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Usually stress can be cause by big assignments, presentations, grades etc.

The list can go on an on.

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Your body can react to stress in many different ways. You could panic and things could go wrong. Some people could faint. It all depends on the person. Some people may have certain health issues that effect the way they handle stress.

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What are the concequenses of being stressed? 

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What are the concequenses of being stressed? 

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If you panic as stated above, you cannot focus, thus leading to disaster. It really all depends on the person. Also if you're stressed a lot, you can become angry. Becoming angry can lead you to do harm to others which is obviously a bad thing.

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What are ways you can prevent stress form having a negative impact on your life?

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What are ways you can prevent stress form having a negative impact on your life?

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All you have to do is not stress out in the first place. You should always have patience when doing anything. All you need to do is stay calm, so that you don't mess up whatever you are doing. If you stress out, you could panic or rush yourself and mess up.

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This article may help some teens who are dealing with stress.

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No. 66; Updated February 2013
Click here to download and print a PDF version of this document.

Teenagers, like adults, may experience stress everyday and can benefit from learning stress management skills. Most teens experience more stress when they perceive a situation as dangerous, difficult, or painful and they do not have the resources to cope. Some sources of stress for teens might include:

school demands and frustrations

negative thoughts and feelings about themselves

changes in their bodies

problems with friends and/or peers at school

unsafe living environment/neighborhood

separation or divorce of parents

chronic illness or severe problems in the family

death of a loved one

moving or changing schools

taking on too many activities or having too high expectations

family financial problems

Some teens become overloaded with stress. When it happens, inadequately managed stress can lead to anxiety, withdrawal, aggression, physical illness, or poor coping skills such as drug and/or alcohol use.

When we perceive a situation as difficult or painful, changes occur in our minds and bodies to prepare us to respond to danger. This "fight, flight, or freeze" response includes faster heart and breathing rate, increased blood to muscles of arms and legs, cold or clammy hands and feet, upset stomach and/or a sense of dread.

The same mechanism that turns on the stress response can turn it off. As soon as we decide that a situation is no longer dangerous, changes can occur in our minds and bodies to help us relax and calm down. This "relaxation response" includes decreased heart and breathing rate and a sense of well being. Teens that develop a "relaxation response" and other stress management skills feel less helpless and have more choices when responding to stress.

Parents can help their teen in these ways:

Monitor if stress is affecting their teen's health, behavior, thoughts, or feelings

Listen carefully to teens and watch for overloading

Learn and model stress management skills

Support involvement in sports and other pro-social activities

Teens can decrease stress with the following behaviors and techniques:

Exercise and eat regularly

Avoid excess caffeine intake which can increase feelings of anxiety and agitation

Avoid illegal drugs, alcohol and tobacco

Learn relaxation exercises (abdominal breathing and muscle relaxation techniques)

Develop assertiveness training skills. For example, state feelings in polite firm and not overly aggressive or passive ways: ("I feel angry when you yell at me" "Please stop yelling.")

Rehearse and practice situations which cause stress. One example is taking a speech class if talking in front of a class makes you anxious

Learn practical coping skills. For example, break a large task into smaller, more attainable tasks

Decrease negative self talk: challenge negative thoughts about yourself with alternative neutral or positive thoughts. "My life will never get better" can be transformed into "I may feel hopeless now, but my life will probably get better if I work at it and get some help"

Learn to feel good about doing a competent or "good enough" job rather than demanding perfection from yourself and others

Take a break from stressful situations. Activities like listening to music, talking to a friend, drawing, writing, or spending time with a pet can reduce stress

Build a network of friends who help you cope in a positive way

By using these and other techniques, teenagers can begin to manage stress. If a teen talks about or shows signs of being overly stressed, a consultation with a child and adolescent psychiatrist or qualified mental health professional may be helpful.

For additional information see Facts for Families:
#4 The Depressed Child
#47 The Anxious Child
#24 When to Seek Help

See also: Your Child (1998 Harper Collins) / Your Adolescent (1999 Harper Collins)

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No. 66; Updated February 2013 Click here to download and print a PDF version of this document. Teenagers, like adults, may experience stress everyday and can benefit from learning stress management skills. Most teens experience more stress when they perceive a situation as dangerous, difficult, or painful and they do not have the resources to cope.

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This video shows teens talk about stress first hand.

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In this video, teens talk about what stresses them out and how they cope.