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White people seem to be the norm and most respected 

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White people seem to be the norm and most respected 

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In my house my mom is expected to serve my dad first when we eat dinner or if we're at a party he wont eat until she serves him. If she doesnt it a huge problem.

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Getting mad at Scott Johnson for suing so many places in San Jose for not having accessible ramps for wheelchairs. I still think he's taking advantage of family-owned businesses.

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When folks with thick accents are spoken to in dehumanizing ways... people speaking in a louder tone, as if they can't hear.

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When my brother asked my dad if he can waxed his legs ( in a joke). My dad completely refused to him and said “that’s not what we do in our culture”

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In today’s society we have techniques/ technology to get our skin lighter.

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In middle school, I asked my grandpa to pick me up far, far away from the pickup spot. He was always covered in oil in his mechanic uniform, driving someone's janky car he was fixing at any moment. I remember he looked at me and said, "You're embarrassed of me?" [waaaah, I miss you grandpa!]

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When I was asked why I wasn't as light as my sisters (like there was something wrong with me).

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There have been people in high school who have been made fun of by others if they are seen aa more poor than others

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All the times I noticed men hurting women in my family, even through snide remarks.

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Having a different skin color people would treat them that  they don’t belong to the same social group. 

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Having a different skin color people would treat them that  they don’t belong to the same social group. 

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My friend In highschool using skin Lightening soap because she didnt like being "dark"

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When I noticed the one black child on the playground not being included in the game. It felt so off.

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When aunties would tell us how wonderful it would be to marry white men.

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when my dad did not let my brother paint my nails because its "not what boys do"

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Every time I get on the scale and "hate" the number I see. :(

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When my stepdad refused to attend a family party of my cousin had her gender-reassignment operation.

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When I was In elementary School and a boy was bullying me my mom said it was because he likes me.

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When I traveled to Vietnam for the first time with my family, my siblings and I compared the customs there with what we were used to in America. We made comments like, "America is so clean, we actually have toilets and toilet-seat covers." This was when we were taking a restroom break during a road trip and the bathrooms did not have actual toilets, but holes in the ground instead. I am sure we offended our cousins with our implications that it's "dirty" over there. They found this completely normal in Vietnam. I know better than to do that today.

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When me and my siblings used to joke around saying my mom is being tech-illiterate.

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When me and my siblings used to joke around saying my mom is being tech-illiterate.

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Older folks were teased for joining the military "late." When I was 17, folks were teased if they were joining in their 30s.

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Glossary of Terms: Manifestations of Social Toxicity.docx