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Neutral: Practice the pause and accept the moment. New gear: problem solve.

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When you say "You should..." it accomplishes nothing. Just because they "should" doesn't mean they ARE. How do we go from "should" to "are"? By teaching the skill.

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Accept what is, and move on to problem solve. Belittling anything for what 'is' doesn't fix things.

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Emotional development stopped at 2 yrs old. :) Good/bad. Acknowledge kids feelings as valid and okay, but then teach them what to do with them.

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We don't know how to respond to feelings that aren't 'great' or 'okay'

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You cannot regulate that in which you don't know or admit.

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Safe place: progressive use: I am triggered. I calm. I feel. I choose. I solve. THIS is how the safe place works- shouldn't just be a break spot.

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how did your parents react with you? Did they try to save you, dismiss you, ignore you?

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how did your parents react with you? Did they try to save you, dismiss you, ignore you?

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We respond how we were responded too growing up

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We respond how we were responded too growing up

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feelings are the bridge to solutions

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Feelings are the bridge between problems and solutions.

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Feelings are the bridge between problems and solutions.

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When reflecting with a child on reacting to their feelings, kids can tell us what they "should have done," when should we expect that they can apply this skill?

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When reflecting with a child on reacting to their feelings, kids can tell us what they "should have done," when should we expect that they can apply this skill?

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Done by the teacher, not by the student.  Keeps them in the executive state, rather than dropping back to emotional state

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Become the state you want them to be.

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empathy doesn't make the feeling go away

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I can imagine what students that know we want them out of the room must feel......dismissing their feelings, them all together.

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Keep your own power, don't give it away.

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"you never let me"

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I love my team

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kids are seeking an attachment if they are in high stress homes

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kids are seeking an attachment if they are in high stress homes

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Attachment system stays on all day. Looking for someone to relieve it.

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you can't give the same consequence for every behavior

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you can't give the same consequence for every behavior