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I hate to hear that these things are happening. It seems like cliques can be an issue within big groups like sororities, especially when there are new members that do not know anyone yet :(
Common kindness really should not be that difficult for so many people. When a girl is bid on, it is because the active members think she will be great in their sorority and with their active members. It’s unreasonable for that new member to then be excluded when they are supposed to belong and be excited to be in a new group that supposedly wanted them.

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being apart of a chapter i love and trust i worry that people within my chapter are having experiences like that i haven’t noticed. i want to be apart of a chapter that loves and supports each other

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After hearing these stories, I think they're very relatable. As someone who was on the exec board of a sorority, I heard rumors about myself started through people I thought I was close with and the stories got so far and twisted that I didn't know what to do about it because minds were made up by the time it got back to me:(

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I think miscommunication plays a really big part

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Hearing this makes me really saddened for our community and my friends :(

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to hear these stories is incredibly disappointing and disheartening. but what i think is arguably even worse is that i wasn't surprised by these numbers or chapter specific accounts. i understand the gravity of cultural changes, but these changes seem like a no brainer. just be nice. it's not rocket science. women should NEVER feel excluded or less than because of others!

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to hear these stories is incredibly disappointing and disheartening. but what i think is arguably even worse is that i wasn't surprised by these numbers or chapter specific accounts. i understand the gravity of cultural changes, but these changes seem like a no brainer. just be nice. it's not rocket science. women should NEVER feel excluded or less than because of others!

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It’s hard to see and accept the aggression within our community. We preach positivity, love, and support within our chapters, and still negativity seems to be overtaking the good experiences we have. When becoming a member of a chapter, we come in with the expectation that no matter what chapter we are in we will be loved and cared for no matter who we are but hearing these stories we realize not everything is what as it seems.

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It makes me really sad and disappointed in our community. I feel as if the women in this setting should be more encouraging and supportive rather then negative and just mean. We are all in this community for similar reason and you would think more people would understand that we’re in this together.

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It’s really sad to hear these stories. Honestly, I’ve had a really great experience in my chapter so it’s hard to hear that that’s not the case for all. I hear about “mean girl” behavior and assume it’s just people having bad days. However after hearing these stories I’m realizing that some people really do intentionally mean things. It’s making me reflect harder and realizing small day to day interactions can make a really big impact on someone’s membership experience and self confidence.

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this is unacceptable behavior and quite honestly embarrassing that people think it is acceptable to act like this

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It’s awful. We all joined a sorority to be apart of something, no matter if it was for our philanthropies, our sisters, or just better connects. We all found a group of girls we can be sisters with. But this kind of behavior doesn’t sound like a healthy sister relationship. </3

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It’s awful and made me reflect on some of the behaviors that i’ve been doing and think differently about how some of the girls have been “informing me” about some of the other girls. i think it’s important to let members form their own opinion on the people they meet and to remain humble when forming these opinions. everyone does awful things sometimes and it’s important to remember that everyone is multidimensional and one mistake does not define who they are as a person.

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I feel really sad honestly. Being apart of a chapter is to be apart of a sisterhood and to hear these stories of sisters being against each other or just being mean to each other is not okay. We join this to belong and feel like we have a group of people to talk and hang out with but when we begin turning against each other for no reason at all it is a huge problem. I hope someday things will change.

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it was disheartening to hear about how these women had to deal with those things. i think that is important that we shed light on things like that so that we can combat those issues BEFORE people get hurt through it.

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Very disappointing to hear that it is affecting this much of the community but comforting to know that my chapter is not the only one dealing with it

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I and saddened but not surprised to hearing about these stories and statistics. I also and disappointed to know that this behavior happens in my chapter and with members of other chapters

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It makes me upset to know that people are being treated this way

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One day we were choosing songs to play at a date party, one of the songs I loved and represented my culture. One of my sisters whispered behind me “is that even English I don’t want to listen to that” and it really hurt my feelings

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The stories and stats where super upsetting to hear that this is happening within a Panhellenic community I am involved with. I’m hoping that having this presentation will help bring awareness to these behaviors and help make a change for those people who may have been experiencing these awful problems.

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We need to be doing more to prevent this from happening, stand up for your sisters!

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Makes me want to enact change

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It was very disappointing to hear because when joining a sorority you pick one that you feel aligns best with your morals/values so when someone goes against them it could make you feel like you made the wrong choice

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it’s something that i think will make me more aware of my behavior in the future to prevent making anyone around me feel like this!

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It’s really disappointing and kind of disgusting to hear about these experiences. I went to an all girls high school and it really sounds like high school behavior. We’re adults and should be acting as such.

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sad to hear

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I think it is important to talk about these situations because it can feel very isolating in a chapter that you feel unwelcome in

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It breaks my heart that anyone had any of those experiences. I don’t know why anyone would intentionally hurt one of their sisters.

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It's horrible that people join sororities with the intention of finding a place of belonging but feel excluded by their sisters

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It is sad that we preach sisterhood but have these horrible experiences with each other

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unfortunately hit close to home. desperately wanting a culture shift!!

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The last one makes me so upset :(

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It’s really surprising to hear that this is happening to people because I know personally for me I have had and amazing time and made some great friends!

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very sad

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Makes me sad but unfortunately not surprised. Something I heard from a member of my chapter was to “treat people as if they are hurting” which is easier said than done. Just be kind.

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i found it just upright disgusting that the percentage is so high of how hurtful the community is and i am so sorry that that individual had to experience something like that

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I felt all of things were said are all things that are kinda within greek life that we try to cover up and ignore.

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disappointed

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The fact that girls are being treated so negatively from members of other chapters is extremely hard to hear

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I think I’ve seen clicky ness happen the most where a group of people get together and don’t include others within their chapter

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That everyone is going through something!! That no one knows about.

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Upsetting

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i thought it was incredibly sad. when i thought about joining a sorority i was so excited to meet my forever sisters. sisters don’t tear other girls down.

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It makes me so sad hearing this, but it also makes me feel better to because other girls go through this. I always thought I was alone with the stuff that I go through in the change and all the negative vibes I receive

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disappointing to know that people are treated like that in our community

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It’s sad that women think this okay. We often don’t think and reflect like “am I actually hurting this person” I just humans were nicer

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very sad

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It makes me understand where some of the negative stereotypes about Greek life come from

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It’s very upsetting to hear

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Disturbed ):

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It is really disheartening to hear that many women are experiencing these situations :(

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It was extremely disheartening and it breaks my heart that people go through experiences like this.

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Definitely difficult to hear the types of things that happen in our own community

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it’s very upsetting to actually see factual proof of these instances

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this is extremely unacceptable and disheartening

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disappointed

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I am hurt that women are being treated like this and I am even more hurt knowing these stories could have came from members within my own chapter.

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disturbing

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Disappointing

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This is so so upsetting and completely unacceptable. The fact that I feel like I can add to this list is even more upsetting

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not good

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Sad and frustrating

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Shocked

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unsettling

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sad!!!