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In this quote it shows how Marilyn has always had a dream she would see her daughter as what she has been wanting to be herself.

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What factors shape Marilyn's values and beliefs 

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What factors shape Marilyn's values and beliefs 

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Because of this passion and want she has, and not being able to fulfill her wishes since she got pregnant, she has shown to care a lot more about Lydia's schooling in hopes she can get pushed into what Marilyn couldn't be. She has been subtly pushing Lydia into it.

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Society in this book plays a role in Marilyn's own personal goals and what she wishes to achieve, which eventually gets passed down into her wanting it on Lydia as she wasn't able to do it herself. Society at that time was very disregarding when it came to women excelling in jobs such as doctor, which shaped Marilyn into wanting to prove society wrong.

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"Think about your children." She said. "Where will you live? You wont fit in anywhere. You'll be sorry for the rest of your life." "Stop it," Marilyn shouted, slamming her fist against the edge of the sink. "This is my life, Mother, Mine"

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This quote ties in her relationship with her mother and the view of how society was during this time.

Her mother believed a women should stay home, cook, clean and take care of the children. It was not "right" to marry someone of a different race, and Marilyn's mother was opposed to her daughter marrying someone who wasn't white. Saying how her children will be "outsiders" and that she will eventually regret this choice. From this I think Marilyn saw this as an opportunity to reach away from what her mothers wants, this is also the moment she fully steps away from her mother and the limits she has put onto Marilyn. Choosing her own ambitions and the readiness to start her own life.

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Marilyn's mother has always viewed the world as if the main roles of a woman is being a mother and wife. Giving Marilyn a view of a life she wishes not to have, wanting a break from this restrictions.

Because of this it gives Marilyn a want to be independent and achieve something big.

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"Lydia a grown women, confident and poised, holding her mothers hand in hers, a doctor by then, unfazed by the great cycle of life and death”

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When Marilyn was gone to deal with her mothers death, she realized that she doesnt want to become as her mother, as a traditional stay at home mom. Unfortunately with her getting pregnant during her schooling she slowly became what her mother was. Marilyn was torn between taking care of her family and her long time dream, Marilyn doesn't realize it but she treats Lydia in the same way her mother treated her. Marilyn’s relationship with her mother becomes a blueprint for Marilyn's relationship with Lydia.

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Never, she promised herself. I will never end up like that.

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Since Marilyn was little she has dreamt of becoming a doctor. She has always been ambitious and aimed high in school, which in a way represents her want for independence and control over her own life. Opposite to her mothers view.

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Marilyn eventually marries James because of her determination to become a doctor and she must make a personal decision to give up what she wants in life. She has a personal conflict and a lifelong sense of loss as a result of this choice. It also causes her to consider the sacrifices that women frequently make as a result of social pressures. Marilyn's connection with her daughter, Lydia, is shaped by her failure to fully pursue her desires. She reflects her unfulfilled goals onto Lydia in the hopes that she will succeed where society has failed her.

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Growing up, my mother, who emigrated to Canada in her thirties, constantly encouraged my siblings and I to excel academically in order for us to have steady careers as doctors, lawyers, etc. She wanted us to have the possibilities that she was never given, which improved our lives but also put a lot of pressure on us to perform well.