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death and know that i could have a better after life

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die at peace

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Dying at the most happiest moment in your life

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Dying at the most happiest moment in your life

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or when you're at the rock bottom

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Đó là câu hỏi mà không nhiều người đặt ra, nó chứng tỏ một điều rằng đa số mọi người không thực sự quan tâm đến pin và các vấn đề liên quan.

Một chiếc máy kiểm tra huyết áp của người cao tuổi

Một món đồ chơi của trẻ em

Một chiếc máy ảnh du lịch

Một bộ bàn phím - chuột không dây

Vài cái đồng hồ treo tường

Và còn đèn pin

cả bàn chải điện nữa.

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A death with respect.

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an assisted euthanasia after a long, fulfilling life. 

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an assisted euthanasia after a long, fulfilling life. 

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I reckon a good death is a death without regret!

-Hypnos

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also no gear

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after a long tour ,start a new one without the memory before, so you might make the same mistakes ,so in this journey,try not do something bad

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after a long tour ,start a new one without the memory before, so you might make the same mistakes ,so in this journey,try not do something bad

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passing away in peace

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a good death is when you have lived a fulfilling life and you die painlessly

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뭔말이야

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WHEN YOU KNOW YOU DID ALL YOU WANT AND WHEN YOU FULLFILL EVERTHING

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WHEN YOU KNOW YOU DID ALL YOU WANT AND WHEN YOU FULLFILL EVERTHING

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when u finally accept the death, then there are nothing really matter more. You could die with happiness or suffered from unfortunate. But in the end, you will just die, and nothing make sense more. So why we must questioned ourselves about it?

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when u finally accept the death, then there are nothing really matter more. You could die with happiness or suffered from unfortunate. But in the end, you will just die, and nothing make sense more. So why we must questioned ourselves about it?

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It's difficult, I would like to say "when we fulfil our life's purpose", but we constantly invent new purposes throughout our lives, I can't really imagine being on my deathbed and not thinking "but I wanted to ___". So apart from that, I think a good death is a death that is painless, leaves nobody unsupported and in need of care, and has at least been made peace with. 

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It's difficult, I would like to say "when we fulfil our life's purpose", but we constantly invent new purposes throughout our lives, I can't really imagine being on my deathbed and not thinking "but I wanted to ___". So apart from that, I think a good death is a death that is painless, leaves nobody unsupported and in need of care, and has at least been made peace with. 

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A good death is when you are at peace with yourself and with the world and the heavens above.

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A good death is when you are at peace with yourself and with the world and the heavens above.

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Your question brought this passage to mind from Padraig O Tuama's book In The Shelter:

"Ira Byock is a palliative care doctor who has, in the course of his career, observed that people who are dying tend to say four things. They say 'Please forgive me'; they say 'I forgive you'; they say 'Thank you'; and they say 'I love you.'"

I think a good death includes a chance to cover this ground in some way. In 50 years I will likely be near my own death, and I hope as a society we will have become more able to support each other at the end.

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Dying in a familiar place not ICU and without all the med/clinical equipment

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Dying in a familiar place not ICU and without all the med/clinical equipment

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Regarding my ideal death, it should have 3 features: 1 - Natural: I wouldn’t want to die “before my time”, 2 - Quick & painless: ideally I don’t really feel anything when it happens, e.g. in my sleep, 3 - Peaceful: I wouldn’t want to feel any stress or discomfort before the death occurs. So, dying at age 100 while sleeping is very close to ideal, dying at 30 from a gunshot wound where I slowly bleed out, pretty far from ideal! I would say that points 2 & 3 are probably most important here, so if I was to pass away at a relatively young age, I would still want that to be quick, painless and peaceful.

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when you have time/ opportunity to show the best love to people you treasure

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when you have time/ opportunity to show the best love to people you treasure

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one that is free from avoidable distress and suffering

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one that is free from avoidable distress and suffering

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It has to be good both in terms of how you die (peacefully in your sleep? Surrounded by your loved ones and their love? Heroically?) and when. Was there something you really wished you'd done before going? Were you happy before? A good death, ultimately, is the good end to a good life, I think.

Mine would be: peacefully in my sleep, after a fantastic evening of good food and good wine with the ones I love.

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I'd say one that makes you feel like you have lived in a good way and there is no need for regrets

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I'd say one that makes you feel like you have lived in a good way and there is no need for regrets

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Privacy, access to pain relief, time and opportunity to say what needs to be said to our loved ones, ability to see/be close to nature leading up to death, access to music and choice of location...

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As an ER nurse, I have witnessed countless deaths. The most difficult deaths in my opinion are the ones when family lacks any kind of acceptance and tries to keep the person's body alive at all costs. Medical advances have become a double edged sword in a way. We can keep someone’s body alive for much longer, but in most cases, not in any meaningful kind of way. We can have a machine breathe for you, we can have a machine pump your blood through you, but we can’t have a machine give you back your consciousness. It’s amazing how many people with their lack of acceptance demand that all medical interventions be done with no understanding of how traumatic that is on the person’s body with no good outcome possible. It’s also traumatic for all parties that are part of that care. Because many providers are concerned about litigation, many acquiesce to these demands. This is profoundly troubling to watch. These are some of the most difficult deaths to witness because I feel it is a disservice to the person dying and the family is making decisions for what THEY want vs making decisions for what that person would want. i.e. would they want to be on a ventilator unconscious for weeks as their body slowly deteriorates, or would they rather have a much more peaceful, natural death? A huge part of this is people not discussing death before it happens because it can be a taboo topic. It's disturbing how many people spend decades with a person and when it comes down to the question "What would she/he want right now?” at end of life and their person has no clue. So in one way, a good death is anticipated, discussed, accepted, and in a way planned ahead of time by the person and family that will reinforce those decisions when that person can no longer make them. The second type of death that is difficult to witness is the inevitable death not accepted by the dying party. This I have usually seen in younger cancer patients where their body is failing them but their spirit fights on. This is incredibly hard to watch as there is much angst, and sometimes literal fighting, i.e. trying to get up and leave when it is physically unsafe to do so. The family may be doing what is right in the situation, but nothing can really be done with that personal fight other than medicating for safety. This is why I feel it is so important for each person to come to terms with death while they are living. Another type of death that is difficult is the one where no one is there and no one cares to come in once they are contacted about the dying patient. I have no judgment on this as I have no idea what family may have endured with this person over time. It’s just sad to see someone dying and completely alone. There are expected deaths, and unexpected deaths. While the unexpected ones are difficult, I find it less difficult when it was quick and painless, as opposed to full of suffering. I guess I have described bad deaths, and you asked what is a good one? A good death is accepted by the dying party, and the dying party’s family and friends. A good death involves loved ones present and helping provide care for the dying party. A good death would be full of peace: giving up any past regrets and embracing what lies ahead whatever that may be. I very much agree that birth and death are incredibly sacred and beautiful events, the most sacred life events. I feel honored when I get to witness and assist in them.

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Death is like birth. It is a journey as individual as the person. A good death is one where the person is given the dignity and personhood they deserve. They can make decisions regarding their humanity that they need for their peace. In order for this to be fully actualized, there needs to be an acceptance of death as a beautiful part of life.

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Death is kind of like walking through a tunnel... I'd say a good death would be where someone is at peace with that journey.

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I think a good death is one where you have no unresolved conflict within yourself. There are no left over messes that you failed to tend to or burned relationships. I think a certain degree of self mastery needs to be achieved to actually be comfortable with your life and what transpired, and a willingness to let go of everything here on Earth. The opposite to that to me would be an old man dying with regret. I think there would be nothing worse.

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My mom had a good death. All of her kids were singing around her while she was lying in bed at home when she took her last breath. I have only felt that amount of love/divine intensity with her death and at each of my daughters births. It was beautiful ❤️

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Dying on your own terms, with dignity and forethought.

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It's hard for me to qualify death. Death is death. I see nothing inherently good or bad about any death. It just is. And that's good on it's own

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Able to meet God and be accountable for our lives on earth

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You made peace with everything

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Not forgetting to live

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Just like going to the toilet, its better when it's on your own terms

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A good death would be when a person's mind is in a state of peace and tranquility.

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one that is free from avoidable distress and suffering