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Round 1

KATRIEL + VERONICA

ANNE + JAYVIER

Round 2

FADILA + RACHEL

ANJELITA +JOEY

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Round 1

DHAYNA + VIVIA + NATASHA

FASIHA + WANG HEI + BOWEN

Round 2

ASAPH + WEN CHONG

HUI QI + KAYLA + BHYVA

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Round 1

FADILA + RACHEL

ANJELITA +JOEY

Round 2

DHAYNA + VIVIA + NATASHA

FASIHA + WANG HEI + BOWEN

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1. Resources (time)

2. Afraid to hurt others' emotions especially when its related to a special occasion

3. Apologise sincerely, explain my situation and ask if its possible to postpone or if there are any alternative solutions

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CT will inform which activity your class will look at. 

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CT will inform which activity your class will look at. 

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Option B

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1. What is the boundary you are trying to establish in this scenario? (e.g. physical, financial, resources (such as time) etc.)

2. Why do people find it difficult to set boundaries?

3. How will you communicate clear boundaries in the given scenario?

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1. What is the boundary you are trying to establish in this scenario? (e.g. physical, financial, resources (such as time) etc.)

2. Why do people find it difficult to set boundaries?

3. How will you communicate clear boundaries in the given scenario?

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1. What is the boundary you are trying to establish in this scenario? (e.g. physical, financial, resources (such as time) etc.)

2. Why do people find it difficult to set boundaries?

3. How will you communicate clear boundaries in the given scenario?

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In your trios or pairs, discuss the questions for the scenarios assigned and type your responses by adding a post. Input your names in the title of your responses.

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Personal Reflection: Based on our discussion today, let's reflect on our boundaries 

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Personal Reflection: Based on our discussion today, let's reflect on our boundaries 

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Write your name under Subject and reflect on this questions in your post.

1. What are some of my boundaries?

2. How can I better communicate these boundaries?

3. Have there been instances when I did not respect someone else’s boundaries?
What will I do differently in the future?

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Round 1

ASAPH + WEN CHONG

HUI QI + KAYLA + BHYVA

Round 2

KATRIEL + VERONICA

ANNE + JAYVIER

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1. What is the boundary you are trying to establish in this scenario? (e.g. physical, financial, resources (such as time) etc.)

2. Why do people find it difficult to set boundaries?

3. How will you communicate clear boundaries in the given scenario?

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1. Emotional boundaries

2. Fear of getting involved and being outnumbered especially since the victim is a quiet student, situation might escalate

3. Politely but firmly urge friends to stop and explain how their actions are emotionally impacting Janet

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1. financial

2. bcs they are friends and they dont want to feel bad about not wanting to support their friends and it may make the relationship awkward or tense

3. confront them and say if they cant pay you back by this time you are not willing to help cover them the next time

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1. physical boundary

2. afraid to lose friendship, like to please other people

3. its okay for us to study together but its not okay for us to study at your house one to one at night because it makes me feel uncomfortable.

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1. digital boundaries -> tell the perpetrators to respect her boundaries and stop bullying the victim

2. they don't know the extent/damage that their actions can inflict upon someone

3. 1. tell them to stop doing what they're doing (bullying in this case)

2. tell them why their actions are not cool

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1. financial

2. worried about sounding petty or causing friction in the class. afraid people might see them as calculative

3. ask for the money back nicely because after all we’re both students and i don’t have that much money as well especially if it is more than $50.

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Physical boundary

Misunderstanding, dont want to break friendship

Make an excuse to get out of the situation

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1. Emotional respect

2. Everyone has different boundaries, some may just be ignorant

3. Tell the teacher and reach out to Janet privately to see if she’s ok

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1. resources (time)

2. because it is a very close friend and they dont want to disappoint or make it feel like they are not being a good friend / straining the relationship

3. i would tell her that i have pw due and feel really stressed, but still attend her party to be there for her, just excusing myself earlier

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1) Financial Boundary

2) Fear or causing tension in relationships

3)

Firstly, bring up the topic of the amount that they owe. Give them the benefit of the doubt that they truly forgot and remind them. Because it’s a lot of money, if they can’t pay back immediately offer a compromise (they help pay for you from now onwards, or a kind of informal payment plan)

However, it depends on my own financial capabilities + my friends capabilities. A compromise can be made (eg on time or amount)

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1. physical boundary

2. they are unsure of other's intentions and are afraid of offending them in the case of a misunderstanding

3. tell them you're uncomfortable with staying over and why you are uncomfortable, but that you are willing to study together, just not stay overnight

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1. Time and resources.
How much priority will my friend take and what is needed to go there.

2. Afraid to let other people down, fear of missing out also.

3. I would inform that I may be late, but I will try my best to reach.

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1. borrowing money

2. try to stop being a people pleaser and be straightforward

3. of course not

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Financial

Don’t want to cause friction within the class

Confront them on the issue and keep pestering them in a jokey way

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1. Physical and emotional boundary

2. Afraid to hurt his feelings and affect the friendship.

3. Just say it out directly "We are of different genders and I don't feel comfortable studyign at your place. We can always go in a group instead of one on one."

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1. emotional boundaries and physical boundaries

2. be open and honest about how i feel by telling them what is okay and what if not

3. im not sure. i'll communicate my boundaries more clearly and listen to other people's boundaries too

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1) Time and Energy

2) Fear of letting down others ( my friends who’s birthday it is and my PW group members)

3) Make a compromise to leave earlier/come later for the party, to be respectful to your friend and also to yourself and your social life, while also understanding yourself and your responsibilities. The boundaries of not letting work and social life affect each other too much.

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1. Dont disturb me when I’m trying to lock in (talking to you FADILA 😡😤)

2. Tell them directly if they happen to do it

3. Yea probably, I’ll try to ration when someone feels uncomfortable

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1. emotional and physical boundaries

2. say NO

3. no

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1. Emotional respect

2. Being frank with what I’m comfortable with and what gives me discomfort

3. I hope not

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1. Respect

2. I will laugh it off and jokingly say 'Next time don't do it ah, I a bit the hurt you know. But legit leh.'

3. I texted them online and apologized, should have known better given what she's been through.

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1. Emotional boundary.

2. Afraid of being viewed as too sensitive or overthinking circumstances.

3. Call out their behaviour and mention how it's actually harmful to Janet's personal wellbeing.