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Jeannette's mom Rose Mary has seemed to become self-aware/ self-accepting of their living styles she isn't ashamed of what they do to survive. This is also like a social norm to her just because of how accepting she is of it, "Life too short to worry about what other people think". "I was convinced that people might be more accepting if we made an effort". These quotes show the difference between Rose Mary thinking nothing of others' opinions and carrying on with her life the way she always has while Jeannette still takes change into consideration she tries to have the same mindset as her mother.

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After Rex asking his own daughter for money everyday she finally sticks up to herself and questions him. He begins to gaslight her into believing that he is able to take care of her and her siblings by saying things like, "Don't worry about food and bills,". she continues to question it no matter how many times he ask , "Have I ever let you down?" This ties into the theme of broken promises after Jeannette realizes shes only ever ansder him the way he wanted to avoid conflict not because she believed him. She doesnt trust her dad but she still fronts to him like she does.

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No matter how toxic and complicated Jeannettes's parents relationship is her and her siblings will always be on the best terms with each other. They are constanlty working together to make do with what they have, they have a deep bond. This picture shows how Jeannettes siblings fight back agaisnt billy after Jeannette realized she was raped by him.
'we were defending ourselves and didnt even aim to kill", they fight back with no questions and they all go down togther when they get caught by police and their parents.

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The picture above repersents how throughout the memior Rex allows Jeannette to go through her childhood being groomed and raped. This brings the idea of being forced to mature faster than you grow/come of age. Rex takes Jeannette out for a "business trip" however, in reality its just for rex to gamble. Rex insist she goes upstairs with an older man and she ends up being sexual assulted and inront of other adults, she continues to tell the guy shes, "not that kind of girl". She then leaves and explains to rex what happened he brushes it off and says, "i knew you could handle yourself" with all this sexual assualt trauma this causes Jeannette to mature faster.

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Once a promise is broken the trust is also broken.

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When accepting yourself as you are it changes your mindset which can brush off on others in a positive way.

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Growing up with traumatic events often happening in childhood can make you mature faster than you need to.

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Love and support builds the strongest bonds between siblings.