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recognizing not everyone has the same experience

not ganging up

framing a non-agreement with ideas and not the person - making the distinction

holding space for feedback - acknowledgement and taking responsibility for how one made people feel.

Be conscious of how people are absorbing your words; even if was not your intention.

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Approach conversation with the goal of understanding the perspectives being shared.

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Acknowledge different forms of respect, and that people are coming from different places. Naming it, rather than assuming we have the same understanding of respect. 

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Acknowledge different forms of respect, and that people are coming from different places. Naming it, rather than assuming we have the same understanding of respect. 

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Naming behavior as opposed to naming an ideal. "This is respectful behavior...." What is the action, and the thing that you do.

Naming the behavior without attaching our own biases.

We can respect people even if we disagree with their ideas.

Showing respect is giving the other person the space.

You don't want to listen, and then counter with "yes but actually..."

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Emphasis on the process of how we'll learn together.

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Emphasis on the process of how we'll learn together.

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Not necessarily focused on the outcome, but the process is where the learning will happen.

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Recognize how power dynamics are at play in the ask to be brave.

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Recognize how power dynamics are at play in the ask to be brave.

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Worrying about what to say and how it impact

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Worrying about what to say and how it impact

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It can be a very hard thing to do - to own impact

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recognize that people share in different ways; provide multiple ways of sharing

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recognize that people share in different ways; provide multiple ways of sharing

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We don't always have control of what gets triggered or what comes up.

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We don't always have control of what gets triggered or what comes up.

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Honoring the feelings of what came up and what gets expressed.

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Honoring the feelings of what came up and what gets expressed.

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be sensitive to people's different ways of expressing themselves. 

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be sensitive to people's different ways of expressing themselves. 

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Owning intention and impact - slows down thinking

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Owning intention and impact - slows down thinking

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When challenging opinions of others, being brave is one of the many nuances that actually provide the appropriate setting for one's decision on whether to speak up or not.

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How to create space for people to share impact or what was triggered

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How to create space for people to share impact or what was triggered

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facilitator can be a mediator and offer 1:1 with them to help frame their responses in future if they are less vocal (but want to be more vocal)

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facilitator can be a mediator and offer 1:1 with them to help frame their responses in future if they are less vocal (but want to be more vocal)