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The Hello Song by Carolyn Graham - Song with Lyrics in English and in French

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Play a flashcard hide and seek For younger children, hide flashcards of letters and numbers around the house. Have your child find the cards and tell you the letter or number they found. For older children, hide word or math fact flashcards and have them tell you the answer when they find them. 

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41 Family Rituals That Teach Responsibility, Kindness, and Compassion

THIS ARTICLE INCLUDES A FREE PRINTABLE

Every night at bath time, my three-year-old daughter chooses five bath toys, and we take turns tossing them into the tub. "CANNON BALL!" we shout.

Once all the toys are in the water, I turn to my daughter. "Hmm...something's missing. What is it?"

She grins, jumping up and down. "Me! Me! Me!" she chants, until I scoop her up and put her in the tub.

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It may sound silly, and it's certainly very simple, but this is one of our family rituals. This one-minute ritual brightens our moods, strengthens our bond, and even makes my daughter look forward to bath time each evening.

You probably have several family rituals of your own, perhaps without even realizing it. But if you don't have rituals yet, or if you'd like to create some new ones, read on for ideas and inspiration!

What Are Family Rituals?

It's sometimes difficult to distinguish between rituals and routines. According to psychologist Barbara H. Fiese , rituals symbolically communicate the idea that "this is who we are" as a group, providing continuity in meaning across generations.

Routines, on the other hand, are a way of communicating, "This is what needs to be done."

For example, giving your child a bath at 7:00, followed by bedtime at 7:30, is a routine. But if you incorporate personalized moments like a special kiss, handshake, or song, you can transform the routine into a meaningful ritual.

Why Are Family Rituals Important?

Rituals allow families to slow down and connect, and they're associated with all sorts of powerful benefits.

Fiese and her colleagues at Stanford conducted a of 50 years of research on family rituals, published in the American Psychological Association's (APA) Journal of Family Psychology .

According to the review, both and are associated with family routines and rituals provide stability adolescents' sense of personal identity, children's health, academic achievement, and marital satisfaction.

Maintaining these routines and rituals even during times of transition like divorce can lower levels of conflict and help children adjust to change, protecting them from the proposed risks of nontraditional families.

If you're interested in starting some family rituals (or adding to your current list), take a look at the 41 best ideas below.

Rituals That Teach Responsibility

Rituals can be a fun way to teach your child responsibility.

1. Assigned Tasks - For example, assign each family member a specific task when setting the table: one family member clears the table, another sets out napkins, one distributes silverware, and a fourth lights some candles.

You can do the same when preparing breakfast, lunch, or dinner, perhaps to the sounds of our "Love Yourself Mix" on Spotify.

The word " chore " has a negative connotation, but you can make chores a positive family ritual that teaches responsibility.

In many cases, kids don't mind helping out - it makes them feel special and capable! And family chores can teach your child that your family is a team that operates best when each member contributes.

2. Rotating Chores - For instance, have a rotating chore chart on a whiteboard that changes each Sunday. Or you could write a variety of chores on Popsicle sticks, then have each family member draw a stick or two to determine their chores for the week.

4. Collaborative Projects - Finding projects that the entire family can collaborate on is also a lot of fun, whether you're shelling peas, doing one of the activities from our Growth Mindset Activity Kit, painting a wall, or constructing a crib for an upcoming addition.

These rituals show your children that hard work can be fun, and they'll learn about responsibility from a young age.

Rituals That Promote Kindness and Compassion

Rituals like the loving kindness meditation and volunteering as a family can teach your child the importance of kindness and compassion.

5. Loving Kindness Meditation - It involves thinking of loved ones and sending them positive thoughts or "good-hearted wishes." You can eventually expand the positive thoughts to more neutral people in your life as well.

The four traditional phrases are, "May you feel safe. May you feel happy. May you feel healthy. May you live with ease." But the exact well-wishes your family uses aren't important; it's about generating feelings of kindness and warmth.

Research shows that the loving kindness meditation results in increased mindfulness , purpose in life, and positive social behaviors, like generosity.

This meditation is included in the Big Life Journal and is part of our 7-Day Positivity Challenge.

Find a place you'd like to volunteer as a family, such as a nursing home, an animal shelter, or a soup kitchen.

Alternatively, have your children help with projects like donating food, clothing items, school supplies, or toys.

When you volunteer as a family, you set a great example for your children and teach them to demonstrate compassion and kindness.

Rituals That Boost Positivity

Try the suggestions below to help your family , reflect, and ultimately boost positivity .

Kelly Holmes , author of Happy You, Happy Family , found an after-school/after-work ritual that helps her family slow down and spend genuine quality time each day. Every day when her family arrives home, they pile into bed together and cuddle for five minutes.

They call it "family cuddle time" or "cozy up in bed time." They spend the five minutes cuddling, talking, and laughing together as a family.

As a result, their evenings are happier and less stressful. Family members laugh more, help more, and argue less.

Sometimes, talking to your kids about their day isn't easy. They may be hesitant to share or dismissive of your questions. Use the following tips to make the most out of this ritual:

Make sure you're not using "yes" or "no" questions. Instead, ask questions that begin with "how" or "why."

Make the questions fun! It shouldn't feel like a test, and your child shouldn't feel put on the spot.

Listen to your kids instead of guiding them to give any particular answer. If your child responds with, "I don't know," explain that there's no right or wrong answer to your question.

Family sharing rituals can also be more specific, like having everyone say one thing they're grateful for at Sunday dinner, or sharing one success and one challenge each day.

High, Low, and Buffalo " suggested by Audrey Monke, summer camp director and mother of five. Each member of the family shares the high point of their day, the low point of their day, and a buffalo (anything else they would like to share).

Open communication, laughter, and understanding will promote positivity that brings your family closer.

Rituals That Build Strong Family Connection

Bedtime and dinnertime rituals are among the best ways to foster connection with your family members.

Bedtime rituals give you a chance to connect with your children and help them relax before they go to sleep. You may want to try some of the ideas below, or a combination.

- As with songs, you may have a few favorites that you use each night, or you can allow your child to choose nightly. Pull a few selections from our list of Top 85 Growth Mindset Books for Kids (part of the Growth Mindset Printables Kit)! And to foster their creative skills, ask your children to choose three objects or characters, then ask them to tell you a story based on their selections.

Dinnertime rituals are very powerful. Shared family dinners are associated with academic achievement, improved moods, and lower rates of depression and . They've also been shown to decrease the likelihood of high-risk teenage behaviors like drinking, drugs, violence, and sexual activity.

15. Sharing Time - Take turns going around the table and share about your day each evening.
Have each family member contribute something to dinner preparation, making meal prep a shared endeavor.
17. Take Turns - Take turns choosing favorite meals based on a schedule, random drawings, or specific achievements.
18. - Have weekly "theme" dinners, like Taco Tuesday, Pizza Fridays, Sunday Sundaes, etc. These are even more fun if you incorporate a toppings bar and let each family member personalize their tacos, pizza, or sundae.
- Sample dinners from different cultures each month or try (and rate) different cheeses as appetizers. Maybe you even have a special family blessing you say each night or a dessert you make when someone in the family reaches a major goal or achieves something awesome.

It doesn't matter how complicated or simple your rituals are - the point is that they make dinner a memorable and meaningful time for your family to connect.

Rituals That Develop a Sense of Belonging

The best rituals also give children a sense of belonging and acceptance. This can be accomplished with something as simple as a special greeting or farewell.

20. Special Greetings/Farewells - For instance, say, "See you later, alligator!" while your child responds, "After a while, crocodile!" Alternatively, you say goodbye to your child with a "kissing hand," as in the popular children's story A Kissing Hand for Chester Raccoon .

Have a personalized handshake with each of your children, making them feel unique and special.

Even these brief rituals demonstrate that your child is a cherished part of something special: your family.

Holiday rituals and unique family events also send the message that your family is a unit and that your child is an accepted and important member of this unit.

If your family celebrates Christmas, try the following:

25. - Each year you can make ornaments with your children, or you buy a special ornament symbolizing something that happened that year.

- You can leave cookies out for Santa celery and carrots for the reindeer too.

If you celebrate Hanukkah, consider the following ideas:

30. Act - Act out stories like the story of the Maccabees, complete with fake swords.

New Years is a great time for reflection on the year, and these rituals can help you take a look back:

- Keep a "Gratitude Jar" throughout the year. Any time you're especially grateful for something, write it on a slip of paper and put it in the jar. You can then review the slips of paper at the end of the year, creating a warm and positive transition into the new year. Even better, make it an annual tradition to complete our 7-Day Gratitude Challenge, which includes the Gratitude Jar, a Gratitude List, a Thank-You Letter, and much more.

Birthday Songs - A birthday ritual can be as simple as a special birthday song that you sing.

Unique family events, like the following, promote a sense of belonging as well.

37. Weekly/Monthly Theme Nights - You might want to try introducing a theme night that your family does weekly or monthly, like Board Game Nights or Movie Nights. For movie nights, check out our list of 75 growth mindset movies for kids part of our Growth Mindset Printables Kit.

Set up specific rituals related to these nights. For instance, a different family member chooses the game or movie each time. Perhaps Movie Night is always accompanied by popcorn, and Board Game Night typically means pizza. Maybe the whole family wears pajamas and drinks hot chocolate.

38. Sunday Morning Pancake Breakfasts - If every Sunday seems like too much, have a special pancake breakfast the first Sunday of every month.

39. Monthly Nature Walks - Use our Brain-Building Nature Crafts printable to make your nature walks even more fun.

41. Living Room "Camp-Outs" - "Camp out" in the living room monthly or every so often. You can build a tent, make microwave s'mores , tell stories, use flashlights to create shadow puppets, and so on.

Remember that creating a real ritual means sticking with it. So think of something that every family member would enjoy - and that won't be much of a hassle to consistently carry out.

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41 Family Rituals That Teach Responsibility, Kindness, and Compassion

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Rituals allow families to slow down and connect, and they're associated with all sorts of powerful benefits. You probably have several family rituals of your own, perhaps without even realizing it. But if you don't have rituals yet, or if you'd like to create some new ones, read on for ideas and inspiration!

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41 Family Rituals That Teach Responsibility, Kindness, and Compassion

THIS ARTICLE INCLUDES A FREE PRINTABLE

Every night at bath time, my three-year-old daughter chooses five bath toys, and we take turns tossing them into the tub. "CANNON BALL!" we shout.

Once all the toys are in the water, I turn to my daughter. "Hmm...something's missing. What is it?"

She grins, jumping up and down. "Me! Me! Me!" she chants, until I scoop her up and put her in the tub.

Before you move on, be sure to sign up for our FREE weekly printables carefully crafted to teach your kids growth mindset, resilience, and much more. Sign up below to make sure you're on the list!

Once signed up, you will immediately receive our popular Parent's Guide to a Growth Mindset.

It may sound silly, and it's certainly very simple, but this is one of our family rituals. This one-minute ritual brightens our moods, strengthens our bond, and even makes my daughter look forward to bath time each evening.

You probably have several family rituals of your own, perhaps without even realizing it. But if you don't have rituals yet, or if you'd like to create some new ones, read on for ideas and inspiration!

What Are Family Rituals?

It's sometimes difficult to distinguish between rituals and routines. According to psychologist Barbara H. Fiese , rituals symbolically communicate the idea that "this is who we are" as a group, providing continuity in meaning across generations.

Routines, on the other hand, are a way of communicating, "This is what needs to be done."

For example, giving your child a bath at 7:00, followed by bedtime at 7:30, is a routine. But if you incorporate personalized moments like a special kiss, handshake, or song, you can transform the routine into a meaningful ritual.

Why Are Family Rituals Important?

Rituals allow families to slow down and connect, and they're associated with all sorts of powerful benefits.

Fiese and her colleagues at Stanford conducted a of 50 years of research on family rituals, published in the American Psychological Association's (APA) Journal of Family Psychology .

According to the review, both and are associated with family routines and rituals provide stability adolescents' sense of personal identity, children's health, academic achievement, and marital satisfaction.

Maintaining these routines and rituals even during times of transition like divorce can lower levels of conflict and help children adjust to change, protecting them from the proposed risks of nontraditional families.

If you're interested in starting some family rituals (or adding to your current list), take a look at the 41 best ideas below.

Rituals That Teach Responsibility

Rituals can be a fun way to teach your child responsibility.

1. Assigned Tasks - For example, assign each family member a specific task when setting the table: one family member clears the table, another sets out napkins, one distributes silverware, and a fourth lights some candles.

You can do the same when preparing breakfast, lunch, or dinner, perhaps to the sounds of our "Love Yourself Mix" on Spotify.

The word " chore " has a negative connotation, but you can make chores a positive family ritual that teaches responsibility.

In many cases, kids don't mind helping out - it makes them feel special and capable! And family chores can teach your child that your family is a team that operates best when each member contributes.

2. Rotating Chores - For instance, have a rotating chore chart on a whiteboard that changes each Sunday. Or you could write a variety of chores on Popsicle sticks, then have each family member draw a stick or two to determine their chores for the week.

4. Collaborative Projects - Finding projects that the entire family can collaborate on is also a lot of fun, whether you're shelling peas, doing one of the activities from our Growth Mindset Activity Kit, painting a wall, or constructing a crib for an upcoming addition.

These rituals show your children that hard work can be fun, and they'll learn about responsibility from a young age.

Rituals That Promote Kindness and Compassion

Rituals like the loving kindness meditation and volunteering as a family can teach your child the importance of kindness and compassion.

5. Loving Kindness Meditation - It involves thinking of loved ones and sending them positive thoughts or "good-hearted wishes." You can eventually expand the positive thoughts to more neutral people in your life as well.

The four traditional phrases are, "May you feel safe. May you feel happy. May you feel healthy. May you live with ease." But the exact well-wishes your family uses aren't important; it's about generating feelings of kindness and warmth.

Research shows that the loving kindness meditation results in increased mindfulness , purpose in life, and positive social behaviors, like generosity.

This meditation is included in the Big Life Journal and is part of our 7-Day Positivity Challenge.

Find a place you'd like to volunteer as a family, such as a nursing home, an animal shelter, or a soup kitchen.

Alternatively, have your children help with projects like donating food, clothing items, school supplies, or toys.

When you volunteer as a family, you set a great example for your children and teach them to demonstrate compassion and kindness.

Rituals That Boost Positivity

Try the suggestions below to help your family , reflect, and ultimately boost positivity .

Kelly Holmes , author of Happy You, Happy Family , found an after-school/after-work ritual that helps her family slow down and spend genuine quality time each day. Every day when her family arrives home, they pile into bed together and cuddle for five minutes.

They call it "family cuddle time" or "cozy up in bed time." They spend the five minutes cuddling, talking, and laughing together as a family.

As a result, their evenings are happier and less stressful. Family members laugh more, help more, and argue less.

Sometimes, talking to your kids about their day isn't easy. They may be hesitant to share or dismissive of your questions. Use the following tips to make the most out of this ritual:

Make sure you're not using "yes" or "no" questions. Instead, ask questions that begin with "how" or "why."

Make the questions fun! It shouldn't feel like a test, and your child shouldn't feel put on the spot.

Listen to your kids instead of guiding them to give any particular answer. If your child responds with, "I don't know," explain that there's no right or wrong answer to your question.

Family sharing rituals can also be more specific, like having everyone say one thing they're grateful for at Sunday dinner, or sharing one success and one challenge each day.

High, Low, and Buffalo " suggested by Audrey Monke, summer camp director and mother of five. Each member of the family shares the high point of their day, the low point of their day, and a buffalo (anything else they would like to share).

Open communication, laughter, and understanding will promote positivity that brings your family closer.

Rituals That Build Strong Family Connection

Bedtime and dinnertime rituals are among the best ways to foster connection with your family members.

Bedtime rituals give you a chance to connect with your children and help them relax before they go to sleep. You may want to try some of the ideas below, or a combination.

- As with songs, you may have a few favorites that you use each night, or you can allow your child to choose nightly. Pull a few selections from our list of Top 85 Growth Mindset Books for Kids (part of the Growth Mindset Printables Kit)! And to foster their creative skills, ask your children to choose three objects or characters, then ask them to tell you a story based on their selections.

Dinnertime rituals are very powerful. Shared family dinners are associated with academic achievement, improved moods, and lower rates of depression and . They've also been shown to decrease the likelihood of high-risk teenage behaviors like drinking, drugs, violence, and sexual activity.

15. Sharing Time - Take turns going around the table and share about your day each evening.
Have each family member contribute something to dinner preparation, making meal prep a shared endeavor.
17. Take Turns - Take turns choosing favorite meals based on a schedule, random drawings, or specific achievements.
18. - Have weekly "theme" dinners, like Taco Tuesday, Pizza Fridays, Sunday Sundaes, etc. These are even more fun if you incorporate a toppings bar and let each family member personalize their tacos, pizza, or sundae.
- Sample dinners from different cultures each month or try (and rate) different cheeses as appetizers. Maybe you even have a special family blessing you say each night or a dessert you make when someone in the family reaches a major goal or achieves something awesome.

It doesn't matter how complicated or simple your rituals are - the point is that they make dinner a memorable and meaningful time for your family to connect.

Rituals That Develop a Sense of Belonging

The best rituals also give children a sense of belonging and acceptance. This can be accomplished with something as simple as a special greeting or farewell.

20. Special Greetings/Farewells - For instance, say, "See you later, alligator!" while your child responds, "After a while, crocodile!" Alternatively, you say goodbye to your child with a "kissing hand," as in the popular children's story A Kissing Hand for Chester Raccoon .

Have a personalized handshake with each of your children, making them feel unique and special.

Even these brief rituals demonstrate that your child is a cherished part of something special: your family.

Holiday rituals and unique family events also send the message that your family is a unit and that your child is an accepted and important member of this unit.

If your family celebrates Christmas, try the following:

25. - Each year you can make ornaments with your children, or you buy a special ornament symbolizing something that happened that year.

- You can leave cookies out for Santa celery and carrots for the reindeer too.

If you celebrate Hanukkah, consider the following ideas:

30. Act - Act out stories like the story of the Maccabees, complete with fake swords.

New Years is a great time for reflection on the year, and these rituals can help you take a look back:

- Keep a "Gratitude Jar" throughout the year. Any time you're especially grateful for something, write it on a slip of paper and put it in the jar. You can then review the slips of paper at the end of the year, creating a warm and positive transition into the new year. Even better, make it an annual tradition to complete our 7-Day Gratitude Challenge, which includes the Gratitude Jar, a Gratitude List, a Thank-You Letter, and much more.

Birthday Songs - A birthday ritual can be as simple as a special birthday song that you sing.

Unique family events, like the following, promote a sense of belonging as well.

37. Weekly/Monthly Theme Nights - You might want to try introducing a theme night that your family does weekly or monthly, like Board Game Nights or Movie Nights. For movie nights, check out our list of 75 growth mindset movies for kids part of our Growth Mindset Printables Kit.

Set up specific rituals related to these nights. For instance, a different family member chooses the game or movie each time. Perhaps Movie Night is always accompanied by popcorn, and Board Game Night typically means pizza. Maybe the whole family wears pajamas and drinks hot chocolate.

38. Sunday Morning Pancake Breakfasts - If every Sunday seems like too much, have a special pancake breakfast the first Sunday of every month.

39. Monthly Nature Walks - Use our Brain-Building Nature Crafts printable to make your nature walks even more fun.

41. Living Room "Camp-Outs" - "Camp out" in the living room monthly or every so often. You can build a tent, make microwave s'mores , tell stories, use flashlights to create shadow puppets, and so on.

Remember that creating a real ritual means sticking with it. So think of something that every family member would enjoy - and that won't be much of a hassle to consistently carry out.

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Rituals allow families to slow down and connect, and they're associated with all sorts of powerful benefits. You probably have several family rituals of your own, perhaps without even realizing it. But if you don't have rituals yet, or if you'd like to create some new ones, read on for ideas and inspiration!

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Play hopscotch in a hallway Use any paper you have on hand (or cardboard) to cut out shapes. Use doublesided tape to place the shapes on the floor to begin your game of hopscotch. 

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Play hopscotch in a hallway Use any paper you have on hand (or cardboard) to cut out shapes. Use doublesided tape to place the shapes on the floor to begin your game of hopscotch. 

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Play hopscotch in a hallway Use any paper you have on hand (or cardboard) to cut out shapes. Use doublesided tape to place the shapes on the floor to begin your game of hopscotch. 

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Play hopscotch in a hallway Use any paper you have on hand (or cardboard) to cut out shapes. Use doublesided tape to place the shapes on the floor to begin your game of hopscotch. 