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Family values:

-“that’s the point, dear, this is family, so you need to look.”

-“I hadn’t seen any of my extended family since last Thanksgiving”

-“When an obviously non-white player missed and impossible catch Carl screamed his first words of the evening: “ Goddamm affirmative action"

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·      Conservative --> does not support homosexuality, which is conservative since the society supports it. "Standing in the foyer was my cousin, holding hands with someone, well, male (...) she slammed the door (...) and locked herself in her bedroom for the rest of the evening." // “and that doesn’t mean I’m gay like Brett”

·      Also conservative + might indicate that they are very religious and care about traditions --> “Uncle Ben, whose twin brother Carl - still a bachelor at 42, perpetually embarrassing the family (…)” and “Thanksgiving”

·      Very old-school --> also homosexuality, but also the “women before men”, “my grandfather bellowed, “Ladies first!”

·      “I hadn't seen any of my family since the last Thanksgiving” --> family is not personally important to the family members, but it is important to have so you don’t have to sit alone at Thanksgiving eg. --> family is not a value

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1. “That is the point dear, this is family, so you need to look…”

2. “Couldn’t you have found something nice to wear, Jack?”

3. “I hadn’t seen any of my extended family since last Thanksgiving” – traditions

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''Why must i be punished for having a penis? Must viganas be fed first?

’’Well?’’ No one reacted, save for my father, who shot me a look that told me i was close to being written out of someone’s will.''

-’After our greetings, the women scurried off to the kitchen, and the men retired to the den.’’

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- Family is not a value
- It takes vodka ti participate
- Traditions and being old fashioned
- Expectations
- Decency
- Unspoken feelings
- Conservative
- Appearance
- Inside as well as outside of the family
- Religion
- Try not to stand out from the crowd

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¨that’s the point, dear, this is family, so you need to look….¨

¨after our greetings, the women scurried off to the kitchen, and the men retired to the den.¨

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''have as many as you want honey. At least they won't turn you into a lazy, worthless jackass, as your father.''

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Family values :

-" I hadn't seen any of my family since the last Thanksgiving"

-"That'll help those thighs"

-"Ladies first"

-"… and refresh her vodka"
-" Goddamn affirmative action"

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·      “”Jack,” my mother said, exasperatedly sucking on a cigarette and blowing the smoke at me” + “so she took another drag and went to refresh her vodka” + “half-drunk parents”

·      “… whose twin brother Carl was still a bachelor at 42, perpetually embarrassing the family”

·      “she slammed the door, pushed through the suddenly silent crowd and locked herself in her bedroom for the rest of the evening”

·      “After out greetings, the women scurried off to the kitchen, and the men retired to the den.”
·      “”Goddamn affirmative action!””
·      “I was finally free of the artificial, horrific constraints placed upon me by the arbitrary and useless familial society I had the incredible to be born into”
·      “”Ladies first””

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1. "That's the point dear, this is family, so you need to look..."

2. "Then her sister Ruth, 13, whose mother had plastered makeup on her round face to conceal blossoming acne."

3. "After the second it took her to realize what was happening, she slammed the door, pushed through the suddenly silent crowd and locked herself in her bedroom for the rest of the evening."

4. "After our greetings, the women scurried off to the kitchen, and the men retired to the den."

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- Judgmental: “Couldn't you have found something nice to wear, Jack?"
- Tense and uncertain: “saying those two words made them flinch”
- Old fashioned: the women are in the kitchen and the men watch football

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1. "That's the point, dear, this is family, so you need to look..."
2.  I hadn't seen any of my extended family since last Thanksgiving.
3. "Then her sister Ruth, 13, whose mother had plastered makeup on her round face to conceal blossoming acne."

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Have to look decent
"No, mother,  they're just clothes, and this is family. " " That's the point, dear, this is family, so you need to look..."

Education - in the right time, embarrassing to the family. Twin brother Carl- bachelor at 42 years

Grandmother is the leader, expectations for the members

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"After our greetings, the women scurried off to the kitchen, and the men retired to the den. It started immediately."

"i hadn't seen any of my extended family since last Thanksgiving."

"Ladies first"

"And then, with nothing left to say, and with no one saying anything to me"