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You guys should be able to write on this lesson (double click to add a text post) !! Let me know what you'd like to learn about next!

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Safe words have become such a crucial part of BDSM, especially in Total Power Exchanges (TPE). In TPE and other situations that are similar, safe words become a staple of consent. Since words such as "No," and "Stop," are no longer valid for the submissive to stop their partner, special phrases will then become their only way to assert their consent.

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Now, now. We're not here to kinkshame. But if you are interested in Rape fantasies- of any sort- make sure you fully inform your partner of what you're planning on doing and get their consent. Don't force them into this and don't guilt-trip them either, you asswipe.

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DUBCON also known as DUBIOUS CONSENT
Dubcon is basically when consent is slightly blurred, so there's no definitive "yes" or "no" that's been stated

NONCON also known as NON-CONSENSUAL
Noncon is essentially sex without consent (so rape)

CONSENT
This is what we're looking for. Clear, informed consent is the best to have, especially in sexual situations. If you don't want him fucking you in the ass- tell him!

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While I am a closeted fan of 50 SHADES OF GRAY. I know that the book misrepresented many different ideologies of BDSM and the BDSM community. Don't ever guilt your partner into having sex- or doing anything they're not comfortable with. And be aware that if your partner is guilt tripping you those are BIG RED FLAGS. You should try to get out of that relationship, ASAP.

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In some instances, you may or may not want to retract your consent. This is PERFECTLY FINE. If you feel uncomfortable or want to stop at any time, your partner should respect you and your wishes. RED FLAGS should be waving in your head if your partner refuses to abide by your decisions. REMEMBER, CONSENT IS REVERSIBLE. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.

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verb | con·sent | \kən-ˈsent\

1:  to give assent or approval :  agree consent to being tested.

example: Her father consented to the marriage.