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The moment when you miss someone you have never met, not even knew that existed.

Even after months, I cannot believe that you were trying to survive inside me while I have made it impossible for you. Not knowing that you were there, I neglected my body, while you were fighting alone. I wasn‘t there when you needed me the most.

The nurses told me your expected birthday. I am so proud of you!

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You sent me this link.

You are right. There is nothing wrong to be friends, as long we don‘t talk about us. There are so many other topics in this world to talk about. Or as we agreed: Playing games. You fought for this friendship. You had good reasons to fight for it. It‘s because you know how strong we can be as friends. You know how much we can give to each other. It doesn‘t matter how much friends we have. No other friend can give us what only we can give to each other. That‘s why you sent me this links. And that‘s why you fought for it.

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Rund 700.000 Schwed*innen ab 16 Jahren haben keine engen Freunde. Dabei braucht es gar nicht viel, um Einsamkeit gesellschaftlich anzugehen.

Hast du einen engen Freund, mit dem du über persönliche Dinge sprechen kannst, wenn du das willst? Plötzlich war diese Frage in Schweden überall. Menschen riefen in Radiosendungen an und erzählten, teils hörbar emotional, von verlorenen Schulfreundinnen oder von der erlebten Unmöglichkeit, später im Leben noch neue, tiefe Freundschaften aufzubauen. Zeitungen schrieben über die Bedeutung enger Vertrauter und von Leuten, die nicht wissen, wie sie es anstellen sollen. Expertinnen gaben Interviews.

Warum dominiert so ein privat anmutendes Thema die öffentliche Debatte? Weil in einer Untersuchung fast 8 Prozent der Menschen die Freundschaftsfrage mit Nein beantwortet hatten.

In absoluten Zahlen, wie die staatliche Statistikbehörde SCB sie hervorhob, wurde es noch greifbarer: Rund 700.000 der über 16-Jährigen in Schweden haben demnach keine engen Freunde. Das berührte viele.

Wenig überrascht klang allerdings die Psychiaterin Ullakarin Nyberg. Sie sprach im Radio SR von „ein paar merkwürdigen Einstellungen" im Land. Etwa, dass stark sei, wer allein zurechtkomme - das präge Menschen mehr, als man sich vorstellen könne. Niemand würde einfach mal sagen: „Ich bin einsam, kannst du mir helfen?" Ist es überhaupt irgendwo auf der Welt zwischenmenschliche Routine, wegen Einsamkeit um Hilfe zu bitten?

In Deutschland sieht es ähnlich aus

In Deutschland befragte 2019 YouGov eine statistisch relevante Auswahl an Menschen: „Wie viele enge Freunde/Freundinnen haben Sie?" Definiert wurde es hier als „vertraute Personen, die Ihnen nahestehen". Es kreuzten tatsächlich 11 Prozent der Befragten „keine" an.

Egal, wie man für sich eine enge Freundschaft definiert: Menschen brauchen andere Menschen in ihrem Leben. Das bestätigte nicht nur Ullakarin Nyberg, die schwedische Psychiaterin, das sagen Millionen Psychiater, Psychologen und Milliarden Menschen mit allgemeiner Lebenserfahrung.

Und wenn wir davon ausgehen, dass eine Gesellschaft nur in Bewegung bleiben und gut funktionieren kann, wenn die Grundbedürfnisse Einzelner erfüllt sind - dann wird schnell klar, wie sehr das vermeintlich private Thema die ganze Gesellschaft betrifft. Zugleich bleibt es ein persönliches, und zwar eins, das alle mitgestalten können. Man braucht dafür weder Geld noch Macht. Man muss nur hingucken: Wie kann ich für mich sorgen, wie für andere?

Ich bin gerade neu in Schweden. Meine vertrauten Menschen sind in diesem Frühling ein bis zwei Tagesreisen entfernt. An meinem Geburtstag, als auch die Umfrage veröffentlicht wurde, habe ich zwar die wichtigsten Menschen gesehen und gesprochen. Zum Glück wurde einst das Internet dafür erfunden. Aber per Video ist es nicht dasselbe.

Gemeinschaftlich fühlen

In solchen Fällen reicht weniger, als manche glauben würden, um den emotionalen Anschluss an die Menschheit nicht zu verlieren. Ich habe Aino gefragt, ob sie mitkommt zum Geburtstagslunch, ins Hotel mit der schönen Aussicht. Sie hat vor mir in meinem Haus gewohnt, jetzt lebt sie seniorengerecht im Dorf.

Wir verstehen uns blendend, ohne viel voneinander zu wissen. Wir stießen mit alkoholfreiem Cocktail an und sie erzählte von den Finnen, die die Brücke gebaut hätten, und von ihrer weitverzweigten Verwandtschaft. Ich erzählte, was ich vergangenes Jahr an meinem Geburtstag gemacht habe. Zum Abschied umarmten wir uns und bedankten uns beieinander - zwei Menschen, zwei Stunden zusammen, ein bisschen mehr Gemeinschaft.

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Rund 700.000 Schwe­d*in­nen ab 16 Jahren haben keine engen Freunde. Dabei braucht es gar nicht viel, um Einsamkeit gesellschaftlich anzugehen.

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If there is a way to call me the 17th, it would be nice. As you know, the 17th is a sad day for me and it would be nice to hear from you…thanks a lot. Bye.

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Schatzi hat ab jetzt einen Wohnungsschlüssel🏡 und Autoschlüssel🚗
🥰😘😍❤️

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Guten Morgen mein Schatz❤️
Heute vor einem Jahr lernten wir uns kennen. Unsere Geschichte begann an einem Ort, wo man sich kaum vorstellen kann, die grosse Liebe zu finden. Mitten in einer dunklen Welt, kamst du in mein Leben und hast so viel Farbe reingebracht, wie ich es mir nie hätte vorstellen können. Dort, wo sich traumatisierte, verzweifelte und traurige Menschen befinden, warst du mittendrin. Du hast so viel Freude und Zuversicht ausgestrahlt. Ich bewundere dich heute noch dafür. Ich bin so dankbar für alles, was du seither für mich gemacht hast. Als ich Angst um meinen Job hatte, hast du mich und uns beschützt, auch wenn es dir viel abverlangt hat. Du hast für mich deine Bedürfnisse immer nach hinten geschoben. Das rechne ich dir hoch an.
Du bist mein Held. Ich schaue zu dir hoch und fühle mich so priviligiert, dich zu haben. Du hast mein Leben komplett verändert. Ich kann mir eine Zukunft ohne dich nicht vorstellen.
Heute blicken wir auf ein Jahr zurück. Wir haben so vieles gemeinsam erlebt. So viele Hindernisse überwunden. So viele Kämpfe gewonnen. Zwei Kulturen prallten aufeinander, als wir zusammenkamen. Es verlangte viel Arbeit und Schweiss von beiden Seiten. Aber du warst es mir jede Sekunde wert.
Danke, dass du immer da warst. Danke, dass du in schwierigen Zeiten geblieben bist. Danke, dass du nie den Glauben an uns verloren hast.
Ich liebe dich ❤️

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Good morning my love❤️

Today is the last day that I can say:
A year ago today, we didn‘t even know each other. 🙈

I had no idea that it was the last day of my life without knowing you.
You are right when you count our relationship from the 22 July.

You asked me many times for a key of my apartment. You already have the key of my heart, that‘s why, after one year, I would like to give you a key of my place as a sign of my trust and that I still believe in us.

A year ago today, was the last day of our lives without each other and today, I want it to be the last day that we have to deal with the distance. That‘s why…
⬇️

Would you, Osman Bas, accept the key of my heart and of my place? Would you respect me, us, our story and never let our relationship end? Would you believe in us, in good times and in hard times until death do us part?

(It is a big step for both of us, so you should think about it a few days before you answer😉)

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I believe in us❤️
We belong and stay together😘❤️

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Heute vor einem Jahr bist du in der Schweiz gelandet. Das war der Startschuss für dein neues Abendteuer. Damals konntest du noch kein Wort Deutsch und siehe jetzt, wie weit du schon gekommen bist. Du hast dich tapfer durchgeschlagen, als du im Asylheim warst, in einer Wohnung mit fremden Menschen, im Deutschkurs, im Treffpunkt. Du hast neue Leute kennengelernt. Du hast deine Zeit sinnvoll genutzt. Du hast deine Werte und Prinzipien vertreten, während du die ganze Zeit in einem fremden Land mit fremden Kulturen deine Ziele nie aus den Augen verloren hast. Ich liebe dein Kämpferherz!

All deine Mühen haben sich bewährt.

Schau, wie weit du schon gekommen bist!

Ich bin so stolz und dankbar, dass ich dich von Anfang an begleiten durfte.

Heute fängt dein zweites Jahr in der Schweiz an. Es ist ein spezieller Tag für dich und ich hoffe, dass ich dich noch viele weitere Jahre auf deinem Weg begleiten darf. Ich liebe dich.

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10.04.2023 - Wir haben einen wundervollen Geburtstag in einem Wellnesshotel in Emmetten mit Blick auf den See und einen Ausflug auf den Niederbauen verbracht. Wellness, Töggeli, Ping Pong, Billard, Spaziergang am See. Alles war dabei und wir genossen unsere Zweisamkeit sehr🥰

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Hoffentlich reisen wir zusammen bald, wenn ich meine Bewilligung bald bekomme. Ich freue mich auf Ausflüge und Reise mit dir.

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Neulich fühle ich unsere Beziehung viel besser als früher. Ich habe mein Geburstag mit meiner schatzi in einem Hotel in Emmenten gebracht. Es war wie ein Traum. Wir hatten viel Spass zusammen mit Spielen, Sex, Ausflugen, Spazieren, usw.

Durch Nachmittags fühle ich mish besser mit meiner Partnerin. Mittagpäuse machen mir mehr Spass als früher. Ich bin wirklich dankbar nach Got und meine Freundin, dass ich in einer Beziehung mit  ihr bin.

Ich glaube an Got, weil ich meine Freundin kennenlernen konnte.

Ich wünchse, dass wir immer wie jetzt unsere Beziehung verbesssern, weil es uns beides glücklicher macht.

ICH HABE DER BESTE GEBURSTAG MEINES LEBENS MIT MEINER FREUNDIN GEBRACHT. DANKE FÜR ALLES, MEINE LIEBE.

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Today, I had a great lunch break with honey. We had lot of fun. I liked that a lot. He is great❤️

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I am grateful for the last days. Thank you to bring me so far away from daily life (physically, I brought us, but emotionally you made me feel like we were far away in holiday. Thank you for that😘)

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Wir sind zusammen nach Bern gefahren und dort viele verschiedene Orten; Berner Münster, Bundeshaus, Rosengarten,  Zytglogge, gegangen.

Ich habe sie ein überraschunges Video gezeigt.
Sie ist von Hause zurück nach Bahnhof gekommen, damit sie mit mir Zeit verbringt während wir auf den Zug gewartet haben.

Ich hatte ein träumer Tag. Ich hatte viel Spass. Außerdem habe ich mich wertvoll für meine Frau gefühlt.
Ich liebe meine Frau 💘

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A picture of love on the top of a mountain in Uri

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A picture of love on the top of a mountain in Uri

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We tried to go to Staubifäll, but we couldn't find it because the way was closed. We walked, sat there, kissed, had fun, and took pictures.

I showed my Schatzi Altdorf and Flüelen, too. We sat at the lake and talked when drinking something. I got pink flowers for her from Aldi, so her smile was extra Süss. 😘😘Later, she brought me to the home.

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Here is my perspective.

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We met at the reception of GB, BAZ on 22.07.2022. I went there to ask for help about clothes. Then, I saw the angel of my life.

You are my angel ❣️

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Our arguments never end. Sometimes we argue for nothing. I don't even understand why we argue.
Why do two people who love each other argue?
Why do two people who love each other disrespect each other?
Why do two people who love each other offend each other?

I have no idea. The only thing that I want is peace. Live in peace. Have peace.

I hope we have peace together soon and forever.

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I read the first poem, Rimani which is attached, to my girlfriend on woman's day, 08.03.2022.
I gave her my vows. We met in a cafe in front of Denner behind Office of Migration in Luzern.

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Do you want to learn some of the best short Italian poems? You're in the right place.

When we hear "" more often than not, the first thing that comes to mind is Dante Alighieri's "The Divine Comedy."

However, Italian poetry is not all about Dante or "The Divine Comedy."

Italian poetry traces its roots back to the 13th century. It has heavily influenced the poetic traditions of numerous European languages, including English. Like, did you know that an Italian poet is believed to have invented the sonnet? His name was Giacomo da Lentini, aka Il Notaro, aka Jacopo da Lentini.

Italy has produced a number of famous poets whose poems continue to remain significant in these days.

12 Best Short Italian Poems

Here's a list of 12 best short Italian poems everyone will love.

1. "Soldati"

This short Italian poem talks about the equally short life on the battlefield. Here Giuseppe Ungaretti likens soldiers to the falling and decay of leaves in autumn.
"Soldati" "Soldiers"
2. "San Martino"

Regarded as the official national poet of modern Italy, Giosuè Carducci became the first Italian to receive the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1906.

In " San Martino," Giosuè Carducci describes the colors, the sounds, and even the odors of village life on an autumn's day.
"San Martino" "Saint Martin's Day"
3. "Rimani"

Gabriele D'Annunzio, one of the most striking personalities in Italy of his time, lived a scandal- and controversy-clad life.

His poems are considered to be among the modern masterpieces of Italian poetry. A playwright and journalist, he also had a flair for writing romance.

The short Italian poem " Rimani " is a love story in which a couple pledges to guard and watch over another with love and faith.
"Rimani"
Rimani! Riposati accanto a me.
Non te ne andare.
Io ti veglierò. Io ti proteggerò.
Ti pentirai di tutto fuorché d'essere venuta a me, liberamente, fieramente.
Ti amo. Non ho nessun pensiero che non sia tuo;
non ho nel sangue nessun desiderio che non sia per te.
Lo sai. Non vedo nella mia vita altra compagna, non vedo altra gioia.
Rimani.
Riposati. Non temere di nulla.
Dormi stanotte sul mio cuore...
"Stay"
Stay! Rest beside me.
Do not go.
I will watch you. I will protect you.
You'll regret anything but coming to me, freely, proudly.
I love you. I do not have any thought that is not yours;
I have no desire in the blood that is not for you.
You know. I do not see in my life another companion, I see no other joy
Stay.
Rest. Do not be afraid of anything.
Sleep tonight on my heart...

4. "La gatta"

" La gatta " is a heartbreaking Italian poem about boundless maternal love.

Giovanni Pascoli maintains a somber tone in the stanzas following the cat's farewell to her dead kitten. Here the poet describes the climate and environment that reflect the mother cat's pain.

However, " La gatta " ends on a softened note, with the image of the deceased kitten purring happy and warm.
"La gatta"
Che notte nera, piena di dolore!
Pianti e singulti e risa pazze e tetri
urli portava dai deserti il vento.

E la pioggia cadea, vasto fragore,
sferzando i muri e scoppiettando ai vetri.
Facea le fusa il piccolo, contento.
"The Cat"
What a black night, full of pain!
Tears and sobs and mad laughter and dark
Howls brought in from the desert wind.

And the rain was falling, huge roars
Whipping the house walls and rattling the windows.
The little one was purring, contented.

5. "L'infinito"

Giacomo Leopardi wrote " L'infinito " in 1819. Widely known within Italy, the poem was spawned by the poet's desire to travel the world.

There is also a keen sense of mortality throughout this Italian poem, which is said to indicate Leopardi's belief that he would die young. And he did pass on at only 38 years old.
"L'infinito" "Infinity"
6. "All'anima mia"

Umberto Saba, known for his his simple, lyrical autobiographical poems, suffered from depression all his adult life. This is seen in " All'anima mia." It is a sad poem, though the poet managed to give it a positive ending, showing the clarity in misery and the light in darkness.
"All'anima mia"
Dell'inesausta tua miseria godi.
Tanto ti valga, anima mia, sapere;
sì che il tuo male, null'altro, ti giovi.

O forse avventurato è chi s'inganna?
né a se stesso scoprirsi ha in suo potere,
né mai la sua sentenza lo condanna?

Magnanima sei pure, anima nostra;
ma per quali non tuoi casi t'esalti,
sì che un bacio mentito indi ti prostra.

A me la mia miseria è un chiaro giorno
d'estate, quand'ogni aspetto dagli alti
luoghi discopro in ogni suo contorno.

Nulla m'è occulto; tutto è sì vicino
dove l'occhio o il pensiero mi conduce.
Triste ma soleggiato è il mio cammino;

e tutto in esso, fino l'ombra, è in luce.
"To My Soul"
You delight in your unending misery.
Such, my soul, should be the worth of knowledge,
that your suffering alone should do you good.

Or is the self-deceived the lucky one?
He who cannot ever know himself
or the sentence of his condemnation?

Still, my soul, you are magnanimous;
yet how you thrill to phantom opportunities,
and so are brought down by a faithless kiss.

To me my misery is a bright summer
day, where from high up I can make out
every facet, every detail of the world below.

Nothing is obscure to me; it's all right there,
wherever my eye or my mind leads me.
My road is sad but brightened by the sun;

and everything on it, even shadow, is in light.

7. "S'i' fosse foco"

The short Italian poem " S'i' fosse foco " is an anti-paternal sonnet in which Cecco Angiolieri ridicules the figures of God, the pope, the emperor, the parents, and all honest people.
"S'i' fosse foco"
S'i' fosse foco, ardere' il mondo;
s'i' fosse vento, lo tempesterei;
s'i' fosse acqua, io l' annegherei;
s'i' fosse Dio, mandereil en profondo;
s'i' fosse papa, sare' allor giocondo,
ché tutti cristïani imbrigherei;
s'i' fosse 'imperator, sa' che farei?
a tutti taglierei lo capo a tondo.
"If I Were Fire"
If I were fire, I'd burn the world;
if wind, around about it furiously I'd blow;
If water, drowning it would suit my mind;
If God, then I'd dispatch it straight below;
If I were Pope, I'd have a bit of fun
By setting Christians one against another;
If emp'ror, well, what think ye I'd have done?
All heads chopped off, and so an end to bother!

8. "Il lampo"

Giovanni Pascoli often uses natural phenomena to describe the mood of his writing pieces. In the Italian poem " Il lampo," he captures the landscape at the onset of a storm, which is illuminated by a flash of lightning before it is dark again.
"Il lampo"
E cielo e terra si mostrò qual era:
la terra ansante, livida, in sussulto;
il cielo ingombro, tragico, disfatto:
bianca bianca nel tacito tumulto
una casa apparì sparì d'un tratto;
come un occhio, che, largo, esterrefatto,
s'aprì si chiuse, nella notte nera.
"The Lightning"
And sky and earth showed what they were like:
the earth panting, livid, in a jolt;
the sky burdened, tragic, exhausted:
white white in the silent tumult
a house appeared disappeared in the blink of an eye;
like an eyeball, that, enlarged, horrified,
opened and closed itself, in the pitch-black night.

9. "Temporale Estivo"

Federigo Tozzi, an inkeeper's son, came to be considered one of the first Italian modernists after his death. His concise and laconic style is seen in this summer-inspired poem.

True to Tozzi's style, the Italian poem " Temporale Estivo " is an example of his ability to describe great tragedies using simple words.
"Temporale Estivo" "Summer Storm"
10. "Tulipani"

Antonia Pozzi is deemed one of the most interesting voices in Italian poetry of the 1920s and 1930s. All her poems were published posthumously.

" Tulipani " is one of Pozzi's 91 Italian poems that her father revised and published a year after she died by her own hand.
"Tulipani" "Tulips"
11. "Amor Celeste"

Although best-known for the frescoes on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel in the Vatican, as well as the Pieta and David sculptures, Michelangelo Buonarroti also delved into other disciplines such as painting, architecture, engineering, and poetry. He wrote beautiful sonnets, " Amore Celeste " being one of them.

This is a beautiful and powerful Italian poem that has moved and inspired lovers for centuries. Michelangelo wrote this poem about Vittoria Colonna, a woman that Michelangelo spent some time with.
"Amore celeste"
Nessuna cosa mortale ha affascinato questi occhi bramosi
Quando ho trovato la pace perfetta nel tuo bel viso;
Ma lontano dentro, dove tutto è terra santa, l'
anima mia sentiva l'amore, suo compagno dei cieli:
perché con Dio nacque in paradiso;
Né tutti gli spettacoli di bellezza sparsi intorno a
questo bel mondo falso le sue ali alla terra hanno legato:
all'amore degli amori in alto vola.
No, le cose che soffrono la morte, non estinguere il fuoco
degli spiriti immortali; né l'eternità
Serve sordido Tempo, che appassisce tutte le cose rare.
Non l'amore, ma l'impulso senza legge è desiderio:
che uccide l'anima; il nostro amore rende ancora più belli i
nostri amici sulla terra, più belli nella morte in alto.
"Celestial Love"
No mortal thing enthralled these longing eyes
When perfect peace in thy fair face I found;
But far within, where all is holy ground,
My soul felt Love, her comrade of the skies:
For she was born with God in Paradise;
Nor all the shows of beauty shed around
This fair false world her wings to earth have bound:
Unto the Love of Loves aloft she flies.
Nay, things that suffer death, quench not the fire
Of deathless spirits; nor eternity
Serves sordid Time, that withers all things rare.
Not love but lawless impulse is desire:
That slays the soul; our love makes still more fair
Our friends on earth, fairer in death on high.

12. "Mattina"

Said to be the shortest Italian poem ever, " Mattina " by Giuseppe Ungaretti consists of only 24 letters, including the title.

Written in 1917, " Mattina" was included in the collection L'Allegria di naufragi (Merriness of Shipwrecks), published shortly after World War I. An expanded versions was published in 1931, titled L'allegria (Merriness).

To try to decipher the meaning of this poem, we only have the words of Giuseppe Ungaretti himself to rely on: "Poetry is poetry when it carries within it a secret."
"Mattina"
M'illumino d'immenso.
"Morning"
I'm illuminated with immensity.

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I miss my partner...
I  miss to get on well with her...
I am sad...

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The wall of our story...
I am full of words that I need to talk about. At the same time, I am so exhausted that I cannot even talk a word.

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I felt so happy when I saw our picture at your home.  I felt extremely happy when I saw the background picture of your phone. It was a surprise for me. I like that a lot. I am happy that we are together and love each other. Thanks for being mine❣️🤩❣️
I would like to take more pictures with you. 🤩

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Wir sind nach Zürich gefahren, um uns für ein Sofa zu entscheiden. Danach sind wir einen Kaffee/heisse Schokolade trinken gegangen. Es war regnerisch, kalt und dunkel.

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We took the first „real“ shower together (and in my appartment🙈)

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1.) Honey was the first time „not“ drunk (after a bottle of Rotkäppchen)☺️

2.) We took our first selfies☺️

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Our first new years eve together 2022/2023

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28.-29.12.2022: Schatz ist zum ersten Mal zu mir nach Hause gekommen und hat das erste Mal bei mir übernachtet.

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27.12.2022 we played the first time billard☺️ (It was spontaneous, we coincidentially passed there and decided to play☺️)

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You are the love of my life. You managed to become my best friend, love, home, family, future. I thank you for everything.
I believe in you. I am always here with you.
We fight for each other.
We write our vows and sign. Then, we exchange them. I seriously love you and want to marry you to spend my entire life with you. 💕

You are my woman. I am your man.
Alles ist i.O.
Everything is i.O.
Everything is Irena & Osman 💕

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I am physical person, so we value meetings a lot. We need to see each other. If it is not working automatically, we talk about it starting from 7th, February.

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Du bist das Beste, was mir jemals passiert ist. Danke, dass es dich gibt❤️

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Du bist meine Familie. Du bist meine Hause.
Ich danke dir für alles.

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I wholeheartedly, unconditionally, doubtlessly, satisfactorily, peacefully love you ❤️

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I don’t feel understood :(
Why didn’t you think « I cannot complain about something that I did myself a few minutes ago. »
You keep explaining the reason why you complained, but this was not my question.

Yes, it’s a small thing. But there are 100 small things that make me stop care and make me start being careful towards you in terms of trust. That’s why it is important to me.

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16.11.2022 Schatz went to canton Uri

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As I already told you, the 7th december is not possible because I have a christmas dinner with my collueges. We need to postpone it.

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1.) Wir müssen lernen, einander zu vertrauen.

2.) Wir müssen lernen, die Grenzen des Partners zu respektieren.

3.) Wir müssen lernen, fair zu bleiben.

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Talking about past that might cause arguments is not allowed.

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Talking about past that might cause arguments is not allowed.

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Imitating each other is not allowed.

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- Paris
- Berlin
- Vienna
- Venice

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I tell myself, but we don't understand each other. I don't know why.

I swear to the God that I am not unfair to you.
I swear to the God that I always protect you.
I am really sorry. You know that.

I want to close my eyes and wake up when you are in my arms or I want to wake up if this is a nightmare. I want to get on well with you. I want you ❤️You are my woman. My wife. My soulmate. My friend. My everything.

I hope everything gets well again ASAP.

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13.10.22.
I am not feeling loved. I am feeling disrespected and sad because my partner didn't say "I miss you or love you on the phone". Then, we argued. Then, we played a game, but she seemed that she doesn't want to talk to me by saying " I don't remember, egal, etc". What's worse, the phone was hanged up on my face.

My partner didn't feel that I see her love because I undirectly told her that she doesn't miss me. She got angry and sad. She was right. I was angry, so I think I blamed her for that. I apologized for that, but she didn't accept it. I am sorry that I blamed my love. I wish everything went different.
Thanks for listening digital board 😊

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Having disagreements is normal. We solve everything as a team.

I love how you deal with me. I love how you get along with me. You help me a lot to become a better person.

I love you so much! You are my soulmate and my best friend.

You told me, you don‘t like it when the woman comes late at home. I don‘t go out a lot. If it happens, I usually come home soon. I‘m not a person who goes to dancing clubs.

I drink alcohol. But from now on, I will have a limit. I used to drink alcohol for having sex. I had sex with you without alcohol and I experienced the body of a man in bed, I liked feeling your body and pressing myself to you. I liked touching you a lot. I realized how much a body of a man can give to a woman. It gives security. Every woman needs that. I needed that my whole life. I found it in you. Thank you for this ❤️

I‘m allowed to eat every kind of meat. But I will be careful when I eat with you. About children we will always decide together. We will not avoid that they drink alcohol when they are teens because Switzerland is a christian country and a free country. Our children will find alcohol everywhere. But we can teach them our values by living our values in front of our children.

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You are the superior person in our relationship. Your job is to protect me and our relationship. Every of your decisions should be in our favour. My job is to support you.

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Leaving conversation or room by informing the partner or asking for permission. Are we good at this?
Never hanging up phone on the face of a partner. Are we good at this, too?

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Am I the boss of our relationship?

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25th November for the Queen of King
10th April for the King of Queen

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the first hotel, sex date.
You visited me twice in the hospital a few days before the hotel date.

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Almost 22 again :) We can write 22 if you want :)
The first hug at reception.

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The official relationship date

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Do we trust each other more and more?
Where are we regarding the trust?

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Meeting at reception for the first time

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Do we surrender each other completely?
How much have we been surrendering each other?

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Do we do our best to make the partner happy?

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My heart, I‘m sorry for not looking at you. I will do it better today.

I‘m sorry that you feel that I only share what I want and keep asking till you answer. I‘m really sorry. I didn‘t realized that. I will try to do it better from now on.

I‘m really sorry.

We are getting used to each other.

Let‘s solve every problem together.

Do we want to talk about it today? What do you think?

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We agree that both of us have their money and will pay the bills together that concern the common life (rent, electricity etc.) according to their salary (the one that earns more pays more etc.)

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What comes from my heart and mind in the middle of a night...

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What comes from my heart and mind in the middle of a night...

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You are always on my mind, and I always prioritize you.
What does "always" mean?
That means you are on my mind when I eat, talk, sleep, lay down, chill, dream, imagine, play, think, etc.

Do I get angry sometimes at you?
Yes, sometimes I get angry. When you couldn't look at me at reception, I get angry. Of course, you provide your explanation, but it makes me angry at that moment. You know that I am there only for you. Also, sometimes when talking about something, you just share what you want or keep asking questions untill you get a short clear answer. That makes me angry. I want you to understand me anyway. I want you to provide reasons with your desires about important topics. When I am angry at you, do I still like, love, adore you?
Of course, I like, love, and adore you because you are the love of my life. ❣️
How do I calm down?
I think about you. I find myself in a few minutes calm and smiling. Shortly, you are my medicine for everything including yourself. I always love you. You are my heart.

I want to live with you. I need to be with you. We need to share everything. You will be my wife. I am sure about my heart and mind.

Will we stay together always?

I am always with you. We are really interestingly strong. I think that is the complete power of love. We have it. We deal with all the problems together. We should do everything together. We need to trust each other and depend on each other. We always fight for each other and for this relationship, so I am very happy.

About happiness, you really make me happy. Thank a lot for that.
About sexuality, you satisfy me in the bed. You make me cum several times. That's not easy. You attract me a lot. When your body in in my arms, when I see you naked in front of my body, I know that I have you. Also, it increases my sexual lusts. It is perfect. I like it a lot ❣️

Thanks for caring about my case, for making me happy, for everything you do.

I LOVE YOU, MY HEART❣️

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Ich möchte Canton Luzern gehen, denn ich möchte in der Nähe mit dir bleiben. Das ist besser für unsere Beziehung in mein Meinung.

Ich vermisse dich sehr. Du bist sehr meinem Medizin. Ich fühle ruhig und habe viel spass wenn ich bei dir sein. Ich bin froh, dass ich dich habe. Ich bin dankbar nach dir. Ich habe eine süchtig nach dir, ber ich mag diesen süchtig. Das tut nicht weh. Ich liebe dich sehr ❤️❣️❤️❣️

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I‘m losing myself to you. The surprising part of it is, that I like that. Losing myself is a voluntary act that makes me love you more and feel loved more. It happens in a protected area. I trust you a lot!

I think about the beginning of our story when I told you I cannot give you more and you accepted. Later, you seemed to not accept it anymore. Maybe you lied in the beginning? Maybe you didn‘t lie. Maybe you have an explanation. Maybe you don‘t have. You know what? I don‘t care about this kind of stuff anymore! At the end, I gave you more and I could never regret it! I could never regret what happened between us! It strenghtened our relationship a lot! It healed us! We needed that a lot! We need each other!

I love our relationship and everything that we experienced together.

Yes, I‘m losing myself to you.

I‘m about to give you power over my entire life, I’m giving you my whole present and my future. It is a voluntary act of a deep love.

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I love the way that you want to surrender me and work on it. I like the way that you work for our relationship. I adore you. You are exactly what I have wanted for my entire life. You are tremendously precious to me 😍❣️💯

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I always trust you. No matter what happens, I am with you. I will always support you and love you. ❣️
Thanks for what you told me today. It helped me to trust you more because you honestly shared what you thought in the past. I think it is significant in a relationship that we can open our feelings and thoughts to our partner. What you shared with me made me happy because it demonstrates that you trust me and you feel comfortable in our relationship. Thanks for sharing it with me 💯🤩😍🤩💯💪

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Ich möchte mit dir ein Baum pflanzen. Wir müssen unserem Baum wachsen.

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Having intimacy with you is so healing to me. Your body has a healing affect to me. I really like to touch and kiss you!
Thank you❤️

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I‘m not leaving the conversation, the room or hanging up the phone without your permission.

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I don‘t care about compatibility.
I care about how we deal with it.

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Today, my woman shared below thoughts with me.

"Sometimes I think who cares who said what first. Sometimes I think you didn‘t intentional wait me to say something first. Sometimes I think if I would ask you, you didn‘t even would remember who said what first."

My love. Irena. I love you ❣️This text made me so happy. That's why, I wanted to comment on it directly here.

We shouldn't care about who said things first. We are a team. 💪🤩

I didn't wait for you intentionally to say things first. I never did. From my point of view, both partners say things. There is no difference between partners when saying things. I told you before, too. I told you that everyone should say things. We shouldn't wait for the other to say.

If you ask me things about who said first, as you think, I cannot remember because I don't care. I care whether we have it or not. We are a team, so one of us did. I really appreciate the effort of both of us. That's all.

I am really happy that you think like that because you will understand me better. I love you so much.

We sometimes might have problems. That's possible and totally normal. The most important thing is to fight for each other. We fight and love each other, so I really love us ❣️🤩❣️🤩

Thanks a lot for everything that you did, do, and will do. 💜🥳

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Wir priorisieren immer einander. Wir sind wertvoll für einander.

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Wir haben Sex jeden Tag !

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Did you know that every woman is searching for a man like you?

Did you know that every man wants to be like you?

You are not only good looking and extremly sexy, you have also a wonderful character!

Did you know that is extremly difficult to find a man like you? Nowadays everyone wants to keep options. I don‘t know how it is in Turkey, but in Switzerland the men that understood the gravity of alcohol are extremly rare. Also, it‘s almost impossible to find a man who has the same understanding of loyalty like you. In Switzerland every second marriage ends in divorce. Young people don‘t even want to marry, they just want to live together without being married which means without giving to each other that final guarantee of a marriage. It is so difficult to find a man who understands that a man is stronger than a woman to protect her, not to harm her. You always used your strenght, your power, to protect me, you never used it to harm me. You always prioritise me. You put me above your own needs.

Osman, when I say, you are an once in a lifetime chance, I exactly know what I‘m saying!

I would be very stupid if I let you go or if I gambled it away with you.

I‘ll do whatever I can to give you the best of me! I‘m so completely yours, Osman! I wish with all my heart that you understand, these are not just nice words that sound good. My heart is screaming these words to you!

I love you, Osman.

I wholeheartedly, unconditionally and doubtlessly love you, only you and forever you❤️💕

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We should always have movie nights, walking nights, discussion nights, eating out nights, and so on 😁

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I feel loved a lot. I love a lot. These two things change my entire day and life. I am so happy that we met and are together.

Thank you for the unbreakable connection ❣️🤩

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Bleiben in eine Glaskabine zusammen. In der Natur. Allein. In eine Glaskabine.

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I wish that you feel safe with me! I wish that you feel loved because you really are loved! Whenever you don‘t feel loved, it‘s my job to change it! We never let each other feel unloved! That‘s our job!
I love you, Osman! My feelings for you increase a lot! We really have a strong connection!❤️

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We never leave the chat without saying something nice.
That is very important.

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Thank you for being in my life!
Thank you for enrich my life!
Thank you for loving me!
Thank you for accepting me!
Thank you for being mine❤️

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I‘m yours. I‘ll always be yours.

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Picknick mit dir ❤️

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None of us will ever allow someone to get close that might hurt the partner.

If a partner wishes to avoid communication with someone else, the other partner has to accept it.

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We PROMISE that moving away from each other will NEVER be a reason to not have sex. It will be the opposite. We will make holiday together in order to get closer emotionally and we promise to have sex in order to get closer sexually.

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Whoever understands that they are moving away from each other emotionally or sexually should inform the other partner ASAP.

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1.) Waiting for your transfer and trying to not let you feel bad with my behaviour at camp.

2.) Meeting in Chiasso or canton

3.) Waiting for your interview and supporting you.

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We can fail at several things. But please let us never fail on loyalty and on fighting for each other.

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Let us always be like the last day.
I felt completely yours. I always want to feel like this.
Please never let change what we have. Let us built on it. Let it be the base.
I believe in us! Whatever happens, I will always fight for you!

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Das erste Mal Sex (4-5mal🙈)

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24.10.2022 Erste Küss von Hals im Spital.

Nicht nur ein Kuss, wir haben viel physisch Kontakt. Das war fantastisch !

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Keine Optionen mehr. Nur wir beide und keiner sonst❤️

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Ich brauche mit dir Sex haben. Ich brauche es jetzt und immer. Ich möchte dich treffen.

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20.10.2022 ❤️

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I want to give you so much more than I‘m giving you now.

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I love you more than anyone else.

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Ich möchte die "Ich liebe..., ich will..., ich brauche...." Spiele spielen wenn wir auch verheiratet sind.

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Wir sagen uns jeden Tag, dass wir uns lieben.

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We never leave a place without saying good-bye and a kiss.

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Sometimes you ask me something, and I answer. Then, you ask the same question repeatedly even if it is not something about us. When talking about something even not related to our relationship, we should not be insistent. I want us to always focus on "us". We should be a little ourselves/fish. Not selfish. Ourselves/fish. Ich glaube we always need to prioritize our relationship.