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1)conflicting feelings, happy that ur children wants you to move in with them however sad as u will not be able to hang out with ur close circle of neighbours
2)she would care about whether her friends will be sad that she's leaving and also if she will be a burden to children's family
3) choose to live alone since she adapted well already instead ask her children to visit her more often

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her mom is not that young anymore which she may need help in many aspect. she may have difficulties moving around the house and getting things. It is also dangerous for her to live alone which nobody will know if anything happens to her.

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i would be happy she has someone to take care of her

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Yes mdm phua should stay with us. Especially if mdm phua was my primary caretaker when i was younger, it is only right for me to appreciate her presence and have her stay with us so i can see her more and hang out with her more.

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no i am not moving in because i dont want to invade my daughters-in-law’s personal life

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I would suggest that they should take care of the grandma but also always have someone at home to interact and take care of her

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1. i feel touched that my daughter cares about my well-being
2. i care about my neighbourhood and meeting up with my friends
3. i would choose to live alone as i can meet up with my friends and avoid arguments with my family

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because her mother is old and have health issues, she is worried about her living alone. If her mother stays with her, she and her family can take care of her and keep her company too so she wont feel lonely. They can also bring her to health centre.

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there might be communication barriers between us
we would have different interests
less living space

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i would encourage her to live with her daughter as she can take can of her better

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do not support
- brings mdm phua away from her friends in her neighbourhood
- causes the family and mdm phua to have to change their lifestyles to avoid conflict
- already independent and able to manage herself

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she may become lonely and sad and if anything happens to her we wouldn’t know then she might be in danger

i care about my mother and believe that we would be able to make sure she is safe and not sad

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no idw to move in bc im a independent ahma and can find my own hobbies #solo