# data[].attributes.headline
Post questions you might have related to the topic ; Soften your Heart - 'Avoid the CURSE of a hardened heart.' You can also share a situation you might be facing with yourself, a family member or a friend.

# data[].attributes.subject
Post questions you might have related to the topic ; Soften your Heart - 'Avoid the CURSE of a hardened heart.' You can also share a situation you might be facing with yourself, a family member or a friend.

# data[].attributes.body
All posts will be ANONYMOUS. Inshallah may this session be beneficial to all of us. - Waheedah@MothersQuest

# data[].attributes.headline
As a wife, how do I ask my husband to do good, without sounding as if I know it all and without making him feel that I am better than him. 

# data[].attributes.subject
As a wife, how do I ask my husband to do good, without sounding as if I know it all and without making him feel that I am better than him. 

# data[].attributes.body
Ustazah, what about the ayat from surah Taha to soften the heart? How to practise the ayat?

# data[].attributes.headline
How can we soften our hearts when sometimes we get stressed when dealing with our children? Our words, our facial expressions and be more kind to them? Sometimes its so hard when the rimauness takes over.

# data[].attributes.subject
How can we soften our hearts when sometimes we get stressed when dealing with our children? Our words, our facial expressions and be more kind to them? Sometimes its so hard when the rimauness takes over.

# data[].attributes.headline
Assalamualaikum Ustazah, how do I soften my siblings’ heart who despises me?

# data[].attributes.subject
Assalamualaikum Ustazah, how do I soften my siblings’ heart who despises me?

# data[].attributes.body
Does the mind & heart have to sync ... what if it’s doesnt? Which one should we follow... the heart or mind(brain)?

Is the mind more rational

# data[].attributes.body
Ustazah, i have been sick for more than a year now. Chest pain to be exact. I have seen alot of specialists. From cardiologist to gastrologist, urologist neurologist rheumatologist. Which in the end i ask to be discharged from all this. Because none of them detects anything wrong with my heart. But i keep feeling pain and discomfort. Change of habits and diet... does have some effect. I have anxiety also. This fear of dying. Some days i can't function. I would just sit n think that malaikat maut is coming for me. Always looking for signs like tanda2 100 harisebelum mati, always thinking that i can't last to see asar the next day. I double up on my ibadah and try to mend my relationship with ppl around me. Is this tanda2 100 days real or is it even in the hadith? I ask Allah SWT to make me understand his hikmah behind all this. What can i do other than zikir solah and doing good being a better Muslim to overcome this?

# data[].attributes.headline
Ustzh how can we soften the heart of our friends/family to practise islam eg. 5x prayer without being force. Or to soften heart of friends/family whom we ever hurt to forgive or let it go.. 

# data[].attributes.subject
Ustzh how can we soften the heart of our friends/family to practise islam eg. 5x prayer without being force. Or to soften heart of friends/family whom we ever hurt to forgive or let it go.. 

# data[].attributes.body
Dear Ustadzah, how do I persuade my Husband to imam our solat? How do I soften my heart to be a dutiful wife and not rude to him? Years gone by, the feeling of sayang suami is gone.

# data[].attributes.headline
How do we practice to see good in others, rather than focus on their flaws?

# data[].attributes.subject
How do we practice to see good in others, rather than focus on their flaws?

# data[].attributes.body
Assalamualaikum everyone. Ustazah,  any Alquran ayat for someone who have heart attack and suffering from hypertension all the time. Does the mental situation effect someone’s blood pressure, its all time high 185/130

# data[].attributes.headline
Ustazah, most of us are working to pay bills, loans and such, which made us harder to pray 5 times a day on time, etc. Is quitting job the only way? Then how do we settle our debts and responsibilities? 

# data[].attributes.subject
Ustazah, most of us are working to pay bills, loans and such, which made us harder to pray 5 times a day on time, etc. Is quitting job the only way? Then how do we settle our debts and responsibilities? 

# data[].attributes.headline
Salam ustzh...how do we put positive vibes into someone who is heartbroken many times and when we nasihat.. we sounded harsh n very direct thus the fren keep a distance. Have been trying to coax her to go ilmu classes but have no idea if that works. Her heart seems blocked and only listen what she wanna listen...

# data[].attributes.subject
Salam ustzh...how do we put positive vibes into someone who is heartbroken many times and when we nasihat.. we sounded harsh n very direct thus the fren keep a distance. Have been trying to coax her to go ilmu classes but have no idea if that works. Her heart seems blocked and only listen what she wanna listen...

# data[].attributes.body
I have a hard time controlling my negative emotions during PMS. How can I overcome this?