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Thinking about the title of this autohistoria just came to my mind that U2 song called "With or without you" that can define in a partial way how I feel about family, friends and the few sentimental relationships I had.

I think this autohistoria is going to have a lot of songs, as I consider myself as a music lover (melómano in Spanish) and for every single situation I can remember a song related to the lyrics, music or even the mood of the song.

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When I was a child, my abuelo and an uncle of my father used to call me "Daniel el travieso" (or Naughty Daniel in English) as the famous movie of the 90's but showed every weekend on Caracol on the 2000's. The rest of my family decided to call me "Danielito", because they loved me for being "el primer nieto de la familia" and the "first baby" of my family. Also, when I was a teenager my friends started to call me "Dani", and 'til today, if I consider you as my closest friend and you have confidence, you can call me like that.

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Collage de fotos horizontal Feliz San Valentín Creativo Multicolor

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I passed most of the time with my abuelos, because mi mamá and mi papá worked almost all day, and I growth with them as my "segundos padres". My tíos were to me like my friends, because they taught me how to play games on my computer or "poner jueguitos en el computador", for that reason, I think I didn't have a "normal childhood" as others had, playing football on the streets, playing la lleva, congelados, or having an "amigo del barrio" as most of people had. My only "friend" of my age was my cousin, so I tried to play with him football, but it wasn't on the streets as others were doing, so it was in the pasillo del apartamento de mis abuelos, trying to not break anything and playing with a little squeezy stress ball.

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When I was in school, I tried to have friends, but I didn't know how for the reason it was my first experience making friends from nothing. Other classmates during my childhood and adolescence said allways to me that I was a "weirdo" for the reason I didn't have the same actitudes as the other boys, and I was allways very quiet or muy serio.

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I also learnt about myself, and I learnt about the things that I liked, the ones that not, and I learnt more about relations and communication between people.

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When I was in anglophone literature, teacher Camilo asked us to write a poem about whatever we want, and I thouught it was pertinent to write about how I manage my relations, and the perception I have.

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When I was 14 I just started to listen Nirvana due a game that recommended me my cousin about guitars and music, and all the lyrics just were shocking for me at that time for the reason all were about rebellion, freethinking and not caring about what others think about you, so I started to search about it, and I found about the "Grunge" not only as a music genre, but also as a way of living as a "subculture, so I started to get dressed like that using black pants, classic Converse's shoes, and most of my closet started to looked closed to what that page and video taught to me.

At the beginning, my parents didn't agree with that, saying that this kind of music and thinking were from people without any life project, and also I remembered que ellos me regañaron, saying things that "esa música es del diablo, ¿No sabes que Nirvana es un estado del Budismo en el que se pierde el conocimiento?"

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Collage de fotos horizontal Feliz San Valentín Creativo Multicolor(2)

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My experience having an "Intercultural Communication"

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My experience having an "Intercultural Communication"

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I worked in a foundation helping with translation, and this gave me the opportunity to share with a korean community and making some friends.

One example of this is when I was with them in an Argentinan Restaurant (idk but yes, they prefered to share food in an Argentinan restaurant and not in a Colombian restaurant) and they just started to share the food and not have their "own dish" as we have here in Colombia. At the beginning it just

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Like Sinatra's song, we are a lot of things just to fit in a society. Sometimes I just feel like this.

I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, a poet
A pawn and a king
I've been up and down and over and out
And I know one thing
Each time I find myself
Flat on my face
I pick myself up and get
Back in the race

I always tried to change myself just to fit with other people

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Frank Sinatra - That's Life | A Man And His Music Part II (1966)

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a year ago, I was part of the "estudiantes MAS" at the University, helping people and making friends.

At first this it was really strange, for the reason I wasn't good making new friends or creating new relationships, however, this program helped me with this and overtake this fear.

I was knowing other people, but at the same time, I was having issues socializing with my carreer partners.

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After a month they left Colombia, a father and his son arrived on Colombia to continue helping, 'cause they weren't abled to travel with the community, so they waited and when all the community arrived USA ('cause they were living there) they came here.

I just met Terry, he is an american-corean young man who liked to play instruments like me, and have same preferences as me.

When we were going to a place to have lunch, we just talk a lot about cultures and their perceptions about each other country.

A funny experience with him was when we were having lunch, the waitress just looked at us with a worried face and started asking my parents and other translator what to eat, and after she arrived and ask us about what to drink, and I asked if they had Jugo de lulo and with a worried face she asked me: "¿ese jugo lo conoces?, es un poco ácido" 'cause I think she thought we weren't from here

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Having new perceptions of "ways of life"

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Having new perceptions of "ways of life"

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Passing time and creating this padlet, I realized that every person has his own way of thinking, and maybe trying to change a person for my own benefit will show myself as a chico que quiere que todos sean de una cultura igual o inferior however, by passing this time I started knowing other people and trying to know more about them.