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Description of Conflict: 2 friends get into a fight over rivaling football teams

Roles:
Asa: Mutual Friend
Manuel: Friend 1
Francisco: Friend 2
Madina: Host

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Roles:
host: Rafael
outside party: Daniel
conflict person 1: Mark
conflict person 2: Lori

description of problem:
conflict person 2 has made a new friend who of course is not conflict person 1 and so they have started hanging out less up to the point conflict person 2 did not show up to a scheduled event with conflict person 1 as they were with there new friend and so they (conflict person 1) felt betrayed. and the outside party is conflict person 2's brother.

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Scenario:
Two sisters were fighting over a dress, and only one walked away with it. The other one was angry and spread a rumor saying that the other was a follower and had no personality of their own. When the other found this out, they went to beat the other one up and had a physical altercation. They go on a show to try and reconcile and they apologize to each other at the same time and explain their sides of the story.

Roles:
- Eli- Younger sister
- Nuno- Host
-Jose - Brother who separates fight
- Panashe- innocent bystander who gets hit
- Noa - Older sister

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Roles:
Maria: Host
Kasim: sibling  1
Ady: sibling 2
Nayara: mother

Conflict:
A conflict between two siblings, sibling 1 (kasim) steals all the money the mother (Nayara) saved up for their college education. Kasim takes it all, drops out of high school and uses it all on different things. Years later, they meet on the show and now it is known that Ady (sibling 2) had to raise all the money himself to pay for his college education.

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Ways to know someone is your friend :

When they  stick around during the good and bad times.

When they tell you the truth, even when you don’t like it.

When they encourage you to achieve your goals.

When they accept you for who you are.

When they make the time to interact with you.

When they make sure you’re heard and respected.

Ways to know someone isn't your friend :

They never want to hang out with you

They only reach out when it’s convenient

They never share anything with you

They only talk about themselves

They constantly dish out your secrets in front of other people

They judge you

Ways to maintain a relationship with those who no longer study at the same school
keep up the communication
make time for each other
be understanding
establish clear boundaries and expectations
keep the conversations interesting
Things that contribute to damaging or ending relationships
lack of time spent together
personality differences
Lack of communication
lack of positive interactions
being selfish
stonewalling and defensiveness
Being a Liverpool supporter/not sharing the same interests.
Possessiveness

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1.1. They support and respect you.
2. You enjoy their company/ able to make jokes around them/ have inside jokes.
3. Being able to talk freely and trust that with them.
4. Spend a lot of time with them.
5. Share some of the same interests.

2.1 You resent each other.
2.2 When you do not know anything about each other.
2.3 Don't spend time outside of the necessary with them.
2.4 You have awkward conversations.
2.5 Don't care that much about each other.

3.1 By calling or texting and asking how they are and having a conversation.
3.2 Put them on your live and asking questions on their lives.
3.3 Interact with each other's stories.

4.1. Stop talking to each other.
4.2 Betraying trust/being rude.
4.3 Disregarding what they have to say/feel.

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Task 1:
They will check in on you
They will support you
They usually have the same habits as you
They make time for you
They like to hang out with you

Task 2:
They are not there for you when you need them
They constantly judge your actions
They hold grudges over your head
They will only talk to you when they need something from you(for their own benifit)
They are not happy for your success

Task3:
Stay in contact with your friends.
Follow each other on social media
Do online activities with them such as playing videogames, etc.

Task 4
Be disrepectful towards them
Constanly judge their actions to bring them down
Do things they repeatledly ask you not to iin order to make them uncomfortable.

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Maria, Kasim, Lori and Madina
1.
- Both put in some level of effort to talk to each other either in person or over the phone
- Not one sided.
- They have good intentions
- You can ask someone if they're your friend
- They have your best interests in mind

2.
- Rude to you
- Make you feel bad about yourself
- Don't show respect for your boundaries
- Only put in effort to talk to you when they need something from you
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3.
- Keep in contact with them through Social media
- Call them
- Check in with each other
4.
- Don't respect boundaries, thoughts and opinions
- Be manipulative
- Don't communicate

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I think this applies to what we have been learning because boundaries are essential in every relationship in order for both parties to be comfortable

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The pandemic has emotionally and mentally impacted a variety of individuals and caused us to develop boundaries. People are afraid to set boundaries, because they think it risks the relationship but boundaries create a context for the preservation of love and peace. Boundaries create an organised structure that people can go, ‘I can live with this. I can tolerate this. I can feel peaceful and still love people.’

Be a conduit, not a lifeline.

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sometimes boundaries don't just have to be just for people it can be for yourself as well. For example the time spent on your phone is a boundary that can be set.
- During the pandemic setting boundaries and time to take care of my well being and mental health was very important because with work you kind of lose track of those things.
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What we have learnt still applies to our current situations as it is still important to actively notice what occurs during interactions with different people. While online the boundaries may have changed slightly as people are not meeting in person. This means that new boundaries need to be set in order to communicate effectively and comfortable in an online setting.

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- This applies to what we have been learning now because we are learning about relationships, and knowing how to set and respect boundaries is important
- Well, because of the pandemic, physically, our boundaries have changed, but I think emotionally, we still look for and avoid the same things. Also, mentally, this has been a hard time for everyone, so possibly people are more sensitive and vulnerable, but fundamentally, I don't think much has changed in terms of emotional boundaries

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What we have learnt has applied to the current situation because it has thought us about boundaries, especially during this time.

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 -Asa                             Healthy relationships is what we have been learning about and we just watched a video about toxic relationships which is not a part of healthy relationships.    

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 -Asa                             Healthy relationships is what we have been learning about and we just watched a video about toxic relationships which is not a part of healthy relationships.    

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Some boundaries have not been changed but added due to new circumstances.

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I think the pandemic provided the need for more bold boundaries to be created.

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- I think that the pandemic has stopped most of what we have been discussing to having a direct effect upon us because it is much easier to set up boundaries because we are mostly online. Now that we are back to school though it will be more applicable it could also apply to life at home.
- I think that some boundaries have been created due to the online situation because it has made it much harder for some people to connect, which could've set up some boundaries, even involuntarily.

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This applies to our current situation as we as a school and classroom are consistently interacting with each other and dealing with different kind of people. That have different boundaries. Our boundaries have somewhat changed while online because people might have decided to interact with other differently given the different context/situation we are in. Yes boundaries are created all the time.

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I think that during the pandemic boundaries have not changed but rather new ones adapted to the new conditions have been place.

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What we have learnt so far applies to our situation as it directly relates to how we interact with the people in our lives. It also has us understand what we and other people our age look for in relationships so we can set boundaries and make certain changes accordingly. Boundaries have changed while we were online as we have different limits and in this context, we only have so much we can do while being far away from each other and that has effects on our mental health, which affects our limits/boundaries. Some boundaries like not getting closer than one meter to each other and not sharing things with one another have been created.

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In my opinion the pandemic changed me a lot mostly mentally and it made me develop many new boundaries for myself.

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I think that throughout the pandemic peoples boundaries have changed a lot. I think this because during this time people have learnt a lot about disease transmission between people and because of that people have adapted their physical boundaries to ensure that they are safe. In terms of mental boundaries, I don't think that much has changed even during the online period of learning.

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I believe that the current pandemic has changed and created many boundaries for many people for example, for me, I set boundaries with how much time I spend online talking with friends for my own wellbeing, even though I highly enjoy spending time with them, I would be tired and it would affect my energy levels throughout the day.

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1. To support each other, to provide love and affection.
2. Support, uplift, commitment, have fun
3. Similarities:
- Support

Differences:
- Form of affection
- Emotional commitment
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Commonalities:
Mutual Respecting
Communicating
Supporting
Being honest
Trusting
Sharing interests
Loyalty

Differences:
Intimacy
Displays of Affection
Time spent with the other

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In a romantic relationships a role is to comfort and take good care of your partner. It is also about loving and caring for that one person. There has to be trust as well in the relationship, in between the two members of the relationships. In a romantic relationship, it is no longer about being one, but two (us not me). Lastly, in a romantic relationship there is also more physical intimacy.

In a platonic relationship, your role is to be present, socialize with your friends, and do things together and have fun.

A similarity in both platonic and romantic relationships is that they must hold  mutual respect and trust. It is also about being there for each other and supporting each other.

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- Mutual respect
- Honesty
- Trust
- Support
- Commitment

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1. Mutual Respect
2, Trust/Loyalty
3. Forgiveness (most of the time)
4. Affection
5. Honesty

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- Trust
- Respect
- Love
- Sincere
- Loyalty

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Honesty
support
open about topics
humor
encouragement

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-Honesty
-Respect
- Appreciation
-Trust
-Fairness (not a one way street)
-Love
-Loyalty
-Companionship
-Commitment

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good conversations
Similar interest
funny
honest
interesting to be with

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1. Good conversation
2. Support
3. Tolerance
4. Mutual respect
5. Forgiveness

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- Respect
- Communication
- Honesty
- Support
- Reliability

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1. Support
2. Respect
3. Understanding
4. Honesty
5. Loyalty

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1. Love
2. Caring
3. Admiration
4. Respect
5. Communication

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1. Communication (there are different ways to communicate, not just verbally)
2. Kindness
3. Respect
4.Support
5. Honesty

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- Help you when you need it.
- Do activities with you (drawing, games, etc).
- You can depend/count on them.
- They are there when you need them (emotional support).
- They expect you to also do all these things for them (help them, do activities with them, etc).

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Relationships are connections that we have to friends, family, teachers and other people in ones life. Relationships are central to human nature and are essential to developing a sense of belonging and a part of a larger something. Relationships come in all forms and can be defined as a connection to something or someone.

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- be respectful
- listen to other peoples perspectives
- assume positive intent
- share opinions and add to discussions

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- There are many types of relationships they can range from platonic to intimate. They are important to have because they can help you build trust and have someone to talk to.
- A relationship is a connection between two people and it can be both positive and negative.
-  It looks like sharing and interactions. The type of interaction depends on the relationship.
- Friendship, enemies, family, intimate, colleagues, one-sided, abusive

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- This is important discuss because  the relationships we have with other affects our wellbeing, as well as other's wellbeing's. And since we are at very impressionable ages, discussing this topic right now will help us in the future
- Types of relationships: Friendships, romantic relationships, family relationships, parental relationships, toxic/healthy relationships, etc.

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1. Be respectful/mature
2. Try to add on/engage to people's points.
3. Make sure to do your part in making everyone comfortable.
4. Be kind.

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Lori, Maria and Kasim
1. Respect other's opinions and points of view.

2. Be aware of boundaries and have caution when approaching certain topics.

3. Be open-minded