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Grief: When Major Loss Challenges Your Beliefs

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This article shows that true love can actually happen in Teen relationships, as shown in The Fault in Our Stars. Throughout the book, Hazel and Gus go through many stages of love, eventually confessing their love for one another. In the book it may not seem like the love can be real since they are only teenagers, but this article shows that what they feel for each other must be true.

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Many adults brush off teen relationships, believing that they're inconsequential or unable to stand the test of time. In reality, romantic connections between teenagers can be formative, instructive, fulfilling, and valuable whether or not they last over the long term - and some may. Let's examine some of the different factors involved in being a teen in a romantic relationship and look at ways you can get support.

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It Is Important For Parents To Acknowledge Their Teens' Feelings

Is Teen Love Real?

Definitely answering this question is not truly possible. Relationships can be complicated, and feelings and their meanings are generally subjective. For instance, those who consider the only "real love" to be the kind that leads to marriage have a very narrow definition. In their view, most teen love today would not be "real". However, those who have a broader definition of love that encompasses all types of meaningful experiences would be more likely to agree that teenage love can absolutely be "real".

Love Versus Lust

It's not uncommon for teenagers and adults alike to have confusion around love versus lust sometimes. Lust typically refers more to physical attraction, and it can be fleeting. Love typically refers to a more emotional connection that is characterized by a deep care for another person. Especially as a teenager, experiencing all different types of connections can be beneficial. That said, learning to recognize different types can help you manage your expectations for where you want the connection to go.

Can Teen Love Last?

Teen love can last; just ask the high school sweethearts out there that are still married decades later. When it comes to marriages in particular, there are clear statistics available. According to a report from the CDC, marriages that occur at the age of 18 years or younger have a 10% probability of breaking up after just one year, and that likelihood increases to 29% after five years. In comparison, 6% of those who get married between the ages 20-25 get a divorce after one year of living together, and 17% end their marriages after five years.

The same report also states that the average "steady romantic relationship" in high school typically lasts six months for 16-year-olds and about a year for 17 and 18-year-olds. So while there are certain trends that indicate a low probability that teen love will last forever, that doesn't mean it can't last for a time that's helpful and joyful for the people involved. Plus, most teenagers aren't looking for a life partner at this age. That means that, to an adolescent, "a love that lasts" may simply refer to one that offers joy and learning experiences for whatever duration feels right to the partners in it.

Tips For More Successful Teen Relationships

However long you envision your relationship lasting as a teenager, you probably want it to be healthy and enjoyable-a basic definition of "success" when it comes to interpersonal connections. Since teen dating and relationships generally have a different context than adult relationships, there are some tips you can keep in mind to increase the likelihood of having a "successful" relationship at this time in your life-whatever that looks like for you.

Prioritize Getting To Know Yourself

Try to avoid the tendency some have to mold themselves to their current partner in an effort to please them. In the long run, a relationship where one or both partners isn't being their authentic self is unlikely to last or be healthy or truly fulfilling. Do your best to get to know who you are and what you want in potential partners as you meet and connect with different people. That way, you can set yourself up for increasingly healthy and meaningful relationships over time.

Consider What's Best For You

When teenagers start relationships while they're in high school, they're going to face a challenging decision when graduation comes around. Many adolescents choose to leave town for college, job opportunities, or travel after this point, which can separate couples. Even if you'll be staying in the same place as your partner or moving to the same new area, it's worth considering if remaining in this relationship is what's best for you.

Young adulthood can be a time of exciting new opportunities and the chance to meet all kinds of people. Whether you choose to stay with your high school partner or to end things before you both move on, remember: The goal at this age doesn't have to be settling into a lifelong relationship as soon as possible. You're allowed to take as much time as you need to weigh your options and make the decision that's right for you and your current and future happiness, regardless of how that may affect your current relationship status.

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It Is Important For Parents To Acknowledge Their Teens' Feelings

Keep A Balanced Social Life

It's common for both teenagers and adults to want to spend all their time with their significant other when the relationship is new. This early phase can be exciting and full of fun and joy, so leaning into it can be a great life experience. However, it's generally wise to maintain balance in your social life as best you can when in a relationship. Keeping up with friends, family, and hobbies while you're dating someone can help ensure you're building a full life for yourself independent of your relationship. Plus, if this relationship ends, it'll be easier for you to get the support you may need from friends and loved ones if you've been maintaining your connections with them all along. Research supports this general concept. One study found that teens with strong friendships were less likely to internalize the stress of isolation and social distancing during the COVID-19 pandemic. Another found that strong friendships can help teenagers cope with stressful life events.

Navigating Teen Relationships With Online Therapy

When it comes to teen relationships, there are multiple ways that a therapist can support you. They can offer guidance in figuring out who you are so that you can be authentic and form true intimacy in your connections with others. They can help you recover from hurtful relationships or unrequited crushes, and they can assist you in building skills that can help you form healthy relationships such as communication and conflict resolution.

Some teenagers may find meeting with a therapist in-person to be stressful or intimidating. If you'd feel more comfortable speaking with someone from the comfort of your own home, online therapy is an option. Research suggests that it can offer similar benefits to in-office sessions, so you can feel confident in your choice either way if you decide to pursue this type of support. With your parent's consent, you can get matched with a licensed therapist who you can meet with via phone, video call, and/or online chat through a virtual therapy service like TeenCounseling. They can help you navigate the often complicated world of relationships during your teen years.

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While most teenage relationships will not last after high school or college, the feelings between two teens are real and can lead to valuable lessons about what they want (or don't want) in later adult relationships. Online therapy can help teens process intense feelings and make decisions about the future.

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Making future plans together and four other signs can indicate you're in a long-term relationship.

There's a reason countless songs have been written about the age-old questions surrounding romantic relationships. People meet, hook up, date and maybe even break up. But it's not usually a straight line from meeting to a committed relationship.

Are you wondering whether you and your partner are in what's considered a committed relationship? Keep reading for everything you need to know, from the definition of a committed relationship to the five most common signs you're in one.

What Is a Committed Relationship?

It's important to note that commitment can look and feel different to different people. For example, you may commit to a monogamous relationship (meaning you're only dating each other), or you may decide that an open relationship (meaning you're both free to also date other people) is a better fit for you.

No matter what structure your partnership takes, there are many ways to be in a committed, healthy relationship. That being said, one thing most committed relationships have in common is that you're saying yes to being with one another for the long run.

"A committed relationship is one in which you and your partner intentionally say yes to a future together, and that yes is preceded by conversations about future hopes, dreams and plans for yourselves and the relationship itself," says Kait Scalisi, a certified sex educator based in New York City.

Scalisi has coached many couples through all of the intimacies and intricacies involved in relationships. She believes an important component of committed relationships is both partners' willingness to acknowledge change, take time to check in with each other, and say yes again and again. "Commitment happens when you see and love one another clearly for who you are right now with the understanding that we all grow, shift and change," she says.

There's often a stage between casual dating and commitment when it may feel unclear whether you're actually in a committed relationship. Below, we'll explore some of the signs to look out for.

Five Signs of a Committed Relationship

While every couple is different and there are no hard-and-fast rules when it comes to defining a relationship, these five signs likely mean you're headed toward committed relationship territory.

1. You Talk About Your Relationship's Hopes and Expectations

Scalisi says commitment involves thinking ahead. "That means being open and honest about what you want for your life and your relationship going forward," she says. "These conversations sometimes explore sticky topics that can make or break the relationship."
These sticky topics can be things like your relationship structure, your desire for children, your career plans, how you want to handle your finances and where you want to live, Scalisi says, adding that the goal isn't to lock anyone in but rather to form a strong foundation of shared expectations and goals.

2. You Make Plans for the Future

By definition, commitment indicates dedication and repetition. There's a reason you wouldn't say you're in a committed relationship after one date-it would feel odd to get out your calendars to start scheduling holidays together right after learning where you each grew up.

Over time, this joint planning begins to happen organically. If you find that you're consistently bringing up plans that your partner avoids committing to (or they avoid discussing the future altogether) you probably aren't in a committed relationship quite yet.
Once it becomes assumed that you'll be spending time together often, that likely means you're moving toward a committed relationship-or at least getting closer to a place where it may make sense to have a conversation about it.

3. You Both Put in Effort

It's not groundbreaking to say that relationships can be difficult. Sometimes that looks like your significant other constantly forgetting to unload the dishwasher, other times it's more trying situations like those involving illness or death.

"[Being in a committed relationship] is about being honest about the trials and tribulations that you'll face and saying yes, this is someone I want to face life with," Scalisi says.

It's about the little things as much as it is the big-deal life events. In most healthy relationships, there is a sense of both partners pulling equal weight with things like doing chores and running errands, as well as supporting one another through tough times and crises.

4. You See a Future Together

The problem with looking for signs of commitment is that sometimes we can get tied up in wondering what the other person is thinking rather than checking in with ourselves. While you may choose to check in with your partner and see how they think your relationship is progressing, it's critical to ask yourself the same questions on a regular basis, especially in a new relationship.

Ask yourself questions like: Is this person still making me happy? Do I feel like we're equally invested in the outcome of this relationship? Do I feel comfortable and safe in this relationship?

Of course, new relationships-even those meant to stand the test of time-can be nerve-racking and anxiety-inducing. If you get into an argument or question your feelings, that's normal. What matters is the repetition of checking in over time and looking for patterns. If you're consistently feeling uncomfortable, anxious or undervalued, it may be time to ask yourself whether this is really someone you want to be in a long-term relationship with.

5. You Know How to Support Each Other

One of the greatest perks of being in a serious relationship with a committed partner is that you gain a constant support system. Of course, we have support from our family and friends, but most of them probably don't know the ins and outs of daily life the way a romantic partner will. It's special to share your life with someone, to know the names of their coworkers and what they had for lunch each day. But it also means showing up for one another.

"In any committed relationship, you'll meet some storms," Scalisi says. "How do you want to be supported? What about your partner? Knowing how to show up for one another in both times of trouble and celebration shows that you've taken the time to really get to know one another and are realistic about the ups and downs you'll face as a couple-you're in this rollercoaster we all live in together."

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In new relationships, it can be difficult to know when you've moved from a casual fling to a committed relationship. This article breaks down the signs.