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The stereotype bullies get a lot is that they are from a broken home and or get abused all the time at home but that isn’t always true because some bullies are bullies just to spite a specific person.

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I know they are wrong because I know there are plenty of people who are bullies that don’t come from a broken home and some are just mean to be mean because they're jealous of you.

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Both victims and perpetrators of bullying have higher rates of psychiatric disorders than do those uninvolved in bullying. Victims of bullying have higher rates of depressive disorders, anxiety disorders, bedwetting, and sleep problems. Perpetrators of bullying have higher rates of depression and antisocial behavior.

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Does Bullying Cause Psychiatric Disorders? - Children's Resource Group - A Multi-Specialty Behavioral Health Practice

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Bullying is a major public health problem in the US and other developed countries. Bullying is defined as on-going, unwanted aggressive behaviour between..

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The reason is simple. Envious people want to take something away from the person they are envious of. And they use bullying as a tool.

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All too often kids are snared by the comparison trap. They see the successes and gifts of others but instead of celebrating with them, they can only see their own shortcomings. When this happens, it is easy for envy and jealousy to blossom.

Envy exists when people want something that another person has. In other words, the envious person feels that it is not fair for that person to have what she wants. For instance, kids feel envious when another is perceived to be more popular or well-liked. They also might feel envious when someone is elected class president or is acknowledged for getting good grades. Kids can even experience envy over clothes, electronics, and relationships.

Whatever the source of the envy, the envious person covets what another person has and wishes it was theirs.﻿﻿ For this reason, envy is sometimes at the root of bullying behaviors. This is especially true when it comes to mean girl behavior and relational aggression.

Here are three reasons why envy can lead to bullying behavior.

The Jealous Bully Measures Herself Against Another Person

Most teens struggle with comparisons and measuring up while using social media. In fact, countless studies have shown that envy increases with social media use. Part of this has to do with the fact that most people only post their "highlight reel" online. In other words, they post about their successes, their vacations and the parties they attended and very rarely talk about the mundane and boring parts of their lives.

Consequently, when other teens read this information, it is natural to assume that these posts represent the entire picture of their life and when compared to the mundane and boring parts of their lives, they become envious. And when feelings of envy and jealousy are allowed to grow, they can lead to bullying.

The reason is simple. Envious people want to take something away from the person they are envious of. And they use bullying as a tool. This bullying can include everything from threatening behaviors to name-calling, spreading rumors and gossip and cyberbullying. In these instances, envy becomes a form of power. The goal is to deprive others of what they have, whether it is a special talent, being popular or having nice clothes.

The Bully Has Low Self-Esteem

Sometimes envy rears its ugly head when a person feels a sense of inadequacy, emptiness or unworthiness. In these cases, kids want to close the gap between what others have and what they want. So the goal behind their bullying is to bolster their own feelings of self-esteem at the expense of another person.

But envy is a hunger that cannot be filled with bullying behavior. Bullies never develop a sense of self-worth or happiness at another's expense. Although seeing the person they are envious of suffering may seem like what they want, it does little to make them feel better about who they are. And in the end, the bully still has the same self-esteem issues that need to be addressed.

The Bully Is Competitive and a Perfectionist

Envy also can be triggered by competition. This is where bullying in sports often originates but is not limited to athletics. Kids can be competitive in all areas of their lives including in relationships, with grades, and with status.

Usually, competitive and perfectionistic kids envy others who seem to have some advantage or power that they want to have. They cannot tolerate the success of someone else because it makes them feel inferior or less than perfect. As a result, they resort to bullying.

The goal behind their bullying behavior is to eliminate the competition or find a way to possess the position or status their target has. They believe that by diminishing another person's success they will, in turn, make themselves feel better. But it never works out that way.

A Word from Verywell

If you see your child struggling with envy, it is important to address those feelings right away. Help her discover why she feels envious. Then, develop some solutions for working through her feelings. For instance, turn her envy into a motivator to work harder on her goals.

Instead of focusing on what she does not have, teach her to focus on how she can achieve what she wants in a healthy way. Also, help her improve her self-esteem. And teach her that the success of others does not diminish who she is.

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3 Reasons Why Envy and Jealousy Lead to Bullying

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Discover three ways envy and jealousy can be motivators behind bullying behaviors, plus find out what you can do about it.

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A stereotype about bullies is they always hate their victim because sometimes a bully is your friend first  and then they are scared you might leave them and they don’t want to feel that fear so they start to be mean instead because of that fear of leaving.

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The reason I know that's true they are wrong is because sometimes a bully is your friend first  and then they are scared you might leave them and they don’t want to feel that fear so they start to be mean instead because of that fear of leaving.

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Abandonment issues Bullying

Children with abandonment issues may be more easily upset and often have difficulty regulating their emotions. They may exhibit negative attention-seeking behaviors and have outbursts or tantrums. They can either demonstrate avoidant or antisocial behaviors, withdrawing from peers, or bullying others.

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a stereotype about bullies is that all bullies are jealous of you

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The reason is simple. Envious people want to take something away from the person they are envious of. And they use bullying as a tool.

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I know that they are wrong because a lot of bullies deal with personal stuff a lot and just like to make fun of  people to make them feel better about themselves.

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Bullying is repeated, unwelcome, and aggressive behavior by a person who has higher perceived power than the victim. Low self-esteem is a feeling of being unimportant, unworthy, and inept. Having low self-esteem makes one more vulnerable to bullying. Bullying can cause low self-esteem for the victim.

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What i want people to take away is that bullying is a problem but not all of them are villains.