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Holding Grudges

From: I dont need them in my life !

To: Life Is Too Short !

I would hate to lose another family member and not be talking to them becuase i was mad. Both of my brothers that I Lost i was mad at them or they were mad at me at the time of their passing. Although i couldnt tell them bye when they died i wish i didnt have that grudge on my heart before they left me.

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Experience: With both of my living children I decided to breast feed them both until a year and a half. My main reason was because I was a new mom and I thought i was being lazy and taking the easy way out of feeding my babies.

Believe: Do I really have to get up in the middle of the night to make a bottle ?

Action: I exclusively breastfed them. I eventully tried formula but neither or them liked it

Result: My Children hardly ever get sick. and when they were babies if the got sick my milk supply would provide the nutrients to keep them from getting sick.

Pivot Or Keep? Keeping this incase i ever have another baby !

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Experience: A few years ago I let my little brother use my car to go to the store. When he came back he told me he was going to sit in the car for a while. Not even ten minutes later somone robbed him of my car at gun point. As i have this ex who lost his car in the begining of our relationshot use a few of my cars and he wrecked four of my cars.

Believe: If I Can help you I will, Even if you cant help me.

Action: Eventually I stopped letting people use my cars. Because they couldnt help me get around when something happened to my car.

Result: I havent had a wrecked car since I stop giving my keys to other people

Pivot Or Keep? Pivot from Being Overly Nice with My Cars

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Experience: I Started watching my mother in the kitchen at a really young age. It make me curious, I wanted to learn how to cook because it was osmething she loved doing.

Believe: Cooking Made Us Happy, Can I make people happy through cooking?

Action: My first job and every job after that has been in the kitchen. I love cooking!

Result: I've made a lot of people happy just like my mother did.

Pivot or Keep? Keep

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Experience: This past year I've stopped talking to all of my brothers. Mainly becuase of small miscommunications. Things that could have easily been solved over a conversation. Ive already lost two of my brothers in the past four years.

Believe: I don't need them in my life!

Action: I was just thinking the other day i need to reach out to my brother because i miss my niece and nephew.

Results: I will be seeing my niece and nephew very soon and rebuilding the bonds with my brothers.

Pivot Or Keep : Pivot away from holding grudges. Life is too short.

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Experience: I never thought i would continue school beyond high school. This has been an up and down journey so far.

Believe: Do I really need college?

Action: Coming back everyday to push through these online classes.

Result: Although I'm just starting I know this can bring me great opportunities in my future. As of now my result are still pending.

Pivot Or Keep ? Definitely Keep