conversations while having a meal together.

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Bad teammates. School. Mean people. Because they make life a little less enjoyable.

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9/10

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Go out with friends, play playstation with younger brother

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Yes. Once in a while for outside dinner.

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5/10

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On my weekends, I don’t like to study so  I will ask my friends to go out and do stuff or we go to each other’s house.

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We do things together. Eat lor. Watch TV.

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Okay weekends sometimes we don’t cook so we go out for a walk but and then afternoon probably just watch uh, show on netflix and then dinner we tapau.

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On Sunday, he would officiate the church. For Saturdays, he would go out for meals with his family. Recently, he went to Golden Mile Complex last Saturday for dinner with his family.

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Stress from having to juggle housework, taking care of father with parkinsons, being a craft teacher on sundays

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I like to go out, watch movies, shop. My hobby is film photography.

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Wake up, study morning to night

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I do my craft.

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Henry would have breakfast for a longer period of time if he had the day off. Afterwards, he would help his wife to take care of the grandchildren. Sometimes, he would take them for joyrides on public transport around the area. And occasionally, he would take his grandchildren out on trips to the Zoo or the Bird Park.

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school day, wake up 30 minutes before school starts,  After school, I’ll go home and sleep and nap. Then I’ll start my work, I’ll try to start my work after dinner. But sometimes I will procrastinate, so I will start work after midnight or 10pm and if I am productive I will sleep at 4 or 5am, if not 1 or 2 am.

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Cooking, ironing, washing, marketing.

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Since Henry works as a pastor, he works on the weekdays, from Tuesday to Friday. He would work by preparing for his sermon for Sunday, visitation of church members, and carry out funeral sessions for deceased church members or friends.

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9/10 not 10/10 because sometimes notty and dont listen la.

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Have more activities together. Go on more family vacations. more intentional talking

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No. We dont really get involved in so called community events and stuff except for the dinner that the MP had with the grass root leaders. We never get invited. There are not many community events that happens around here.

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Have more family trips together.

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Go out on family vacations.

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Go out for dinner together.

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If Henry is not working, he would spend almost the whole day with his wife and grandchildren.

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9/10

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8-9/10

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Went to Korea with his youngest daughter in November 2021. They had a lot of fun bonding while spending time together.