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Oh my! How we loved Betty! She was my daughter, Julia’s violin teacher and was a part of MYO in the early years. Her inspiration was felt and continues to be felt. So thankful for her and her legacy of music. And now, one of Julia’s orchestra mates leads the group! How wonderful!

Brenda and Julia Fike

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I didn’t know Mrs. Betty personally. I got to know her through my nieces who were a part of her orchestra program. My family and I had the opportunity to see her in action while supporting our nieces at the concerts. My favorite was when my brother got to be a part of his daughters’ performance. My sister and brother spoke so highly of Mrs. Betty that when I saw the article in the IndyStar my heart sank. I immediately called to inform them of this heart felt passing. As I was reading I felt honored to have had some type of connection to this wonderful, extraordinary person by the name Mrs. Betty Perry. Although her life here on earth is done may her legacy live on. Indianapolis we have been gifted.
Praying for the family, friends and community.

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I never knew Mrs. Betty, but I DO know that many people will not forget her. Everyone, wether student or teacher, must Cary on her spirit with our music

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I will always remember our Butler Orchestra trip to Greensburg. We drove out together while snacking on chocolate covered espresso beans. We were a little overly energetic for playing “Pavane for a Dead Princess.”  And we laughed and giggle all the way home.

Rest In Peace.

Butler Classmate
Thomas Wright

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You were the first woman to hug me and encourage me, an arrogant middle age white guy, to challenge myself.  Your challenge was always in doing uncomfortable things.  Dancing with other dads, waddling like ducks around class, performing on stage.

And when I would hear, “just try it”, after getting the Betty Eyes, I felt I was capable of doing whatever you asked.

I’ve found a strength in music, myself, and this community.  I learned from you that doing uncomfortable things is often worth the risk and that hugs will change the world.

I now carry this belief with me every day.

Thank you and much much love,

Marcus

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You mean more to our family than you will ever know. We will always remember your patience teaching Anna at age 3 to hold a violin, to the fun Ryan had trying playing cello while lying on his back in Orchestra D. I am inspired by how your vision and love of music grew into the amazing organization called MYO. Thanks to you, our family has gotten to play music on the stage of Hilbert Circle Theatre. We have learned to play new instruments together. We have met amazing teachers and leaders and made new friends. Somehow you always found the time to share love and warmth with every single student and family. You are an inspiration and our hero, Ms. Betty Perry. We love you!  Karen Herbst-Kim & family

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You mean more to our family than you will ever know. We will always remember your patience teaching Anna at age 3 to hold a violin, to the fun Ryan had trying playing cello while lying on his back in Orchestra D. I am inspired by how your vision and love of music grew into the amazing organization called MYO. Thanks to you, our family has gotten to play music on the stage of Hilbert Circle Theatre. We have learned to play new instruments together. We have met amazing teachers and leaders and made new friends. Somehow you always found the time to share love and warmth with every single student and family. You are an inspiration and our hero, Ms. Betty Perry. We love you!  Karen Herbst-Kim & family

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Thank you for all you've done!  You are a legend. You will always be one of my biggest role models.   I love  you dearly!

Laura Crawford

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Thank you for very everything. It’s such a gift to have you in my life. Love you 💜 so many experiences that you have given me and all of the MYO family

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Ms. Petty,
Thank you for founding a life enrichment program which has geared the lives of many young people. My son Andre Hubbard learned so many valuable life skills during his time at MYO that I know he will use for the rest of his journey. Blessings to you and THANK YOU!

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Betty we love you so much ❤️. We feel like the luckiest people on earth to be in the right place at the right time to have had you in our lives. We all watched your celebration online (Finn at Ball State and Violet at IU), they will remember the time that you gave them, all those nights of private lessons, all the encouragement and confidence will stay with them for the rest of their lives. Thank you Betty -Beth, Billy, Finn, & Violet Hannan

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Ms. Perry,

Many thanks for being the wonderful mentor and inspirational individual you have always been for all of your students. The many lessons, friendships and formative experiences from MYO, from your leadership and caring, were more impactful than can be expressed. Many times throughout the years I have reflected on the way in which being your student shaped who I am today and more than once I’ve found myself repeating phrases and lessons you shared with us then, to my own children now. I share my many thanks to you and send you all my love.

-Breanna

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Thank you for mentoring and instructing my kids!  Your wisdom and care have touched and changed so many lives.  You are an inspiration.  Love to you ! 💕💕💕
- Gretchen, Corbin and Celia Katner

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Betty - thank you for creating an amazing program with friendships, musicality and nurturing of our talents.  When we moved to Indy in 2013, we had an experience in a similar program in Massachusetts but they are beyond comparison.  It was fun and challenging and very special to be part of MYO.  We love you ♥️

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Betty - thank you for creating an amazing program with friendships, musicality and nurturing of our talents.  When we moved to Indy in 2013, we had an experience in a similar program in Massachusetts but they are beyond comparison.  It was fun and challenging and very special to be part of MYO.  We love you ♥️

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Kathy Knoblauch (on behalf of Kayla)

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Thank you for showing me how to play the violin it was an amazing experience.

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Betty Perry! Beautiful Inside and Out!!!

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Betty Perry! Beautiful Inside and Out!!!

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Thank you Ms. Perry for being a light, a role model, a blessing to not only my girls, MiKael and MiKala, lives but my life as well. I have grown not to just appreciate strings but to fall in love with the sound of strings and classic music.
May GOD continue to pour his blessings upon you and may you continue to make your mark in this world and on so many more people's heart. LOVE YOU Betty Perry!!! NaTasha Allen, MOM

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Ms. Perry,

Some of my fondest and funniest memories come from being in MYO. Without you, I would never have joined. I was fortunate enough to be one of the thousands of kids you helped and made orchestra a large part of their lives. You are incredible person and made the world so much better. Though I only knew you towards the end of your long and impressive career, you still shaped a large part of my life and left an impression that will stick with me forever.
Leah McDermott

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MYO created more than music, MYO created special moments! Who would have imagined a bunch of teenager having a mini concert in a Denny’s restaurant. If social media was a thing back then, this definitely would have been a viral moment! Your influence touched many lives that day.

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I don’t think I really had a choice in the instrument I played. Maybe it was my dad that picked it for me. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I just remember meeting you when I was 4 years old and I had this instrument that I thought was a guitar with a stick LOL. I learned to love it (it was tough to love it at first with all those burning arm exercises.) I annoyed my older brother by practicing the same note on the A string  and then eventually I progressed on to learn how to play my first piece, “Mississippi River”.  I can’t believe that was 26 years ago. Wow time flies so quickly when you’re having fun.

I appreciate you so much for all that you taught me. I am happy to have been able to participate in your dream of MYO. Those Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday rehearsals were the stepping stones for many of us to go on to be successful in our chosen paths. For me MYO was more than just an orchestra, it was truly a family unit and that fostered an even greater appreciation and love for music.

One thing that always stuck with me was to not give excuses for being unprepared. You made the distinction between practice and rehearsal. “You practice to be prepared for rehearsal! ” (I am sure I am paraphrasing that quote.lol) You had the knack for allowing us to have fun while simultaneously keeping us focused on the business at hand. All of that has really influenced me as a business owner.

Though I don’t play as often (just for fun every now and then with my dad), you should know that your teachings of discipline and hard work have guided me through many aspects of my life beyond music. I am the owner of a popular cake boutique in Louisville, KY and design and create custom wedding cakes. Though my medium is cake, I instill the same passion, hard work, and discipline that you taught me to make my business thrive.
I love you Mrs Perry and I look forward to seeing you again and getting a great big hug! You always gave the best hugs 😊

Love Simóne

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Dear Betty, This is what I wrote to kick off your party I was honored to preside over and m.c. These words flowed out of me with out any deliberation or hesitation iwith no need to amend as if they wrote themselves! Direct from the heart. I'm grateful for our many shared collaborations over 30 years. I know we learned a lot from each other and am glad we got the chance to realize, review, and rejoice the last months of your life! Here are those words of introduction at your party. xoxo  We gather to take advantage of the opportunity to show our love, gratitude and amazement of the One and Only Betty, Ms Perry.

We are here to pay tribute to the countless lives she has impacted.

We are here to share stories

We are here to Express through word and music our respect and admiration for the woman who had a vision to use music as a means to connect to one another.

The woman who gave individual students an identity and purpose

The woman who provided an outlet for families to bond

The woman who invited one and all to come to the table and feast in the camaraderie and joy of making music.

It's a PARTY!

It's with joy we gather

and with joy we celebrate!

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The last time I saw you it was playing to honor you, and what a privilege it has been to know you, and be taught by you. The lessons that you've taught me weren't all music related either. You gave me hope, confidence, discipline when needed, encouragement, love, inspiration, and so much more. I know you don't want us to be sad, but I am. I've been sad since I got the news, but I'm happy that I also get the chance to tell you how much you've impacted my life and how much you mean to me. I honestly haven't been playing for the past couple of years because I lost my joy for it, but I am picking my bass back up in your honor. I love you Mrs. Perry and I'll never forget you. It's not goodbye but see you later.

Love,
Felice

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How many lives have you touched Betty? How many dollars raised? String teachers mentored? Lives turned around for the better? Our community loves you and we’re all better for having known you. Please watch over us all. -Kathleen Swayze

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An artist's tribute to Miss Betty Perry 💙💚

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An artist's tribute to Miss Betty Perry 💙💚

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Once Ms. Ford started talking, I started drawing. As I listened to the stories of the wonderus things that Miss Betty has done, I could immerse myself into those stories and imagine myself right in there with the rest of the students who were extremely lucky to have you as their teacher

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Thank you for letting us into the Myo family , we love you so much, Makayla has grown into a young lady and you Ms.Perry and Myo and people she has cross paths with.  You gave that little energized girl a chance a it worked. We have had so many good times,memories,etc. From picnics,spraying the music stands,the chicken ride to maxines,to sundays meetings for the girls to practice and the pitch-in at your house, making friendships that we are truely family because of you. We are all so fortunate and honor to have Betty Perry, as a mom,friend.  We parents that helped behind the scenes at concerts and events totally had fun from the christmas parties,the fountain square swing ,the ncaa events.  So many memories and will treasure for life.  I have my bubbles ready when your are in my thoughts let party with bubbles.  Betty On!!!!
We love you LaDonna Charlie Makayla

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I did not have the honor of talking to you much about your musical career and the great outpouring of love and musical talent you have given to so many. This seems to me to be all the more reason to address you from a different perspective.

I remember the very first time we meet outside the gates of the dog park. Your spirit and mine seem to have connected. I’m sure that has happened for so many people, as you radiate kindness and support.

You were so open to talk about chronic illness, and making it through day by day. I greatly needed those discussions Ms. Betty.

How wonderful it would have been to have met you in an earlier season of my life, as I have a musical history too. But, this is what I am so thankful for in meeting you through Tobe: Your decision to get Tobe that day gave me Lucille. May you know that your legacy of kindness, understanding, honesty and transparency lives on in Lucille.

I am most honored to have meet you, and I am counting on looking back one day and saying “Lucille and I have been friends for years.”

Thank you Momma Betty.
Bernie, Tony, Finnley and Auden Smith

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Dmitry, Nick, and Vlad at a concert at the Indiana State Museum

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To the GREAT, GREAT, GREAT, GREAT... Ms Betty Perry!

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To the GREAT, GREAT, GREAT, GREAT... Ms Betty Perry!

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Thank you for giving the gift of music to my family. Dmitry is now a sophomore and Vlad is now in 8th grade and both still play cello. Vlad & I cherish the time we spent with you in Debut orchestra. You even got me to play the cello. The class was so much fun. You had us playing the cello while laying down on the floor. Playing the cello standing up. You knew all the tricks to keep the kids engaged, while being so so sneaky and actually teaching them new things. You are the only person in the world that could get me to dance on the ISO stage and wear a straw hat! Not even Anya could talk me into doing this. Also, the outreach to Sidener was so important to Dmitry and all the IPS kiddos there. Picking Jessie to teach them after school was a stroke of genius. That whole group of kids are still playing music. We all love you! And we love that music is our life everyday! Thank you!

With deep love and appreciation,
Nick Ohler and family.

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To THE GREAT GREAT GREAT BETTY PERRY, From the Walkers

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To THE GREAT GREAT GREAT BETTY PERRY, From the Walkers

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We love you. MYO always meant family to me. From the first time we arrived for orchestra D at Key school it was fun and family friendly. I love the jokes, the dancing and beat boxing at orientation. You are magic and you make the World a better place.

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Betty, you are such a gentle person 💕 You will always be loved.  Your legacy will stay in the present moment with every musical note.  We just learned about all your accomplishments, and I am so honored to be able to have crossed paths. Classical music brings joy to my heart 💕
Ralph and Ruth Boberg

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Hey there lady.  I sent a message via the Zoom chat, but wanted to send this to you as well.  Just to reiterate, I thank you for introducing me to the violin and classical music.  My world was forever changed for the better as a result.  I love you and will always remember my first cooling instructor.

Mack Shead

Busy as a Bee is still my favorite.

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Metropolitan Youth Orchestra concert at Children's Museum

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Dear the great great great great great great greeeeaaaaattttt Ms. Perry,

You have been a true inspiration in my life. This screenshot was from when you let me "teach you" for practice. You treated me just like a teacher and kindly directed me when I made a mistake. Of course, I was horrible and I did not know what I was doing, but you still made me feel great. That is the type of person you are. Kindness, humor, love, and devotion. You gave all of your students your best qualities.

Even though I did not take the music route, you are still an amazing role model. I remember one day, I was refusing to practice and you told me that if I wanted to make it to New York (my dream at the time) I had to work hard and be strong. I will always remember that moment. When things feel too hard to do, I think back on that moment and how much you believed in me, and made it known. (I'm sorry I never practiced lol)

Thank you for your impact. Thank you for making music accessible for children all over Indianapolis. Thank you for having us share a joke after practice. Thank you for giving us a place to learn discipline, passion, and love. You will leave behind a tremendous legacy that no one else can recreate. I am so lucky to have been taught by you. I am sending you so much love ❤️

Love,
DeJanae Harges

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Betty taught me the “Unbothered”

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Ms. Perry,
We are so fortunate to have you in our lives! You led us on all those fun Saturdays, directed us at concerts, served as a mentor to Christina, opened us up to learning an instrument alongside our kids, engaged us in so many great conversations and opportunities to learn! When Kolby was just 5, you encouraged him and made him feel comfortable performing a song with his dad - and he did it. On stage. In front of everyone. You not only taught music, but also courage, self-expression, confidence, leadership, the list goes on and on. You are wonderful. We miss you and MYO so much. Please know you are loved!!
Amanda Rickard

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Dearest Betty,

I didn't realize how much my life would change when I met you 30 years ago. I remember how much fun I had in that ensemble, with BJ, and Matt, and so many others. You were the ultimate encourager, and you showed so much confidence in our group. (I can't recall the name of our group--I think it was Ebony and Ivory, right?) The amount of patience you showed me was astounding---goodness knows I could be an annoying teenager!!! But you had faith in me. Your encouragement of and confidence in me helped ignite a fire in my heart, and because of you, I've been able to dedicate my life to music, and sharing it with others. I could not have accomplished what I have without you---you were the start of it all, and I'll forever be grateful. Thank you for loving me from when I was your student, thank you for allowing me the privilege of teaching with you back at the Children's Museum and then at Broadway UMC, and thank you for your friendship and wisdom through it all. I love you so very much!

Love,
Chantal Incandela

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You have been such an encouragement and inspiration to me, telling me to always be the best I can possibly be. Thank you for teaching me to conduct, and for letting me conduct your orchestra by your side.  I will never forget how you believed in me.  I love you Mrs. Perry.  Caleb Dieudonne

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You have been such an encouragement and inspiration to me, telling me to always be the best I can possibly be. Thank you for teaching me to conduct, and for letting me conduct your orchestra by your side.  I will never forget how you believed in me.  I love you Mrs. Perry.  Caleb Dieudonne

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Dearest Betty, Thank you so much for the message of music, family, and community that you shared with all of us. I am forever grateful for the time and talents you poured into my daughter and every child in MYO. I have several MYO memories, but my best one is the time an MYO ensemble group traveled to St. Louis to perform a concert for The Links. MYO was graciously hosted and they gave a stellar performance. However, the best was yet to come the next day when they heard that the waitress at the restaurant was unable to hear their performance because she had to work. YOUR students left the restaurant went to the bus and came back with their instruments and serenaded her and the other patrons. I will always remember the smile on her face and the tears in her eyes as she listened to the music. How proud we were of the students and how blessed we were to experience a full circle moment of the magic of music and community. Thank you for teaching the lesson! #BettyOn Peace, Love, and Light Alfreda Smith

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Dear Ms. Perry, it is such an honor to meet you while I was in elementary school. I had never thought I would play an instrument in my life, and that was the beginning😂. I also loved spending Saturday mornings coming to practice and telling jokes to get through the time with all smiles!! The program had build my confidence in performing in front of people and you get to witness them😁. By the way, I have often thought about your italian sausages you have made some time ago😋. Thank you for everything you have taught me and messages I can keep with me for a long period of time!! Thank you thank you❤❤❤❤,
Nyla Terry🎵

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Dear Betty,

Thank you for being the best colleague, teacher, motivator and very special friend. You were always an inspiration and I thank you for all the important things I learned from from you.   The most memorable is: “ There is no such thing as a bad child.”  And I will never forget those Tuesday afternoons when you would drop my office just to give me a big, wonderful hug❣️ God bless. ❤️
Xoxo
Rita

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Ms. Perry,
Thank you so much for all you have done. The doors that opened for my family, because of MYO, have been great. This program allowed my daughters to experience the viola, and playing with others, at a young age. You have taken away barriers for people, so that they could be a part of something great. You are an awesome individual, and our lives are better because you have been a part of it. We love you!
-The McClam Family

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Words cannot express what you mean to me, Betty. From that lil trailer at Auntie Mame’s, to all the days and nights on 39th street; Witherspoon rehearsals early on Saturday mornings; Music camp in Trafalgar, Kings Island (taking a wrong turn 🤦🏾‍♀️) Driving the Blazer! Countless car rides filled with life advice, love and comfort…and through it all you were there for me. You made a way for me like I was your own. Lucy, Kiel and me 😍 lol. I am forever grateful The Creator saw fit to place you in my life as part of my village. You truly changed my life for the better. My parents wouldn’t let me go very many places with anyone, but they would let me go to the moon if they knew I’d be with you. From the entire Johnson family, we love you forever!!
~ Crystal

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Thank you so much for your time and care taken to help me appreciate music the way I do now. You've given me and so many others so much in terms of how you've helped so many people fall in love with music through your patience and love for those you teach. I'll always remember the time you spent not just trying to make me a better musician, but help me understand why I should love music. Thank you so much for everything!
-Evan Horn

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We're a new MYO family, so unfortunately we never had the opportunity to learn from you directly, Ms. Perry. But your vision, hard work, and generosity of spirit paved the way for our family and countless others in our community. Although we have never met, I wanted to express my sincere gratitude for you. We know YOU forged our way, and we won't forget that. Your legacy lives on in the 6-year-olds like mine who are playing their first notes in orchestra. Thank you.

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Betty, you are such an inspiration. I remember when I first met you back in 2002 to coach the MYO violins—I was so amazed by the program you had built up. You gave so many people a community and home in music.  You made me feel like a part of the MYO family from that very first time. I hope that I can someday have 1/1000 of the impact you have. Thank you, Betty, and I love you!
Jennifer Farquhar

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Jarrod Colbert MYO alum & Mom Rev. Toni Colbert @Jarrod's graduation from Univ. Of Kentucky

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Love you! ❤
Jarrod

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Thank you for giving my favorite cousin, Kevin Randolph, his purpose. Without your program, his life may have taken a different path. He so often spoke of the many things you did for him and the MYO and how much he loved you! He made us all so proud and that’s is greatly due to your genuine love and encouragement. Now I get to have a small part of the MYO under Krystle Ford’s direction and am learning to play violin now. None of these things would be possible without you! For Kevin I thank you, I’m sure he would have virtually hugged you and thanked you as well! Thank you Krysta (Randolph).

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Dear Ms. Perry,
I laughed at the comment during the celebration about being "volun-told" to start learning the bass. I was involved with the FORTE leadership committee when they teamed up with the MYO in 2011 for a mentoring program and post high school preparation. Before our mentoring program after rehearsal one night, you "volun-told" me to jump on the bongos and gave me the beat. It was so much fun. Thank you for that memory.
Ben Hiney

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Ms. Betty Perry and Mrs. Simran Kaur-Colbert 

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Power. Love. Acceptance. Courage. You embody these qualities and blessed us with your mentorship and guidance. I first met you at my husband, MYO alum, Jarrod Colbert's college graduation from University of Kentucky in '14. We immediately bonded over our shared ties to growing up in the NYC boroughs and our shared taste in cuisine. Your love and courage empowered my husband and I to brave on in our educational/professional endeavors. Your wisdom inspires us and we continue to journal the fond memories of our struggles and celebrations together. You always knew what to say to us at each stage of our adulthood journey, graduating, career finding, marriage, moving, graduate education, to instill courage and joy. Thank you for sharing your stories with me, with us, modelling resilience and radical love. You will always be with us both and we will carry your courage and joy with us through each new stage of our lives ahead. 🙏🏽Thank you for loving me and accepting me, it is one of my greatest blessings and good fortune. We love you and we will meet again! With all my heart, Simmi 💜

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I had the chance to meet you as a part of my DEIB consultancy with the ISO, and I could not be more grateful. While we were only in the same room a few brief times, your brilliance, wisdom, warmth, and humor affected me deeply and will always stay with me. Thank you for the way you so clearly embrace every person who comes into your orbit, and thank you for giving me the massive personal gift of your time, experience and wisdom. I hold you in my heart with honor every day as I do my work with the orchestral field. Sending love to you from Boston, -Jessica Schmidt

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Thank you for the creation of MYO. I have now found another family to look towards to on Tuesday nights all because of what you created. I wish you well. Thank you, sincerely.

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Betty,

I’m so glad our paths crossed and that I had the privilege to work with you. I’ll always be grateful for the warmth you showed me and that you encouraged me to join in on the fun as much as possible. I have fond memories of Play a Thon and Jazz and Jam AND that one time we had to do an interview for public TV 😩😂 You are an amazing light and I love you.
Michelle Poss (Tucker)

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Betty Perry,  there are no words to express how grateful I am that we met almost 40 years ago.  Jared Johnson, was just about 3 years old when he started playing his very first very tiny violin.  Adrienne Johnson started playing cello when she was nine. They played string instruments until they graduated from college.  We can only say 'thank you' for choosing to invest in my children's lives, and for never asking for anything in return.  Bless you!

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Betty Perry,  there are no words to express how grateful I am that we met almost 40 years ago.  Jared Johnson, was just about 3 years old when he started playing his very first very tiny violin.  Adrienne Johnson started playing cello when she was nine. They played string instruments until they graduated from college.  We can only say 'thank you' for choosing to invest in my children's lives, and for never asking for anything in return.  Bless you!

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Cecelia Johnson-Powell

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Ms. Perry's life first became evident to my family and I a few years ago. We saw her at a MYO concert at Hilbert Theater where she conducted a song! Although small in stature, Ms. Perry's personality was larger than life! She was serious, but kind! My daughters enjoyed seeing an amazing director that looked like them. Since that day, we have had little resistance to practice and waking up on time. I am so grateful for her vision in creating this program!

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Ms. Perry, I LOVE YOU! You are an absolute legend and I am so thankful God allowed me to know you in my lifetime! My mom signed me up for the Children’s Museum Metropolitan Youth Orchestra when I was in 6th grade so I could learn to play the violin. I will never forget the times we had at the children’s museum, or when you would take us to gigs as we got older to weddings and other events. We all loved when you would invite us over for dinner to have some of your amazing food! We would clown so hard and you also knew when to get on us when we were having too much fun! I remember our first Jazz Concert with Cathy Morris and Kevin, Krystle, Janea, and I getting a chance to improvise! I remember our annual recitals and how nervous I would be to get up and perform in front of all our families and friends. That prepared me to be comfortable being on a stage and having the floor in my adult life. Our lessons and music with you left a lasting impression on my life. You are such an inspiration to me and I knew I wanted to be just like you when I grew up! Your smile is contagious and your love for the community is unmatched. I appreciate everything you poured into me at a young age, and Thank you Thank you, Thank you, for your dedication, your patience, and your love! Classical music is till this day my go to and my comfort, and I found that love being apart of MYO back in 1995! My most precious lasting memory is getting to see you, Kevin Krystle and others at our 20 year reunion. I’m so happy I was able to be apart of it! Thank you again for everything! Your legacy will continue to live on! I’m so proud of you! You have impacted so many! We love you!!! Joy Brown Redmon 

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Ms. Perry, I LOVE YOU! You are an absolute legend and I am so thankful God allowed me to know you in my lifetime! My mom signed me up for the Children’s Museum Metropolitan Youth Orchestra when I was in 6th grade so I could learn to play the violin. I will never forget the times we had at the children’s museum, or when you would take us to gigs as we got older to weddings and other events. We all loved when you would invite us over for dinner to have some of your amazing food! We would clown so hard and you also knew when to get on us when we were having too much fun! I remember our first Jazz Concert with Cathy Morris and Kevin, Krystle, Janea, and I getting a chance to improvise! I remember our annual recitals and how nervous I would be to get up and perform in front of all our families and friends. That prepared me to be comfortable being on a stage and having the floor in my adult life. Our lessons and music with you left a lasting impression on my life. You are such an inspiration to me and I knew I wanted to be just like you when I grew up! Your smile is contagious and your love for the community is unmatched. I appreciate everything you poured into me at a young age, and Thank you Thank you, Thank you, for your dedication, your patience, and your love! Classical music is till this day my go to and my comfort, and I found that love being apart of MYO back in 1995! My most precious lasting memory is getting to see you, Kevin Krystle and others at our 20 year reunion. I’m so happy I was able to be apart of it! Thank you again for everything! Your legacy will continue to live on! I’m so proud of you! You have impacted so many! We love you!!! Joy Brown Redmon 

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With love from Dawn, Don and Gardner Briggs

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Dear Betty, When I think of the lives you’ve touched and left all the more better for knowing you I see a road of connected children and adults. Graced by your teachings and your generous spirit. You leave A world that is better because you were here. We think of you with love and wish you Godspeed on your next journey and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for not only Teaching our son but for teaching us as well. Thanks just isn’t enough…

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Our paths didn't cross often, but when they did it was always wonderful. I always enjoyed those hallway conversations. You always had a listening ear, a warm hug, and encouraging words. You always told me how much I was appreciated. I remember when you tried to teach some staff members to play instruments. I was so excited when I could play those few notes on the cello. It didn't sound great, but that didn't matter. You made me feel like a true musician. Love and hugs to you my friend.

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As I read through the many tributes from lives you have touched, I wonder if there is anything that I can add to the accolades.  Please know that I treasure the years that we worked together at the ISO.  I learned so much from you regarding your philosophy of educating and bringing families together.  The most effective way of lifting us all up!

And then there were all of our discussions of food and cooking.

Please know that I am holding you dear to my heart.
Forever,
Linda Noble

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I first "fell in love" with Betty before I ever met her in person. I had two young children, both learning the violin and I wanted something more for them. I wanted music not just to be practice and lessons but something more. One day I caught Betty on a local television show for children. She had a little ensemble play and she told about her program, MYO. My heart was carried away by her words as I knew in that moment MYO was what I had been seeking. I set off that very day to learn how we could be a part of her story. I "fell in love" with Betty after our 1st interview. She could see into the heart of the children. My daughter had expressed concern to me over having Betty as a teacher because she "looked scary." When we came in for our first lesson, without me ever saying a word, Betty said, "I know you may think I am scary. My mother always tells me to smile because she says I may look like I am angry. But I want you to know, I am not angry or scary. This is just my face. So I may not look happy on the outside but I am smiling on the inside." This hit my daughter right where it needed to go-Betty had connection with them and they went on to have a very special and wonderful relationship. Betty also took on my son, who was not in an orchestra when we started. He wasn't sure he wanted to be but on his birthday Betty told him, "You are seven, do you know what happens when you turn seven? You join the orchestra." Betty knew exactly how to handle his little heart and mind. It was one reason we love Betty so much. This was the way it always was, with all children that Betty taught and mentored. We had such great times. We started at the Children's Museum and ended up at ISO. Betty provided other fantastic teachers. We had great experiences from Strings and Jazzy Things, performing alongside other musicians like Time for 3, Cathy Morris, International Violin performers master classes, the big play in at the National Swimming competition. Meals at you home, visiting with your momma, you coming to our house and kissing the ground when you finally got here- Big City Girl coming out to the country where the other children were concerned there were no lines on the roads. :) We had great fun being your "roadies" at Madame Walker; doing set up, tear-down, sound booth and prepping the students. We were "family" and we loved you. When the children repeated, "We love you, Mrs. Perry!" They meant it. You have been such an influence on the lives of so many, you have made a huge impact on fellow teachers, education, families and the community at large. For that, we thank you. I know God brought you into our lives and I am very grateful for that. You played a huge role in my children's lives, but also in mine and my husband. I do love you, Betty! "It is God that girdeth me with strength, and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like hind's feet, and sets me upon my high places. Thou has given me the shield of thy salvation; and thy right hand holden me up, and thy gentleness has made me great. Thou has enlarged my steps under me, that my feet did not slip. " Psalm 18: 32-36 I pray God holds you up as you finish the race and you know His perfect peace, through His Son, Jesus Christ.

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Miss  Betty Perry February 2020

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Dear Betty,
Your bringing the vision of MYO to the Indianapolis community and to the ISO is a wonderful legacy that has already enriched the lives of multitudes of students, families, and community members. Your personal warmth and caring heart drew us like a magnet, the force of which will impact even more lives in years to come. The wholistic nurture of the MYO model supports healthy families as it encourages and rewards the hard work that making music demands. Enduring thanks for inspiring participants and engaging fans with the beauty of your leadership.

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"Legacy" is not a big enough word for what you have created.  We are forever humbled and honored to get to be part of MYO.  It is so much more than music, and at the same time the music is everything.  It's impossible to sufficiently express our gratitude for your vision and bringing MYO into existence.  The impact you've had is incalculable and will continue to grow exponentially.

With love,
The Seghi Family (Claire & Julia)

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Dear Betty,

There is nothing better than a life well-lived and well-loved. You exemplify both. Your love and care for students knows no boundaries. I can’t begin to count the many times in my teaching that I’ve asked myself, WWBD?  “What would Betty do?”

A cherished memory is the year that I spent in orchestra C on Saturday mornings in the cello section. I learned the magic that is “Betty,” and how you brought parents and family into a cohesive musical whole, creating memorable concert moments for all. This is where I really started to learn about community engagement and teaching, including the value of flexibility, empathy and most of all, humor.  You taught me that everyone, and I mean everyone, can learn a string instrument, giving new meaning to the phrase ‘no child left behind.’

Betty, you have been far more than a colleague. You are a true friend and mentor.  We “grew up” together (you in MYO, me in BCAS) for 20 years, facing many of the same challenges and successes. You were far more than a collaborator – you were like a sister to me.

I was honored to share United Way’s “100 Heroes” celebration with you. You are truly a hero (and a legend) in our community. Your legacy lives on in the thousands of students that you have taught and inspired. Your creative renewal fellowship journey inspired me to discover my own renewal journey. I am beyond grateful for our many years together.

All my love,
Karen Thickstun

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We'd like to appreciate Ms. Perry for being a mass inspiration to all, and for founding such a beautiful community. We love you Ms. Perry!!

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Betty, you will always hold such a special place in my family’s hearts! You patiently taught my son violin and my daughter viola and filled each lesson with love and excitement. You are such a great storyteller and advice giver! I loved my talks with you before and after my kids’ lessons. You care so deeply for your people and love fiercely. You were ALWAYS there for my kids when they needed a little extra help- an extra emergency practice right before ISSMA- a pep talk right before an MYO concert. As my kids grew and moved on from MYO, I’ve loved staying in touch with you! You’re an exceptional human and my family’s lives have been enriched by knowing you!
We love you so!!
Derek, Meg, Evan and Abigail Horn

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Ms Betty, I'm Pam from Denmark SC, glad to be part of your life through your sisters Carol and Cherie. BLESSINGS ♥️

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The arts community is forever grateful for your significant contribution to us and ALL the youth impacted through MYO.  Thank you, and yes, your legacy of inspiration and dedication IS continuing...Blessings, Comfort, and peace to you,  Monica R. Peterson, former Community Development Manager, Indiana Arts Commission, Board Member, IVCI.

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Betty,
There’s never enough time nor the right words to say when we need them the most. I cherish our time spent together at S&JT. I gathered many “teacher tricks” while observing your orchestra rehearsals. I also watched how much you love music and sharing that love to others. I’m in awe of how many people you have inspired over the years. So many people who were fortunate to have you in their lives! How do you do it? You’re an inspiration to all. I’m  happy to call you my friend.
Your fellow shorty and troublemaker violist friend,
Kati Harrison
❤️🎶🎻

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Dear Betty,
Thank you. Thank you for the strength, guidance, and love you have given to our family. Thank you for the friendships you have given us through the MYO. Thank you for the music, the experiences, the memories (even that cold 500 Festival), and the laughter that have so enriched our lives. Thank you for sharing yourself with us, we are better humans because of you. When we first met you, you asked Ben if he would stay with MYO until he graduated high school. He was overwhelmed by the huge length of time but said yes, because he realized you had expectations and he wanted to live up to them and of course he stayed. And of course, if we hadn't moved Bayes and Noah would have as well. In fact when we told the kids we were moving, the very first thing Noah said was, "But I'll never be in Orchestra A." Because MYO matters. You matter. We still have our "Betty Bucks" around here somewhere. Like all things MYO, we carry them with us.
I have many pictures of you with your arms wide open. Technically it is because you're conducting, but I see it more because you have alway opened your arms to all of us. We love you. Laura, Charles, Ben, Bayes, and Noah Harris

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Thank you for sharing your gift, your love of music and your vision to create this program that allowed so many children to grow into well rounded adults with purpose in this world. This program has allowed my family to connect and bond in ways that I never knew were possible. This program allowed me to fulfill a dream I had as a child (that I never thought would happen) by learning to play the violin as an adult and watching so many children of all ethnicities and backgrounds share the love of music together. You have paved the way for so many and your dedication has shined in the program year after year. You have earned your flowers ma’am. Job well done. Much love to you.

The Pritchett Family

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My friend/mentor/inspiration,
I have been so blessed to call you friend and colleague over the years.  Our Sunday evening calls have provided so much nourishment to the week ahead.  You will never know how much I've learned from you.  You are one of the most amazing people whom I have ever crossed paths with!  Thank you for being YOU!
Love,
Laura

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Dear Betty, I have cancer, too and am stipulating in my Will that my violin be donated to the MYO.

Love,

Laurel Bronson
Philharmonic Orchestra of Indianapolis

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Ms. Betty visiting the 2015 FV Summer Camp 

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So personable.  So matter of fact.  So sincere.  That’s the Betty Perry that I have come to know.  I can’t remember the first time we met.  It seems like forever.  Conversations.  Dinner.  Encouragement.  Always upbeat.

In 2015 we selected you as one of the Freetown Village role models for our summer campers to meet you and learn about who you are and what you did.  You came, guitar in hand, and gleefully provided a mini concert.  The campers were spellbound and grasped onto every word you said.  So personable.  So matter of fact and so sincere.  I always said that I want to be a Betty Perry when I grow up.

Love you bunches,
Ophelia Wellington, Freetown Village Living History Museum

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Thank you for being an amazing teacher. I started with you my when I was 3 and almost 9 years later and I'm still playing with these two freinds.
I've made amazing freinds at MYO and my favorite memory with you was when we sang I'm a little tea pot short and stout.

- Lucy wickesberg

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Long-awaited Christmas Dinner/Reunion at Ms. Perry's home in 2016

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It's difficult to think of Ms. Perry and not instantly begin to smile. I met The Great Ms. Perry almost 15 years ago and the experiences, laughs, and life lessons will be with me for the rest of my life. I am so thankful and honored to have been a member of MYO and a student of Ms. Perry.

Thanks for everything, Ms. Perry!!

Myles Robinson

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I'm so proud to be your sister, you are truly amazing. You was BLESSED with a awesome talent of cooking anything from A-Z. LMBO 😂 Our running joke is June I'll call and ask am i heavy yet.??..cas i sit on your back till August. I couldn't have asked for a more loving sister than you. I love you deeply and dearly forever and a day ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💯💯💯💯💯🤗🤗🤗

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Dear Betty,
I have many memories of the times you, Laura and I spent over lunch or dinner, but there is one memory that I want to recall at this time. It was early in our friendship and the three of us were talking about all kinds of things -- serious and silly.  The conversation meandered around to your love life!  Do you remember?  You were sharing stories about a couple of men you were seeing casually. At some point, and I honestly do not know what possessed me to say this, but I leaned over, and said with, an intense, deadpan expression and serious voice, "Betty, I think it's time we had THE TALK." And you said something like, "you mean about sex?" And I said "yes." And then the three of us burst out laughing, and we laughed so hard that we cried.  I have often reflected on that exchange -- we really didn't know one another very well, yet I just blurted it out.  I think it was because you create safe space, where friendship and acceptance flow, and all are free to be who they are. As our friendship developed we talked about some serious stuff -- our hopes, dreams, happiness, sadness, failures, successes, race, gender, politics, and many other topics that touched us deeply.  Each time, we got right down to it and I always came away with a feeling of closeness, fellowship, and enrichment.  I think that is one of the many qualities that you have that has made you so successful in your work with students in the MYO -- the desire and abliity to create safe space, an accepting atmosphere, and the offering of supportive friendship. These are the gifts of your legacy and your impact on me. I wish you peace as you move through this next phase of your journey.
Love,
Deb Balogh

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When you lived in NYC, you overcame unusual, difficult circumstances that gave you drive and determination to  become a leader.  You are strong, passionate, caring, friendly and helpful to all you meet. You have made a difference in the lives of MYO students.  What a fantastic idea to involve the parents by learning to play an instrument ,too.  All the MYO students grew in confidence by reaching high expectations you set; you made the journey a fantastic time in their lives. We are forever grateful for your impact on our MYO students.  Thank you, Betty.
Karen Davis

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I have had the privilege of working with Betty on several occasions. She is always generous with her time , willing at the drop of a hat to meet to discuss strategy in music education, and to work alongside us ISO players in schools. One day I asked if she would come to Fall Creek Valley middle school to help me work with the seventh and eighth grade violinists and violists preparing for the ISSMA competition. Betty sat with me in the cramped room where we coached small groups and individual students, so I had a front row seat to watch her teach.   She made the students comfortable, while subliminally communicating that we were engaged in serious business, so no goofing around. She showed me the almost hypnotic magic that some rare teachers have with children: the ability to communicate directly with who they are, and to let them know in no uncertain terms that we are engaged in something important.

She tried to explain her approach to me, but I don’t know how a person learns to draw out a student the way Betty demonstrated on that day, when she so directly reached my students, whom she’d never met. Her effect on them had to do not only with her teaching method, but with who they sensed her to be, and the way in which she was present for them.   I think she built her teaching approach from the foundation of her own remarkable musical and life education, music and life being inextricably intertwined for Betty.   She has shared freely the story of her often daunting musical  journey; many of you will have heard it.

When she looked into a student’s eyes and said, “Your tone is beautiful,” even when the student was missing key techniques, she was starting a conversation and laying the groundwork for a relationship.   The students noticed that she “saw” them, and that no detail of their performance was too small for her to care about.

People who know Betty have said “Betty has saved lives.”  Her teaching has gone far beyond imparting technical know-how. She has always believed in educating the whole student, and through my too-brief interaction with her, I have come to know that her dynamic, totally-invested charisma works on parents and teachers, too. “

Lisa Scott
Violin II
ISO

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MYO has such been such a huge part of our lives for the last 6.5 years. Learning to play an instrument as a family will always remain one of my favorite memories. Thanks for your vision and the blessing of the MYO family.

With love,
The Lapish family

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I so enjoy your vibrant love of people and music and I am in awe of your wealth of knowledge. Everything you have poured yourself into will continue to encourage and strengthen young musicians for generations.

May the Lord bless you and keep you, make His face shine upon you, and grant you peace.

Amy Kniffen

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Dear Betty,

It is clear by just a quick glance through these posts that you were a force in the community, especially for the performing arts community. I am so blessed to have had the chance to work with you and to soak in your ideas and your love for students. I appreciate your plans to increase family engagement, to connect entities in the music world, and network for the betterment of kids. I know you impacted my view of performing arts, and I thank you deeply for your work. I wish you peace, joy, rest, and the honor that you so clearly deserve.

Love,
Kayla Smith
Lawrence Township Performing Arts

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We first met you when you visited our son's elementary school back in May of 2015, where you observed his first concert and shared information about the MYO program. We have been blessed ever since to have become part of this musical community. You are a shining example of talent, passion, and love. You are one of the rarest of individuals who can make everyone around you feel like family. You even let Alberto join in play with your family on the lawn at SOTP. We continue to consider ourselves incredibly lucky to have known you and to have been introduced to classical music through the MYO program. Your legacy is timeless and is always amplified through the countless students you've taught and the teachers you've mentored. We are grateful that your family has shared you for so long with us and the greater Indianapolis community.

With love and gratitude,
The Gibau Family

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Mrs Perry conducting a taste test at Maxines Chicken and Waffle

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I was lucky enough to cross paths with Mrs Perry and be her assistant for a few years, shortly after MYO joined forces with the Symphony. She was such a force, the strong, kind voice that can speak over any crowd and who you immediately aspire to be more like. I have many fond memories of Betty, but my favorite is when she heard i had never made waffles before. She gathered the ingredients and a waffle iron and together in our small kitchen at the ISO we made Waffles to practice. Betty, you made such an impact with just you, being you... And i will forever be grateful that our paths crossed.
Much Love,
-Gary Luther

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Ms. Perry,

I knew that when we first met that you were a person of substance, great importance, and impeccable taste - because you told me you were a violist.  It gave me great insight into what I soon would see was true: you were a person that could stand tall and confidently on stage, but you were most at home among kids with your guitar singing, dancing, and making us parents make fools of ourselves. From one violist to another - you made MYO become more than a musical organization, but a community.  A community that used the universal language of music to create beautiful things, to connect people, and to shake off our fears and egos and become kids again (at least for us adults, that is.)

We had heard of the mighty and great great great great great Ms. Perry, but I still mostly saw the compassionate, kind, thoughtful, patient, and wise Ms. Perry.  Like most violists, you didn't mind attention but didn't really seek it. You created harmony (violists always do) and created space where we could "shake it, shake it, shake it all around, and shake it upside down."  And as a true violist, you supported all of us so that we could shine.

And as a parent that left her viola sitting in its dusty case for over 10 years, you were never afraid to call me out.  Never afraid to set expectations that I would play alongside my kids.  You brought back something I had left behind and was too afraid to pick up again.  You, Ms. Betty Perry, helped me to find my love for music once again.

With my three kids, Daniel, Lucy, and Teddy we found our place in this community and it became an essential part of our lives.  Amidst the music floating around was also conversation and laughter where a village was built, and lifetime friendships were formed. The connections we made, were because of your life's work, and the belief you had in all of us.

Ms. Perry, you not only helped us find our light to shine, you gave us all some of your own. We can never thank you enough for the imprint you have left inside all of us.

With deepest gratitude,

Ye Jin Wickesberg (Daniel, Lucy, and Teddy)

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Proverbs 19:21 – My people have many plans for their lives but it’s the Lord's plan that will prevail.

27 years ago, the Lord’s plan prevailed, and my life was forever changed by Ms. Perry, when my mom said “yes” to me learning how to play the violin. Ms. Perry had a dream to introduce music to children in a way that would allow us to connect to a musical culture that we typically would not have been previewed to and set a foundation that opened doors for us to develop a love for the arts.

Ms. Perry,

In 1995 you made your mark in my life and pushed the doors wide open for me to be a part of the genesis of The Metropolitan Youth Orchestra. I never realized that being a founding member of MYO would have such an impact on my life and cultivate me into the woman that God has destined me to be today. The commitment you showed to me even when I didn’t want to practice or would show up to my private lessons unprepared was evident in your dedication to develop me by any means necessary which sometimes included you giving me a taste of your Bronx reprimand to get me to straighten up and fly right (LOL). The love that you poured into me went beyond the music, you always checked in to see how I was doing in school, you always asked about my mom and my sisters’ and how they were doing, you invested yourself in my dreams of a career in Dentistry and you encouraged me to believe that I can do Music and Dentistry, you NEVER made me choose. You introduced me to many genres of music that included classical, jazz, blues, rock, and funk music, and if it wasn’t for MYO I would not have the love for these genres of music that I have today. Your musical investment in my life created the path and set me apart even in the world of dance. My exposure to music through MYO created the space for me to connect with music through the movement of dance in a way that opened the doors for me to pursue dance at a professional level. Me being able to bridge the gap with my love for dance with so many genres of music were because of YOU!!!

Who knew your vision for MYO that started at The Children’s Museum would grow from a small group of children that came from humble beginnings to the legacy it is today? You did! It’s because of that legacy that not only were my sister’s and I fortunate to study under you, but my nephews Kayin and Kameron Ray were privileged enough to be a part of the MYO family as well…talk about full circle!!!

Some of my favorite moments of MYO were our first Jazz and Jam Concert with Cathy Morris and I remember being excited to play jazz music for the first time. Being able to play with the Philharmonic Orchestra and the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra in full concert was an amazing experience at such a young age!!! We had a fun time when you took all of us on a road trip to Old Indiana Theme Park LOL and who could forget your famous seafood boils at your home where there was never a dull moment; even when we got older you would still open your home for us to come by for some good ole Betty Perry cooking.

Ms. Perry you’ve played a pivotal role in my life which helped cultivate me into a woman of God that not only had a dream of being a musically inclined dancing dentist but has been blessed enough to watch my dreams come to fruition. Here it is 27 years later, and I still pick up my violin and make music with only 4 strings, a bow, and the fundamental lessons of Ms. Betty Perry and the Metropolitan Youth Orchestra.

I love you Ms. Perry very much and I’m truly thankful to God for who you are in my life and may you find joy in what God gifted you to do and may you find peace in the legacy that you have created!!!

They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary, they shall walk, and not faint – Isaiah 40:1

Love Janea Mackins

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It has been a blessing and an honor to have you as a friend and colleague for these past 22 years. Having been coerced by Carl Henn to get involved with S & JT in 2000, it turned out to be a blessing for my whole family. The staff of S & JT over the years became a family and you were the matriarch. You were so gracious to let me pick on you all the time , knowing it was all done out of love and respect. Those first few years of S & JT all I know about you was " Don't piss off Ms. Perry". Reputation can get you a lot of mileage. There are so many stories it's hard to remember them all but one year you kept sending kids down to the nurse with carpet  burns. I kept wondering if I should call security.
I also learned early on that I should never hand you the microphone as you tend to talk on & on & on & on & on & on...

My favorite gag the staff played on you was on your final concert with S & JT. You hate to have your picture taken, soooo we made masks for every campers with a picture of your face on a stick to hold up in front of their face.
I attached the video clip.

You are an inspiration beyond words.
May God's Peace be always with you.

Larry Krauser
AKA  Mr. "K

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April 10, 2016 - The Inaugural Betty Perry Day in Indianapolis, IN

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Mrs. Perry,

When I think about you and not only having your own children, but the impact you've made on literally thousands of children's lives, I'm in awe.

You taught us (me, Jared, Jordan, James, Chris, Skyelar, Christine, Felice, Chres, Aren, Alex and all the rest) about the importance of community and about the love and healing you can give someone through a homemade meal.

You taught us how to truly show up for each other, repair, and renew because most of all, we had each other and that's what was most important.

Even though I feel far away from you and everyone else, I still think about you all the time. I don't think words can truly express how much of an impact you made on me (on us).

Your light isn't dimming. It's grown brighter and brighter with every soul you've touched.

Thank you for touching mine.

Always,
Adrienne Johnson

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From the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Association:
On behalf of the ISOA and Pres. Mary Ellen Weitekamp,  I celebrate the life of a great artist and friend, Betty Perry. Even though she is still fighting I know that whatever the outcome she will be a star in the field of music and the ISO.
I have known Betty for many years and have enjoyed working with her both professionally and personally. Betty will always be remembered as a supporter of the ISOA and we will continue to support the MYO as well.
My message to her is to stay strong my friend in your battle for life but know we will honor your legacy and continue to encourage young people to keep the dream alive. Sincerely, Mable Lewis, ISOA

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How does one adequately thank someone who's spirit and wisdom is infused in everything you do today?  I was lucky enough to get chosen to work with the cellos in the early years of MYO in the late 1990s.  There, Betty took me under her wing and taught me that teaching music wasn't really about the music at all.  It's been my guiding light ever since and when I feel like I'm drifting, it shows me the way.  I love you so much Betty!!! I hope you know the immense impact you've had.

Renee Bloemer-Dolphin
Oregon Music Academy

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I want to second and third every wonderful comment that so many have shared here as we reflect on the amazing woman that you are and the wisdom and generosity that you have brought to our young people specifically and our City and our Symphony overall!  God blessed us when you came to Indy!  As I have looked around my world for people to learn from, there you were, there you are!  Such an inspiration!  And you will always be one of those folks who we find ourselves in our hearts asking for advice and considering what you would have done when we are faced with the opportunities ahead of us!  God bless you Betty!
Jackie Nytes

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You were the first musician to welcome me to Indy. I remember taking the tapes off of my viola and immediately running to you to show you despite only knowing you for a few days! When I joined MYO and became your student, you pushed me to reveal my "inner diva" and play my viola proud! You showed me a joy and love for music that I couldn't have gotten from anyone else. Having you as my first viola teacher in Indianapolis kickstarted my musical journey. Now, I'm about to graduate with a degree in music performance, looking to enter the field and inspire my future students the way you inspired me! I am so lucky to know you and have you as part of my life!
Much love,
Nicole Felker

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Betty Perry there will be no one like you! 

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Betty Perry there will be no one like you! 

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38 short (lol)years ago at the age of 5 my life changed. I had no idea that learning violin at auntie mamies was going to change the trajectory of my life!  YOU are the reason I Stand here to today with the love and passion I have for what I do as a veteran music teacher in the schools. My entire purpose isn’t to create master musicians but help be a light in those that I interact with so they become better humans. That’s what you did for me! I often chuckle as I find myself telling corny jokes and funny stories to my orchestra kids or in my private lessons. I smile when my students remember our times together as I remember ours! So many stories! I’d like to say we were the foundation of MYO before there was an MYO - so many people! Leslie, Crystal, Mack, Lamar, BJ, Star, Bennie, Bendi and the list could go on! and then my move after college landed me back to Indy and I got a chance to become staff with MYO! (My heart was so full) It was like a full circle moment! So many early memories- Remember when we tried to take Kyle’s senior picture proofs 🤦🏾‍♀️ Boy we were in so much trouble lol. Remember our trip to Cincinnati when Sonya got the key to the city and Lamar rode that bike down the hill and we all held our breath because we knew he was gonna crash🤣 or the time we were coming back from kings island and we just knew the sign said welcome to Indiana and we were in Kentucky 😂 or how about playing “Killer on the loose” and Bendi dove in the corner between the wall and the bed because we heard someone coming OMG!  So many car lectures because when you were the last one being dropped off you knew it was coming lol so many beautiful moments! Thank you for believing in me when I didn’t know to believe in me! I love you so much! We love you so much! I make it my mission to do what you did for me! You never let financials get in the way of my getting what I needed from you, What we needed as a collective! You still poured into me just as much as you would for all of your children! Because of you I get to pass down everything you have given me to my own children through music!
God is pleased! I’m so glad the world got to know you. Well done.
💗Nene

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Betty,
Can’t even remember how long ago you were there to encourage me to be irreverent during Carmel Symphony rehearsals! I sooo loved sitting near you and seeing the back of your head shake as I demonstrated my “unique” rehearsal presence.
Fast forward to me being in awe of your teaching presence and expertise during the early days of MYO when part of the group rehearsed in my classroom. The inspiration I gained with your knowing guidance of all the “Key School kids” ( not to mention how it helped me have an awesome string ensemble!) became a part of my life as a music educator and musician.
You have always been a hero and inspiration to me.
What a lucky person I am to know you and be taught by you!
~ Lisa Halcomb

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Nana,

Going to your home was always one of my favorite things to do as a child. You had channels on the TV my parents never had and always made the best food. You taught me so many life skills that I still use even in adulthood, such as the proper way to cut an onion. I always loved that you would go above and beyond to figure out my interest and come up with creative ways to spend time with me. Many of the hobbies and passions I have now I discovered with you. Although I never picked up how to play the viola (or any string instrument really), you would still take me to all of your events, play more your songs, and make me feel included. While you have accomplished so much and I couldn’t be any prouder, it still saddens me that I have to say goodbye. Thank you for being the most amazing grandmother I could ever ask for. I will miss you very deeply.

Your granddaughter,

Kyndall (ReRe)

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Betty, you have changed and enriched so many lives.  We are blessed to have you and I send you my love and gratitude for the many ways you have touched my family.

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Betty, you have changed and enriched so many lives.  We are blessed to have you and I send you my love and gratitude for the many ways you have touched my family.

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Much Love and prayers,
Donna Proctor