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a)  “How did your parents raise you?”

She lived in a strict environment where her mother used to set the roles, while her father was soft on them; she was the only child till age 15. They both worked in balance in raising her and her brother and the main thing she remember was her mother teaching on being “kind” where she always taught them is: “be kind to one another especially to the people who work for you, be kind to them. There are people who are less fortunate than you are, never hurt anybody’s feelings “ and these were the basic points that she was brought up on. Her mother also used to say that “whatever you do to others remember it will come back on you so if you keep this in mind you will never hurt any one.” She also raised them on other values of honesty integrity and love and etc.

Both of her parents shared the responsibility of raising their children where they respected one another, she remembered that when she used to ask her father to play outside her father always used to ask her if she spoke with her mother and what did she say if she told her previously that she should not go then he will tell her that there must be a reason behind her mom decision and will subsequently tell her to stay home.

As for the financial part her mother used to stay at home while her father was an army man before he retired and owned a land and started making money out of it. They use to live in a small village when she reached the aged of 15 they moved into the city , her mother educated her at home where in those days women where not allowed to go out and study and her great grand father was very strict with that idea. ” I never went to school and never entered a classroom, “ she said. Her mother was an educated woman she used to take all the subject syllabus from school and teach her just like any school student where she made her open her book at 10 o’clock and stop at lunch break and at 4 o’clock shell leave her to play. Just like a school

She also lived in a family atmosphere where her uncle and Ant where around they all used to gather at breakfasts, lunch’s and dinners on one table.

Overall she lived a balanced childhood even though of her mother and father having problems it never came across her as a child where they used to keep there problems always from there children. Here mother and father came from a mixed marriage where her father came from a religion different than her mom. Therefor she used to understand where the problems might come from. However her mother never made her feel it where she always followed her father roles and she was brought up as a Muslim.

b) “How did you raise your children?”

She and her husband came from the same religion and they had the same values and they stuck to the same things. They used to have the same family rituals that she had as a child where they sat all together on one table and discussed different things even though her children never had the chance to meet there family where she lived half of her life in London before moving to UAE. Even though, she always emphasized the importance of family to her children and she raised them on loving and caring for one another.

And as for the children discipline she followed her mother lead in sharing the responsibilities with her husband where they shared it all.

c) Reflection:

Vygotsky's theories stress the fundamental role of social interaction in the development of cognition as he believed strongly that community plays a central role in the process of "making meaning."

Where her experience with the society that she was brought up to and the values she learned from her mom shapes her meaning of a “ family “ and her role as a mother and that’s why she followed most of her mothers lead in raising her children.

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A- My grandmother live in such a rough life in the past where most children didn't have a childhood  from young age she was responsible of her siblings and she took care of  breeding the sheep that they had . Also she and her older brother sometime went too far to get water to where they are lived. Her father always away because he worked a lot to feed them and her mother had a lot of responsibility to raised them while her husband away.

B- My grandmother and her Mother live in a different time and a different environment . So my grandmother educated her children in the school . Also she took the full responsibility to raised them after her husband pass away and she raised her children with patience. she learned them the dignity and good manner .

C- From my perspective Bioecological theory that defined the interaction between the person and the environment impact in the person development. As we can see the natural of the environment it influenced in the way they raised their children . Also the reasons beyond the deferences of the child development defines as the way in which a person perceives and deals with his environment.

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I ask my father . He said he was raised me to study will and get good job .

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In the future I will do as possible as I can to my children to be some thing important in the uae

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I ask my father . He said he was raised me to study will and get good job .

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“How did your parents raise you?”
My parents did the best they could with what we had. They were very traditional so I was raised to respect women and work hard so that I could provide for my own family one day. My parents were strict with where I could go and how long I could be out but I never went without anything.
“How did you raise your children?”
I tried to do as well as my own parents did. I was not as traditional or strict as them but the world is a lot different now than it was when I was growing up. I still like to think that I raised my children to have a strong work ethic and to respect others and themselves.

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Fatima Rashid  Hassan falah  , 201002401

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A-    Uncle says that his parents taught him to rely on himself since childhood , and respectful of others whether they are of different nationalities have been learning a lot of them in terms of work experience , such as fishing and herding sheep because he was living in a mountainous area forced to learn this beautiful professions.
B- he says that " now the world is not same at the past I think that my child should learn in a good ways and good environment , because when I appropriate agood  environment to them this will facilitate their learning process and teaching.
C- reflection " As I see from my ancle says it related to the sociocultural theory because he maked comparing  between past and future and saw how the teaching become so easy now , also the culture and social make sense in our live .

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a)  “How did your parents raise you?”

I was raised with strict rules and expectations.My parents always knew where I was and who I was with until I left home for college.I was expected to do certain things and behave in certain ways which supported the belief system and life style of my parents.I did not always like it.Also i did not rebel or disappoint my parents.He told me that his mother raising him to be able to function In my own in the world.She places high value on my education and greats to be educated to find good job not suffering as my father did also to have good responsibility and to be independent .One thing that I do remember it until now that when I was a young child my mother almost had a fear to letting me go out with other people with out her being with me there .

b) “How did you raise your children?”

when i asked my mother how did you raise your children she told me that she focused on several thing first , build our personality and socalize she teach us how to respect and communicates with family and friends also with strangers.

Secondly, she care about our education and she tried to make us love education to not feel that  she force us to learn also to be happy child and having great appartunity to play and learn .Thirdly,  build our knowledge and solving problems. Lastly, she told me that she tired her best to make us love each other carring about each other as a family she and my father always think and plan for our future to be best child also they want  us better than them .

Reflection:
According to "vigotsky" in sociocultural theory it is very important to have the social learning first and then individual learning in that way the child will learn in a wider better way.

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I ask my mother how did their parents rise her and she answers me that , her mother wasn't so interested on school educating she shared her knowledge with her children's ,scaffold her children personality by works and give them lessons about what she learn from life ,let them do mistakes and learn from it that helps them to have strong personality and know how to deal with the live problems.

Q2:
Now the environment changes a lot education is so important thats why my my mother said: i think the most important thing to rise my children is by educating them.but i still shared my knowledge about life with my children's and that let them know more about life and culture.

Reflection:
Sociocultural theory (Vygotsky)
Children’s knowledge is derived from their culture like how my mother learn.

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I asked my mum about her childhood , she said that she had difficult childhood because her father died when she was child and her mother not that much educate , she have to care about her sisters and brothers also she cook for them and wash clothes and she married when she was 17

Q2

My mother seek to be different than her mother , she hope to educate her child and have a good environment to raise us .

Reflect :

According to Vygotsky , the children knowledge is derived from their culture. Family members provide  knowledge with children about culture and show them what is our cultural. So every parent should be as a friend with their child to teach them everything in good way.

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Their aim was to raise them up and get married,while she had alot  of dreams and fortunately she could made them true while by their time it was very hard.

Q2:
My mum tried to give us the self confidence and depend also on our selves but in the days we are living in its becoming more complicated, and she is setting up our dreams and goals not only on married like what my grandma has raised them up on while raising us up on knowledge , learning, knowing properly what is happening around us.

Reflection:
According to the sociocultural theory ( vigotsky) it is very important to have the social learning first and then individual learning in that way the child will learn in a wider better way

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Q1: my grandmother raised my mother on depending on her self in almost everything, such as cleaning , sewing , cooking and at that time life was too hard and at the same time very simple, their aim was so

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a)  “How did your parents raise you?”

I asked my grandmother and she said that they lived a very simple life, they couldn’t play or enjoy their childhood and because they do marry in a very young age her mother only taught her how to be a good house wife.

b) “How did you raise your children?”

Her answer was that she tried her best to raise her children equally even my uncle who was a special need child she treated him like the others and gave him love and tried to teach herself how to read so she can teach her child. She supported all of her children’s in their education and almost all of them reached a high level in their education. She didn’t take her parents as a role model to raise their children she believes that every generation is different because of the  changing in the society.

Reflection:

As from the Bioelogical theory, involving family in and taking education seriously in important, and parents have to raise their children according on the changes in the society, environment as its different from how they were raised in the past.

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Q2: She said that she let us also be independent by letting us choose whatever we want but still with some guidance to let us discover by our selves what is good and wrong..

Sociocultural theory.

Raising an independent child is one of the most effective ways to generate a good generation

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Q1.a:
My grandma father died when she is young and her mother marred after that, her mother has only one daughter and 3 sons. So, she teaches her every think how can I cook, clean and guest reception and she was maybe 9 years old and She got married when she was 12.
Q1.b:
The story is repeat again, my grandpa died and She have 4 sons and only one daughter but the world is change and she didn’t want to her daughter to repeat her life She want her to study and get a job after that get married, also she teach her how to cook, clean and so on.
Q.2:
According to Circumplex Model, everything that happens to any family member is seen as having an impact on everyone else in the family.
Q.3:
Finally, the world and the lifestyle is change, nowadays, the children use iPad and we use smart phone. As Ali Bin Abe Taleb say “don’t educate your children as your parents do, because they created for a time deferent than yours”.

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Q1: My grandmother passed away when my mother was about 8 years.. so her grandmother raise her because her father get married from another women so as a young child raised by an old women she become an independent..

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Q1:
Actually, the first question was answered by my great aunt, as she said their lives weren't filled with matters that facilitate livelihoods, even though it was simple. The principles of education was based on the Islamic culture and the nomadic environment. Children were raised to be capable of being responsible of them selves in an early age by giving them some works to build their abilities and characters. For example, daughters were learning how to cook, clean and contact with those who are around them weather they were relatives or neighbors.

Q2:
Well, for the second question my great aunt said " the changes and the developments that happened to our lives have been reflected on the way that we raised our children. In past the girl concerns and focus was on household load and the education was for the boys. However, now our daughters have the complete right to be educated. Honestly, I followed the path of my parents in raising my children, taking into account the differences that have occurred. Actually, i realized that dealing with each child individually according to his or her personality and the period that he born on it is a beneficial way to raise your children because the proper handling of the age difference plays a huge role in the success of the raising process.

Reflection:

From my perspective it's obvious that Family system theory was represented in my great aunt's talk. As we can see culture and nomadic atmosphere played a role in raising the children in past. In addition, to the changes that occurred and the differences between male and female way's of life proved the theory.

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Q1

my mother told me she lived a beautiful childhood with her brothers and her friends , it was a very simple life , but fun to spend time in Playing with her friends and home management matters in the absence of her mother in grazing sheep , and my grandmother was learning my mom responsibility in cooking and raising children to become or successful in the future.

Q2

In this question she was bringing up her children gradually through the positions and the stories of the lesson and to take advantage of them , and she teach them in accordance with the customs and traditions and My mother is keen to teach literature, and not to boycott others when you talk and urging them to prayer and reading the Koran .

Reflection

• Sociocultural theory :

The work of sociocultural theory is to explain how individual mental functioning is related to cultural, institutional, and historical context; hence, the focus of the sociocultural perspective is on the roles that participation in social interactions and culturally organized activities play in influencing psychological development.

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Q1:

I asked my mother how she was raised, and she told me that she lived in a big family , she had an older sisters so that gave her the chance to focus more on her studies , her parents knew how important education is , they also were keen on teaching her to be a polite young lady with good manners. she was not physically bullied by her parents. To her and her siblings making their parents happy and proud was easily by avoiding fights and problems with anyone , to do the things that you have to do ,and lastly by acting in a good way and treat people respectfully .

Q2:

To both of my parents respect and good behavior is the most important thing , then education and the quality of education we (me and my siblings) must get. To them they want us to be caring and to be passionate .

Reflection :

Sociocultural theory (Vygotsky) :
According to him they daily interaction with family members provide children with the shared knowledge of the family’s culture like expected behaviors, choices of foods and food is prepared, celebrations and gender and different social roles. Which basically means that children are affected with what they see in their daily life with the people they interact with such as ( parents , siblings , friends , and teacher).

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Q1: My father told me in the past each member in their house have a responsibility they should do it and if someone missed her response his father bunch them. also each issue in their life they discussed when family gatherings in addition it be simply and quietly but if anyone raise her voice Prevents of talk. his parents put the laws of strict and they should not exceed it or we they will  punished..

Q2: My parents rise me in religious  environment , they teach me Accept the views , Bear responsibilities and Respect everyone also they do not allow to break the law

reflect:
According to Vygotsky, Cultural differences lead to differences in what children know and understand and how they behave.
They daily interaction with family members provide children with the shared knowledge of the family’s culture like expected behaviors, choices of foods and food is prepared, celebrations and gender and different social roles.

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i asked my mother and she answered me that her parents were not that close to her, they had only a respectful relationship between each other.

Q2
she said that she tried to give her children what she was missing, made the feel comfortable as much as she can.
reflection:
from my point of view, i think that my mother's answer is implementing the "Bioecological theory". its clearly the surrounding of the environment that she lived in while she was young what made her parents treat her with only respect. But as the environment change and our needs change she is raising us differently.

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Q1

I just asked my grandmother about my mother she said: “your mother lived in a very simple life. even she’s the youngest one she really works hard to satisfy me and her father. she was cooking, cleaning, sheep grazing at early morning. she also was interesting in sewing but she was sewing in her free time. I gave her time to do what she want. I organise her time, not just for her! for each of my sons and daughters. you know, that’s all teach her some characters from when she was young. such as, independent, self caring, self confidence and responsibility. even the life was hard in the past but they know well how to let their children learn from the life and how they will be successful and be a good leader in the future.”

Q2

My mother said that: “I raised you, your sisters and brothers with so many goals  because gaols are dreams with a plan for realization. as you’re the biggest one I want you to be a model for your sisters. one of the must goals that I want to achieve it is: I was leaving you to play outside with others, to collaborate with them, and to come and go because I was know that “children learn more by doing and watching and interacting with others”

Reflection

"Sociocultural theory”

social interaction plays a fundamental role in the process of cognitive development. Vygotsky felt social learning precedes development. He states: “Every function in the child’s cultural development appears twice: first, on the social level, and later, on the individual level. first, between people and then inside the child ”.

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Q1 :
My grandmother always trying to deal with the kids in their own way and personal and respect for their personal viewpoints in order to enhance their character and not the demolition of their personality, especially my grandmother when we were young she was trying to raise our character, strengthen and encourage them when they are doing well without the help of one and the giving by giving us gifts for our encouragement to our dependence on ourselves and become people successful in the future
Q2 :

My mom always do like her mother, socially and emotionally to help us in all matters of our academic and practical and like to encourage us to rely on ourselves in the things that we want for ourselves but they are assisted in solving homework and study for the test, and matters relating to the house and give us food with assistance in the preparation and prepared to become the sons of the future depends on them and we take responsibility and learn from the mistakes and we corrected.

Reflection :
According to Bowen ,Family and integral part of the community is the main theme of every society all over the world so it does not have a society without family or culture and every society has captured its very nature and multiple policemen and all societies consist of this Statute

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Q1:

I got the chance to sit with my mother and ask her how was she raised, these are some of the few things that I learned about her. My mother lived a very stead and fortunate life. Her mother was the disciplinarian and her father was the “fun dad” reason being he was always away. My grandmother mostly taught my mother how to be respectful, obedient and gentlewoman. While my grandfather was teaching her more of the life lesson and how to deal with things. She was blessed to have both her parents with her growing up to guide her. She lived in a stress free, hardworking and school oriented environment. To both my grandparents school/university was important .

Q2:

For how she raised us she answered by saying with cooperation and help from my father, they wanted   to raise independent young women with values and costumes of their culture and religion. Also to have respect for authority, old and young. She tolerated no prejudice towards people. She was keen on having her children (us) be at our best behavior and for her children to maintain high standards of education.  She was made sure that had an environment safe for school work.

Reflect:

As stated by the Bioecological, the family’s involvement in education is important. In addition, the environment has an effect on the child as well as the child himself has an influence on it. The surroundings plays a role in developing a child.

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My mother told me she lived a wonderful and enjoyable childhood, it is true that they were making their toys things simple and do not need them at the same time feel the joy of teamwork and play, and my grandmother was learning my mom how to take responsibility also becoming a mother successful in the future, were interfering with the kitchen and learned cooking and also was left with younger brothers at home, to go is to graze sheep.

Q2

Her answer was, I've educated my children according to our customs and traditions, were eager to prayers and reading the Koran, and also learned the consequences of lying without hitting or cruelty, and also was eager to teach us and we went to the schools and the most important thing the education of girls a sense of responsibility but gradually

Reflect:

• Sociocultural theory (Vygotsky

Children’s knowledge is derived from their culture, Cultural differences lead to differences in what children know and understand and how they behave

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I asked an elder female neighbor and she answered "Growing up, my siblings and I were abused physically by our parents. As children, living in a violent home was stressful and traumatizing. My parents raised the girls to be good wives by shutting up and to never complain or disobey their husbands or parents. On the other hand my parents raised the boys to be strong and manly by hitting their wives and sisters if they disobeyed them."

Qb:
For this question "How did you raise your children?" her answer was "I tried to raise my children to be sympathetic and thoughtful, and I tried to raise them without violence or abuse. But I failed. I lost my temper a lot, and sometimes I couldn't calm down unless I beat my children if they disobeyed me or if they did something naughty. My parents violent actions affected the way I raised my children in a negative way."

Reflection:
Based on the Bioecological theory, Children develop in a context, they get affected by the environment and they affect and influence the environment, whether it is a positive impact or a negative impact. Knowledge and information is transformed to the children, as well as they transform knowledge and information, whether it is right or wrong.

Conclusion:
Children must live in a healthy and safe household. If a child lived in an abusive household it may affect their cognitive abilities and their development will not be normal. Children have rights, such as being healthy, treated fairly, to be educated, and to live their childhood playing. Healthy and safe household will lead the child to influence the environment positively as well as the household environment will influence the child positively, but, when it comes to unhealthy and unsafe households the child will influence the environment negatively as well as the household environment will influence the child negatively.

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my uncle said they were a lucky children because of my grandma and grandpa, they got a lot of experience and fun with there parents. They spent their childhood in grazing livestock and camel ride, also my grandpa insisted on wenting to Almutawa to memorize the Koran, and learn how to write and read. After while they went to school to had advanced education.

Q2:

He said I exploited my parents as role models to me in raising my kids, by buying sheeps and goats to protect our tradition. But I am more anxious for their safety, more than my parents did, it's true we had fun but we faced dangerous, like snakes and scorpions when we were grazing livestock, and I fall d from the camel while I raid it and my arm were broken. It was danger for children's.

Reflect:

According to Vygotsky , the children knowledge is derived from their culture. Family members should shared knowledge with children about culture and show them what is our cultural.
We can say that we should develop the children knowledge about the cultural but we must protect them from the danger.

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Q1:
My Grandma and grandpa were respecting their children, teach them how to depend on themselves, especially after my grandpa died when my mother was a child, they start helping each other's as a family, also my grandma were encouraging them to study and get high marks, however she was going to my mother school asking about their grades and behavior.
Q2:
My mother was almost like her mother, but she was not letting us depending on ourselves, for example she was doing the home works with us, we can't do it by ourselves, also she helping us in wearing clothes, taking shower, and feeding us. Emotionally, she was supporting us and makes a conversation with us especially in mealtime it was something so important for my mother, sitting together as a family and communicates. Also she was taking us to the bed early and reading for us story every night.
Reflect:
According to Bowen, a family is a system in which each member had a role to play and rules to respect. Members of the system are expected to respond to each other in a certain way according to their role, which is determined by relationship agreements. We can understand that maintaining the same pattern of behaviors within a system may lead to balance in the family system, but also dysfunction.