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My family conflict is that I can’t make my own decisions or do the things I genuinely like. Even with small things, like wanting to enjoy a hobby or go out, the answer is always “no, you can’t,” with no real reason. And when I try to speak up, they see it as disrespect.

At home, I can’t express my feelings. It doesn’t feel like a home anymore just a house where I feel suffocated. They buy me gifts or books, but it feels like it’s only to keep me inside and isolated. I’m not a vending machine where they can just give money and think that’s enough.

I even thought moving to another city would give me freedom, but it only got worse. The control followed me. Now I feel unseen, like they don’t even know who I am anymore. Sometimes I wonder if they even know their own daughter, what I like, or what makes me happy.

That’s my family conflict: I don’t want things I want support, understanding, and the freedom to just be me.

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My brother feel me that I'm not include in the family, I feel stressed,disappointed, when I disagree on her instructions I was mad at me I think I need to find a way to resolve our issues I 'd like to talk about specific issues or something bad at them I feel like we haven't been communicating effectively!!🥺

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My family conflicts is about family problems. Sometimes they about money because my father is an debt. My mother said " do not debts your friends because they not paid their debts". And my father said " they paid their debts". Then, at that time they fight each other.

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My Family problem is very simple but its hurt me,,,, they compered me to my brother because my brother is very smart but I do my best to make her proud but I think it's not enough sometimes i cry because I think I'm not enough of my family.😕

Me,,,, I hurt the way he told me you're not smart 🙁 your grade is not enough.

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Name: Colyn Apus

From Grade 7- Archimedes

As a student, I have heard different types of family conflicts including financial problems usually experienced by families who are short on money.

I have also witnessed academic pressure in family conflicts often about children being pressured by their parents to study hard which leads to stress and lack of sleep.

Another conflict is parent styles. Sometimes, parents don't realize that they have gone too far in disciplining their child which makes the child more cautious and hesitant around them.

The most common family conflict are sibling rivalry. Siblings often fight over small things which makes their parents frustrated. This is also considered as a love language

As for me, my family is struggling about my brother, who is not willing to listen to my parents advice.

And that's all my fellow students. I hope that you maintain a good relationship with your family. Not all parents show their true feelings, they might be doing it for your own good and you might not realize it.

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7-Archimedes🫶🥹

As a student, I face many family conflicts. We have financial problems, and sometimes I argue with my siblings. I also feel a lot of academic pressure because my parents expect too much from me. There is also favoritism in our family, which hurts me. Even if I try my best, it feels like my efforts are not enough.

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Archimedes-7

7 years ago when i was only 6 years old, my grandpa die from sickness and i was so stressed because without my grandpa i can barely smile and do simple things and,ever since grandpa die my mom has been working over time just to make money and to pay depth ,food. And lately my mom and my grandma has been fighting over small things even my oldest sister and mom sometimes fight to. After i turn in sixth grade i have been so stressed and pressure but i decided that no matter what happened to me i always do my best i don't care if am sick because i promise my grandpa that soon when i turn college i'll become a police officer.

And that's all thank you for reading it

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Grade-VII-Archimedes

Shaira Mae M. AKUT

My Family Conflict is like about:

1."Money" They are fighting because Somerimes we don't have a Money.

2.Problem on What they Gonna do to Feed Me and my One Sister(Like allowance).

3.I am stress/Affected because My mind are talk alot about Money,Problem, and Sometimes My bad attitudes.Because of that Problem,That can destroy my Health, and Mind.

4."My bad attitudes" (I can't explain it but I have this Problem.

That's all thank You

♡☆ For Reading!!!

To:Ma'am Lovilyn A. Libot

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Archimedes-7

When I was I child I always see my mother and Father fighting until One day my mother left us and that day my life change my mother never come back And my father change his not drinking alcohols anymore until now his working hard for me and my sister to provide our needs and now I'm doing my best to make him proud And thats all Thankyou for reading

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As a student i know that we have a many problems that we did not share to our parents like me, i have many problems, but sometimes i talk to my parents about it. My problems is about my grades and i'm struggling with it but, I keep learning and learning to keep my grades balance.

My problem with my family is we are arguing about something. But we love each other,and i'm so thankful to have a great parents like them.

-Aristotle

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As a pupil,I have so many problem but the most common problem that I have been experience is about my education,when the topic is about education I always scared , struggle because i feel i always wrong.

Family, I also have problem with my family, because we are broken family..When my mother and father arguing because of money, i always talking with my self, what if we are rich? What if we are not broken family?. If we are rich i think my mother and father will not going to argue about money and we are free to do what we want and we have a happy family:((

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AJ MAE

As a pupil I know that I have a problem with my family because of the money and I always Feel like so guilty and worry of that because of the problem.but I realize that my mother and father always give me a lot of time and love and I'm so blessed that I have a mother and father like that

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Angelica Paculanan

As a student, I'm very disappointed to my grades, I know my family said that "It's okay if you don't get the honor, as long as you finish the course.". But I'm very disappointed because they support me and when there is a school fee, they give it to me. That's why I'm very disappointed but I will never give up,I try my best to finish my school, and to achieve academic.

As a sister, my mother compared ate to me because I was a elementary I am always there at homor list and my ate not honored that's why they compared ate to me. And my mother angry to her even though she didn't do anything sometimes when I did something, my sister is to blamed, but they didn't say what we did before she angry to my ate. Why my ate always wrong? I'm very sad because why did not angry me sometimes they angry me. I'm very guilty and that time I told mom not "do not angry ato my sister because you don't know what happened"

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Angel Hulleza

ARISTOTLE-7

As a student we know we had a family

problem or called family conflict.

My mother said to me "it's okay to be not an honor student, because it's not the way you have,it's your decision or feelings" I think my mother is right.

Also I have many family conflicts like

high expectation,family issues,and the heavy pain I carry right now, because my mother left me in my grandmother to work abroad.

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Jade annikka

As a kid I want to share my family conflict like

Emotional distress and feelings of guilt,worry,and frustration escalate, and trust and communication braek down.

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Kristine Lyn C. Amporinguez

G-7 ARISTOTLE

As a student family conflict

I experience a broken family because my mother and father broke up and now, I leave my mother,grandmother and grandfather.

And I experience a stress because my mother scolded me and my score in my quizes and also my exam.

And I experience my all family is fighting because of drinking alcoholic.

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"FAMILY CONFLICTS

Aristotle

As a student,I've experience some difficulties in my Family, just like fighting a money,problems on what they gonna do just to feed us (my siblings),me and my sister are always fighting. This is a Family conflicts that we/us is affected as they Children. But I always thinking in my studies. My mind talk alot that can destroy my health like maybe they are not be proud of me because I'm not part of a honor this school year,maybe they going to compare me of my sister that has always a good grades,. But I always keep them because I'm afraid to open up to my parents/Family. I want to do all my best just them to be proud of me. But I always know that they are not

like that, I still love them so much🫶🫶

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"FAMILY CONFLICTS"

:Aristotle

As a student, I experienced that feelings of unfair, they were always comparing me into the other kids/students, I Ain't complain because it's so hard to talk back to them, because I have the discipline I respect others, My family known me like a nobody/unknown. In the previous day my parents have an argument about financials, financials, financials it's always financials and sometimes it's me..... it's hard to accept that am I not good enough for them? I tried my best but what can I say? All I have is my self til the end of the day, am I not good enough?😔 I feel like I am being stuck in the darkest minds, I'm always been overthinking, I am overwhelmed😔, in my problems I am affected, affected of my grades in school, affected in my actions,my physical...but the question is will I ever be free? Maybe? Or yes? Or no? I can't understand.

To solve our problems:

1. opened and appreciation, at least I can express my feelings, emotions to them,

2.listen,because I am their daughter right? Of course they need to hug me.

1. They need to understand me; understand my deeply emotions,my feelings, they need to help me.

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As a student I experience that my mother said that I have to study because my father wants to be proud of me and sometimes I don't want to study but I have,because my parents is strict and they said if I didn't have to study I will stop going to school and I have to clean our whole house...

When I was grade 6 my name is list in the honor list and my parents got so very happy because I made it and me as a student got their wish that I have to be an honor student.... That's all.

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My observation on family conflicts are mostly about grades, attitudes, and performance. Sit back as I explain each one from personal experiences in My life.

1.) •Grades.

Alot of Families have conflicts about Their children's grades, often getting upset over the lowest one. It's either that The parents are strict or simply wish the best for Their children. I once had a friend who's parents saw 18/20, 7/10 or 27/30 as failing grades, She was the valedictorian of My class back in the 6th grade, had the highest grades and the highest avarege. But She always felt like Her score were never enough due to the amount of critism and pressure from Her parents.

2.) •Attidudes

Some family conflicts revolve around the child or adolescence's attitude, sometimes the parents think it's either the phone or the influence of other people that affect the adolescence's attitude, sometimes it is the case but other times it's simply that the child is figuring out Their emotions due to the change of them becoming a teenage. Parents must understand that the adolescence needs space and time to figure out Themselves before They can talk to anyone about it, They just need time and support from the parents.

3.) •Performances.

This is rather similar to Grades, but Parents often argue with Their children due to the child's performance at school, at home or in public settings. Possibly the child isn't doing so well in school and prefers to not participate or just keep to themselves, sometimes parents see this as a problem, and sometimes They push Their children to do more, to be like others. It's a problem some adolescence experience.

These are My personal observations and insights. What I'm trying to say is some parents see problems in the things we struggle with, and sometimes, They don't offer support, They offer pressure and impatience.

–Aristotle 7😘

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It's not really a family conflict, but sometimes I think that I'm a burden and I'm a disappointment. I always put in my heart and brain, that "If I fail to get on the honor list, I fail as a daughter too" not because my family told me, but because that's my perspective, I've always been on top since kinder, and I don't to ruin that title, but sometimes I think, am I not enough? Because for me, I'm not, in every aspects of life, I'm not.

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ARISTOTLE : Sammy

I experience a big family problem. Other people say your just a kid you don't have a problem but they didn't know i have a big hall in my heart cause of that big problem. I see many kid stuggling with their acads, i feel what they feel cause i also experience that. I have a friends problem family problem acads problem. It hurt when i see my parents arguing it affect my haert very much. I hate people yelling at me,people thought it didn't affect my feeling but no they didin't no it very affect my feeling also being compared to other is my painful why would you compared me to other am i not enough for them? Peolple thought i was happy i don't have a promblem i'm always smiling but behind that happiness, it's full or durk and sadness people sed i want to be like you cause you have a perfect family but they didn't no my family has a toxic side and that side it affect me very much. I think this is enough cause i'm going to cry na i can't continue this anymore🥹.

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Stefaney-my family is always not listening my problem when I wanna talk to them they alway arguing me because of talking back to them they always angry to me i always keep my feelings because i don't understand of what i have done they always arguing me when i always talk to them they said they don't have time to speak with me i was so sad because there's no people to share my feelings im happy to share my story.

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Hiiii,one of the many arguments my family had is about household chores,it's not that I am lazy but our parents should know that we teenagers need help...maybe they thought we whare lazy but it's to much like to sufucating. Sometimes our arguments is about low grades and always using my phone,low grades it's not that I am dumb or doesn't like to study......😒but maybe I just need love, comfort,and acception.I know I ame no perfect but please understand us the way you understand us when he whare kids.If you're asking why I/we don't open up because we don't wanna get judge about our small problems.Is it because we're just kids or even teenagers who need you're love.......

AND THAT'S ALLLL

I AM THINKERBELL

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when the first day we met tito Vincent—yet we don't trust him at first because of the trauma we had....

Flashback!

My tita and her ex-husband has been separated.... it has so many problems that comes to us when tito(tita's ex-husband) tried to k1ll tita with the knife... it gives trauma to us not just to their daughter but for me too....

and after several years tita goes abroad to give her 2 child (which is my cousins) support, since we don't have any communication with tito (her ex)...after several years me and our cousin finally found out that tita has a new lover (LOVER!?!?) but they're still separated and we still doesn't see her lover in personal after 3 years, tita got back her in the Philippines and she let us know or see her lover.... the first day we met her we don't trust her especially my cousin... that night she(my cousin) ran to our house while trying to hold back her tears she says that she will sleep with us but after a minute... tita approach while crying... they talked Infront of my family... it says that my cousin can't accept tito(lover). They fight about it.... most of my family gathered at our house and they were talking about it while fighting mostly yelling while crying... then after a while I realized... my cousin really love tita to the point that she's scared to let tita get hurt again because of the past trauma. And tito(ex) give my cousin a trauma and it builds trust issue to my cousin.

After that day... tita and my cousin didn't talked for 2 days but now in the present they are already okay. My cousin already accepted tito(lover) because tito let my cousin saw that she loves our tita genuinely.

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Maricel Buray

7 Aristotle

(My family conflict)

When I was 4 years old my parents got divorced, so i was very upset but then I stay witn my mom she said " my dear , you have to get the honor list all the time" so I tried and tried again but I fail, so my mom tried comparing me to my cousin, so that time I work hard to see my name on honor list, I achieve it but my mom is still not proud to me.

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My observation in my family

-My family has a big problem because they have a big debt and they are thinking about how they can pay off our

debt

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so my parents always fights because of cheating issues ’cause my father accused my mom for cheating, they always argue—causing them to divorce well not really divorce they just don't communicate anymore. My mom is on abroad and I lived with my father, those argument cause my father to drink alcohol and comes home late, our house is full of silence—our house is not full of ice/snow but it feels like it. One time I heard them fighting, I didn’t mind it because I got used na—but once I heard they’ll separating me and my brother, I was scared—I’m the oldest ofc mom will get me, I don’t want to live in Zamboanga, I don’t want to leave here, I don't want to leave my friends ever again. I want to step up but no, I can’t change the fact they’ll never be the old lovely parents again, but today? It got worser, worser and worser—but here still praying still hoping that they won’t fight again.

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I've experienced a lot of family conflicts in my life and most of them are sibling to sibling and my parents misunderstanding me because of all the stress these cause me to be anxious about things especially in my academic performances . In the sibling to sibling I feel guilty about everything when Im in an argument with my sibling

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My family conflict is all about my parents, they always fight because it's all about my father, cause my father always drunk and fight to my mother so my mother desided to left my father and take me and my sister to her boarding house.But sometimes I visit my father and my brothers to their house.

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dinedine- I've experienced alot of family conflicts. When I was a child my parents are always arguing in front of me, I can hear them shout, crying, breaking stuff. I watch in horror and came crying in my room, worrying about them. I've tried to cover my ears everytime I hear them arguing, I've cried and they didn't know that I was also struggling. I was still a child back then but I managed to stand alone. I didn't tell them that I was depressed and stressed because I'm scared that I will make their argument much worst. So I stayed quiet enduring the pain, secretly crying and over thinking. But it's all fine now, I'm handling it better and healing, it may be not easy but I will try my best to forget my past and trauma, I've been praying to god to help me get better, And for my family they still argue but not that much anymore, So I'm thankful that I can share this and heal my feelings:').

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My mother and father are always to be keep a distance and facing a lot of problems but the most conflict happened to my family is,they fighting each other.

I also observe that my father is really angry so my father hit my mother because of my father cheated to other woman.

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My insights about my family

-My family is currently facing a lot of problems and downsides nowadays. With most of them trying to cooperate each other, but others tried to run away our family's problem. As the only teenager who knows my family's problem, wanted a solution. Every single day, our problems are just normalised as we know we already have faced this many in my family's daily lives. But still, I don't want the necessary conflicts, arguments, and etc. I want the kind of family that sets aside their problems to find multiple solutions.

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Please share your observations about family conflict that you`ve experienced, witnessed and heard.

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I've seen and observed many things about family conflicts and problems.

Most of the time these conflicts are casued by various misunderstandings, These misunderstandings may lead to many problems for the family. One of the conflicts ive observed is that when the parents are done with there work/Job there usually stressed causing random outbursts of rage and anger usually directed to the children of the family, This sudden anger may cause the the child anxiety, This anxiety can affect the childs academics and other problems along the road

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In our family our problems its just simple but it's breaking me down because my family compare me to my smarter classmates until now and it's really breaking me down.

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My observation in my family they are so tired because there work is so hard my mother work in public department like PCA-PHILIPINES COCONUT AUTHORITY and my father death on oct 6 2019 cause of suicide and me and my mother are sad. From: Aristotle.

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As a kid we know that we have a problem of our family or called family conflicts

Ramty Jefferson J. Gumaga

In the previous day my family arguing beacause of money, my father dont have a time for us because of his work and mom is mad because mom say that dad have no time for us and dad explane

to mom and in the morning they are okay.

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As a pupil, I don't really have conflicts with my family because I feel comfortable with them, and we always have communication but sometimes I feel like I'm a burden, not because they make me feel like it but because I think that I'm a disappointment. All the things, academics, sports, other extracurricular activities, sometimes I fail, that's why I feel like I'm a burden, is it that I feel like a burden or is it just that I am truly a burden?

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Sometimes unfair, I feel like I'm the darkness of their life. (HAHAHAH)

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As a student, the most common family conflicts we experience involve differing expectations and life choices—disagreements about career paths, relationships, lifestyles, or religious and political beliefs. We also face financial issues, communication breakdowns, and unequal division of household chores and responsibilities, leading to resentment. Sibling rivalry, competition for attention and resources, and clashes stemming from differing cultural backgrounds or values are also frequent. Generational differences, and inherent personality clashes that lead to frequent disagreements, further complicate matters.

For me here are the ways to solve this family conflicts

1. Open and honest communication, active listening, and a willingness to compromise can help bridge gaps in understanding and resolve disagreements about life choices and expectations.

2. Creating a family budget, transparently discussing financial matters, and fairly distributing household responsibilities can alleviate financial stress and resentment.

3. Establishing clear expectations, promoting empathy, and finding ways for siblings to cooperate and support each other can reduce rivalry and improve family harmony.

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Family Conflict Exploration (Aquaprase)

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Family Conflict Exploration (Fahrenheit B)

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Family Conflict Exploration (Fahrenheit A)

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Family Conflict Exploration(Sapphire)

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Family Conflict Exploration(Crystal)