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Christabel Aurel/10C

3 Things I LEARNED

-Listening is more than just hearing, it's about understanding the person.

-Speaking kindly, even when correcting, is a sign of strong leadership.

-Speaking the truth with kindness builds trust and respect.

2 Things I Want to PRACTICE

-Asking thoughtful questions that help others reflect.

-Being fully present when someone is talking, without distractions.

1 Thing I Want to STOP

-Zoning out or pretending to listen when I’m tired or not focused.

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3 things i learn :

-          a good leader will ask gently and nicely

-          do not embarrass someone in public, try to talk in privately.

-          Must listened carefully

2 things I want to practice :

-          Listening when someone’s speaking

-          Ask someone gently

1 thing I want to stop :

-          easily distracted

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3 things:
- Setiap seseorang berbicara, kita harus mendengarkannya dengan baik, tidak memotong pembicaraan, dan menghargainya.
- Berikanlah pertanyaan reflektif sehingga mereka tidak memberikan jawaban singkat saja dan melalui pertanyaan reflektif dapat membantu mereka menemukan hal lain.
- Saat seseorang melakukan kesalahan beri tahulah melalui bisikan atau menegurnya dengan penuh kasih jangan menegurnya di depan orang-orang atau bahkan malah mempermalukannya.

2 things I want PRACTICE:
- Membuat pertanyaan reflektif  saat berbicara kepada orang lain atau teman
- Memberikan perhatian lebih saat seseorang berbicara kepada saya

1 things I want to STOP:
- Keinginan untuk memotong pembicaraan saat seseorang memberikan jawaban atau pendapat yang kurang sesuai.

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3 things I LEARN:

1. Kita harus menjadi good active listener

2. Jangan memotong pembicaraan orang lain, karena bisa membuat mereka merasa tidak dihargai

3. Menjadi Good Active Listener itu dibutuhkan dalam kepemimpinan karena dengan menjadi Good Active Listener, kita membangun kepercayaan dan juga merefleksikan buah roh itu sendiri.

2 Things I want to PRACTICE:

1. Tidak memotong pembicaraan orang dan membiarkan orang tersebut mengatakan perasaan mereka yang sebenarnya.

2. Menjadi pendengar serta perespon yang baik.

1 things I want to STOP:

1. Memberi advice kepada orang yang hanya ingin didengar.

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1. 3 things I learned:

1. We should have integrity and listen to others attentively. Active listening is a key component to building trust and strong relationships by making others feel heard and understood. It's not just about listening and getting the message but also about respecting the person.

2. When someone does something wrong, say it privately. as it allows for direct communication to resolve the issue without public embarrassment or escalating the situation.

3. Jesus is an example of active listening, careful listening, asking insightful questions, and delivering truth with love. The statement suggests that leaders should imitate this behavior to gain trust, understand others' needs, and promote communication and positive impact.

2. 2 things I want to practice

1. Giving my full attention when someone is speaking, listen carefully without judging, and ask clarifying questions to ensure they understand their message and encourage them.

2. Ask reflective questions to encourage someone's deep thinking and understand their thoughts, feelings, and actions.

3. 1 thing I want to stop

Multitasking while listening to someone.

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Kalea Jessica Purwanto 11b

3 things I learn:

Jesus is the best example of an active listener

It seems simple but listening is the key of communication

Listening isn’t just about paying attention, but caring for others, encourage to reflect, and making them feel truly heard.

I want to Practice

Put away distractions and listen other with our heart

speaking the truth with love

I want to stop

Only focussing on what I believe and judging someone idea too soon.

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3 things I LEARN :

Saat berkomunikasi dengan seseorang kita harus memberikan perhatian penuh dan menghargai orang yang sedang berbicara kepada kita

Kita bisa membantu seseorang untuk lebih berkembang dengan cara menanyakan pertanyaan yang membuat mereka berpikir lagi atau merefleksikan pernyataan yang mereka ucapkan

Kita tidak boleh mempermalukan mereka di depan umum, sebaiknya kita menegur mereka secara pribadi

2 things I want to PRACTICE :

Tidak mempermalukan seseorang di depan umum

Memberikan pertanyaan yang bisa membangun seseorang

1 thing I want to STOP

Berbicara saat seseorang sedang berbicara kepada kita

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3 things I learn:

1. menghargai orang yang Sedang menyampaikan sesuatu hal, dengan mendengarkan dan memperhatikan orang lain dengan baik.

2. memberikan pertanyaan yang efektif.

3. berkomunikasi dengan baik, kita tidak boleh mempermalukan teman kita.

2 things I want to practive

1. menghargai orang lain

2. be a good listener

1 thing I want to stop:

1. tidak fokus saat orang lain sedang berbicara

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Felicia AS / 10A / Kel 9

3 things I learned:

1. You must connect with someone before correcting them so that your words will not pass by passively

2. You must do what you tell others to do, do not be hypocritical—your words should reflect your actions.

3. Instead of shaming others, your words should be thought through carefully

2 things I want to practice:

1. Cultivating an open reciprocal conversation

2. Ask reflective questions

1 thing I want to stop:

1. Cutting off other people's sentences

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Scott 11B: 3 things I learned. Active listening isn't just about listening, but also respecting the other person who is speaking. When someone makes a mistake, act calmly and respond calmly and without excessive emotion. Poor listening skills to other people only make them feel bad and unappreciated. 2 things I want to practice: -Don't interrupt others when they're talking, listen first and act, don't do it in the opposite way. -Respect anyone when they're giving an opinion, think about other people's feelings not just your feelings. 1 thing I want to stop: -don't interrupt people when they are talking

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Vilano A.G 10A

3 Hal yang saya pelajari

1. Mendengarkan dan tidak memotong pembicaraan

2. Tidak mempermalukan orang orang walaupun mempunyai masalah, kita bisa menyelesaikan masalah tanpa mempermalukan

3. Jangan suka Nge-judge orang hanya karna tidak sesuai dengan pendapat pribadi

2 hal yang ini aku pelajari

1. Menjadi penyabar, karena sabar juga kunci dari pertemanan/ komunitas

2. Mendengarkan tanpa memotong pembicaraan, karena kita perlu mendengarkan pembicaraan orang sampai selesai baru tau arti dari apa yang di sampaikan

1 hal yang ini aku berhenti

1. Tidak sabaran

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3 things I have learned

1. I learned that Jesus Christ, Our Saviour, is a perfect example of an active listener, that is why as His followers, we should follow him

2. As a leader, having a good relation with everyone is important

3. Not everyone is an active listener, that is why I have to be one.

2 things I want to practice

1. Talking or sharing my opinion confidently

2. Ask reflection questions so that I understand more to the person im talking to

1 thing I need to stop

1. Being silent, as in not confident enough to share my thoughts or opinions.

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Felicia Caroline XB

3 Things I learn :

1. Hear other people's opinions

2. Giving people our full attention makes them feel appreciated

3. Don't shame people by scolding them in front of many people.

2 Things I want to practice

1. To pay attention to people more and not get distracted

2. Not cutting off someone when they're speaking

1 Thing I want to stop

1. I want to stop getting distracted and pay more attention to people who are speaking because I learned that is also a way to respect and appreciate everyone.

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3 things I learn:

1. Being a good listener for others (giving your full attention towards them, not replying constantly)

2. Ask questions that helps us to reflect and grow instead of giving orders

3. Don't easily assume things. instead, give them a chance to express themselves

2 things I want to practice:

1. Learn how to communicate and connect with others

2. Learn how to be attentive and be a good listener

1 thing I want to stop

I want to learn to stop getting easily distracted, and stop interuppting people when they're talking

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Jovan Garland Kentsho 10B

3 things I LEARN:

1. Menghargai pendapat orang lain dan menjadi orang active listener

2. Cara kita menegur orang bersalah

3. Bagaimana kita dapat berkomunikasi dengan orang secara baik dan benar

2 things I want to PRACTICE:

1. Melatih saya untuk dapat mendengarkan orang dengan baik

2. Melatih untuk menegur orang yang bersalah, dengan memikirkan perasaan orang lain

1 things I want to STOP:

1. Mengerjakan hal hal yang tidak penting yang dapat mengganggu fokus saya yang seharusnya dapat menjadi lebih bermanfaat bagi orang sekitar saya

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3 things i learn:

Kita harus belajar dari Yesus untuk menjadi active listener

kita harus fokus mendengarakan orang yang berbicara terlebih dahulu

jangan mempermalukan orang lain di depan publik

2 things i want to practice:

Mendengarkan sesama dan tidak interupsi terlalu cepat

Ask more question

1 thing i want to stop:

terdistraksi dengan cepat

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Greysia A.J. Hutapea/XB

- What I learned:
• Menjadi good active listener membutuhkan 1 point penting dan utama yaitu intergritas.      • Saya belajar bahwa untuk dihargai, kita harus menghargai orang lain.
• Saya belajar bahwa kita harus menghargai sesama kita dengan menjadi good active listener untuk orang lain.

- What I want to practice:
• Saya ingin berlatih lebih menjadi good active listener dengan fokus mendengarkan orang berbicara tanpa memikirkan/melakukan hal-hal lain.
• Saya akan melatih diri untuk mendengarkan orang lain dengan penuh kesabaran

- What I want to stop:
• Saya mau dan berkomitmen untuk berhenti mendengarkan orang lain sambil memikirkan/melakukan hal-hal lain.

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Kylie Elysia / 10A

3 Hal yang saya pelajari melalui materi ini adalah:

- Active listener merupakan orang yang mendengarkan secara attentive (penuh perhatian), bertanya pertanyaan yang reflektif, dan berbicara kebenaran dengan kasih.

- Yesus adalah pendengar aktif yang selalu mendengarkan dengan saksama, mengajukan pertanyaan, dan menyampaikan kebenaran dengan penuh kasih.

- Sebagai pemimpin, kita harus bisa melakukan hal yang sama yaitu menjadi pendengar yang aktif.

2 Hal yang ingin saya latih dalam diri saya yaitu:

- Saya ingin melatih kemampuan saya dalam berbicara & mendengarkan setiap pribadi dengan attentive supaya saya bisa membangun koneksi & relasi dengan baik.

- Saya ingin mengembangkan kemampuan saya dalam merespons orang lain sehingga saya bisa meresponsnya dengan baik tanpa ada perasaan menyinggung.

1 Hal yang ingin saya hentikan:

- Saya ingin berhenti untuk mencari-cari jawaban apa yang perlu saya ucapkan yang membuat saya tidak fokus pada saat orang lain berbicara pada saya.

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Sanders 10D

3 Things That I Learn:

Listen Attentively or Be a good listener - seperti Yesus yang selalu menjadi pendengar yang baik

Asked reflective questions - jika ada suatu pendapat yang berbeda, bisa menanyakan sesuatu yang membangun koneksi dan integritas serta pemikirannya

Spoke the truth with love - artinya kita harus bisa memikirkan perasaan orang, contohnya jika ada teman melakukan kesalahan, kita menegurnya dengan kasih

2 Things I want to Practice:

Menjadi pendengar yang lebih baik lagi

Menegur seseorang yang berbuat kesalahan dengan kasih

1 Things I want to Stop:

Saya terkadang masih menegur seseorang dengan tidak menjaga perasaan, contohnya ketika tugas kelompok ada teman yang tidak mengerjakan tugasnya, saya tegur langsung (Hal inilah yang ingin saya stop).

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Chelsy Limera/10B

3 Things I learn:

1. Jesus is the best model of an active listener.

2. Active listening is one of the best way to give attention to people we are talking with.

3. Being a good active listener means we have to listen carefully, ask reflective questions, and speaking the truth with love.

2 Things I want to practice:

1. Not cutting off someone's sentence.

2. Not getting distracted while someone is talking to me.

1 Thing I want to stop:

1. To judge other peoples suggestions/actions.

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Axel 10A

3 things I learn:

- It's very important for us to listen to other people's opinion

- Jesus is a great example of an active listener

- Having a good connection with everyone is important

2 things I want to practice:

- Practice to be a good listener for everyone

- Respect everyone's opinion if you want to be respected too

1 thing I want to stop:

- I want to stop interrupting people when they are talking to me, or stop getting distracted when someone is talking to me

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Aurelia/11B

1. I learned that when someone is explaining or when a meeting is being held, we have to pay close attention and listen attentively. I also learned that we have to ask questions before making a decision that makes us think, if our decision is right or wrong. Lastly, to speak the truth with love. For example, to not embarrass our friends in public and talk to them quietly.

2. Menjadi pendengar yang lebih baik lagi dan memberikan pertanyaan kepada diri saya sendiri, jika hal yang ingin saya lakuin bener atau ga.

3. Stop getting distracted and listen attentively when something is being explained.

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Dexter 11C

3 Things that I Learn:

How to be a good listener

Becoming a part of student council is not someone to be flex on. But it's something to be proud of, because you have tried hard enough to reach that level and be a way better person also following God more deeply.

Speak with love.

2 Things I want to Practice

To be a good listener CONSISTENTLY

To no interrupt others.

1 Thing I want to Stop:

To stop myself from being distracted so easily by being locked in.

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JESSICA IVANA-11B

LEARN:

a leader doesnt just boss around but also helps and serves.

never embarass someone publicly

dont just expect to be heard, we also have to learn to listen to others, be an active listener.

PRACTICE:

Be an active listener and respect others

focus when other people are talking and avoid multitasking as it is disrespectful to the speaker.

STOP:

to multitask and to stop getting on to conclusions or judging others before they're done talking

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Clara Emanuella/10A:

3 things I learn

sebagai pemimpin harus mendengarkan lawan bicara terlebih dahulu, harus mempunyai integritas, dan juga belajar untuk berkomunikasi yang baik dengan sesama.

2 things I want to Practice

bagaimana berbicara dengan percaya diri didepan banyak orang dan menjadi active listener yang baik

1 thing I want to Stop

saya ingin belajar untuk berbicara dengan baik dengan sesama dan tidak memotong pembicaraan

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Laurencia Veronica/XIC

3 things i learn :

1. To be listen attentively. Don't assume you know everything, but gives them chance to express their needs

2. Try to ask reflective questions. Example like asking gently about myself what is causing this task not to go well?

3. Speaking the truth with love. By Connection before correction and never embarrass someone in public.

2 Things i want to practice is listen carefully in meetings and give my full attention. And then Ask clarifying questions before making decisions and encourage open dialogue.

1 things i want to stop is stop to interrupting others too quickly while they're speaking and stop from getting distracted by other activities

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Jessica Dharma Lukita // 10C

3 things i learned:

1. I learned there are many ways to become a communicators, one of them is to become an active listener

2. By listening to others without interrupting them, judging them, or getting distracted, we give the other person the room, respect, and dedication THEY deserve.

3. Becoming an active listener isn't something we can learn in a short amount of time, but talking about integrity it takes a lot of time, work, and self reflection.

2 Things i want to practice:

1. learn how to listen without judging someone

2. how to ask reflective questions, and actively engage in discussions that let us grow

1 thing i want to stop:

1. I tend to judge people a lot, especially when listening, it is one of the weaknesses that i am actively trying to change.

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Chelsea Evina Rusli 10D

3 Things I Learn:

1. Belajar mendengarkan

2. Menanyakan pertanyaan yang membuat orang lain dapat merefleksikan diri

3. Tidak mempermalukan teman dipublic, dan tegur secara private dengan kasih

2 Things I want to Practice:

1. Belajar mendengarkan

2. Memberikan masukkan kepada orang-orang yang bisa membuat mereka merefleksikan diri.

1 Thing I want to Stop:

1. Berhenti untuk memotong pembicaraan orang lain.

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Seung Min 11C

3 things I learn:

-Dalam osis alangkah baiknya kita selalu menjaga sesama, tidak berpikir untuk diri sendiri untuk diperlihatkan (self-centered)

-Menjadi pemimpin yang baik dengan jalan dengan Tuhan

-Berbicara dengan cinta sehingga tidak ada yang merasa tersakiti atau pun malu bagi sesama anggota

2 things i want to practice:

-Memikirkan perasaan orang lain bukan hanya diri sendiri saat melakukan hal apapun

-Berbicara dengan sopan santun yang baik dan benar

1 thing i want to stop:

-melakukan hal yang tidak penting yang menghabiskan waktu (tidak produktif)

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Peter Howard Lim 11B

3 things I learn:

To be a good active listener, I have to listen carefully to be able to have a good communication, ask questions, and speak the truth with love and kindness.

2 Things I want to practice:

Listening carefully what the speaker is saying and ask more questions to know the situation more.

1 thing I want to stop is:

Getting too distracted from listening by focusing on other things or daydreaming and start focusing on the one who is talking to me.

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Calysta Vianney/11A

3 things I LEARN:

1. We need to listen carefully, giving our full attention.

2. We need to ask reflective questions that help our team think, reflect, and grow.

3. We need to speak the truth with love and correcting with compassion.

2 things I want to PRACTICE:

1. Ask questions that help others think, reflect, and grow instead of just giving orders.

2. Having connection before correction

1 thing I want STOP:

1. Stop jumping into conclusion before I know the full story.

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Ashley 10C

3 things I learned:

1. How to become a good active listener to others.

2. Poor listening skills may make other people feel unimportant or unappreciated.

3. We have to be active listeners like Jesus because He is the perfect example of an active listener.

2 things I want to practice:

1. Stop interrupting people when they are talking.

2. Pointing out other people's mistake without hurting their feelings.

1 thing I want to stop:

1. Something I want to stop doing not focusing while someone is talking to me because through this seminar I 've learned that being a good active listener includes thoroughly listening to what other people are saying.

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Shafira Nareswari. R/11C

3 Things I Learn :

1. Mendengarkan dan memperhatikan orang lain dengan baik

2. Melatih cara berkomunikasi yang tepat

3. Komunikasi sangat penting dalam kehidupan sehari-hari terutama dalam berorganisasi

2 Things I Want To Practice :

1. Mendengarkan orang lain ketika berbicara dengan baik

2. Memberikan respons terhadap pembicaraan orang lain tanpa menyinggung hati orang lain

1 Thing I Want To Stop :

1. Hilang fokus saat orang lain sedang berbicara

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Maria Anastasya A. / 10D

1. 3 Hal yang saya pelajari: Kita harus mendengarkan orang lain terlebih dahulu, tidak judge ide orang lain secara langsung, untuk menjadi good communicator harus mempunyai integritas.

2. 2 Hal yang mau saya latih: Saya ingin belajar untuk membangun koneksi dan menjadi orang yang bisa di percaya untuk menjadi tempat cerita, serta saya juga ingin belajar untuk menjadi pemimpin yang dapat mendengarkan orang lain dengan baik.

3. 1 Hal yang mau saya berhenti lakukan: Saya ingin berhenti untuk memotong pembicaraan orang lain hanya karena saya tidak setuju dengannya.

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3 Things I learned, 2 things to practice, 1 thing to stop

I LEARN:

Listen attentively without getting distracted

Ask questions that are deep to clarify and explore more

Not shame people in public, correct them in private while being honest

PRACTICE:

Communicate more and become a better listener

Stop being distracted and missing most points

STOP:

Easily getting distracted during long periods of time

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3 Things I learned:

- Multitasking might make someone feel unappreciated, so we have to be mindful of how we make people feel, even when we think we are listening.

- We can help others grow by asking them reflective questions.

- We shouldn't mask the truth with kindness or hurt them by giving a harsh truth, but balance truth and kindness instead.

2 things I want to practice:

- Start asking more questions to improve communication and build relations.

- Give full attention to people who are speaking to me.

1 thing I want to stop:

- Multitasking while listening to someone else speak

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3 Things I learned:

1. Harus mendengar dan menjadi active listener

2. Harus membangun intergritas untuk berkomunikasi dengan baik

3. Mengkritik secara pribadi

2 Things I want to practice:

1. Menjadi active listener

2. Membangun intergritas

1 Thing I want to stop:

1. Sering terdistraksi

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FELIX MARSLERI S./10D

3 Things I Learn:

Saya belajar untuk menjadi orang yang dapat dengan baik mendengarkan orang dengan seksama, baik sedang sibuk atau tidak.

Memberikan pertanyaan yang reflektif agar teman teman bisa berfikir, berefleksi, dan bisa lebih bertumbuh pemikirannya

Saya juga belajar untuk berbicara kebenaran dengan CINTA, saya belajar untuk membuat koneksi sebelum saya membuat suatu koreksi ke teman teman saya.

2 Things I want to Practice:

Mendengarkan secara seksama, baik

Tidak menjudge orang ketika melakukan suatu kesalahan, namun memberi feedback/opini terhadap apa yang di bicarakan.

1 thing I want to STOP

Saya ingin berheti menginterupsi orang ketika orang itu sedang menjelaskan/berbicara mengenai sesuatu. Saya ingin lebih fokus mendengarkan ke apa yang sedang dibicarakan oleh orang itu dengan baik.

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JOSEPH ALEXANDER TJIAM/11A

3 things I LEARN:

1. Respect anyone's opinion.

2. Jesus already set an example of a good and active listener

3. Make connection with members and other people before correcting them

2 things I want to PRACTICE:

1. Focus on what someone have to say instead of thinking of other things/interrupting them

2. Implementing reflection questions on my members so they can grow and learn from their success and mistakes

1 thing I want to STOP: Interrupting others when they are trying to voice their opinions

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Learn :

1. Listen more and listen them how you want to be listened

2. Do everything calmly, being all rushed and angry isn't good

3. Do communication much better, if anyone make mistake don't tell them in public, but in private

Practice :

1. I want to be better at communication

2. I want to give them advice or feedback that will sastified them

Stop :

1. I want to stop rushing things and be more patient towards things

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Yeoh Ying Xian 10B

3 things I learned: We have to be fair in our choices, we have to make sure our opinions align with others, we have to wait and not cut other people’s conversation

2 things I want to practice: making sure to understand other people’s points and focusing in the middle of explanations.

1 thing I want to stop: getting distracted easily

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3 Things I’ve learnt:

We need to listen to our surroundings carefully

We need to ask people on what’s their needs

We need to clarify things and sort things out by responding gently

2 Things I want to practice:

To be more careful when talking to people

Make sure on what people say (reflecting)

1 thing i want to stop:

I would like to stop thinking about the benefits for myself only without thinking about others

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Mention 3 things I LEARN

1. Active listening builds trust, prevents misunderstanding, and follows the teachings of bible.

2. Jesus gave us an example by giving full atention, ask questions, and spoke with love.

3. Poor listening and bad habits make others feel unappreciated and can lower our standings.

2 things I want to PRACTICE

1. I want to become an active listener because by giving feedback and balancing honesty

2. Asking reflective questions with the purpose of helping each other grow

1 things I want to STOP:

1. I want to stop judging people without knowing their background, because i feel like one day it will turn its back onto me

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3 things I learn:

-        Active listening reflects the fruit of the Spirit. It fosters trust within the community and encourages growth.

-        Being a good leader means being a good active listener. To dismiss and not listen carefully would make the speaker feel belittled. We must give the speaker our full attention and care when they speak.

-        We have to ask reflective questions and not be quick to judge, and we have to speak the truth with love. That means when somebody makes a mistake, we shouldn't point it out harshly, but rather privately and gently.

2 things I want to practice:

-        Not interrupting others when they’re speaking, but to listen and let the speaker speak to the fullest, and wait for my turn to speak.

-        Focusing on the speaker and giving them all my attention when they speak. Not getting distracted and thinking of something else, but to listen.

1 thing I want to stop:

-        When somebody speaks, not often would my mind think of something else, and I would get distracted by the surroundings. It doesn't happen a lot, but it's very crucial. I want to change that habit and listen attentively when somebody speaks.

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Steven Indra Sutanto/10C

3 Things I Learn:

Jesus is the best example of an active listener.

We must focus on the speaker and not get distracted.

We should never embarrass anyone in front of the public.

2 Things I Want To Practice:

Learning to ask reflective questions.

Be a good listener and respond to them well.

1 Thing I Want To Stop:

I want to stop thinking that my opinion is better than other peoples opinion and interupting other people.

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Nikita / 10D

1. Things I learned:

Being an active listener doesn't mean constantly replying during the conversation, but to be someone who fully listens to other people

Speak the truth with love

Ask questions that can help other people think and reflect too

2. Things I want to practice:

Build connections before correcting people

Point out other's mistakes without shaming them

3. Things I want to stop:

Stop being so blunt when reminding/correcting others

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Kenneth E. B. / 10C

Refleksi Sesi 4

3 Things I learned:

1. Jesus is the perfect role model of a active listener, and so we should follow Him

2. There are many common mistakes that we may not even notice when listening such as being distracted and judging to quickly

3. Being an active listener is so important as a leader because it reflects the fruit of the spirit, builds trust, etc

2 Things I want to practice:

1. I want to practice to not suddenly go into my train of thought and focus to listen fully what the person has to say

2. I want to practice not being distracted

1 Thing I want to stop

1. Stop interupting people suddenly / in the middle when their talking

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3 Things I LEARN:

- Pentingnya hadir sepenuhnya dan tidak terdistraksi agar orang merasa dihargai.

- Pertanyaan reflektif membantu orang berpikir lebih dalam, bukan sekadar menjawab cepat.

-Kebenaran harus disampaikan dengan kasih, sehingga membangun, bukan menjatuhkan.

2 Things I Want to PRACTICE:

- Mendengarkan dengan penuh perhatian dalam percakapan tanpa menyela.

- Bertanya dengan cara yang mendorong orang lain untuk merefleksikan jawaban mereka.

1 Thing I Want to STOP:

- Berhenti menghakimi atau langsung menarik kesimpulan sebelum benar-benar mendengarkan sampai tuntas.

~ Keisya Irena W // X.C

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3L2P1S (Yoel F.I - 11A)

3 Things I Learn:

Active listening means respecting others, not just hearing informations

Asking questions and giving full attention.

Speaking the truth with love is more powerful than judging or embarrassing.

2 Things I want to Practice:

Asking reflective questions to help friends and team members

Giving my full attention in meetings by putting away distractions.

1 Thing I want to Stop:

Interrupting others before they finish speaking.

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Jessica Apolos 10B

3 things I LEARN

1. Cara menjadi komunikator/pendengar yang baik agar dapat memberi kenyamanan bagi yang bertanya

2. Cara agar didengarkan dengan penuh perhatian

3. Cara agar dapat menjadi pemimpin yang baik dan mampu untuk memberi influence terhadap anggotanya

2 things I want to PRACTICE

1. My communication skill

2. Cara memberi feedback dengan baik tanpa menyinggung orang yang diberi feedback. Sehingga mereka dapat mengerti dan menerima feedbacknya dengan baik

1 thing I want to STOP

1. Menyela orang saat berbicara, jadi mereka tidak merasa down dan dapat menyampaikan hal yang ingin disampaikan dengan nyaman

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3 hal yang sudah saya pelajari = kita harus menjadi leader yang takut akan tuhan, bersikap sopan kepada sesama, mendengarkan orang dengan sungguh sungguh.

2 hal yang mau aku praktikan : menjadi good communicator, menjadi leader yang baik

1 hal yang mau aku hentikan = menyela pembicaraan orang