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What it sounds like: You don't have to tell me about suffering, my people had to go through the Holocaust. And don't even get me started on our years as slaves in Ancient Egypt!

What it looks like: Not actually acknowledging the other person's suffering, simply waiting for a moment to elicit sympathy for one's self.

What it connects to: white privilege and The Bootstrap Theory (I rose above my hardships, you could too if you worked harder).

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Detour: Exhaustion and Despair

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What it looks like: Isolating incidents of racism from the "larger context" without acknowledging the pattern.
What it sounds like: "I thought we resolved this issue (racism) when it came up on the board last year". Or, "This only happened today because the TV news last night showed police beating a Black kid".
What it connects to: Don't institutionalize racism, break the pattern

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Silence

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Detour: Silence

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Teach Me, Please

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White Savior

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Detour: White On White, and Righteously So

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Detour:color blindness

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Detour: Exhaustion and Despair - Sound The Retreat (#18)
What it sounds like: "culturally responsive teaching sounds like a lot of work"
Looks like: sticking to my racist, mandated lesson plan because it's easier
What it's connected to: white privilege (I can opt in or out of this)