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This relationship is unhealthy because the male gets very upset that the female wants to break up with the male and on top of that he threatens to hurt himself and the friend has been affected by this as she has not been sleeping well and difficulties concentrating in class.

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Well i think this relationship is unshealthy as one the boy who wanted to do better in life for him amd his family it would also support the relationship he has but the girlfriend not saying that she dont want him to go but is just not sure about him leaving her for such a long period of time and being seperated

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1. Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why? (You may use the checklist given) 

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1. Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why? (You may use the checklist given) 

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2. How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship?  Should your friend end this relationship? Why? 

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2. How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship?  Should your friend end this relationship? Why? 

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4. If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup? 

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4. If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup? 

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3. Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he/she do to end the relationship in a safe manner?  What are his/her sources of help?

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3. Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he/she do to end the relationship in a safe manner?  What are his/her sources of help?

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5. As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why? What could you say or do to help?  

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5. As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why? What could you say or do to help?  

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The relationship is unhealthy
Because his my friend always needs to ask his girlfriend if he could go out with me.

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1. this relationship is not healthy as she is not happy in the relationship. her boyfriend also calls her names that she isn’t comfortable with. she also cannot leave him as he threatened to hurt her. so therefore this relationship is unhealthy:))

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my friend will feel hurt mentally.  no , because every relationships will confirm have  ups and downs and the only way to solve the obstacles they are going through is talk things out together , express what they are feeling to each other so that they will not become bad terms with each other

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2. i think my friend is feeling very upset and not safe with her boyfriend. my friend should end this relationship as the way her boyfriend treats her might get worse the longer she stay in the relationship.

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3. it is difficult to end the relationship as her boyfriend threatened to hurt her if she breaks up. my friend could talk to her parents or a trustable adult about her relationship to end the relationship in a safe manner.

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she is not happy with her boyfriend as her boyfriend makes fun and embarrasses her when her friends are around and even call her names though she does not like it and forces her to engage in physical intimacy

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i think my friend is upset and unsafe in this relationship and she should end it as the more her boyfriend treats her this way the worse it can get

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4. my friend could hangout with her close friend and distract herself from her negative thoughts. she could also do her favourite activities to help her feel happy.

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1) This relationship is unhealthy because the girl feels like she's being controlled by her boyfriend and she is in a dilemma. She is not herself in the relationship.

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I think my friend feels afraid in this relationship. I think my friend should end this relationship because he was getting bruises and even scratches on his thigh.

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5. i would find it difficult to intervene as i don’t know how my friend is feeling personally. i could tell my friend that i am here for her whenever she needs me and be a good listening ear. i can also seek help from authority figures if it gets serious.

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1.It is not a healthy relationship because the girl is very controlling about the guy by not letting him go out having to ask permission to go out with his friends not allowing him to speak to his female friends.Also it seems that the girl has been abusing the guy because his friends has been spotting new bruises during pe

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2.I think my friend is feeling stuck. As she does not know what she can do to get out of that relationship. I think my friend should end this relationship as her boyfriend is controlling and i think that no one should be controlling as she has her own life to live, no one should be controlling another persons live.

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she is afraid of what the boyfriend may do as he knows where she stays and if she breaks up with him he can easily find her and threaten her to get back together as threatening is also a form of assault she could report it to the police and break up with him int his manner she could record what he does to her as a source or have her friends as her witness

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It might be difficult to end the relationship as her boyfriend threatened and no one knows if he's being serious or just so that they stay together. She might feel at fault or guilt if she leaves him. She could talk to a councilor or talk to him privately and try to give him the best outcomes of breaking up. She should call the police if he continues to threaten to harm himself.

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2.I think my friend feels unhappy or anxious about being in the relationship because he probably feel like he has no control in the relationship because he is not able to do fun activities with his free will. He should end this relationship because he may develop serious mental issues.

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I feel that she can hang out with friends more and she can improve herself like go exercising, healthy diet and do things that is good for the body and mental health. She can try reading more books, pick up new things and she can learn how to cook for example. Talk to trusted people and open up when they feel down and she can focus on herself. Finally, just let time wash away all the pain she felt from this relationship.

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to encourage her and help her by accompany her during this time and be a good listener when she needs

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3. It would be hard for her to end the relationship as she might be worried and scared that her boyfriend might end his life because of the break up. She can end the relationship by talking to the boyfriend and explaining about her feelings about the relationship and her boyfriend. She can ask help from her best friend or a trusted person

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i would find it difficult to intervene because this is her relationship with her boyfriend and i also do not know the boyfriend that well I will be there for her and i could help by being her listening ear when she needs one

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When others behave in disrespectful or abusive ways, using violence to get your message across may reinforce to the abuser that violence is an acceptable way to get what you want.

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4) My friend could go and hangout with her close friends to distract herself and not get reminded daily of the past memories she and her boyfriend had. She could also go for long walks in a peaceful area and listen to music at the same time. She should just keep herself occupied most of the time until she gets over her ex boyfriend .

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It might be difficult for him to end the relation because he has developed feelings for her so if she says that he should ask permission to hang out he probably think she is in the right because he trust her with his feeling.He can end this relationship in a safe way is through text because his relationship might be physically abusive so if through text she will not be able to hit him anymore I and his friends or his family can be sources of help for him

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At home , seek help from your parents or other trusted adults. Within school talk to your Teachers and school counsellors about the issue.

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This relationship is not healthy as his girlfriend has discouraged him and made negative opinions on him. The girlfriend sometimes does this in front of his friends. Also, it seems that the boyfriend has been negatively affected by his girlfriend's remarks He is not talking about the course and having no interest in it.

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We can help him cope by being supportive and being there for him because being in a unhealthy relationship is not easy to get out of let alone recover so being there for him while he is at his lowest is one or the best thing we can do for him.

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5. It would be difficult for me to always be the middle person to help my friend and her boyfriend as i can always be there for my friend to advise her but her boyfriend would try to brain wash my friend and force her not to break up with him. I would not always get to be with her as i have other things to do tho i will always try to be beside her.

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If your friend doesn't respect your feelings, it's an unhealthy relationship. Feeling anxious or negative in your friendship is a sign that it may be best to end it. Your friend is dishonest or holds back information.

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4) Some of the ways that he could cope with breaking up is exercising, sharing problems to close friends, seeking professional help and etc.

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yes because it might ruin my freindship with her. as i might say the wrong stuff without me realising as i do not know their relationship well. ask them to continue to talk things out , therapy and counselling.

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Approach the person as a group with other who share your values and beliefs. There is strength in numbers if many people try to intervene on behalf of the victim ,the abuser will typically leave.

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It can be quite hard to intervene because the person could be manipulated so much that he does not even know that his significant other is in the wrong or they also could be in denial at the fact that he is being manipulated because he has developed strong feelings for her and has full trust in her so he tends to turn a blind eye to some of the things.We can help pointing out the obvious things like her being manipulative and we can tell him how she is being manipulative.

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It would be difficult for them to seperated as theres they both care for eachother. so with the help of friends and family seperating them could be possible friends can help them cope with the stress and pressure of the breakup.

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talk to a friend and cry and make them forget about it and also listen to them

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he is feeling very upset
Because the girl is making negative remarks on his academic abilities in front of his friends and classmates and the girlfriend had discouraged him.

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3. My friend is scared that his girlfriend would harm herself if he ended the relationship. In order for my friend to end his relationship with his girlfriend in a safe manner, he should talk to his girlfriend about their situation if she refused to end the relationship. He should seek help from a trusted friend or adult