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I think I have a crush on someone younger than me...maybe because we've been chatting a lot lately. But I'm too busy to be caught up in these kinds of feelings!! Is there any way for me to get over these feelings? :/

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i don't want to do hw and so many projects, they freak me out. i dont want to start and i know the ddl is coming and the more i procrastinate the harder it will be and things will be better if i just finish them. but i just dont;  want to do them. i dont want to go to so many classes, they are bored and i dont find things i liked so much before as charming now. i dont find anything that is interesting and fun to me. i think everyday is just the passing of time, i do nothing worthwhile and just wastes all the precious time. i feel depressed, my emotions are so low. and i dont want to die because i am scared. i just want to know how to change my current situation and attitude. i think the world is boring. nothing is fun at all

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We were found out by all our classmates in a week. We intended to keep it a secret but it was all right for us actually. The only problem is the teachers and parents… kinda freaks me out.
Plus tbh I am a bit worried abt what this would do to me, I mean like study-wise. From my past experiences I think I do better in my study when I’m tangled in some sort of relationship, but Those were unhealthy and confusing. This time it feels right, positive, well I’ve never experienced such, so I don’t know how would this end…
Above all, I think I still need to take my responsibilities in this relationship. I can’t just break up when I think it’s not right, right?

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we've been dating for a very long time and i'm not sure whether things are going the right way. I mean we seem fine, but i feel like the chemistry between us is fading away, i dun know if he still likes me(tbh i can't rlly feel it) or this relationship is still worth of continue :/

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During junior high I’ve got a few admirers, but I didn’t know how to deal with them, and I’ve done sth bad i guess, like “fishing”. Anyways now in high school tho I never expected to have one, I’ve got one admirer. I actually liked him, romantically, before he confessed his crush on me. But it just abruptly stopped when he asked to date me😣 I’m clear I don’t like him in that way anymore, but I still can’t resist bringing up a conversation with him, and I’m looking forward to taking a walk with him alone after class. And I haven’t give him an answer yet, abt dating. I dunno how to ……*disturbing

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How to know when you are ready for a relationship?

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How to know when you are ready for a relationship?

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My parents divorced. I live with my mom. She has a boyfriend. At times, i hate them ngl. They always quarreled, my mom always being the one emotional and superior. Sometimes I feel like she’s acting like a spoiled kid, not only to the man, even towards me, and I feel disgusted and annoyed like everyday when I am seeing her.
I suppose I’m not supposed to hate my mom. But truly, I can’t make myself love her, I can only try not to hate her.
She treats me nice and I rly appreciate her bringing me up.

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Does anyone else feel like you’re so bored in life without crushes, because they make you look forward to daily school life? This is something I’m working on overcoming, because I want to be happy just having no crushes and enjoying the company of my friends. But I wonder if anyone else relates

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I'm new to this whole period thing and I'm just wondering, how many times should I change my pad every day to maintain personal hygiene? I also just recovered from covid and my period had ended after a week, but then it just started up again?? I don't know.

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how to lose weight fast without having my nutrition table unbalanced? (I really struggle with it  😭) pls help!

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how to lose weight fast without having my nutrition table unbalanced? (I really struggle with it  😭) pls help!

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how to have time management and not always be so addicted to a electronic device?

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how to have time management and not always be so addicted to a electronic device?

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Am I the only that is lonely during online classes? How can I not be like that?

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Am I the only that is lonely during online classes? How can I not be like that?

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How to remedy stress? recently i feel very bad stress and its affecting my academic performance and my life. are there any suggestions?

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i've lost many things because of how messy my room is. i also feel messed up with my life and unorganized. i want to change but my room is basically a wasteyard. how do i constantly keep my room clean, not just cleaning up and gets messy right away?

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What should I do if I made a big mistake that couldn't be fixed and it might effect my whole life

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What should I do if I made a big mistake that couldn't be fixed and it might effect my whole life

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Do you guy also listen to moaning asmr

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Soo I’m new to middle school and I feel like everyone is interested in makeup now…. Do you wear makeup? And how much? When should I start wearing it?

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what do you do when you are unsre of your sexual orientation?

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what do you do when you are unsre of your sexual orientation?

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I feel very awkward when talking to any male... but they are like 50% of the population and at some point i have to talk to them, any advice?

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I feel very awkward when talking to any male... but they are like 50% of the population and at some point i have to talk to them, any advice?

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Im just coming to say that im like superrrrr nervous about when im gonna have my period and like what if i had it in school? Will my pants be like bloody for a whole day? And i totally have social problems and im scared of being noticed by too many people so if i had my period in school, i would legit wanna die… so does anyone have any ideas of what i might be able to do?

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I have a crush on someone who's noticeably older than me, plus probably only faintly knows I exist. I feel very strange about this because none of my friends understand...

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I have a crush on someone who's noticeably older than me, plus probably only faintly knows I exist. I feel very strange about this because none of my friends understand...

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Recently I was separated from all my friends in a different class, and now I feel we're growing distant...       I really want to prevent this from happening!

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Recently I was separated from all my friends in a different class, and now I feel we're growing distant...       I really want to prevent this from happening!

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No one's doing group work in our group!!!!

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No one's doing group work in our group!!!!

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Self Harm - having a hard time trying to stop

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Self Harm - having a hard time trying to stop

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I had issues with self harm before but have been controlling my self for almost a month now. But just a few days ago, I almost did it again, the only thing stopping me was how i can't remember where did I put the knife. i don't know y i'm writing this but if you have any experience of stopping self harm, can you share it? thx!

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Just wondering, are there any furries  here? 

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Just wondering, are there any furries  here? 

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(feels kinda sad being the only furry in my class QwQ)

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Is it okay to have a crush? To like a girl

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Is it okay to have a crush? To like a girl

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what do I do...I can't help with the urge to flirt with girls

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what do I do...I can't help with the urge to flirt with girls

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I can't help to flirt with my friends... especially with females. I sometimes intentionally help girls out just to flirt. but I really like to see their happy faces when they are shy!! it's so cute QAQ!!

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can i masturbate when i am on period? is it harmful to my body?

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can i masturbate when i am on period? is it harmful to my body?

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When I'm with my own grade I'm usually very confident and outgoing, but if I'm communicating with someone more than one grade older that me I feel like this awkward freak. Like my palms start sweating and I judge myself on everything I say... any tips on overcoming this?

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I don't know how to focus on homework and studying

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I don't know how to focus on homework and studying

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When I start studying my mind just drift away into any other things than learning. How should I focus on what I am doing?

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I think I am an introverted person. But the problem is, I find myself unable to look at other people's eyes. Sometimes I force myself to do it, but I just can't meet their sight for more than three seconds, I move my eyes away without control. Is this a kind of psychological problem or social fear? How should I overcome it?

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How can you tell if what you're feeling is a crush or friendship affection? I feel like I really love my friends, I always plan gifts for them and really look forward to spending time together. Sometimes I even get a wave of emotion when I see my friends because of just how amazing I find them and how grateful I am to have that in my life. But I've heard that exact description for what being romantically in love is like. What is the difference?

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I really want to exercise more because I want to be healthier, but I've never really exercised or played a sport before. I want to play something like soccer or basketball, but I'm not sure where to start, because I haven't heard of any FDIS teams. I also feel like people will not accept me into a team if I get out of breath after jogging for a minute. Especially since I'm in a higher grade now, I feel like it's quite embarrasing to start from zero on a team. Does anyone have any practical advice?

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Has anyone tried using anything besides pads/tampons, like menstrual cups or absorbent underwear? How was it? Would you recommend it? What tips do you have, or any brands you can recommend?

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How can I improve my calculations? Like I'm pretty good on algebra, geometry, graphics and function but I just keep making calculations mistake......It's not mistakes like misreading numbers, it's just that I often got wrong with the operations 😭 Im particularly bad at exponents and calculating them. These abstract number just make no sense......How can I improve that?

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How often do you masturbate? I know this is a rather absurd sounding question and you probably think this is some sorta wierd joke, but honestly this is a question I have been wondering for a while now? How much is too much? How many times to people usually do it? Or how many times a day? I hear a lot of very different answers from both online and in person, so I am very confused...

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i seem to have a crush on a people i haven't ever talk to, because that people look good. what should i do?

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I have 2 friends, A and B
A actually has a pretty negative opinion of B that I used to partially support but now know is wrong. When me and A are texting/chatting A sometimes casually makes very backhanded comments about B and then acts as if I'm in on some kind of joke. I try to tell her to be more considerate but she just brushes it off.
Sometimes A and B will have heated arguements and even yelling matches over the tiniest things, and I constantly feel like I'm the glue keeping us together.
The situation's been going on for a couple years now and has only gotten slightly better. I'm not sure what to do...
(I'm sorry this is so long...)

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I just started my period. But why does it start and then repeat after two months? Is this normal?

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I just started my period. But why does it start and then repeat after two months? Is this normal?

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How can I improve my economics grades? I mean I understand the content and when answering questions, I do it in the most logical way possible. But it's just that every time this happens, the teacher will comment that explanation is vague, didnt use proper definitions, like she's ridiculously specific about these stuff (even though I always explain in simple, understandable terms) ... I just need
advice

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How do you guys think of girl's love and should i come out of the closet with my parents? It's been bothering me for so long because they seem to have a negative attitude towards lgbtqia+ community

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I think I have a crush on my best friend, we’re both girls and she’s straight…….

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How do you change a boy's perception of women if he consumes a lot of pornography? How would you make him view women as actually living/breathing human being rather than sex objects or their maids?

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How to turn down a guy without making it awkward?

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How to turn down a guy without making it awkward?

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How do some people pull off multitasking?

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How do some people pull off multitasking?

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A person that Im friends with is able to attend to their interest while keeping their studies at bay. I dont know if this is a smart person thing or im missing the key to doing this?

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Suggestions for girls who need to live alone for uni?

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I feel like I have talent in rap but ppl around me judge me and laugh at my raps… idk if I should continue

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I've been under a lot of stress during exams, and I couldn't resist the idea of being romantically involved with someone else who cares about me more. I thought about telling my current boyfriend about the new person I met, but I don't think he deserves this. I don't know what to do and I feel like a total liar, which I am.

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Is it possible to have a period when one is showing no other signs of puberty? Say at age 13 or 14?

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Is it possible to have a period when one is showing no other signs of puberty? Say at age 13 or 14?

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how do you whether your in a toxic relationship or not?

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how do you whether your in a toxic relationship or not?

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有个小问题 我之前锻炼身体感到很开心然后同时也可以瘦一点，但是最近好像我对运动这件事感到很负担很反感，不做感觉胖了会丑，做永远做不完总是中途退出，我觉得我这个身材不胖不瘦没有一个很好的平衡点，现在我其实年龄也不是很大但是每天都被各种各样的焦虑困住，然后因为惰性就会雪上加霜更加焦虑，想变好但是没办法去做跨不出第一步，无数次想过断掉互联网，但是还是做不到，有没有什么办法或者一些可以激励到我的都可以啦 谢谢呐

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有个小问题 我之前锻炼身体感到很开心然后同时也可以瘦一点，但是最近好像我对运动这件事感到很负担很反感，不做感觉胖了会丑，做永远做不完总是中途退出，我觉得我这个身材不胖不瘦没有一个很好的平衡点，现在我其实年龄也不是很大但是每天都被各种各样的焦虑困住，然后因为惰性就会雪上加霜更加焦虑，想变好但是没办法去做跨不出第一步，无数次想过断掉互联网，但是还是做不到，有没有什么办法或者一些可以激励到我的都可以啦 谢谢呐

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I’m just wondering how many teens especially girls masturbates… I’m not quite sure when is my first try but I’m just sort of addicted to it. It annoys, a lot! It takes up quite a lot of my time and I really hate it when I have to hide from others to do this. I’m just wondering how to at least lower the frequency. It sucks but can’t be resisted :(

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How do you guys usually tell if someone else is on their period (and not bother them with stuff that kills the mood)? For me I rarely have any sort of mood swings at all

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How do you guys usually tell if someone else is on their period (and not bother them with stuff that kills the mood)? For me I rarely have any sort of mood swings at all

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就想悄悄问一下 什么时候开始穿那种小背心比较好哇

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就想悄悄问一下 什么时候开始穿那种小背心比较好哇

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Are there any activities that I can do during the summer

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Are there any activities that I can do during the summer

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what do u guys feel a abt the recent tangshan incident...?

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what do u guys feel a abt the recent tangshan incident...?

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Does anyone else struggle with sexual urges that they can’t control?

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Does anyone else struggle with sexual urges that they can’t control?

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有很多电影和书本里都会提到婚前X行为 想问一下如何在家庭里自然的讨论X 在X行为时要注意些什么 还有就是应该对婚前X行为持什么态度比较好

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有很多电影和书本里都会提到婚前X行为 想问一下如何在家庭里自然的讨论X 在X行为时要注意些什么 还有就是应该对婚前X行为持什么态度比较好

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what is a good way to help with mood swings during period?

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Any advice to manage my time for the summer?

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Any advice to manage my time for the summer?

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I'm under a lot of stress with schoolwork rn... can you recommend ways to help me relax?

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I'm under a lot of stress with schoolwork rn... can you recommend ways to help me relax?

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What is the right age for the first relationship?

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What is the right age for the first relationship?

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What age do most girls start their period?

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What age do most girls start their period?