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Friendships can be manipulated to a certain degree, but may be unlikely to last, or to be genuine

Can be both conscious and unconscious because people often are aware of what they look for in a friendship (conscious), but sometimes friendships happen unexpectedly (unconscious)

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- When ur teacher forces you to take care of the new student
- When ur in the same classes as some people but don't necessarily talk to them years later when your in a forced situation

CONSCIOUS AND UN
- some u can be aware of and others can happen randomly and unexpectedly

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-complimenting
-hanging out
-offering advice
-sharing opinions
-buying material things for them
-buy them cookies

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- it would be easy to manipulate someone to be in the same place via external causes (family functions, etc.)
- it would be easy to present yourself differently to someone who you may want to be friends with.
- ingratiation could be used to manipulate someone's impression of you, or to put them in a good mood while they're around you in order to support good associations of you (mood congruence).
- you could unconsciously manipulate someone to like you via conditioning (if you were to offer someone candy, chocolate, coffee, etc. when they agree to be with you)

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Can occur unconsciously due to interactions in a common proximity that can manipulate friendly interactions. Certainly if the proximity is in a unfamiliar environment can create powerful connections
Examples:
- Studying for a test together can manipulate people to interact and so create a bong

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When spending time together and you are stuck with that person you learn to like them 

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When spending time together and you are stuck with that person you learn to like them 

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can be both conscious and unconscious

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Conscious because you want to make them like you e.g. trying their favourite food, listening to their favourite music, etc.

Unconscious because you just crave the connection

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-you can condition them to like you (give them things that they want while in your company)

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- doing things together (Ex. homework, studying, hanging out)
-wanting to be with them
-having a good time when you're with them

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unconscious
- giving someone your number for 'homework' purposes & then start having regular convos which blossoms into a friendship

conscious
- in grade 2 I wanted to be friends with this girl so I basically stalked her all around the playground until she got mad and was forced to play with me. We were friends for a little bit

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-If you ask someone to hang out all the time; that is conscious
-if you have limited people in your class, or who you see everyday (depending on the situation); unconscious

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CONSCIOUS:
- Persistence to be around someone and communicate with them

UNCONCIOUS:
- Limited options for friends (circumstantial) so make choices based on who is available

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- not easily manipulated to develop
- you cannot force chemistry
- being around someone often is not enough if you simply do not like them
- friendship can be formed both consciously and unconsciously - we make conscious decisions who we want to affiliate with, but the desire behind wanting to befriend that person is unconscious
- example: meeting a friend in school, you unconsciously meet due to proximity but make the conscious decision to continue being friends with that person after meeting or not

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tried to apparently kill my best friend in elementary school but then constant exposure and mutual friends brought us together to form similar interests and worldviews. On a conscious level, I started to make the effort to continue the friendship but on unconscious level, we formed the friendship through general exposure and mutual relationships

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-proximity to the person, seating arrangement, arranged group work

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-proximity to the person, seating arrangement, arranged group work

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- follow them on social media
- conscious because your aware its happening, might make certain moves friendship

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Friendships can be both conscious and unconscious depending upon the situation . Much of the time our friendships are conscious because we consciously choose who we talk to and who we decide to continuously speak to and keep in touch with. On the other hand when you are constantly surrounded by the same people/person and may have limited options (e.g. going to a small school) this is when your friendships can become unconscious because you are more likely to form these friendships because we are constantly around this small group of people

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To what degree to you think friendships can be manipulated
to develop?  

Do you believe friendships occur through a conscious and/or
unconscious process? Please provide examples.

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To what degree to you think friendships can be manipulated
to develop?  

Do you believe friendships occur through a conscious and/or
unconscious process? Please provide examples.