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The default answer when initiating physical/intimate contact is no. Consent has to be given and it can be taken back at any moment. The only one that can choose what happens to your body is you.

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The default should always be NO, when talking about consent. There always needs to be a direct approval of the actions taking place, no matter what YOU may THINK is implied. The DEFAULT is NO.

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6 de junio  1500  Rancho San Dias Para niños de entre 5 y 10 años.

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When someone says no to something you STOP, you don't keep pushing until finally they cave, sex without consent is rape, and there is no justification for this, for example, someones clothing doesn't mean they want you to touch them or interact with them at all, and we have to stop making excuses for people that won't take no for an answer such as "Boys will be boys" or saying "Well what did you do to provoke them?" consent is always key.

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"when you're feeling blue" is a song that describes a toxic relationship in which a partner abuses their power and manipulates their significant other.

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when you’re feeling blue

VERSE 1

i cannot seem to breathe,

when you are sinking me your teeth,

mishandle my complexion,

take advantage of my affection,

i cannot seem to yell,

the fight i got to dwell,

i’m brain dead when you call my name,

misuse my words to win the game,

PRE-CHORUS 1

and you felt my suffering

held back my recovery,

when in strain it'd be easier,

to exploit your mighty power,

and your conscious is in pain,

you deplore what you once gained,

you have no one else to blame,

once they hit you with your name,

CHORUS 1

so you say,

can’t we do this once,

i promise you’ll be glad

you won’t be feeling bad,

can’t we do this once,

i don’t care bout your permission,

only care bout my ambition,

if you feel lousy,

you know i can help with that,

cause "that’s what boyfriends do",

when "you’re feeling blue"…

VERSE 2

placed the ring in the left finger,

but i won’t permit the need to linger…

abuse of greatness is when it,

disjoins remorse from power within,

PRE-CHORUS 2

and you felt my suffering

held back my recovery,

when in strain it'd be easier,

to exploit your mighty power,

and your conscious is in pain,

you deplore what you once gained,

you have no one else to blame,

once they hit you with your name,

CHORUS 2

so you say,

can’t we do this once,

i promise you’ll be glad

you won’t be feeling bad,

can’t we do this once,

i don’t care bout your permission,

only care bout my ambition,

if you feel lousy,

you know i can help with that,

cause "that’s what boyfriends do",

when "you’re feeling blue"…

BRIDGE

and i restrained myself from feeling pain….

i inhaled your love just like cocaine,

but that just messed with my brain,

now i feel like i can’t complain…

and you say…

can’t we do this once,

i don’t care bout your permission,

only care bout my ambition,

if you feel lousy,

you know i can help with that,

cause "that’s what boyfriends do",

when "you’re feeling blue"…

CHORUS 3

so you say,

can’t we do this once,

i promise you’ll be glad

you won’t be feeling bad,

can’t we do this once,

i don’t care bout your permission,

only care bout my ambition,

if you feel lousy,

you know i can help with that,

cause "that’s what boyfriends do",

when "you’re feeling blue"…

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Consent is the most valuable thing a human can hold onto.

NO ONE is able to touch you, no matter how much they beg, NO means NO, and if they can't respect that they are certainly not the kind of person you want to surround yourself with.

That's why it's important for people to understand boundaries, and how valuable they are to everyone in the world.

We need to teach children from a very young age how treasured consent is, in order to avoid any conflict in the near future.

We need to incorporate these values onto them, to further approach a solution to this topic.

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By practicing consent in everyday situations, regarding of gender, you show that you value the choices of others. It's important to ask for consent before hugging, tickling, other kinds of touch or just in general. Ask sincerely so others understand it's okay to say no.

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Consent is key in any relation, it doen't matter if is sexual or not, if in any topic someone says no you should stop.

If there is any doubt in the voice, any hessitation or any shame it is still a no.

We need to respect the decision of others to stop, we do not decide for them despite whoever we are, we can not abuse any position nor situation in order to make someone do something against their will.

If everyone understood that maybe we would be in a better place

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Nothing gives you the right to do it but her!

No matter what she wears or anything else, nothing gives you a reason to do something she doesn't want.
You have to understand that no is NO, stop is STOP, silence is NO, any answer other than YES is NO.

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Excuses revictimize, there is always a second option. It's not just about saying "No", it's about knowing how to identify and respecting that limit.

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Nathalia Barbosa Mejía
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Because I hide my gratitude

and in the midst of my desires, I live in constant fear

one day not being able to deny myself.

That no one will ever know,

becaus i´ll burn...

I will stop being a daughter,

I will stop being an inspiration

I will stop being standstill

I will lose any future of my caresses sincere.

'Cause boys will be boys

and our mothers biggest joys,

Our naive sisters we must protect

As long as they don't lift up their skirt .

And I wish it could be that

I would like to embrace the seed that lies in my innocence.

As much as I fear, I would like to find the diligence

to no longer hide the agony of not being.

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Consent must be given without pressure. No one should be tricked, intimidated or coerced to say yes. No one can give it if they're unconscious or in an altered mental state.