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What is meant by "Generation Gap"?

What is the role of parents in raising their children?

What traits should caring parents own?

Do you think that children have a role towards their parents?

Why do most of the parents and their children have conflicts?

Are parent-children conflicts harmful?

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3.     It (paragraph 4) __________________

4.     She (paragraph 5) __________________

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Find in the text words that match with the following synonyms.

1. Strength/ courage (paragraph 2):

2. Inescapable (paragraph 4):

3. Compassionate (paragraph 4):

4. Important/ well-known (paragraph 5)

A.    Find the text words that match with the following synonyms.

1.     Strength/ courage (paragraph 2): _______________________

2.     Manage (paragraph 3): _______________________

3.     Inescapable (paragraph 4): __________________

4.     Compassionate (paragraph 4): ________________

5.     Important/ well-known (paragraph 5): ________

What are the antonyms of the following words?

1.     Sophisticated (paragraph 3): __________________

2.     Establish (paragraph 4): _______________________

3.     Escalate (paragraph 4): _______________________

4.     Tolerate (paragraph 4): ____________________

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1.     In paragraph 1, Why do you think the author compares a home to a "verbal boxing ring" in the first paragraph? What effect does this metaphor create?

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How might Debra Kent’s tendency to avoid confrontation impact her relationship with her children in the long run? Cite evidence.

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Why do you think Joanne Stern emphasizes that conflicts between parents and teens are inevitable? How does this perspective challenge traditional views of parenting?

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How does the tone of the passage shift when the author discusses "rules for fair fighting"? What does this shift suggest about the author's view on conflict?

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What can be inferred about the relationship between authority and respect in parent-teen conflicts, based on Stern's comments about teens being "sophisticated thinkers"? Explain your answer.

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How does the author’s inclusion of multiple expert voices (like Joanne Stern and Vickie Falcon) influence the credibility of the argument? Explain.

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Do you agree with the idea that conflicts, when handled fairly, can strengthen the parent-child relationship? Why or why not? Provide examples from the text and your own experiences to support your answer.

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3 pieces of information you have learnt

2 Vocabulary words you've acquired

1 conflict you learned how to solve after the lesson.

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A generation gap is the major difference between 2 generations, this can create different perspectives and morals in each generation.

They should raise them to have manners and good ethics.

They have a role towards their parents.

They have conflicts because of disagreements on whats right and whats wrong.

They are harmful.

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1-The meaning of generation gap is the difference in the mood and how they act depending on the age and generation gap.

2-teach them how to act and behave and how to respect others.

3-caring parents should have the trait of supportive and helpful in everything.

4- children do have a role towards there parents and it is respect and to listen to them.

5- respecting each other boundaries since there is different generation and perspective.

6-some children parent conflict can be harmful and some conflicts just lead up to shouting.

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1.Differences in values, attitudes, and behavior between different generations, often leading to misunderstandings.

2. Guiding, supporting, and nurturing children to become responsible and independent adults.

3.Patience, empathy, consistency, and effective communication skills.

4.Showing respect, understanding, and support towards their parents.

5. Differences in perspectives, values, and expectations due to age, cultural changes, and experiences.

6. Conflicts can be harmful if unresolved, but constructive communication can help strengthen relationships.

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1. It means that there is a difference in trends, clothing, actions, and what was popular back then and now.

3.They should be loving, caring, and understanding towards their children.

2. Parents should be like teachers to their children and make them learn to be positive. They should also be there for their children emotionally.

4.Yes, since they can also teach parents about what is going on nowadays.

5. They have conflicts because of the generation gap or simply because the child isn't doing what the parents want.

6.Yes, since the child can distance themselves from their parents which may affect them in a negative way.

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1. It’s the difference between a parent and a child experience when they grow up

2. parents need to guide their children and educate them to help them be a good person and raise them right

3. Caring parents should be loving, patient and supportive

4. Yes children should respect and appreciate their parents as they they grow

5. Conflicts can happen from generational differences or communication issues and different opinions on thing

6. Conflicts can be harmful if they remain unsolved however if handled correctly it should make us better

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1. A generation gap is the time diffrence of 1 generation and another by the use of words, trends, acts, and etc.

2. To teach them to face the obstacles of life and how to live a healthy and understandable lifestyle.

3. Mindfulness, helpfulness, a positive mindset

4. Yes, since they can influence their parents to new things which can allow new opportunities to spend time with each other.

5. Since most families don't carry a trustful bond with each other leading to multiple conflicts in the family.

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A generation gap is the difference between the attitudes and actions of different generation providing a feeling of difference and a lack of understanding.

Caring parents should create a caring and supportive environment towards their children also rewarding their behaviors while supporting their career choices.

Parents and their children are born in different changing times and environments creating a gap in the technologies they use and the ways people dress, act and, interact seemingly creating tension between them however thesse conflicts can also help lead to solving issues and sharing information and experiences informing current generations.

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1- the difference of attitudes between people of different generations ,leading to a lack of understanding

2- the role of parents in raising children is very important since they are the ones who set rules, boundaries and teach them manners

3-caring parents should be caring , supportive and they should listen to their kids problems

4-they have conflicts because of disagreements

5they could be harmful for the relation ship between them

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1.difference in values and attitudes between one generation and another, especially between young people and their parents.

2.managing emotional arousal, coping, and managing behavior

3.Flexibility, love, patience

4.Respecting parents' wishes, assisting them in times of need, and ensuring their well-being become essential aspects of this duty.

5.lack of understanding, communication, and misjudgment.

6.It is normal for parents to disagree sometimes, however, high levels of conflict and animosity between parents places children at a greater risk of developing emotional, social and behavioural problems.

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1)Generation gap refers to the differences in opinions, values, and behaviors between people of different generations, often resulting from changes in culture, technology, and social norms over time.

2)Parents play a crucial role in raising their children by providing guidance, support, and a nurturing environment. They help shape their children's values, beliefs, and behaviors through their teachings and actions.

3)Caring parents should possess traits such as empathy, patience, understanding, and effective communication skills. These qualities help them connect with their children and create a positive and supportive atmosphere.

4)children also have a role towards their parents, which includes showing respect, understanding, and support. They can contribute to the family dynamic by being responsible and considerate.

5)Most conflicts between parents and children arise from differences in perspectives, expectations, and communication styles. As children grow, they seek independence, which can lead to misunderstandings.

6)Parent-child conflicts can be harmful if not addressed properly, as they may lead to emotional distress and strain relationships. However, if resolved constructively, they can also foster growth and understanding between both parties.

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1-A generational gap is the differences in values, beliefs, and behaviors between people from different age groups, often influenced by varying life experiences and cultural changes.

2-Caring parents play vital roles as nurturers, educators, and providers while embodying empathy, patience, and effective communication to foster their children's emotional, social, and cognitive development.

3-Children significantly impact their parents by fostering emotional growth, influencing behaviors, shaping values, and prompting lifestyle changes, ultimately leading to mutual development within the family dynamic.

4-Most children have conflicts with their parents due to a combination of developmental stages, differing perspectives, and the natural struggle for independence and autonomy.

5-While parent-child conflicts can be stressful and damaging if excessive or unresolved, they can also foster communication skills and resilience when managed constructively.

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a generation gap is the difference between the action and attitude between generations

The role of parents in raising there children is to teach how to be responsible respectful and have a good behavior

Caring parents should be helpful and supportive

They have a role toward their parents

They have a conflict of disagreement

They are harmful

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Writing Prompt:

It is said, “I think there is a gigantic generation gap in terms of how people understand the internet and how much they think technology is an important factor in social change.”

Write an organized narrative paragraph describing when you had a conflict with your parents for the refusal to use the internet and show how this issue affected your social and psychological life.

Make sure you use the learned vocabulary words (Context clues, Synonyms, & antonyms).

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There was a time when I had a significant conflict with my parents regarding their refusal to let me use the internet freely. They viewed technology as a potential threat, believing that it could lead to negative influences and distractions. This perspective created a gap in our understanding, as I saw the internet as a crucial tool for social connection and learning. The situation escalated when I wanted to join an online study group, but they insisted that I focus on traditional methods of studying. This disagreement not only strained our relationship but also affected my social life; I felt isolated from my peers who were engaging in discussions and sharing resources online. Psychologically, I experienced frustration and a sense of being misunderstood, as I craved the opportunities that the internet provided. Ultimately, this conflict highlighted the generational divide in our views on technology and its role in shaping social change.

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4) She refers to Stern

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3. deciding what off-limit behavior is

4. Joanne stern

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Taleen:         Once I had gotten a bad grade and my mom didn’t let me use the internet anymore but I had told her that using the internet can help me improve but the my mo taught me how to study without using the internet and get more information than with me using the internet so I learned that a the internet is just addicting and doesn’t have to be used to solve everything in life.

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Taleen:         Once I had gotten a bad grade and my mom didn’t let me use the internet anymore but I had told her that using the internet can help me improve but the my mo taught me how to study without using the internet and get more information than with me using the internet so I learned that a the internet is just addicting and doesn’t have to be used to solve everything in life.

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The author compares the home to a verbal boxing ring showing how the family’s communication involves fighting and more importantly issues all in a way where the author wants out just like a boxing ring yet is forced to stay in. This helps create a tense atmosphere and helps show the issues before discussing them.

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My conflict with my parents about using the internet showed how different our views are on technology and social life.

One night, I wanted to go online to work with my friends on a school project, but my parents said no because they thought the internet was dangerous. This outlandish belief made me feel lonely and frustrated, especially as I watched my friends connect online while I felt left out. It was inevitable that these feelings would build up, but I realized my parents were only trying to protect me. By being empathetic to their concerns, I learned that discussing our differing views on technology could help bridge the gap between us. This situation taught me that talking openly can help us understand each other better, especially when it comes to technology.

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He compared the house and the boxing ring since, in the house creates an atmosphere that there is a lot of fighting and commotion. Like what happens in a boxing ring which is harmful for the child in their point of view. Hitting and shouting can cause the child PTSD ,which can lead to many problems after that.

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I was visiting my cousin's house. We were eating lunch and were eating from a prominent restaurant in Qatar. We had backbone that it was going to be a good day, but my cousin wasn't able to use his electronics because of a bad grade he previously received. He asked his mom why, and an argument started to escalate. I could see tears brewing upon his eyes due to the frustration that he was feeling, but he felt like he wasn't able to express his feelings because of his confusion. I felt empathetic and decided to console him. I told him that situations like these are inevitable. We then went on to play outside and had a lot of fun together.

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I found myself in a frustrating conflict with my parents over their refusal to let me use the internet. They believed it was dangerous and often expressed their concerns in a way that felt outlandish to me. Their worries seemed so prominent that they prohibited my access entirely, which left me feeling isolated from my friends who were connecting online. I craved that social interaction, and their decision really diminished my ability to feel included. Despite their empathetic intentions, I felt caught in a tug-of-war between respecting their rules and wanting my own independence. This struggle not only strained our relationship but also made me feel lonely and disconnected during a time when I needed those connections the most. It took a while to bridge that gap, but eventually, we found a way to communicate better about the internet and its importance in my life.

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Debra Kent’s way to avoid confrontation can impact her relationship with her children since they might get distant and not want to talk to each other anymore “fighting done fairly delivers a huge payoff” p(1) L(17) .By helping teens become more confident and gain a backbone.

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One evening, I found myself in a heated argument with my parents over their refusal to let me use the internet for social networking. They believed that online platforms were too sophisticated and dangerous for my age, dismissing their inevitability in modern social life. I tried to explain how being online was important for establishing friendships and staying informed, but their rigid stance only escalated the situation. I felt completely isolated, as many of my peers were building connections that I was missing out on. Emotionally, it was hard to tolerate their refusal, especially since it seemed compassionate to allow me to use the internet in moderation. The conflict left me feeling out of place socially and led to a significant gap in understanding between us.

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The comparison of a home to a "verbal boxing ring" paints a vivid image of the intense and ongoing nature of conflicts that can arise in family dynamics. This metaphor creates an effect of urgency and drama, highlighting how confrontational and combative interactions have infiltrated what should be a safe and harmonious environment. It emphasizes the emotional struggle and the exhausting nature of these verbal battles.

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The author compares a home to a verbal boxing ring because many homes have multiple arguments a day. The people arguing return different insults to each other, the same way the boxers return punches to each other. This also implies that the arguments at home can cause someone to get hurt mentally the same way people in the boxing ring get hurt physically.

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The metaphor of a “verbal boxing ring” highlights the intense, combative nature of family conflicts, showing the emotional strain Debra feels. It sets the tone for discussing how properly handled conflict can strengthen relationships.

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it challenges it by changing the way people have taken care of their children for many years and how their behaviors can change depending on the way parents teach them how to act and conflicts between parents and children are inevitable since if parents avoid their children it will be impossible to solve any conflict they will have

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Debra Kent’s tendency to avoid confrontation may weaken her relationship with her children in the long run. By avoiding conflict, she misses the chance to teach emotional survival skills, as the text states that “fighting done fairly delivers a huge payoff”p.(1)l.(17) by helping teens develop confidence and stronger relationships.

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The author compares there home to a verbal boxing ring since they are always fighting and arguing instead of having a conversation which is what happens in a boxing ring, it helps us see that this family isn’t stable and need to work on this situation.

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Joanne Stern stresses the inevitability of conflicts because they help teens grow. This challenges traditional parenting, which focused on obedience, by encouraging parents to use conflicts to teach emotional skills and build stronger relationships.

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The way Debra avoids confrontation with her kids can cause a weak bond with her kids, as the lack of arguing can deprive her and her kids of a strong rapport with each other. This can also cause their kids to not have any confidence when arguing with someone else, resulting in them having a weak personality. The text supports this by stating: "But it turns out Debra is not doing her kids any favors. Fighting, done fairly, delivers a huge payoff: A stronger relationship with one's child, and the confidence that comes knowing.... equipped with emotional survival skills that last a lifetime." P.(1),L.(16-19)

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The author compares the home with a verbal boxing ring showing how the family fighting involves communicating this help show how the family handles conflicts in the family

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One evening, I found myself in a heated conflict with my parents when they insisted on limiting my internet use, citing concerns for my well-being. Their decision felt inescapable, as I watched my social life collapse, friends shared inside jokes and memes that I couldn't be part of, leaving me feeling isolated. It was important to me to stay connected, not just for fun but to maintain those friendships. Yet, I recognized their compassionate intentions—they were worried about my screen time and its impact on my health. Despite the argument, this experience ultimately taught me the strength of communication, that allowed me to balance my online activity with their concerns.

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The author compares a home to a “verbal boxing ring” to show how arguments can feel like fights between family members especially between parents and teenagers This metaphor highlights the conflict suggesting that conversations focus more on fighting than understanding each other. It emphasizes the emotional tension in the home and the need for a better conflict solution, showing the challenges of parenting and the effects of communication on family relationships.

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My parents think that technology is the cause of this generation lashing out, for they are being raised by the internet. What they don’t realize is the internet these days is inevitable , prohibiting is like saying do not touch sand on a beach. There have been many misunderstandings between us where they threatened to take a very prominent aspect of teenagers lives. Whenever a child acts unsophisticated , the blame rushes to the enhancement of technology and the over usage of it especially in this decade. Older generations do not understand the backbone the internet provides for it. Although there are side effects to today’s technology, there are countless positives as well.

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Joanne Stern emphasizes that conflicts between parents and kids are inevitable because she wants to prepare the parents for any coming conflicts with their kids. Due to the drastic changes in the kids mentally and physically, this causes confusion in their emotions, which results in arguments and conflicts. This perspective challenges traditional views of parenting since traditional views dont expect kids to fight back or to talk back, as they were raised to be obedient, unlike the modern view, which makes the parent expect a higher probability of a conflict between them and their kids.

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There was a time when I had a conflict with my mom since she didn’t let me use my phone. After school I came home and there was a deal between us that after I come back home I study then I can do whatever I want, but that day I didn’t study and I was using my phone. I suddenly found myself in a heated argument with my mom, it started to escalate quickly but I managed to keep calm since it was inevitable to try to convince her and to get out of her punishments. It was prominent that a lot of parents re strict about school work and they would do anything to make you study more. After the argument was over she prohibited me from using my phone for a week until I focused on school work more. Moreover my mom is like my backbone so I had a bad gut feeling about this which made me go and apologize for the argument.

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Once I was visiting one of my cousins in Lebanon while, I was walking through the door I began to hear loud noises followed by bangs. Obviously the conflict was escalating however at the time I had no clue what was occurring behind closed doors when I rang the doorbell my cousin answered the door, immediately I saw many things scattered across the floor when I asked what had happened I got a long answer, apparently my cousin had gotten a bad grade and was banned from using any electronics and had threw a tantrum he attempted to make me feel empathetic for him however he didn’t have any backbone. He had made a mistake and it was his fault and at best I would just calm him down I sided with his parents since he would have to improve drastically. After focusing on his work he was able to turn his grades around all while being allowed to use electronics, he was joyous thanking me many times.

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Parent-child conflicts are more common than it was two decades ago. The author compares a home to a verbal boxing ring symbolizing how although not physical, words can hurt just as much as punches when used harshly and as a form of abuse. It shows the reader how effective verbal abuse or conflicts at home are and how it could destroy the ego or mental health of both parents and children since it creates a horrible living environment

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When I was in the seventh grade, my parents refused to let me use the internet, believing it was an unnecessary distraction from my studies. This decision escalated into a significant conflict, as I felt isolated from my friends who were using the internet. Despite my attempts to manage the situation with a calm conversation, explaining how important it was for me to use the internet because it can help me with schoolwork, their stance remained inescapable. The absence of an online presence strained my social life, leaving me feeling frustrated and misunderstood. I tried tolerating their opinion while struggling with feelings of loneliness. this conflict not only affected my social interactions but also negatively affected psychological health, forcing me to confront the sophisticated balance between parental guidance and my desire for independence.

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In paragraph 1, the author compares a home with a verbal ring to show that in families there’s always fights and misunderstandings. There’s this tension between family members while fighting like the tension between people in a verbal ring

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Debra Kent’s avoidance of confrontation could harm her relationship with her children by leaving issues unresolved and stifling open communication. Over time, this might prevent her children from learning healthy conflict resolution, potentially leading to misunderstandings or lack of boundaries. As noted in Kent’s approach to parenting (line 3, Paragraph 4), avoiding conflict can hinder emotional development and communication

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In the metaphor, the author compares the family and home to a verbal boxing ring to show how they kept arguing over the simplest things and it kept escalating. This metaphor shows how hard it is to argue with ur family and helps the reader understand his or her parents pov.

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Joanne Stern emphasizes that conflicts between parents and teens are inevitable because adolescence involves growth and the quest for independence (lines 1-2, Paragraph 3). This perspective challenges traditional parenting views that focus on control and obedience, reframing conflict as a normal part of development rather than something to avoid (lines 4-5, Paragraph 3). Stern argues that addressing conflicts can lead to stronger relationships and better emotional skills for both parents and teens (lines 5-6, Paragraph 3).

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Debra Kent's tendency to avoid confrontation may weaken the bond with her children, this can also cause the kids to lose their confidence, ruining their social life. Evidence, in paragraph 1 lines 16-19''But it turns out Debra is not doing her kids any favors. Fighting, done fairly, delivers a huge payoff: A stronger relationship with one's child ,and the confidence that comes... equipped with emotional survival skills that last a lifetime"

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Joanne Stern emphasizes that conflicts between parents and kids are inevitable since Joanne knows there are gonna be problems between the parents and children, but she understands that this is not escapable and that it will help the children with there confidence later in life. This challenges the traditional view of parenting since they wouldn't expect there kids to argue or talk back which causes tension between members.

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1. Once, I had come back home completely diminished after receiving 3 consecutive homework in a row. It was a prominent trait for teachers to load up our bags with unreasonable amounts of class work and homework. I decided that I will use the internet to aid me. Then, my mom barged into my room. I always had a good rapport with my mom, but this confrontation jeopardized everything. She had her "mom" powers at her disposal, so I had no choice but to listen. In the end, I learned that I should have a backbone and perhaps I should stand up for myself.

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The author compares a home to a verbal boxing ring since an argument took place in their house making it a completely unsafe place to be which is why she says that it is like a boxing ring. She also wants to show the stark contrast between the happy home she had before the fight and the verbal boxing ring it became after a fight highlighting its effect on its environment. The effect this metaphor creates is showing her what fighting can do whether or not it is a positive result like creating a mutual understanding and in this case a happy home, or a negative one like the child developing mental problems and live in a very threatening place like a verbal boxing ring.

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Debrah Kent's tendency to avoid confrontation with her kids may affect her relationship with their kids in a negative way since they will develop an increased tendency of defying her orders without any consequence as stated in P. (3), L. (5-6)." Her kids may never get a backbone and actually defend themselves" They also may not know how to handle their emotions because Debrah never instilled this lesson to her kids as stated in P. (2), L. (1). "They also might not know how to manage their emotions as well."

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Joanne Stern emphasizes that conflict between parents and teens are inevitable, so she can keep reinforcing the idea that we should make every fight count by instilling in them a way to deal with their emotions and learn to defend themselves. Conflicts also make parents understand their teen's mindset, and the capability of being patient and empathetic towards them. She wants the parents to view conflict not as a negative but as a positive. This however clashes with traditional parenting because back then talking back to parents was very uncommon out of fear whereas nowadays you can usually do it without much drawback. This difference can also be attributed to the rise of technology which can expand a teenager's knowledge past those of the parents themselves.

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He compared the house to a verbal boxing ring to show how the family undergoes a lot of verbal fights and arguing instead of having a calm conversation . This creates an image in the readers brain to help understand the struggles Debra was facing

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Debra’s avoidance of confrontation can cause a weak relationship with her children as it can cause them not to work together to resolve their problems but keep a tense and frustrated mood in the house this was stated in p(1),l(17-19)as,” fighting , done fairly,delivers a huge payoff…equipped with emotional survival skills that last a lifetime.’’

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The way Debra avoids confrontation with her kids can cause a weak bond with her kids

This can also cause their kids to not have any confidence when arguing with someone else, The text states that : "But it turns out Debra is not doing her kids any favors. Fighting, done fairly, delivers a huge payoff: A stronger relationship with one's child, and the confidence that comes knowing.... equipped with emotional survival skills that last a lifetime." P.(1),L.(16-19)

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The tone changes into an assuring tone, as the author gives different rules for "fighting in an appropriate way" This shift suggests that the author sees conflict as chance to reinforce the relationship between parents and kids, and that conflicts have many benefits in molding the child's personality and morals.

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The relationship between authority and respect in parent-teen conflicts isnt as strong anymore, as teens nowadays know how to challenge the parent and start a conflict. Stern suggests that teens are moody , and find any reason to be dramatic. They are vey stubborn, so parents in the modern days need to know how to counter the mood swings of teens, while teaching them a moral.

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The author's inclusion of expert voices gives reliability to the text, reassuring the reader and giving them the idea that the insights the experts are giving are authentic. It also gives the text a good reputation and provides professionalism. The studies show experience and knowledge of the experts, hence boosting the trustworthiness of the experts even more.

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Debra Kent’s tendency to avoid confrontation may weaken the relationship with her children and it may lead to them being scared or nervous to open up to her and it also leads to them not having any confidence while arguing with others and not knowing how to defend themselves. The text states “ they also might not know how to manage their emotions well.” P(2) , L(1).

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Conflicts, when handled correctly, can strengthen a relationship because arguments are a staple in many relationships, not only relationships between teens and their parents. Arguments can help a teen express their emotions better, which also helps the parent understand the teen more, and gives them the opportunity to give helpful advice that could strengthen the bonds between them. The text supports this by stating: "Fighting is also a parent's chance to say to teenagers "I want you to have your own thoughts and feelings, even when they clash with mine. And when the fight is over, im still going to love you" " P.(3),L.(1-3)

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I learned that conflicts can strengthen a relationship.

I learned that the bond between parents and their kids is always developing.

I learned that there are many benefits to having arguments and disagreements.

I only learned one vocab word which is rapport.

1 conflict i learned how to solve is the way to disagree with parents in an appropriate and beneficial way.

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Debra Kent’s avoidance of conflict may negatively impact her relationship with her children and may lead her to accepting ridiculous demands. By avoiding the possibility of conflict she indirectly causes her children to not learn any important ideas the text states this as,” Fighting done fairly delivers a huge payoff”(Line 17 Paragraph 1)

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the tone of the author changed into an assuring tone since the author gave many fair ways to come over conflicts. This shifts suggests that the author shows the conflicts have a chance to fix relationships

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As people grow up the tendency to challenge authority is increased as they attempt to become more self sufficient and aware, so sterns stern comments are well thought as they help parents be aware of how their children may act.However this clashes with traditional parenting values meaning that it may be hard for the parents to change their style of parenting all while also being pressured by the children

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The author’s tone shifts to a reassuring one while outlining rules for fighting appropriately, suggesting that conflict can strengthen the parent child relationship.