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minari follows the story of a korean-american immigrant family as they navigate rural america. david is such an endearing character, and it absolutely warmed my heart watching this beautiful story come together.
-kelly

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a canadian sitcom (starring simu liu the loml), kim's convenience provides a lighthearted portrayal of asian life and also delves into the sometimes tumultuous relationships we may have with our parents.
-kelly

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the first piece of media that made me feel seen. based on eddie huang's memoir (continue to stan eddie huang y'all), this show explores the immigrant journey in america through humor.
-kelly

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a heartfelt story about family , love, and joy. this movie explores the contrast between eastern and western values through family dynamics, and i cry every time. awkwafina is amazing in this.
-kelly

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The Farewell | Official Trailer HD | A24

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i cannot watch this without crying. every time it gets me.
-nick

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Bao- The emotional story. (Oscar winning animated short film)

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"talented, brilliant, incredible, amazing, show stopping, spectacular, never the same, totally unique, completely not ever been done before" -lady gaga

but seriously, this movie deals with inter-generational trauma and it made me feel so wholesome inside.
-kelly

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sometimes controversial, i think the joy luck club is a true classic. constantly gave me chills, especially the section titled twenty-six malignant gates (childhood reminiscence). i had a long heart-to-heart with my mother after reading this book about my own childhood and growing up in america.
-kelly

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"the father from china" is a personal fave!!!
-nick

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in the middle of this--so, so , so, so, so good. was an emotional wreck reading this in english class and I couldn't even tell anyone during silent reading time!

page 104-106 if you want to cry or call your parents.

-nick

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a provoking read. approach with caution. stan eddie huang.
-nick

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super raw and candid, a mixed-heritage narrative about reconciling with Asian culture.

-kelly

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AAPI therapist directory | @asianformentalhealth 

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with a masterlist of AAPI therapists, asians for mental health provides advice on discussion with elders and other mental health resources. feel free to check them out!
-kelly

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asians never die | @asiansneverdie and @ricefeed 

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asians never die | @asiansneverdie and @ricefeed 

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a hub for all things related to asian culture, asians never die provides timely updates on popular asian celebrities, memes, merch, and more! it's just a great account to add onto your feed :)
-kelly

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Asians Never Die Official Apparel Shop. The best merch to represent your Asian pride.

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from news to informational posts, i've been following dearasianyouth (abbrev. day) for since the summer of 2020. they provide so many helpful resources and links, as well as ways that you can get involved!
-kelly

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a poignant film touching on crime, family, and an asian-american man dealing with the problems of being an asian-american man.

very good!!! - nick

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BLUE BAYOU - Official Trailer - Only in Theaters September 17

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literally any song by bts is amazing, but idol is energetic, and the dance is enthralling! the lyrics preach self love above all else. this particular live performance is also just *chef's kiss*
-kelly

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BTS: IDOL | The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon

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i remember listening to this when i was younger with my mom. focuses on the idea of honoring your parents and listening/following their advice, but super catchy!!
-kelly

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周杰倫 Jay Chou【聽媽媽的話 Listen to Mom】-Official Music Video

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about migration, familial obligations, and mothers. good song!

- nick

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Bohan Phoenix - OVERSEAS 海外 (Official Video)

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honestly anything by bohan phoenix is pretty good.

-nick

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empowering, or something like that.

-nick

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melo (from the higher brothers!!!) | that kid

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melo (from the higher brothers!!!) | that kid

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regrettably, this song is entirely in the sichuanese dialect of mandarin. but it's very good if you can understand it! like many other recs on this padlet it's about belonging and family. very much a vibe.

- nick

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comedic, coming-of-age, and lighthearted, this show tackles the story of the academic overachiever Desi as she navigates high school in the San Fernando Valley. a great show to watch when you're feeling down!
-kelly

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Never Have I Ever | Official Trailer | Netflix

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diamonds + and pearls | dpr live, dpr ian, peace.

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diamonds + and pearls | dpr live, dpr ian, peace.

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we should all buy our moms some jewelry!

- nick

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AAPI crisis hotlines and community centers | a resource guide

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courtesy of Dr. Lee, the director of mental health counseling up at Exeter, and Ms. Murata, who started the AAFC!
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Hello, reader. The below is a work-in-progress: starter dough and nothing like a full list. But hopefully this opening gambit will inspire those with further information to add their knowledge to the resource list below. Ideally, this guide will eventually become a nation-wide compendium of local mental-health resources -- personal-shopped for second-generation Asian Americans.

What makes second-generation clientele a niche demographic for mental health care? See the post on How to Choose Your Therapist by way of explanation.

But in short, I'll summarize by listing the criteria used here:

Cultural competence. Hotlines and community services with "Asian" or ethnic specifications in their names suggest a possibly helpful familiarity with the realities, nuances, and variations of immigrant lives (including their race and class dimensions) and generational dynamics.

Asian American paradigm. On the other hand, many if not most of the services specifically servicing Asian populations cater to the immigrant generation, their claims to fame being Asian-language counselors. As many of the second generation are not fluent in (much less most adept/comfortable in) their families' native tongues, this orientation can dismiss or even alienate them.

Accessible to minors. Keeping in mind that access to insurance (whether public or private) is routed through parents, but that parents may be the last people a teenager can inform of his or her distress, I have made note where possible of the methods of payment and access to treatment in the resources below. (This information also potentially useful to those currently without health insurance.)

Listed below are outpatient services only, as the guide is intended as a place to start.

Please feel free to use either the comment box at bottom or to email me directly (aamms[at]hyphenmagazine[dot]com) with information you'd like to add.

[Updated 08.05.12]

CRISIS HOTLINES

Suicide hotlines have the very big recommendations of being both free and anonymous. When despair spikes, it's priceless to be able to pick up the phone and know that the person on the other end will not flip out, nor remember what you've said in awkward situations later.

However, there's no long-term care in the hotline context, no ongoing conversation. You'd have to explain yourself again from the beginning with each call. This is a tourniquet, not a treatment. They may, however, be a good referral source.
National Suicide Prevention Hotline
1-800-273-TALK 24-hour service.

Culturally competent: Not necessarily Main demographic: English-speaking

Accessible to minors: Yes Payment: Free

1-877-990-8585 24-hr service.

The recording (with lengthy message) is entirely in Chinese. English is spoken briefly by the automated phone system which informs the caller of his/her order in the queue for a counselor. Counselors also speak Japanese, Korean, and presumably English -- but be prepared for a jarring reception in which the service may seem very much not intended for you.

Culturally competent: Presumably Main demographic: First-generation

Accessible to minors: Technically Payment: Free

https://www.imalive.org/ 24-hr service.

Online crisis network. Volunteers available by chat. Geared toward young, tech-savvy population.

Culturally competent: Not necessarily Main demographic: English-speaking

Accessible to minors: Yes Payment: Free

List of hotlines by state: Suicidehotlines.com

List of hotlines by specialty: Suicidehotlines.com/national

This site lists several hotlines for teens. A high proportion of these local/privately-operated hotlines are run by religious organizations, so buyer beware.

National Runaway Switchboard: Also for minors, with a potentially useful shifted focus.

1-800-786-2929 (1-800-RUN-AWAY) 24-hour service.

Culturally competent: Not necessarily Main demographic: English-speaking

Accessible to minors: Yes Payment: Free
Domestic abuse hotlines
617-338-2355 24-hour service.

Culturally competent: Presumably Main demographic: Immigrant and English-speaking

Accessible to minors: Yes Payment: Free
API Domestic Violence Task Force Hotline List: http://www.apidvtf.org/emergency_crisis_hotline.html
COMMUNITY SERVICES/HEALTH CENTERS

Nonprofit organizations or arms of city/county services, these community health centers are often designed to address the needs of lower-income immigrant families. As such, they often

cater more to the immigrant, non-English speaking population, though they don't withhold service from second generation clients;

accept payment through Medicaid or other government programs. Many centers, however, do not accept private insurance, so refer those with private coverage to their insurance to find in-network providers instead;

offer sliding-scale payment structures. Those that do not, however, may be unable to accept clients who don't have access to either form of insurance (minors without parental cognizance, for example).

Culturally competent: Presumably Main demographic: Family

Accessible to minors: Through parents

Payment: Public health insurance; varies: some sliding scale, some HMO (check with individual centers)

For those living in areas not listed here: If you are covered by private insurance, work through your insurance company to obtain a list of network providers. If not, contact your county mental health service, and they will route you to county-partnered providers such as the below.

California

Asian Pacific Counseling & Treatment Centers

Asian Pacific Health Care Venture (includes a school-based clinic at John Marshall High School; students at King, Irving, and Le Conte Middle Schools also eligible)
Little Tokyo Service CenterCenter for the Pacific Asian Family Pacific Asian Counseling Services Pacific Clinics (San Gabriel Valley)

Chinatown Service Center

San Francisco Bay Area
Asian/Pacific Islander Community Health Network (has just launched mental health component; information not yet reflected on website)

Asian Community Mental Health Services (510)

Chinatown/North Beach Mental Health Services (415)

Richmond Area Multi-Services, Inc (415)

Asian Americans for Community Involvement (408)

Asian Pacific Development Center (also other CO locations)

National Organization for People of Color against Suicide - Survivors Circle (also other locations/projects)

South Asian Wellness Clinic - at Johns Hopkins (Baltimore, MD)

Adult Mental Health Division of the Department of Health (includes hotlines for immediate care; otherwise oriented to treatment of severe illness)

Waianae Coast Comprehensive Health Center
Asian Psychiatry Clinic, Tufts Medical Center
Massachusetts
Asian American Suicide Prevention & Education
National Organization for People of Color against Suicide - Survivors of Suicide Support Group (also other locations/projects)

Charles B. Wang Community Health Center

Gouverneur Hospital - Asian Bicultural Clinic
Queens Child Guidance Center - Asian Clinic South Beach Psychiatric Center - Ft. Hamilton Mental Health Services - Asian Program
Hamilton-Madison House - Asian-American Mental Health Services

Asian American Family Services (includes various Youth Programs, with particular focus on serving 2nd-generation kids and young adults under 24 years of age)

Washington

Asian Counseling & Referral Service (includes hotline; many of the clinicians are reported to be second-generation)

Asian Initiative in Mental Health (Toronto)

SCHOOLS

High school counselors. Students seeking referrals to local services, or services not necessarily or immediately routed through parental cognizance, may wish to speak with their school counselors. These counselors should be able to direct them to the county-specific agencies and through the maze of requirements to find what help is available.

I pass along this advice because it may well be worthwhile. However, please bear in mind that your average high school counselor is not necessarily culturally literate when it comes to Asian American mental health. For instance, a school counselor faced with a distraught straight-A student may very well have no idea how to interpret her distress. Or he may jump to very broad (sometimes racist) conclusions. Proceed with caution, and should you feel misread, know that that is normal -- abort mission and look elsewhere.

Culturally competent: Not on average Main demographic: English-speaking

Accessible to minors: Yes Payment: Free

CA - Asian Pacific Health Care Venture: school-based clinic at John Marshall High School in Los Angeles; students at King, Irving, and Le Conte Middle Schools also eligible.

Note for California residents between 12 and 17 years of age: A 2010 state law has made it possible for minors 12 and above to consent to outpatient counseling. This means you can seek out and obtain the services of a therapist without your parents' permission or knowledge. However, the therapist is required to notify your parents of the treatment when it begins -- unless he or she judges that notifying your parents would be "inappropriate" (i.e., a bad idea). See the right-hand column here for details of this law. See here (1/3rd of the way down the page) for an expanded, though somewhat confusing, explanation of the kinds of access your parents would have to your files (basically, if you are deemed not to be in danger, your parents may have some access to your files, but even then, the therapist exercises discretion regarding what to reveal, as your interests are highest).

College campus counseling services. I've found campus counseling services to be invaluable. They're generally free and readily accessible. Though visits are usually capped at a certain number, they can be an excellent place to get started, with a selection of counselors who are more than commonly versed in the brew of academic and cultural stressors immediate to you. If you have this resource at your disposal, by all means check it out.

Culturally competent: Above-average Main demographic: English-speaking

Accessible to minors: N/A Payment: Free or co-pay type fee

Listed below are colleges whose counseling centers have Asian American focus programs -- even better.

University of California, Berkeley: API Connect

University of Illinois, Urbana-Champaign: Asian American Outreach Counseling Center

See here for a thorough guide specific to college students, with advice on seeking therapy and explanations of your rights as a patient.

PROVIDERS (THERAPISTS)

Below you'll find, by state, lists of practitioners compiled by various other sites. The selection criteria for these sites are not often stated; if therapists are included by virtue of self-identified race or ethnicity alone, the lists may not be much more valuable/informative than those that any insurance company can pull -- filtered for desired specializations or race/gender characteristics -- from their banks of providers.

Kabuuann Koaching's growing list will be worth noting, however -- as it is compiled in conjunction with this resource guide and therefore selects for therapists who specialize in working with second-generation clients. In addition, KK's guide includes a range of other resources, especially in the Filipino American community.
Asian & Pacific Islander Institute on Domestic Violence Directory of Programs

National Asian American Pacific Islander Mental Health Association

DC/MD - Counselors Helping (South) Asians/Indians (CHAI)

IL - Asian Health Coalition / Asian American Suicide Prevention Initiative - Clinician Referral Directory

NY - Asian American Suicide Prevention & Education

NY Coalition for Asian American Mental Health (scroll 2/3rds way down page to see item II: Private Practice Providers)

TX - Asian Behavioral Health Network (Austin; network of providers)

INFORMATIVE WEBSITES

Code of Ethics: List of these for psychotherapists. (for most succinct presentation, see Marriage and Family Therapy)

Campus Mental Health, Know Your Rights: A guide for (college) students who want to seek help for mental illness or emotional distress.

Life Portal: Intriguing, quasi-searchable database of Bay-Area health services (of all kinds, not just mental) -- with yelp-like review capabilities! Just launched.

SAWERA: Illuminating page on identifying Types of Abuse. If you're not sure whether you can rightfully say "This hurts," try this: Read through swapping out "spouse or domestic partner" for "child," especially the section "Verbal or nonverbal abuse of a [child] may include..."
Ask a Model Minority Suicide is
a series on mental health. Introductory post
here.
Resource Guidehere.
Gohere
to see all posts in this series. Comments, questions, or suggestions can be posted below -- or sent privately to Sam at aamms[at]hyphenmagazine[dot]com.
**Great many thanks to Lydia Cabascal, of Kabuuan Koaching, for her generous collaboration in compiling our resource guides.

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some mental health resources for students specifically!
-kelly

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born out of a fellow AAFC collab! aka The Interscholastic Asian American Quarterly, they showcase various stories of Pan-Asian students across various New England boarding & day schools.

check them out! -kelly