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This article that this picture is from goes on and on about how women are weaker than men and that they have no business being on the same court, field, gym, stage, pool, school, state, country or planet. If we could all go somewhere else I'm sure that we would but we cant so you men are stuck with us. As a woman who was a tomboy and may even still be one, and who played with what seemed like only boys, I can tell you that I was able to keep up. Inspirational stories about girls making it in Little League Baseball, or on their high school football team, are important to little girls out there that are being pushed away from sports because of their gender. Tomboyism is the idea that being a tomboy is just a phase, and once she matures, she will grow out of these little masculine, rebellious ways she has gotten into. I wouldn't count on that.

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The male gaze of this comic book cover is astounding. However this was my end goal for a long time when it came to my identity. I wanted to be just feminine enough to be admired by both men and women, but also strong enough to beat the crap out of anyone that I needed to. This wanting to stay in good standing with the male gaze was the last part of my past self that I needed to let go of. Fitting into this male gaze was simply a way for me to get male validation, rather than really thinking about how I wanted to look or act. This want for male validation is something that drives movies, literature, music and people due to the one and only...daddy issues (not really but in my case maybe).

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[SIGNED] SHE-HULK 2 UNKNOWN COMICS DAVID NAKAYAMA EXCLUSIVE VAR (11/30

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SHE-HULK 2MARVEL PRH(W) Rainbow Rowell (A) Roge Antonio One of the most dangerous things in the Marvel U lands in Jen Walters' lap, and she's got to figure out what the heck to do with it. And that's all while putting her life and career back together.

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A question that straight people love to ask. Looking for a specific definition so that we can go in a sealed box never to leave again. From the closet to the cardboard. How about I answer happy? In love? A decent person? These aren't the answers they are looking for. Gay Lesbian Bisexual; they want something specific to pin to your shirt just so everyone knows when you walk in a room. This is a question I have never been able to answer. I am someone who is happy being in a relationship with someone. This is my girlfriend and I in the picture. Me as the blonde and more masc and her as the femme Hawaiian goddess.

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Most of the stereotypes that fall on women loving women are cringy... but yes I am committing most of them... and yes this is my cat Rio. These stereotypes, however funny and humorous, can be dangerous to some. Everyone has their own path and identity and to place any type of stereotype upon them is to impede on their search to find themselves. There are also stereotypes that I go against, such as girls not typically playing video games, or women being more artistic then sporty. These stereotypes are just ways to put tape over the boxes that they place us in when we come out. Like a warning label that reads, "CAUTION, WANNABE MEN INSIDE".

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What Would I Get Out of Marriage Anyways? 

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What Would I Get Out of Marriage Anyways? 

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The idea of getting married was never something that wavered through my growing up or coming out. The only thing that changed was that person being a man or a woman. The fight for same-sex marriage was one that I watched of course, my right to marry someone hanging in the balance, but until this class I had not thought about the cons of assimilating into this heteronormative ceremony of love. I mean its safe to say that I didn't want a preacher at my wedding but I still wanted the type of ceremony that heterosexual couples get to enjoy. One of my straight friends asked me about my future wedding the other day and I had to remind them that queer people were only very recently given the right to marry at all. This was shocking to them like they had never had to think of marriage as something that could possibly be ILLEGAL. But I also had to ask myself why do I want to get married as a queer person? Is it to fit in more? Is it really to have that joint bank account, family health insurance, and tax benefits? It is something that I still ask myself and think about today, the why behind the want.