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I believed it was truth that men don't cry and therefore I didn't cry and carried on that belief

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I would tell my younger brothers not to cry when they would get hurt and to get up and keep going. Reinforced the idea that crying/being emotional is bad.

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Rarely saw men cry, in the telenovelas that I watched men were also the aggressors and the decision makers.

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Men can't be emotional, men are the fighters, men are the leaders of the family.

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Every asian person has to be a smart person and know lots of things.

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Almost every person I knew that was asian the teachers would pick them for answers when everybody else in the classroom did not know it. Valedictorians were asian as well.

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I myself believed that I had to live up to that expectation in school and to try my best at every subject.

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Mental health is not for everyone.

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Women are always below men and have to obey the males.

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They probably did drugs or are possessed

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either over glamorized the issues or mental hospital treatment or made it super scary

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Most educators I saw growing up are white teachers.

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Pressure to be successful in one's career or professional goals.

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I believed it was true that men were the decision-makers and that women had to be the home-makers.

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Gender: Women are submissive. They must stay at home and take care of the household. Men should always be dominant.

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Gender: Women are submissive. They must stay at home and take care of the household. Men should always be dominant.

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either you were functional or extremely dysfunctional , didn't realize it could affect me. Pretty ignorant

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I would say to my asian friends that we had to study more and be at the top of the class. If we didn't people would look down on asian people in general and think that tey are not smart. We had to keep on trying academically. Of course now I don't think too much about being gifted academically.

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Media: Women rely on men. They are constantly being saved by them in tv shows and movies. They play small side roles. 

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Media: Women rely on men. They are constantly being saved by them in tv shows and movies. They play small side roles. 

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Pressure was placed by parents and media that reinforced the idea of defining "success" in one's career

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telling my little sister to cover up or not sit like a guy or doing things that're "guy-like" because my parents grew up teaching me the same thing.

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Women were the homemakers, raising the children and keeping the home tidy. Men were the providers.

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Women are weaker. Therefore, they must be the submissive and inferior gender.

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Women are weaker. Therefore, they must be the submissive and inferior gender.

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you have to go to college to be successful

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In order to be successful and happy, you need to have a stable/normalized job even if it doesn't align with your passion

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now i think mental health should not be stigmatized and it's important for everyone. i check in with others more and educated myself on manic symptoms. I don't say the word "crazy" as lightly as before

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I was one of few Black kids in my Elementary days, and it was considered one of the better schools in the district. I was also very quiet and polite, which shocked some of my teachers.

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It's men who are seen in important positions. Women are seen as caretakers. This stereotype is reinforced by these beliefs.

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It's men who are seen in important positions. Women are seen as caretakers. This stereotype is reinforced by these beliefs.

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Black people are lazy, and it is a shock when there are Black people who strive to better themselves and their community.

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A lot of teachers mention that to be successful you have to go to school and college. Society and a lot of the older generation also back it up and vocalize it towards younger generations

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Asian parents often place a strong emphasis on their children pursuing prestigious and high-paying professions such as medicine, law, or engineering

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Born in an African American family

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The law is not on our side. We do all we can to not give off any iota of aggression towards law enforcement.

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Media representations that focus on STEM careers may downplay the creative or artistic talents of Asians.

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You will have to have a high paying job to be in happy in life

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Get good grades, pursue a well-paying career, and work hard. The effort you put in now decides how hard it will be to support yourself in the future.

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First Lesson: Do what I say not as I do, and family is priority number one.

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First Lesson: Do what I say not as I do, and family is priority number one.

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Loyalty

Do not ask questions that may seem disrespectful to the authority figures in your life.

A Woman's Role

Help out the family, even if it is harmful to you.

Rules

Do not trust outsiders because they will only use it against you.

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Yes, school can be very beneficial and going to college is good but it is not needed to be successful

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In media, there is always the idea that if you don't pursue higher education, you are failing. If you are working a minimum wage job people will use you as an example of someone who is wasting their future and is lazy.

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as a tutor i tell my students that working hard in school and studying is very important.

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You can't change the way people view what you decide to do with your future. Getting a good career seems like the only option to a good and stable life, but not all people get that opportunity. Sometimes you just have to ignore the negativity and continue trying to achieve that good future by different means.

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I work with kids, and they all have different ideas of what their futures will be. Right now, they are at the age where anything is possible. If they want to be a cook, an artist, or whatever job they want, let them decide for themselves what will provide a good future. Pursue what you want the way you want.

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Economic Systems

Families have to live together just to make ends meet because of income disparities due to ethnicities and education.

Cultural Norms

Stagnates the growth needed to process thoughts. and the ability to be competitive on social and economic level.

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In my family I was the first college graduate, and the belief was, that graduating from high school and working would be good enough.

Now, that i'm older I know that the cards for the underserved person can be stacked against before you have even begun.

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I do admit, I did tell my little sister to just finish high school mom will be proud of you and the establishment wouldn't be able to label you a statistic. I later realized that she could do so, much more and we both started college at the same time.

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I was expected to be smart and held to a high standard

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There were not many mixed kids growing up, so people would often make assumptions. Peers would ask me if they could get an "n-word" pass from me and also credited my hard work in school to just being Asian.

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Education was extremely important to me, and I tied a lot of my personal value to academic performance.

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I previously have held younger mixed-Asian people that I know to a really high standard academically. I am striving to make sure that young people I mentor know that they are so much more than their grades.

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Women couldn’t be trusted swift money or decision making.

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Women couldn’t be trusted swift money or decision making.

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Women are only valuable if you’re attracted to them, otherwise they’re not worthy of your respect/attention.

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Women are only valuable if you’re attracted to them, otherwise they’re not worthy of your respect/attention.

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In Mexican culture, men lead and order. Women follow and take orders.

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Re-enforced stereotypes, if someone is fat then they are automatically deemed unhealthy, unattractive, and unwanted.  

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Re-enforced stereotypes, if someone is fat then they are automatically deemed unhealthy, unattractive, and unwanted.  

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Your body/your ability does not determine your worth. 

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Your body/your ability does not determine your worth. 

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The novelas my family watched showed stereotypical relationships between men and women. The men were always the strong leaders who "saved" the damsel in distress.

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When I was younger I thought I couldn't make it on my own. I felt like I needed someone to be anything in this world. At the time I thought that my saving would come in the form of a relationship.

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My best friend and I grew up with similar socialization. We always talked about being excited to grow up which to us meant leaving our family homes and getting married.

My little sister would also engage in conversations about this belief.

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Born into a family who hasn't completed school

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Born into a family who hasn't completed school

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expected to get good grades consistently and be into my education

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expected to get good grades consistently and be into my education

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i am expected to complete school and go into more school after that, then a full time job straight after with no gaps.

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I believed I was wrong for going on my gaps in my education despite my peers, family, and their expectations.

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I believed I was wrong for going on my gaps in my education despite my peers, family, and their expectations.

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I try to teach those who are younger around me that they don't need to follow the formula to life society was made and their journeys and experiences in education is valid.

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Being born into a white family living in poor parts of stockton I was taught that the city and in particular the low income communities were the "ghetto"

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Adults and family, especially with more money than us reinforced the idea that Stockton as a whole was dangerous and "ghetto", fearmongering about crime rates and race demographics.

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I had come to accept that the only way to become successful was to leave Stockton and go to somewhere like the bay area or Sacramento, bigger cities with more opportunity and money because Stockton was undesirable.

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Some time during childhood I moved in with family in Modesto that was middle class and in a much whiter neighborhood/area. I talked down on Stockton because of the negative stereotypes and issues with the city.

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Fitting into one label would bring more success than admitting to being more than one.

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In every job application as well as health care applications they ask about race and isolate certain cultures.

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Giving up on learning about my cultures while also never disputing against and or identifying myself as mixed race.

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I would let others assume my identity and never argue against it so they always believed me to be one thing or the other.

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You are judged more harshly for what you do, how you eat, what you eat, what you wear, etc. Encouraged to lose weight or eat less by family

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Doctors telling you to lose weight in order to be healthy, spaces are not made for bigger bodies, being uncomfortable taking up space in public and at home

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By a young age I had accepted that I should hate myself and my body. I had low self-esteem and judged myself and others harshly for how they looked

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It took me some years to finally accept and love myself and my body. I try to show up as myself wherever I go and not try to shrink myself or my body so that I can set a positive example of what it means to be fat and accepting of yourself for younger people

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Disabilities are sometimes viewed in a negative way. It is sometimes assumed those with disabilities struggle in everyday life.

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From what I've heard, people with disabilities have a harder time learning.

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I've been told I do better than most people with a disability, but that makes me question how others are doing.

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I inspire others by being myself and working hard.

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Born into a mixed family- white and Asian

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Born into a mixed family- white and Asian

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A woman's worth is determined by three things: her beauty, femininity, and her fertility.

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I was obsessed with all the princess Disney movies, where the princesses were always beautiful and skinny, elegant, wore feminine clothing and had characteristics people associate with femininity like kindness, care, love, etc. Though these princess Disney movies did teach many good morals and progressive ideas, they did so as comfortably as they could- by keeping the women in traditional standards of beauty and femininity. And of course when they got married at the end, it was assumed and told to me that after that she would have children.

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I remember when I was little and I couldn't care less about how I looked. In middle school and high school, however, I accepted that my worth was in my beauty, femininity, and fertility (yes fertility even in middle school. Most girls believe that their goal in life should be to marry and have babies. Rhymes like the K-I-S-S-I-N-G one didn't help either) and I began to obsess over my looks. I acted dumb and cute around boys because I realized they liked to be the smarter ones. I spent so much money on products to change the way I looked. Even now, though I can act like myself around men and am not embarrassed to say my feminist beliefs and embraced my masculine side/style, I still am careful with how I present myself to society. I work out and eat carefully and wear makeup. I still want to be beautiful, and beautiful in the way that I was told beauty was.

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I am always trying to make sure kids know that women can do and be whatever they want- we don't need a man to be happy and complete. However, I still wear makeup to work. I still conform to societal standards for women. Though there is nothing wrong with wearing makeup and conforming to societal standards, kids are observant. They see how us adults want to be viewed and they keep that in their minds. No matter what I say, the small, subconscious things will stay with them.

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