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Welcome to Snowdrop Counselling Services

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SANEline is a national out-of-hours mental health helpline offering specialist emotional support, guidance and information to anyone affected by mental illness, including family, friends and carers.

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SANEline is a national out-of-hours mental health helpline offering specialist emotional support, guidance and information to anyone affected by mental illness, including family, friends and carers. We are normally open every day of the year from 4pm to 10pm on 0300 304 7000.
Our helpline is here to support you - particularly if you feel you have reached a moment of crisis. We know that moment of crisis is different for everybody - some people can reach that point daily, and for some people it is a rare occurrence.

Our trained helpline volunteers aim to be empathic and non-judgemental, providing space and time for you to talk about your mental health, or the mental health of someone close to you. For information on confidentiality, please visit our Confidentiality page.

Would you like us to call you?

SANE will retain the callback service we opened during the pandemic, so you can still leave us a message on 07984 967 708 giving us your first name and phone number, and we will call you back within a few days.

Anybody is welcome to call us if they need to talk, or want support. The helpline is a confidential service for anyone aged 16 or over.

If you're under 16, there are specialist services for people your age which would be better suited to talk with you - you're welcome to email us to get more information at support@sane.org.uk

"It was SANEline that got me through the most frightening time of my life."
SANEline caller
Getting through to SANEline
Our lines can be busy, but our lines are open every night. If you keep trying, you are likely to get through. It may be easier to get through between 4-4.30pm and 8-9pm. It may also be easier to get through on Saturday and Sunday nights.

Call charges

SANE does not charge for its services but your phone provider may charge you. We have an 0300 number and this means helpline calls are inclusive in allowances on landlines and on mobiles on the same basis as calls to geographic (01 and 02) numbers, or are otherwise charged at a rate that does not exceed the rate for calling an 01 or 02 number. The call charges are set by, and retained by, the caller's phone provider.

Ages for SANE services

We are sorry but you are not able to use our services if you are under 16. We understand that you are looking for emotional support, please contact Childline on 0800 1111, it supports anyone up to 19 years old, or visit The Mix which supports young people up to the age of 25.
Message for 16 to 17-year-olds
It is really important to us that our services are a confidential support to you. However, as you are under 18 the law says we may sometimes have to share information if you tell us something which makes us think you are unsafe. If we are going to share information you have told us with people who can keep you safe, we will always try to contact you beforehand.
Message for all over 18
All of our services are confidential. We will only break this confidentiality if we are concerned about serious risk of harm to others. This includes the risk of harm to a young person under the age of 18 or to an adult who is vulnerable. If appropriate, we will always try and contact you beforehand.

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SANEline is a national out-of-hours helpline offering emotional support, guidance and information to anyone affected by mental illness.

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A Young Carer is someone under the age of 18 who looks after someone by regularly providing care that is important in maintaining the health, safety or day-to-day wellbeing of the person cared for and the wider family

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A Young Carer is someone under 18 looking after someone by providing large amounts and regular care that continues over time

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Depending on location and need, our licensed counsellors can offer support in person, over the phone and online. If you're not quite ready to speak to anyone yet, we have lots of self-help resources to get you started on your journey

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Relate offers counselling services for every type of relationship nationwide. We provide advice on marriage, LGBT issues, divorce and parenting.

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SCC provides a safe space to talk to a skilled counsellor, who will listen and help you understand how past experiences, worries about the future, or lack of self-confidence may be affecting your life.

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A text service for young people to confidentially ask for help from a school nurse about a range of issues. This could include advice and support about emotional health, relationships, sexual health, drugs, smoking, and alcohol.  The service is staffed by qualified school nurses, who have a wealth of experience of working with young people, and you don’t have to give your name if you don’t want to.

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Somerset Children’s and Young People’s Counselling Alliance is a partnership of six leading organisations that provide counselling, information, advice, and support to children and young people aged 5 to 17 across Somerset.

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Somerset Children’s and Young People’s Counselling Alliance is a partnership of six leading organisations that provide counselling, information, advice, and support to children and young people aged 5 to 17 across Somerset.

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Counselling – Somerset Counselling Youth Access

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Counselling is an opportunity to talk to someone in confidence, about anything that is worrying you. This could be about home life, school, college, relationships or just about how you are feeling about yourself.

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In Charley's Memory counselling in Burnham on Sea

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In Charley's Memory counselling in Burnham on Sea

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At In Charley's Memory, we provide 1:1 counselling for anyone over the age of 11 at our offices in Highbridge. You will be invited in for an assessment with a member of our counselling team after which you will be matched with a counsellor to begin your counselling journey. There is a waiting list for our services, how long will depend on your age.

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In Charley's Memory is a friendly, local and open charity that is determined and passionate to make a difference. At In Charley's Memory we can help you in lots of ways.

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Counselling services for Young People aged 5-17

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Counselling services for Young People aged 5-17

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http://www.scya.org.uk

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How to talk to a friend if you are worried about them

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How to talk to a friend if you are worried about them

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The LifeHacks - Looking after yourself.pdf is packed with ideas and links to support your own mental health and includes true stories from people who’ve tried them out. This booklet has all the details and is great to share with others who need it.

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They help with the following types of health concerns:

healthier lifestyles information – for example, diet, sleep, oral health, physical activity, personal care

navigation of health system and supported referral to other services

understanding healthy relationships

sexual health services (age appropriate)

resilience building and psycho-social education

keeping safe, options for managing substance misuse including drug, alcohol, smoking and vaping

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Apart of Me is a safe space for young people grieving someone they love.

Our free game and tools help you explore your grief, your way.

Everything we make is co-designed with young people, because you know what helps.

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Apart of Me | Helping young people cope with grief

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Apart of Me is a multi-award winning charity registered in the UK but with a global reach, giving millions of young people grief support. Our aim is to prevent mental health problems developing as a result of grief and trauma. We blend cutting edge design with world-leading clinical expertise, and we co-design all our products and services with young people, ensuring their effectiveness.

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Truth Initiative - Youth Nicotine Addiction

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Truth Initiative - Youth Nicotine Addiction

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Want support quitting? Join EX Program for free

Everyone deserves the chance to live free from nicotine addiction. Through our national public education campaigns, as well as in-school curriculums, we are inspiring a movement to live free from nicotine addiction by empowering young people to quit or never start in the first place.

National campaigns that prevent addiction and empower quitting

Our newest young adult campaign, Outsmart Nicotine, introduces a new generation to our market-leading, free EX Program, equipping them with the tools, resources, and support to quit for good or never start in the first place. Following the science and data, we are focusing on young adults (18-24) where prevalence of e-cigarette use is high and dual use of cigarettes is a growing concern. Developed over 15 years ago in collaboration with Mayo Clinic, EX Program supports anyone looking to quit smoking, vaping, or using any tobacco product with tools that have been proven to increase odds of quitting by up to 40%.

See the campaign

Curriculums to address the youth e-cigarette crisis

Youth nicotine addiction remains a serious public health concern. Among middle and high school students who currently vape, nearly 40% - over 620,000 teens - report using e-cigarettes frequently (38.4%), signaling signs of persistent nicotine addiction. To educate young people about the dangers of e-cigarette use, we provide a free digital course called Vaping: Know the truth that guides students through real-world scenarios in an authentic peer-to-peer youth voice. The curriculum also includes modules that address cannabis use and prescription drug misuse.

Learn more about our curriculums

A track record of saving lives

We have a legacy of transformative impact when it comes to nicotine addiction prevention and education. Our national public education campaigns helped bring down teen smoking from nearly 23% in 2000 to less than 2% today, and youth e-cigarette use to its lowest point in a decade.

See our impact

Youth engagement and training

Truth Initiative offers in-person and virtual leadership trainings with young people - including through our Tobacco/ Vape-Free College Program with over 230 campuses participating - to engage them in educating their peers on issues surrounding tobacco use, including physical and mental health consequences, health equity, and environmental impact. We also offer in-person and virtual training for adults at youth-serving organizations.

Explore youth and community initiatives

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YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT NICOTINE ADDICTION PREVENTION & EDUCATION

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Want support quitting? Join EX Program for free Everyone deserves the chance to live free from nicotine addiction. Through our national public education campaigns, as well as in-school curriculums, we are inspiring a movement to live free from nicotine addiction by empowering young people to quit or never start in the first place.

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Offers a range of support to help you quite vaping

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Vape Escape – Helping You Quit Vaping for Good

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Advice for Teens in Somerset

- Organisation: Somerset County Council
- Service: Somerset School Nursing Service
- For: Children and Young People aged 11-19 in Somerset
- Response Time: Within 24 hours, 9am – 5pm, Monday to Friday (except bank holidays)

Text 07480 635516 to speak confidentially with a nurse about all things mental health, physical health and sexual health.

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Anyone aged 12 years and over who wants advice and support to quit their nicotine addiction

Current smokers who are willing to work with a Stop Smoking Practitioner towards setting a quit date within 2 weeks of their first appointment and returning weekly for support

Ex-smokers who have recently quit and would like some extra support to avoid relapse

Somerset residents only

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Free advice and support to stop long-term nicotine use.

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Info on exam stress - for 11-18 year olds | Mind - Mind

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Learn what exam stress is and how it can affect our mental health. Find advice on how to cope with exam stress and where to go for support.

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Exam Self-Care | Mental Health Advice For Students

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It’s important to look after your mental health while revising for exams, but how can you do this? Our Activist, Rose, shares her favourite ways.

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Pete's Dragons - Suicide Bereavement Support (Devon)

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Pete's Dragons - Suicide Bereavement Support (Devon)

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Pete's Dragons is a fundraiser group who support those that have lost family members or close relationships to suicide.

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Pete's Dragons has a passion for making sure those impacted by suicide are supported. The Dragons are a team that have experienced the aftermath first-hand and worked together to ensure that all those impacted by suicide in Devon and North Somerset have access to timely and appropriate support.

We are honest, brave, vibrant and a little bit sweary... so we will come straight out and say it - losing someone to suicide is just so totally devastating and exhaustingly shit. We know, we've been there. We know that as families, partners, friends and colleagues adapt to the world without their loved one, we can help in a number of practical and meaningful ways, such as: practical advice, emotional support, peer support, talking & holistic therapies, activities & events, grief courses and counselling. We also know that psychological and therapeutic support must be timely, appropriate and carried out by professionals and we work hard to ensure we have a range of quality therapists and specialists within our team to provide their support.

Click on any of the below headings to read more about us, get in touch or to refer someone for our support.

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Pete's Dragons has a passion for making sure those impacted by suicide are supported. The Dragons are a team that have experienced the aftermath first-hand and worked together to ensure that all those impacted by suicide in Devon and North Somerset have access to timely and appropriate support.

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The National Helpline is provided by Rape Crisis South London. It offers confidential emotional support, information and referral details. Callers can have a one-off call lasting up to 40 minutes.

Open between 12:00 -14:30 and
19:00 - 21:30 every day of the year.

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Want to talk? | Rape Crisis England & Wales

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The National Helpline is provided by Rape Crisis South London. It offers confidential emotional support, information and referral details. Callers can have a one-off call lasting up to 40 minutes. Open between 12:00 -14:30 and 19:00 - 21:30 every day of the year.

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Hope Again - Young people coping with bereavement and living after loss. A website from Cruse Bereavement.

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A charity that supports and prevents sexual abuse.

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Safeline - Believe in you - Surviving sexual abuse & rape

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We help prevent sexual violence and support anyone who has been affected. Established in 1994, we have supported over 100,000 people and they help us shape the services and support we provide. Working with clients, we want to support more people who have been abused or are at risk of abuse, removing the barriers that prevent people from accessing specialist support.

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Home - Safeline - Believe in you - Surviving sexual abuse & rape

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We help prevent sexual violence and support anyone who has been affected. Established in 1994, we have supported over 100,000 people and they help us shape the services and support we provide. Working with clients, we want to support more people who have been abused or are at risk of abuse, removing the barriers that prevent people from accessing specialist support.

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Information relating to domestic abuse and the services available across Somerset.

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Domestic abuse can affect anyone and is much more common than people think

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5 things you can do

hobbies or stuff you enjoy like listening to music (not something that could make things worse like drugs and alcohol)

physical activity like sports, dancing, jogging or yoga

talking to someone you trust or to others on our message boards

something that give you a sense of achievement, like drawing or doing a puzzle

look at a photo of someone who really cares about you.

Focus on 1 thing you're doing right now. Concentrate on your body, not on your thoughts. You could have a warm bath or just lie down on your bed or the sofa.

You can try:

tensing up all your muscles using all your strength and then slowly relax them

taking deep breaths by breathing in slowly through your nose, and then breathe slowly out through your mouth.

Fill your comfort box with all your favourite things. You could have photos of people you care about, inspirational quotes or song lyrics you like, your favourite snacks and gifts from someone you love. Turn to your comfort box when you're struggling.

Imagine things are going well and you're coping. In your mind, picture a favourite place. It could be somewhere real or made-up. Imagine you're there. Create a mental image of yourself coping really well and getting help with what's going on.

Think of a positive phrase which reminds you that you can cope with things.

It should be in the first person ("I" and "me"). And in the present tense ("I am" or "I do" NOT "I will" or "I am going to")

You could try repeating these positive phrases to yourself:

"I am doing really well"

"I am getting through this"

"I have a lot to give"

Or try making up some of your own. Get more ideas on our message boards.

Doing exercise is great for your mental health. It can relax you. And give you more energy. It can also make you feel more confident and help you deal with things.

It's important to find a type of exercise that's right for you. Everyone enjoys something different. It could be running, walking, football, skipping, dancing or yoga. You could try a few different things and see what you like.

Create a space in your room or diary and fill it with pictures or things that you like - the things you feel good about. You could look at old pictures that bring up good memories. Or watch one of your favourite films. You can also use our Art box to create, save and print your own images.

Put on the music you love. It could be something soft and soothing. Or it could be loud and exciting. Whatever you're into. If you're not in the mood for music, try going to a park and just listening to the sound of birds and trees. Focussing on these noises can help block out worrying thoughts.

Everyone has a few favourite smells. So think about what smells you like and try to enjoy them when you're feeling down or stressed. Take your time to breathe them in. Focus on the smell and try to block out your other thoughts. It could be a certain perfume or shampoo. Maybe oranges, toast or food being cooked. Or it might be the smell of freshly cut grass.

Have your favourite meal. Or you could eat something you used to love, but haven't had in a while. Try different flavours and textures. And don't forget to try eating healthy food as this can affect your mood. Check out our advice on staying healthy.

Touching different things can make you feel a connection with the world around you. And can also take your mind off worrying thoughts. Run your tongue around your mouth and feel the different surfaces. Gently touch walls in your school or home. Feel the zip or buttons on a jacket. Have a bath. Stroke your pet. Give yourself a hand massage or feel the texture of each of your fingernails. Exercise or lift weights. Go for a walk or run.

Talking to someone about how you feel is a really important part of getting help. It means you don't have to deal with everything on your own.

But it's not always easy to do. Describing how you feel can feel really scary.
Try our tips to make it easier to talk:

plan and prepare what you want to say

write down what you want to say and practise saying it

think about the main things you want to get out of talking to someone

ask yourself if you want advice, or if you just want to say how you're feeling

try talking when the person isn't busy or about to rush off.

Keeping the conversation going

It's good to talk about a problem. But what if you told someone and it didn't help?

Talking about an issue is often a process. It's not just something you do once.

Telling someone how you feel might make you feel bad at first. But after a few times of talking about it, you could start to feel differently.

And it doesn't have to be new information either. Sometimes talking about the same things again and again can help you understand what you're going through.

So remember, if you told someone how you feel but it didn't help - keep trying. And think of other people you trust who might be able to help.

You can talk to us about anything
Whatever you say will be just between you and Childline. And you can feel safe talking to us, knowing that no one else will find out.

Read more about our confidentiality promise.

Somewhere new

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Other sites that can help:

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Coping with suicidal feelings | Childline

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Learn about how you can cope with suicidal thoughts. Over time, you can start to feel better. And Childline is here with you for every step.

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For anyone who lives in Devon please look here to access free wellbeing support.

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Our Wellbeing service is nationally recognised, and has been running for over 20 years. Our staff are hugely experienced, will listen, help and never judge.

We give straightforward support for problems that young people might be facing.

Are you looking for support with your mental health and wellbeing?
Do you live in Devon, Plymouth or Torbay, and are 11 (and in year 7) to 25 years old?
Are you a parent/carer or a professional who would like advice on how to best support a young person?
If you answer yes to the above, please contact us for help.

Click here to make an enquiry*

*Please be sure to include your email address when making an enquiry.

If you are really worried and need help right now, please check out our list of crisis support numbers you can call.

What will happen next?

Once we have checked over your enquiry, you will receive an email with instructions on how to book your initial telephone conversation with us. A member of our Wellbeing team will then give you a call for a Wellbeing conversation; this is a chance to talk about what is happening for you, your feelings and what support you would like. Together, we will then decide what support feels like the best fit for you.
We offer support face-to-face, or remotely via Zoom.
While you're waiting, please check out our Wellbeing Toolkit for tips on how to look after and improve your Wellbeing.

What we offer
Click here to read more about the variety of Wellbeing services we offer to support young people, and parents/carers and professionals.
Consent and confidentiality

When you make an enquiry into our Wellbeing services, you are consenting to us contacting you to discuss support. If you are enquiring on the behalf of a young person, please ensure that you have their consent to make the enquiry and to share their information.

If you tell us something that leads us to be concerned for your safety, or the safety of others, we may need to share this information.

Your suggestions

We would really welcome your suggestions and ideas about services that could support you and your peers. If you would like to email us with feedback or ideas, please use the following email address wellbeingenquiries@youngdevon.org

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Support for the LGBTQ+ community

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1. Personal Information
In some cases, you may voluntarily provide personal information. For instance, you may provide your address or email address in order to receive further information, or support through our Help, Support & Advocacy team. We may collect this information and use this information to respond to your request and provide you with support. Please note that if you don't provide your personal data may it may result in us not being able to provide you with the relevant support you require. We comply with current Data Protection legislation and have updated our systems to adhere to the new General Data Protection Regulations (GDPR) 2018.
2. Who is collecting and using your personal data?
The Intercom Trust will act as a "data controller" for any personal data that you provide to us. As such, we will ensure that the data you give us is processed in line with our organisation's Data Protection Policies and in line with your rights under the Data Protection Act 2018 and GDPR.
3. Why are we collecting your personal data?
We are collecting your personal data for the following purposes:

To provide training, consultancy, conferences and events;

To provide information regarding the Directory we hold on our website.

We are not responsible for the content, details or delivery of the above groups, unless they are delivered by the Intercom Trust. To provide service users with help, support and advocacy
4. Who we will we share your personal data with?
In order to deliver services to you, it may be necessary for us to share your personal data with other organisations. There are certain circumstances where data sharing is permissible, for example, when safeguarding a child or adult see ICO Data Sharing Code of Practice for more information go to

https://ico.org.uk/media/fororganisations/documents/1068/data_sharing_code_of_practice.pdf

or see our consent forms on the Request for help, support and advocacy form on our Help page or contact Julia Boas, the Information Governance Lead.
5. How long will we hold your personal data?
The Intercom Trust will retain your personal data for only as long as is necessary, and in line with our organisation's Retention Schedule.
6. Automated decisions
We do not use any automated decision making, including details of logic used and potential consequences for the individual
7. Exercising your rights
Under the Data Protection Act 2018 and GDPR you have the following rights;

The right of access to your own personal data

The right to request rectification or deletion of your personal data

The right to object to the processing of your personal data

The right to request a copy of the information you provide us in machine readable format

The right to withdraw your consent to any processing that is solely reliant upon your consent

Should you wish to exercise any of your rights or find out more about The Intercom Trust's Data Protection Policies, you should contact Julia Boas, the Information Governance Lead.

Should you wish to make a Subject Access Request - in which you can request access to personal data we hold about you. You can find a template for this on our website, on the ICO website, or by asking a staff member to send it to you.
8. Your right to complain
In the event that you wish to complain about the way that your personal data has been handled by The Intercom Trust, you should write to the Data Protection Officer and clearly outline your case. Your complaint will then be investigated in accordance with the Intercom Trust's Complaint Procedure.

Email : julia@intercomtrust.org.uk or Tel: 01392 201015

or Write to: Julia Boas, Information Governance Lead, Intercom Trust, PO Box 285, Exeter, EX4 3ZT

Website: https://www.intercomtrust.org.uk

If you remain dissatisfied with the way your personal data has been handled, you may refer the matter to the UK supervisory authority, which is the Information Commissioner's Office (ICO) whose contact details are below:

Information Commissioner's Office Wycliffe House Water Lane Wilmslow Cheshire SK9 5AF

Tel: 0303 123 1113 (local rate) or 01625 545745 (national rate)

Website: www.ico.org.uk

Email: casework@ico.org.uk
9. Website
The Intercom Trust is committed to protecting the privacy of its website users. Accordingly, we strictly adhere to all accepted guidelines and will continue to review and improve our privacy policy and procedures to ensure the safety and protection of your information. Intercom Trust adheres to all UK Data Protection legislation made in Parliament and EU General Data Protection Regulations 2018 that governs the confidentiality of each website user and guarantees the privacy of all databases and client/inquirer lists. The databases remain the property of Visit Bournemouth and will not be given or shared with any other organisation, company or individual. Security systems have been put in place to expel any likelihood of unauthorised access to our database and confidential list information.
10. Cookies
What are cookies?

Cookies are widely used tiny pieces of software (files) that are installed on a computer or mobile device when an individual visits a website. Cookies allow websites to recognise that a user on an individual computer has previously visited the site. The cookies save some information about that user for when they access the site again in the future. By using and browsing out website, you consent to cookies being used in accordance with our policy. If you do not consent, you must turn off cookies or refrain from using the site. Most browsers allow you to turn off cookies. To do this, look at the 'help' menu on your browser. Switching off cookies may restrict your use of the website and/or delay or affect the way in which it operates.

What types of cookies are there?

The four main types of cookie:

Strictly necessary cookies. These are cookies that are essential to make a website work and enable features that users have specifically asked for. These types of cookies are commonly used with shopping baskets or e-billing. Without use of cookies, these features of the website could not operate.

Performance cookies. These cookies collect anonymous information about users for the purpose of assessing the performance of a website. Common uses include well-known web analytics tools such as 'Google Analytics'.

Functionality cookies. These are cookies that automatically remember choices that users have previously made in order to improve their experience next time they visit a website. For example, where users select their preferred settings and layout.

Targeting or Advertising cookies. These cookies are similar to performance cookies, in that they collect information about users' behaviour. However, this information is used at individual user level to advertise products and services to users on the basis of the behavioural information collected.
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The cookies may be set and used on other websites too. AddThis explain their cookies (anonymous tracking cookies) and offer an opt-out mechanism here.
11. Links
This privacy statement applies solely to the technology of our website intercomtrust.org.uk

Our web site may contain links to other sites. Please be aware that we are not responsible for the privacy practices of such other sites. We encourage you to be careful that when leaving our site you should ensure you read the privacy statements of each web site that collects your personally identifiable information.
12. Consumer Privacy
If you should have any questions or concerns regarding this Privacy Statement, please contact The Intercom Trust. We recommend you periodically review our Privacy Statement as we may update it from time to time.

The main contact for Intercom Trust is julia@intercomtrust.org.uk

The Intercom Trust PO Box 285 Exeter EX4 3ZT
13. Policy and Forms
You will find our Confidentiality and Information Sharing Policy 2019 here

You will find our Data Protection Policy 2019 here

You will find our Subject Access Request form here

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Professional help

friendly staff

Need to talk? Whatever's on your mind, we can help. Even if you just need someone who understands or want advice for a friend.

The teams we work with help lots of people like teenagers in schools, parents of young children and mums with new born babies.

Health professionals

start messaging

Set-up a messaging service and support more people, more easily with the resources you already have.

You'll start conversations earlier, stop problems escalating and make connections where it's hard to reach.

I thought it would be awkward or embarrassing but it's actually not. Thanks for helping. ANONYMOUS USER

Happy with the quick and professional response and that my worries are being addressed and taken seriously. YOUNG PERSON, YEAR 10

I was struggling so much today but having someone at the end of a text that's willing to help is great. FIRST TIME PARENT

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I love being part of this service!
It's a valuable addition. STAFF FEEDBACK

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It's a great tool to provide a service to our client group in an accessible way. STAFF FEEDBACK

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We are excited to have this opportunity to engage with the young people in our area. STAFF FEEDBACK

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Parents are enjoying having this as an additional way to access advice. STAFF FEEDBACK

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We've had contacts from young people that would not have contacted us before. STAFF FEEDBACK

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Young people can 'park' a question, even out-of-hours, knowing it will be responded to appropriately. STAFF FEEDBACK

Confidential

and anonymous

It can be easier to say something difficult in a discrete message. Your conversation will be confidential, if a health professional is very concerned you're in danger, they may involve other services to help keep you safe.

Trusted

safe and secure

We work with teams across the UK so you will get help from health professionals near you. Staff share secure electronic records of conversations so you never have to repeat yourself and all teams follow strict confidentiality rules.

Convenient

helping everyone

Health professionals say setting-up a messaging service is a safe and manageable way for small teams to speak directly with lots of people. Messaging helps provide support at a time that suits everyone.

Need to talk?

how it works

We'll confirm receipt of your message immediately then you'll speak to a health professional who will listen, ask questions and support you. You only have to share what you feel comfortable with and you can ask questions too.

Most teams reply during normal office hours. If you message out-of-hours they'll reply when they're next in. You should always hear back from someone within 24 working hours at most.

If you need help in the meantime contact your doctor, visit a NHS walk-in centre or call NHS 111. If it is an emergency, dial 999 or visit A&E.

Your network provider will charge your usual rate for messages you send.

Start a chat

Health teams

set-up a service

We've been helping clinical teams set-up healthcare messaging services since 2012. As an NHS team we understand how to support you all the way. We will help you take the quickest route to setting-up a safe, secure and successful service so you can stay focused on providing high quality care.

"You have a great enthusiastic team of professional, experienced, supportive people"Zoe Warren, Professional Lead, School Nursing, Midlands Partnership NHS Foundation Trust

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Need to talk? Whatever's on your mind, we can help. Even if you just need someone who understands or want advice for a friend. The teams we work with help lots of people like teenagers in schools, parents of young children and mums with new born babies.

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Students can self-refer themselves to Young Somerset for 6-8 sessions of brief Cognitive Behaviour Therapy for free.

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At Young Somerset, we have Wellbeing Practitioners (community and school based) who are trained in Low-Intensity Cognitive Behavioural Therapies (LI-CBT) for mild to moderate mental health difficulties. The practitioners use practical methods, tools and techniques, to help the young person learn ways of coping with anxiety, low mood and phobias. You may be offered support in a group or 1:1. Wellbeing Practitioners can work with individuals/groups to provide interventions in cases of… Social anxiety  Separation anxiety Mild, specific phobias such as fear of dogs, spiders, the dark etc.  Mild to moderate OCD (lasting for less than an hour a day) Generalised Anxiety disorder (GAD) Low to moderate health anxiety  Panic disorder  Low mood  Nurturing positive relationships with primary age children Minor/mild self-harm. Low intensity CBT is not always effective, and the young person may not be able to benefit from this intervention if they are experiencing or have recently experienced: Trauma Eating disorders Complex Family relationships Grief/Bereavement  Bullying  Severe depression  Anger management  Extensive phobias such as blood, needles, vomiting. Severe/complex OCD (lasting more than an hour a day) Attachment issues Pain management  Severe self-harm where there is a high risk of harm to self or others or intent to end life. Attempts to end life in the last 3 months.   If you are looking for support for the above, counselling may be better suited at this time. Counselling provides a space to process your feelings and allows you to reflect on things which have happened in the past.  For issues with bullying, we recommend that you speak to your school or college. Low intensity cognitive behavioural therapy (LI-CBT) requires a commitment on the part of the young person to engage, complete the practice tasks and attend every session for the therapy to be successful. Therapy should usually be completed within a 6-8 week time frame. If you’d like to request wellbeing support click on the options below to complete an online form. Please note, we are not a crisis service and there is a waiting list for our LI-CBT support. If you need immediate help, please call 999. Please click here for more support https://www.youngsomerset.org.uk/need-support-immediately If you need any help completing the form please contact wellbeing@youngsomerset.org.uk 

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At Young Somerset, we have Wellbeing Practitioners (community and school based) who are trained in Low-Intensity Cognitive Behavioural Therapies (LI-CBT) for mild to moderate mental health difficulties. The practitioners use practical methods, tools and techniques, to help the young person learn ways of coping with anxiety, low mood and phobias. You may be offered support in a group or 1:1. Wellbeing Practitioners can work with individuals/groups to provide interventions in cases of… Social anxiety  Separation anxiety Mild, specific phobias such as fear of dogs, spiders, the dark etc.  Mild to moderate OCD (lasting for less than an hour a day) Generalised Anxiety disorder (GAD) Low to moderate health anxiety  Panic disorder  Low mood  Nurturing positive relationships with primary age children Minor/mild self-harm. Low intensity CBT is not always effective, and the young person may not be able to benefit from this intervention if they are experiencing or have recently experienced: Trauma Eating disorders Complex Family relationships Grief/Bereavement  Bullying  Severe depression  Anger management  Extensive phobias such as blood, needles, vomiting. Severe/complex OCD (lasting more than an hour a day) Attachment issues Pain management  Severe self-harm where there is a high risk of harm to self or others or intent to end life. Attempts to end life in the last 3 months.   If you are looking for support for the above, counselling may be better suited at this time. Counselling provides a space to process your feelings and allows you to reflect on things which have happened in the past.  For issues with bullying, we recommend that you speak to your school or college. Low intensity cognitive behavioural therapy (LI-CBT) requires a commitment on the part of the young person to engage, complete the practice tasks and attend every session for the therapy to be successful. Therapy should usually be completed within a 6-8 week time frame. If you’d like to request wellbeing support click on the options below to complete an online form. Please note, we are not a crisis service and there is a waiting list for our LI-CBT support. If you need immediate help, please call 999. Please click here for more support https://www.youngsomerset.org.uk/need-support-immediately If you need any help completing the form please contact wellbeing@youngsomerset.org.uk 

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Try some of these activities to help boost the happy hormones your brain and body needs.

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Weekly planner to help plan for adding self-care and social activities into the week

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Planning meaningful and social activities into your daily routine will lift mood and self-esteem.

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Instead, you could try doing a guided meditation using Headspace or Calm, listening to some soothing music, or doing something creative you can lose yourself in like colouring. Find what makes you feel grounded.

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Gratitude Journal to help combat low mood

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Who can make a self referral?

We encourage you to make a self referral to our service if you are:

Experiencing depression, anxiety or PTSD

Over 18 years old

Ready to start working on your problems and able to attend regular appointments

Registered with a GP in Somerset, see the map above

Not currently receiving support from other mental health services.

If you are registered with a GP outside of Somerset please contact your GP and ask to be referred to your local Talking Therapies service or use this link to find a service local to you Find a Psychological Therapies Service.

We do not cover North Somerset, Bristol, or Bath and North East Somerset.
Refer Yourself
We are not a crisis service. If you need urgent help please see this webpage Mental Health Crisis to find urgent support.

What happens when I refer?

We will review your referral and then if appropriate contact you to book your assessment appointment.

What if I am not suitable for your service?

If we are unable to meet your needs we will do our best to find the service that can help.

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Alcoholism is a rough word to deal with, yet nobody is too young (or too old) to have trouble with booze. That's because alcoholism is an illness. It can hit anyone; young, old, rich, poor. black, white and it doesn't matter how long you've been drinking or what you've been drinking. It's what drinking does to you that counts. To help you decide whether you might have a problem with your own drinking, we've prepared this video below asking some questions. The answers are nobody's business but your own. If you can answer yes to any one of these questions, maybe it's time you took a serious look at what your drinking might be doing to you. If you do need help or if you'd just like to talk to someone about your drinking, call us on 0800 9177 650, message us via our Live Chat box at the bottom of the page here, or email us at help@aamail.org.
Watch the Young People's video here Watch the Young People's video with subtitles here.

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StopNCII.org is a free tool designed to support victims of Non-Consensual Intimate Image abuse.

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Sextortion: how to protect yourself.

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Report Remove is here to help young people under 18 in the UK to confidentially report sexual images and videos of themselves and remove them from the internet.

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Content warning: This section includes graphic sexual descriptions.

A nude image must include one of the following to be removed:

nude or semi-nude sexual posing

someone nude or semi-nude touching themselves in a sexual way

any sexual activity involving a child

someone hurting someone else sexually

sexual activity that includes animals.

Where possible, it is better if you can upload the original image or video, or a copy of it, rather than a photograph of it on another screen. This helps IWF find the image more accurately.

If you want to report something that isn't a nude image or video to see if it can be taken down, you can see more information from Childline about deleting things shared online here. You can make a report to CEOP, the part of the police who are there to support children and young people online. You can always speak to a Childline counsellor.

Confirming your age with ID gives us more legal powers to remove images from as many places as possible. If you don't have ID or feel comfortable using it, we can still take down images, but from fewer places.

You can use the following ID to confirm your identity using Yoti:

passport or biometric residence permit

driving licence and provisional licence

Young Scot Card (Yoti app only)

CitizenCard (Yoti app only).

If you don't have any of these, you can get a young person's ID card. You'll be able to get this for £5 with the promo code NSPCC5. Make sure you choose 'Yoti CitizenCard' on the first page.

Whatever ID you use, please make sure that it is valid and in-date.

IWF will read all reports within one working day, from Monday to Friday. The time it takes to get your image removed from the internet can be different depending on where the image is hosted.

If the image is on a UK-based website it can often be removed within 2-3 hours. Unfortunately, in some countries it can take longer - sometimes days or weeks. But IWF analysts will always try to make sure it happens as soon as possible.

We'll do our best to let you know once your image has been removed by sending a message to your  Childline locker.

We recommend you check your locker every few days after you make a report. This is so you can see if your image has been removed, and so Childline can let you know if IWF need more information to be able to remove it. Remember, IWF can't contact you directly.

If you need support to help you cope while you're waiting, you can also speak to a Childline counsellor any time.

When you use Report Remove, your image or video is shared with the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF). They'll work to get your image removed from the internet. See 'Who are the IWF?' to learn about how that happens.

Most of the time, nobody will know that you've made a report and your report won't be shared with anyone else.

If the police already have the image or video you report, then they might investigate what's happened. Only the police can decide if they'll need to tell someone else.

The police might already have your image or video if:

someone has reported it on another website and that website passed it to the police

they're investigating someone who had or has the image or video already (if someone is found to have your image and is breaking the law - regardless of how, it may be included as evidence in a criminal case against that person

someone else reported the image to them directly.

Remember that the police are there to protect you, not to get you into trouble. If the image has been reported somewhere else and you're worried, you can always  speak to a Childline counsellor.

If you have parental controls on your phone your parent or carer might see when you want to download a new app, so they might get a notification if you try to download Yoti and want to know why. To avoid this, use the second option to prove your age (called 'ID verification').

The IWF can remove images that are public or available to anyone on the internet. However, they won't be able to remove images or videos on encrypted networks like WhatsApp, or which are saved on a person's phone or computer.

If you're over 13 and you've made a report without using ID, then there may be some sites the IWF can't take images down from.

If you don't use ID the IWF can help by removing your image or video from most sites. If you do use ID, the IWF can remove from all sites

The Internet Watch Foundation (IWF), a UK charity, are there to help remove illegal nude images of under 18s posted online.

Once the IWF has confirmed your nude image is against the law and can be removed from the internet they give it a digital fingerprint called a 'hash'. The hash can be used to find your image online even if it has been cropped or slightly changed.

Sharing just the hash with certain trusted companies and organisations, means that technology can be used to find online matches of the image - this is key to trying to stop it appearing in different places on the internet. Even though the hashes and images are shared with UK police, this is so that if they came across the image some other way, they'd know that you also reported it yourself. Report Remove was developed with the full support of the police and no one involved wants to get you into trouble for sharing the image so it can be removed.

Different companies use the hash in different ways. For example, if an illegal image match is found to have been shared by an online account holder, a company may decide to close that person's account as posting illegal images will be against the company's terms and conditions. If your image(s) are found on or are linked to your online user account(s) it may be possible for the company to associate your profile with the images.

The companies that take the hashes trust the Report Remove process, however if they have significant concerns that the person in the image may not be the person who was age verified, they may get in touch with the IWF to raise their concerns.

There are 3 organisations that help you report your image using Report Remove. These are Childline, the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) and also Yoti if you are 13 or older and choose to prove your age using ID. All of them have a responsibility to keep all of your personal information safe.

1. We'll ask you to choose your age range (under 13, 13-15, 16-17, 18 and over). If you're under 13, you'll go straight to step 3. If you're aged 13 or older, us at Childline will ask you if you have access to ID to prove your age. If you do, you'll be asked to visit Yoti. The only information we will share with Yoti is that you are wanting to prove your age to use Report Remove.

2. Once you prove your age using Yoti, you will come back to Report Remove on Childline. The only information Yoti will share with Childline is confirmation that you're younger or older than 18.

3. We'll then ask you to create or sign in to a Childline account. Then you'll go to the IWF website to share the content you want removed. Childline will only share the information below with IWF:

that you're younger than 18 (either confirmed by Yoti, or that you told us you are younger than 18),

the age range you selected at the start,

a unique number that is created when you use Report Remove.

4. After your report has been passed to the IWF, they will tell Childline if they were able to work to take the images or video down from the internet, and why. This is so Childline can let you know what happened. IWF may also tell Childline some information about what you reported, to help them know how best to support you and keep you safe. IWF will never share an image or video that you report with Childline.

Information you give to Childline
Any information you give Childline will always be treated carefully and in line with our  Privacy Policy. This means that any information you give us as part of Report Remove will only be used to help the IWF review your report and to keep you safe. This will include the age range that you select and a unique number that's created when you go onto the IWF website. We will not share any of your information with Yoti.
Information you give to IWF
The only information you will give to the IWF are the images, videos or URLs you report. There is space to add information such as where the image or video is on a webpage.

They will process this in line with their privacy policy.

Nude images and videos that IWF decide are illegal may be kept by the IWF for up to 2 years. This is because there is an agreement with the Police and CPS (Crime Prosecution Service), called a 'Memorandum of Understanding' (MOU). Illegal images are given a hash (a string of numbers that are like a digital fingerprint). The hash is shared with organisations such as technology companies who host online content, so that they can look for the image and take it down. The actual image is not shared with these companies. The image and the hash are shared with the police who store it on their Child Abuse Image Database. Any images or videos that they decide are not illegal may be kept for a maximum of 6 months for quality checking and any follow up questions. They will then be deleted. Sometimes, even if it's decided that the content isn't illegal, IWF can share the content URL with some industry members to see if they can take the content down.

If you report a URL (link to a webpage), and choose not to prove your age using ID, IWF will still check to see if the content is something they can take action on. If so IWF may share the URL with South West Grid for Learning (SWGfL), who are a charity who help people who have had intimate images of them shared online. SWGfL will never view the content on a URL that is shared with them. SWGfL send a notice to internet companies that host the webpage you reported, to tell them to take it down. This is because IWF can only send a notice to companies to take a specific webpage down when it is confirmed it is of a child. SWGfL can also send notice to take down content, but they do not need to prove it is of a child. This helps get your images or videos from even more places.

Childline will never see what pictures, videos or URLs you share with the IWF. The only information the IWF shares with Childline apart from your case number is whether or not they could take down your images or videos, and why, so we can let you know, as well as information about the image or video that you reported that will help Childline to support you and keep you safe.

Information you give to Yoti
You can choose to use Yoti to confirm your age if you're over 13. This may involve taking a selfie, so Yoti know it is you who are proving your age, and uploading a picture of some ID. Any personal data you send Yoti - like your photo, date of birth or address - is scrambled with a high level of encryption so that even if it was stolen, no one could use it to identify you. The only information Yoti shares with Childline is confirmation that you're under or over 18.

You can see Yoti's privacy policy here, and more information about their age portal here, which is what is used in Report Remove to prove your age.

If you're using the Yoti app, Yoti may use the selfie, month and year of birth you add to the Yoti app to improve its age estimation technology. You can opt out from this in the More> My Data> Biometric consent menu of the app.

There are lots of ways to get help with your report:

if you're having problems with Yoti, you can contact them directly in the app.

if you need any support with making your report send a message to Childline with the title 'Report Remove'.

Childline counsellors are always here for you and want to help. And you can  talk to them  about anything you're going through.
I have a technical issue, what should I do?

Try using your default browser and close private browsing if you're using the Yoti app.

See if you can log in to your locker and send an email to Childline explaining your problem and the team will be able to help.

Make sure the ID you're using is valid and in-date (not expired).

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This self-help guide is particularly aimed at individuals who are leaving education and entering a new stage of their life. It covers techniques based on CBT principles to help an individual struggling with anxiety, stress and/or depression during this life transition.

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The OCD Treatment Centre | Taunton, Somerset, United Kingdom

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Voice Collective

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https://selfharm.co.uk

Are you...

11-19 years old?

Living in the UK?

Someone who self-harms or worries they might?

Looking for support but not wanting to do it face to face?

Wanting to move towards a life free from self-harm?

Alumina could be a helpful step forward. If you sign up we’ll begin a conversation over email to work out if it might be a good fit – and you can ask us any questions you have.

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"Since starting alumina it's become the highlight of my week. It's such a safe, non judgemental place which has really helped me in my recovery."

Max

"If you're thinking about joining I'd say go for it, the team are lovely and everyone who does it is so welcoming and supportive"

Abi

Alumina is a free, online 7 week course for young people struggling with self-harm. Each course has up to 14 young people, all accessing the sessions from their own phones, tablets or laptops across the UK. The courses take place on different evenings of the week and are run by friendly, trained counsellors and volunteer youth workers. You don't need an adult to refer you or sign you up, and no-one will see or hear you during the sessions - you'll just join in via the chatbox. We want to help you to find your next steps towards recovery, wherever you are on your journey.

IS ALUMINA RIGHT FOR ME?

Are you...

10-17 years old?

Living in the UK?

Someone who self-harms or worries they might?

Looking for support but not wanting to do it face to face?

Wanting to move towards a life free from self-harm?

If so...

Alumina could be a helpful step forward. If you sign up we'll begin a conversation over email to work out if it might be a good fit - and you can ask us any questions you have. The only rule we have in Alumina is that we don't talk about suicide in the groups. If that's something you are struggling with thinking about we recommend getting in touch with our friends at Papyrus who are better equipped to support you.

"I thought it would be all serious and uncomfortable because of the self-harm talk but actually, the staff have made me laugh, we've been given a space that feels relevant to our ages and most importantly we can turn up in any mood and they'll be there for us." Runa

What's a session like?

"Clicking on the link for the first time was nerve wracking and intense with lots of thoughts going through my head. But within only a few minutes of the session I had a smile on my face and felt comfortable with the staff and the group."

Sasha

"Alumina was quite different to what I expected, I thought it would just be an intense 6 weeks and it would be over like other services. But it was nothing like that - instead I felt and still feel very supported by the staff. The group and staff are like a big family who's always there for me."

Samara

"Clicking that link for the very first time was terrifying. But I knew it could be life-changing. The first session I felt welcome, I no longer felt like an outsider. It's fun, believe me!! Most days I find myself looking forward to the next session because Alumina gives me a sign of hope."

Dan

Questions

We aren't a crisis service so if you're in need of immediate support please contact one of the following:

The Mix: Offering essential support for anyone aged 12-25. For their crisis messenger support service text THEMIX to 85258.
Childline: Support for anyone up to age 18. Call, chat online or email their crisis service.
Samaritans: Call 116123 anytime if you need to talk to someone.

We've changed the shape of our support for young people. This website introduces Alumina, our online support groups for young people struggling with self-harm. We've also recently launched beheadstrong.uk offering young people all kinds of information, stories and videos about looking after your mental and emotional wellbeing. You can find links to some of selfharm.co.uk's most popular articles below.

Yes we have! We have worked with 14-19 year olds for many years but we have always heard from people who are younger (or those who care about them) asking if we do anything for younger people. Then from September 2022 we reduced our age range to 11, and found how important it was to support this age range and that our Early Intervention project was great for this age range. Therefore, from October 2023 we will be aiming our work at young people in secondary school or college (or equivalent) and those transitioning to secondary school and our age range has reduced to 10-17 years old. If you're under 13 we will need to get permission from someone with parental responsibility for you, and we will email them to explain how Alumina works and make sure they are happy with you joining a group.

We aim to group similar aged young people into groups together, so 10-13-year-olds will be offered groups together and 13-17 year olds will be in other groups together. We are happy to work with anyone until the end of their full-time education, therefore we will work with 17- and 18-year-olds so long as they are three months or more away from finishing their education at the end of August.

Meet the team

Live Webinars

We have recently started to do live webinars on YouTube on issues related to self-harm and emotional wellbeing

Supporting Young People Who Self-harm

If you're a parent, professional or friend supporting a young person who's self-harming, we recommend taking an hour to watch this webinar with our Alumina Managers. They explore why people self-harm, why young people especially self-harm, why it becomes addictive, how to break the addiction cycle, and what young people wish the adults around them understood about self-harm.

"Alumina is a well thought through support service for young people; it is professional, caring and accessible to all. Signposting a young person to Alumina will help them begin their recovery journey."

DR. KATE MIDDLETON

Our Alumina advisory panel

More information about self-harm

We've moved some of our most popular articles about self-harm over to beheadstrong.uk, and you can use these links to find them:

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Free online Self-harm support for 10-17 year olds

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Dr Julie Smith, social media superstar and experienced clinical psychologist, shares ideas, insights and techniques that she has seen change her clients' lives.

Her new book "Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?" can be found in the college library and may become your mental health toolbox.

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help you to connect with others and give you a sense of belonging

encourage you to value your strengths

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help you to feel more hopeful about the future.

Our peer mentors have been where you are now and use their own experiences to offer you support to help you feel better about yourself, recognise your self-worth, as well as help you build positive social networks through community groups. Each peer mentor has their own areas of interest and we aim to match you up with a mentor who shares a similar interest to you.

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Grief may not feel normal but it is. Everyone will grieve in their own way. You may experience all sorts of feelings or you may feel nothing. You may find it easy to talk or you might bottle all of your emotions up.

Grief is:

A massive bundle of different emotions and intense feelings. Feeling sad and missing somebody. Love happens and people die in your family. Someone who has lost someone and they can't get over it. You cry over someone dying. You cry then you stop. Then you cry, then you stop.
- Member of our Young People's Advisory Group

Whatever you feel is how you feel. You may experience a mixture of feelings all at once. It helps if you can learn to recognise your feelings.

You may feel......

Numbness when you think you should be feeling very upset. Lots of young people have told us they feel numb at first.

Disbelief: You might find it hard to believe this has happened and you may expect them to walk through the door at any time

Confusion about what has happened and the way everything in your life has changed. You may feel you have lots of unanswered questions.

Worry, perhaps about the future, who will look after you, your siblings or your parent? You may feel you have new responsibilities and worry about how to cope with these.

Anger. There is not always an easily understood reason for anger but it is perfectly natural to feel it.

Guilt and Regret. It is very normal to think that you could have done more or that you should have behaved differently. It was not your fault and there is nothing you could have done to prevent the death.

Loneliness: You may have a good group of friends but if none have experienced your situation, then you can feel lonely even when surround by people. Even with your family, if you are all grieving differently, bereaved young people tell us you can feel very alone.

Overwhelmed. You may feel completely overwhelmed by powerful feelings and emotions that you do not understand or expect.

Grief also has physical effects: You could go off your food or even find it becomes tasteless. You may find it hard to sleep, and as a result, become tired and irritable, especially when trying to concentrate at school or work.

Whether the death was expected or not when someone close to you dies, you suddenly have a lot of difficult emotions to deal with. The most important thing to remember about grief is that it can affect different people in different ways, and all these feelings are normal.

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Lives are transformed by the love and companionship pets bring. So, saying goodbye to one - whether due to death or separation - is always sad, difficult and often traumatic. It affects people in many ways.

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We have now implemented a telephone triage system for all of our clinics. This system will be in place for the duration of the pandemic. Please contact our services to access this triage system. Our central telephone number is 0300 303 3989.

If you are experiencing symptoms of Coronavirus please do not attend the clinic. Clear advice for people with symptoms of coronavirus is available at nhs.uk/coronavirus .

Advice from our service:

We have updated information on the provision of routine contraception during this pandemic here.

More details on the fitting of LARCs (coils and implants) at our service can be found here

If you need the combined contraceptive pill please try (if you can) to get updated measurements of your height, weight and blood pressure before calling us.

There is also specific advice on coronavirus available for People Living with HIV here, and for pregnant women here.

Self-requested Sexual Health screening by post is available for for under 25s only - more info here

For others with testing requirements please contact the service on 0300 303 3989.

Alternative provision:

Please be aware that we may have to cancel, rearrange or shut clinical services in response to changing clinical and staffing pressures created by the Coronavirus pandemic.

If you are struggling to access sexual health services, alternatives may be available:

Emergency Contraception - at your local pharmacy - more info

Contraceptive pills and LARC procedures - obtained from your GP

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University can be a stressful experience, as well as being fun and exciting. You may feel stressed about starting university, exams, coursework deadlines, living with people you do not know, or thinking about the future.

Stress is a natural feeling, designed to help you cope in challenging situations. In small amounts it can be good, because it pushes you to work hard and do your best, such as during exams.

But if you're feeling very stressed or feel you cannot manage stress, it can lead to mental health problems such as depression and anxiety. It can also affect your academic performance.

Leaving home to start your studies can involve some stressful changes. These might include moving to a new area, meeting new people and managing on a tight budget.

Signs you might be stressed

There are lots of possible signs of stress.

Stress can make you feel:

irritable

anxious

like you cannot enjoy yourself

worried a lot of the time

You may start to:

have sleep problems (insomnia)

find it hard to concentrate

bite your nails, pick your skin or grind your teeth

snap at people

feel short of breath or breathe very fast

Things that can help with stress

Short periods of stress are normal and can often be resolved by something as simple as completing a task which cuts down your workload, or by talking to others and taking time to relax.

It might also help to:

Work out what it is that's making you feel stressed. For example, is it exams, money or relationship problems? See if you can change your circumstances to ease the pressure you're under.

Try to have a healthy lifestyle. Eat well, get enough sleep, be physically active, cut down on alcohol, and take time to relax as well as working and studying.

Read about the 5 steps to mental wellbeing.

Avoid drugs, including lots of caffeine - this can have a negative impact on your stress levels and wellbeing.

Try not to worry about the future or compare yourself with others.

Try relaxation and breathing exercises.

Try to plan your time to help you keep track of your work. Break it down into manageable chunks so you can keep up with deadlines.

Try talking to a friend, tutor or someone in your family about your stress.

Read about tips on preparing for exams

More information

When to get help for stress

You may want to consider getting help for stress if:

you're struggling to cope with stress

things you're trying yourself are not helping

stress is affecting your life or university work

You could try speaking to friends, family or your university tutor. A GP is also a good place to start and they can help you with advice or access to treatments if you need them.

Find out more about counselling for student mental health problems.

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Forgotten your pill or had unprotected sex? Maybe you're worried about something? Here's what to do and where to go if you need help urgently.

Could I have a sexually transmitted infection (STI)?

If you have had unprotected sex (without a condom), there's a chance you could have caught a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

Arrange to get tested if you:

haven't got symptoms, but are worried you might have an STI

have symptoms, such as an unusual discharge

feel something is wrong

If you're sexually active, either stop having sex or make sure you use a condom until you get your test results and know for sure whether or not you have an STI.

If you do have an STI, using a condom will help prevent passing it on. Your sexual partners should also get tested.

You can get free, confidential advice and treatment from your GP or specialist clinics in your area, including if you're under 16.

Hospitals often have sexual health clinics (also known as GUM clinics), which test for and treat STIs.

There are also lots of places that are set up especially for young people.

Most STIs can be easily treated, so don't be scared of having a test and finding you do have an STI.
Find sexual health information and support services near you

I think I might be pregnant

The first thing to do is find out for certain by taking a pregnancy test. The sooner you do this, the better.

There are lots of places where you can have a free pregnancy test and get confidential advice, even if you're under 16.

These includes:

sexual health clinics (GUM clinics)

contraception clinics (also called family planning clinics)

some young people's services - call the national sexual health helpline on 0300 123 7123 for details (Monday to Friday, 9am to 8pm, and Saturday and Sunday, 11am to 4pm)

Brook centres - for under-25s - visit the Brook website for details

some GP surgeries

Find your nearest sexual health information and support services
You can also buy a pregnancy test from pharmacies or some supermarkets, which you can do yourself at home.
Find out more about doing a pregnancy test

I'm pregnant

If you're pregnant and it's unplanned, you'll need to decide if you want to continue with the pregnancy.

If you decide to have an abortion, the sooner this is done, the easier and safer it is.

But you might want to take time making your decision, which is why it's important to find out if you're pregnant as soon as possible.

Nobody needs to know you're pregnant until you're ready to tell them.

You can ask to see a female doctor if it would make you feel more comfortable.

If you decide to continue with the pregnancy, you should start your pregnancy (antenatal) care as soon as possible.

This includes health checks for you and your baby. Your GP can discuss this with you.
Find out more about antenatal care

I've had sex without a condom

If you have had sex without a condom or the condom splits or comes off, there's a risk of both pregnancy and STIs.

The best thing to do is act quickly. The quicker you act, the sooner you can prevent a pregnancy or get tested for an STI.

Pregnancy

You can get pregnant if you have sex without a condom or the condom splits or comes off.

In this case, to avoid pregnancy you can either:

take the emergency contraceptive pill, sometimes called the morning-after pill, up to 72 hours (3 days) or 120 hours (5 days) after having unprotected sex, depending on the type of pill

have an intrauterine device (IUD), sometimes called a coil, fitted up to 120 hours (5 days) after having unprotected sex

However, try to take emergency contraception before 3 days, or have the coil fitted before 5 days. The sooner you take it, the more effective they will be.
Find out more about emergency contraception
Take a pregnancy test if your next period doesn't arrive when you expect it to.

If you're having sex, don't regularly rely on emergency contraception to stop you getting pregnant.

There are lots of contraceptive options you can choose from.

Talk to a nurse or doctor at a clinic or GP surgery about what type of contraception is right for you.

STIs

If you have sex without a condom or the condom splits or comes off, you're also at risk of getting an STI.

If this happens and you're worried you have caught an STI, you can get confidential help and advice in your local area, as well as free testing for STIs, at:

sexual health clinics (GUM clinics)

some community contraceptive clinics

some GPs

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Chlamydia

Chlamydia is one of the most common STIs in the UK.

It can be easily tested for and testing is free and confidential at a sexual health clinic or GP surgery.

You can also buy chlamydia testing kits to use at home, with free tests available online for 15- to 24-year-olds.

Find free chlamydia tests online for under-25s.

I've forgotten to take my pill

You may not be protected against pregnancy if you have forgotten to take your pill.

This depends on the type you're taking, how many doses you have missed already, and how many pills are left in the packet.

Find out what to do if you miss a combined pill and what to do if you miss a progestogen-only pill.

If you have trouble remembering to take a pill every day, you could consider using another method of contraception, such as the contraceptive implant, contraceptive injection or IUD.

This means you don't have to think about your contraception every day or every time you have sex.

You may need to use condoms for extra protection.

If you need further advice, speak to a doctor, nurse or pharmacist as soon as possible.
Find out more about the different contraceptive methods

Will medication or being ill affect my pill?

If you take it correctly, at the right time on the right day, the contraceptive pill is 99% effective.

But certain things, such as being sick (vomiting), can stop it working properly.

Always read the leaflet inside the packet so you know what might affect it.

Some medicines can prevent the pill working properly. Always ask your doctor or pharmacist to advise you about this if they're giving you any medicines.
Find out more about taking the pill when you're sick or have diarrhoea

I've been pushed into sex

If someone has forced or persuaded you into a sexual situation you're uncomfortable with, help is available.

You can call the national sexual health helpline free on 0300 123 7123, Monday to Friday, 9am to 8pm, Saturday and Sunday, 11am to 4pm. Your call will be treated with sensitivity and in strict confidence.

You can also contact a sexual assault referral centre (SARC), where you can get specialist support and medical care if you have been sexually assaulted.

A sexual assault can happen anywhere, including in your home, and is more likely to be carried out by someone you know rather than a stranger.

Find rape and sexual assault support services, including SARCs.

You can also ask at your GP surgery, contraceptive clinic or sexual health clinic.

Find out more about help after rape and sexual assault, either for yourself or someone you know.

Further information

British Pregnancy Advisory Service (bpas) - provides advice and support about contraception, abortion and sexual health; call the helpline on 03457 30 40 30, 8am to 5pm, Monday to Friday, 8am to 4pm, Saturday and 9.30am to 2.30pm on Sunday or email info@bpas.org

Brook - the young people's sexual health charity for under-25s provides advice, support and information about your nearest sexual health clinic

FPA - provides information about individual methods of contraception, STIs, pregnancy choices, abortion and planning a pregnancy

Switchboard: the LGBT+ helpline - provides an information, support and referral service for lesbians, gay men, bisexual and trans (transgender, transsexual, transvestite) people; call the helpline on 0300 330 0630, open 10am to 10pm daily

Terrence Higgins Trust - provides information, support and advice about HIV and sexual health; call the helpline on 0808 802 1221, open 10am to 6pm Monday to Friday

Health for Teens - includes sexual health information and advice for teenagers

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Everyone experiences stress from time to time. It's a natural part of life. But if your stress is ongoing, it can really start to get on top of you and become overwhelming. No matter how stressed you are, there are ways to make life a little simpler - read The Mix's guide to reducing stress.

Causes of stress

The first step to coping with stress is to understand what exactly it is that is getting too much for you. It could be your job, education, relationships - or it could be all of them at once. But if you're able to break down your big pile of stress into smaller pieces, it'll help you to compartmentalise and understand what you can do about it:

If it's exams that are stressing you out, you can read our article about exam stress.

If it's your job turning you into a frantic mess, you can read our article about work stress.

And if it's uni driving you up the wall, we have a student stress article.

I don't know why I'm stressed

Try to view stress as a warning that some aspects of your life might need changing. In order to beat stress, you'll need to work out what these aspects are. If you're unsure about what is causing your stress, try:

Carrying a notebook with you

Record everything you do throughout the day

Note down how stressed you feel on a rating of one to 10 for each listing

After a few days, some patterns should begin to emerge - are your ratings always higher when you are working to a deadline, dealing with a certain person, or are you just trying to cram too much into your day?

How can I feel less stressed?

Starting the move towards coping with stress is much easier said than done. Whilst the power of positive thinking can be helpful, it won't fix everything overnight. What you can do is build some healthy habits that become a part of your self-care - this will help to reduce your stress over time. Unsure where to start? Here are a few suggestions:

Breathing exercises for stress reduction

Ok, so we do it all the time, but very few of us do it properly. Re-train your breathing patterns and you could soon see an improvement in anxiety and tension levels. The NHS website suggests some simple breathing techniques.

Massage to ease stress and tension

Use this hands-on remedy and feel an instant improvement to your body's built-up tension. Massage Therapy UK can help you to find a qualified practitioner, but if your budget doesn't stretch that far, ask a partner or friend to work on your knots instead.

Mixing a few drops of aromatherapy oils into some plain massage oil will make the experience even better. AromaWeb has detailed information about each oil's different properties and how they can help relieve depression, fatigue, anxiety and anger.

Stress and exercise

Choose the right exercise and you'll feel both energised and relaxed. As a general rule, yoga and Tai Chi are excellent for reinstalling calm by focusing on breathing and centring the mind, but any physical exercise will reduce stress by using up adrenalin and other hormones that the body produces under stress, as well as relaxing the muscles.

Other strategies for coping with stress

Eat a healthy diet. Processed foods, too much salt, sugar, alcohol and caffeine can all drain energy and often leave you with that 'wired' feeling, so try and moderate and be mindful of what you eat and drink.

Get enough sleep. The best way to do this is to regulate your sleeping hours by going to bed and waking up at the same time each day. It'll become easier to do the more you do it!

De-clutter your life. Take anything you don't use to a charity shop, recycle old magazines and clear away the pizza boxes from under your bed. Then go to work/college on Monday and give your desk the once over. This is the quick-fix of all de-stressers.

Just say "no" to demanding colleagues/friends/family. You know how much you can cope with, so pick out the important stuff and delegate the rest. Prioritising lists can often help you decide what really needs to be done - and what can wait.

Try to set aside at least 30 minutes each day to switch off from the world and unwind.

Laugh. Research shows that not only does laughter improve our mood; it also relieves stress and improves our immune system. The next time you find yourself with a frown on your face, consider this: four-year-old children laugh on average 400 times a day, whereas adults only laugh 14 times. So go on, get those funny videos out and invite your friends over for some serious cheering up.

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We do not tolerate behaviours that are threatening or abusive in any way. While we recognise that people who exhibit these behaviours have a right to the support they need, it's not possible for us to provide a safe and supportive space when met with threatening or abusive behaviours.

We act to prevent further contacts from callers who behave in these ways. Please see our privacy policy for more information.
Limiting or withdrawing access to our services
From time to time we may have to use the information collected about you when you contact us to make decisions about limiting access to our services. If we believe you are abusing our service or are abusive towards volunteers, we will use our system to block your calls or messages from getting through.

If you can't get through by phone, you will hear a message that explains how to contact us to discuss our decision to block you from our system.

If we take the decision to limit your access to our systems, we will make every effort to inform you as to the reason why we have restricted your access. We may ask you to give us a contact number so that a member of our Caller Support Team can call you to talk about your support needs.

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If you're going through a tough time, contact us free. We won't judge you or tell you what to do. We are here to listen so you don't have to face it alone.

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YoungMinds | Mental Health Charity For Children And Young People

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YoungMinds are a mental health charity for children, young people and their parents, making sure all young people can get the mental health support they need.

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Domestic abuse service

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We have been commissioned by Somerset Council to deliver the Somerset Domestic Abuse Service. Julian House will be providing the refuge and safe accommodation and we will be joined by a counselling team in 2024.

Our team offer targeted support for victims, children, and people causing harm in their intimate relationships.

We are also been funded and commissioned by the Office of the Police and Crime Commissioner and National Government.
Download a referral form for children and young people

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Somerset - Paragon Team - SIDAS - Domestic abuse services

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We have been commissioned by Somerset Council to deliver their Integrated Domestic Abuse Services known locally as SIDAS.

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Support for males who have experienced domestic abuse

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Due to increasing levels of domestic abuse, we are receiving more calls than ever and our helpline solely relies on the public for funding (we receive no taxpayer funding or grants). If you are able to help us to help more men escape domestic abuse, please donate to us here. Thank you.

Male Victims of Domestic Abuse - Please call our helpline on
01823 334244 to speak to us confidentially

Our confidential helpline is available for male victims of domestic abuse and domestic violence across the UK as well as their friends, family, neighbours, work colleagues and employers.

We provide an information, support and signposting service to men suffering from domestic abuse from their current or former wife, partner (including same-sex partner) or husband. This can range from physical violence or object throwing to abuse such as constant bullying or insults.

We have also produced a directory of local services (called the Oak Book) which support male victims, so please visit this section to find the service in your community.

The helpline is a listening service which provides emotional support, practical information and signposting.

We receive calls from male victims of domestic abuse across all age ranges and professions:

From dustmen and doctors, to, bankers and builders

From men in their 20s to men in their 80s

From men in England, Northern Ireland, Scotland and Wales.

The helpline also welcomes calls from friends, family members, neighbours, colleagues and employers of male victims seeking information.

We also receive calls from support organisations, charities and statutory agencies such as local authorities and police forces.

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Charity supporting male victims of domestic abuse through a helpline, directory of local services and general information on the website.

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Our training service is here to support your work and ensure you are meeting the needs of survivors both within your organisation and accessing your organisation.

Our courses are tailored to your organisational needs:

Workplace

Education settings

NHS and Health Settings

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Our training service is here to support your work and ensure you are meeting the needs of survivors both within your organisation and accessing your organisation. Our courses are tailored to your organisational needs: Workplace Education settings NHS and Health Settings For Charities

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Supporting children and young people who have been affected by crime. Also provides support for parents and professionals who work with children and young people

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Need help after crime?

Get in touch anytime for independent, free, and confidential advice:

In an emergency you should always call 999.

Our services are confidential. We will only share information about you without your consent if we're concerned about your, or someone else's safety, or if we're required to by law. Read our privacy policy.

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Victim Support is the independent charity dedicated to supporting victims of crime and traumatic incidents in England and Wales.

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A helpline for men 18 and over who have experienced rape or sexual abuse at any time in their lives

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SurvivorsUK | We challenge the silence to support sexually abused men

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SurvivorsUK. Men Overcoming Sexual Violence Together. We’re here for you.

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Support for children and young people around sexual abuse

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"Thank you so much for your invaluable and life-changing work that you have done with 'P'. As a result of your care, skill and commitment, 'P' can continue to inspire others as the truly exceptional young lady and learner that she always has been.

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Provides information about keeping young people safe alone, and if you are concerned about online sexual abuse

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Are you being bullied?

If you are being bullied, or you are not ready to make a report to CEOP, you can talk to Childline anonymously online or on the phone - No worry is too big or too small.

Visit Childline

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Are you being bullied? If you are being bullied, or you are not ready to make a report to CEOP, you can talk to Childline anonymously online or on the phone - No worry is too big or too small. Visit Childline

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Struggling with an eating disorder? Caring for someone who is? Beat is here to support you.

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Somerset & Wessex Eating Disorders Association (SWEDA)

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Having an eating disorder, or supporting someone who has, can be a distressing and bewildering experience. SWEDA offers a range of services throughout Somerset and the surrounding area. We are here to support and listen to you, wherever you are on your journey.

Getting in touch is the first step - we're here to listen, without judgement, and provide the support you need.

SWEDA offers a range of support: Counselling Services, a monthly Self help Support Group, Training and Presentations for Health Professionals and GPs, and a College Support Service, working with young people in Secondary Schools and four of the major Colleges in the county.

Do call us, email us or link to us via social media to find out more.

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Having an eating disorder, or supporting someone who has, can be a distressing and bewildering experience. SWEDA offers a range of services throughout Somerset and the surrounding area. We are here to support and listen to you, wherever you are on your journey.

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Only UK-wide self-harm & self-injury charity offering direct support, reliable information, expert training and specialist consultancy

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Mindline Trans+ - Trans+ emotional support helpline

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Support for families and young people with gender and identity struggles

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Switchboard provides a one-stop listening service for LGBT+ people on the phone,
by email and through Instant Messaging.
Find out more here.

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Local support for LGBTQ+

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Youth support services for LGBTQ+ young people in Somerset

Are you a young LGBTQ+ person living in Somerset

If you're a young LGBTQ+ person living in Somerset, you may find that being lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or questioning your sexuality or gender identity can sometimes be difficult. This site is for you, have a look around

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Youth support services for LGBTQ+ young people in Somerset | 2BU Somerset

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Essential support for under 25s

The Mix is the UK's leading support service for young people. We are here to help you take on any challenge you're facing - from mental health to money, from homelessness to finding a job, from break-ups to drugs. Talk to us via our online community, on social, through our free, confidential helpline or our counselling service.

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The Mix - Essential support for under 25s

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The Mix: 0808 808 4994 - Free information and support for under 25s in the UK. Get advice about sex, relationships, drugs, mental health, money & jobs.

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Winston's Wish is the UK's childhood bereavement charity. We support children and their families after the death of someone important.

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A world where no child is left to grieve alone

We care passionately about helping bereaved children, young people and their families find hope and healing after the death of someone close.

Crises in the news

If you have been affected by the recent devastating events in the news, please read our useful guides or don't hesitate to reach out and call our helpline on 0808 802 0111 from 9am - 9pm weekdays.

This year, our theme is 'The Shape of Your Support'. We are focusing on the people around a bereaved child or young person, beyond their friends or family, that can be there to support them through their grief. At Grief Encounter, we help build compassionate communities that can provide the right support from the right people, at the right time. Find out more about how this special week supports bereaved children.

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One child in every UK classroom will experience the death of someone close by the time they reach 16 years old. Grief Encounter is here to help with the confusion, fear, loneliness and pain, providing a lifeline to children and young people to cope with free, immediate, one-to-one support.