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I’m a 24 year old male new to the phx area. Lately I’ve enjoyed finding a corner in a coffee shop and reading. Im also a gym goer and a video games enthusiast. Im also looking for local friends too (male or female). Please reach out via the link below if you want to chat.

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25 M4F Europe - Looking for someone honest

I've done this thing of talking to people online for a while now and I feel like trying to put on the online persona that is a better version of us isn't working for anyone.

So I'm done doing that. I'm not going to stop myself from answering as soon as i see your message because "she'll think you're desperate" or pretend to be a version of myself i think you'll like, I'll be honest with you.

I want to be that someone that you are excited to tell good news to and go to for comfort when you have bad news. I want to connect with you on a deep level. I want to smile reading your texts until it hurts and stay up all night talking to you. I want you to be mine and i want to be yours.

ABOUT ME

I'm a 25 year old student in Europe, i'm about 185 cm white and pretty fit with tattoos. My interest include working out, gaming, watching shows or anime, watching Formula 1, riding my motorcycle. My music taste is pretty varied, ranging from sad songs to k-pop, classical or indie rock. I'm quite open-minded and don't really take life seriously, I just want to chill and have a good time and not worry too much about the negative stuff.

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR

You must be open to a long distance relationship and eventually meeting up, along with sending selfies in the meantime as I'll do the same :). I'd like a girl that just likes to have fun in life. I'm a youthful guy so i need someone to match that, SOMETIMES I MIGHT TYPE IN ALL CAPS AND YOU NEED TO AS WELL OK.

I don't care what age you are, as long as you're at least 18. I'm really hoping to hear from you :)

PS : i don't want kids, and i beg you please send more than just "Hey"

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I’m 29M, living in Munich for a few years now. 172cm tall, dark hair, calm by default and loud and funny once I’m comfortable. Still finding the right balance between the two.

I grew up in a boarding school, which meant I came to relationships later than most. First one at 24. Since then I’ve finished a degree, landed a job, done a lot of quiet work on myself, and arrived at a point where life genuinely feels good. Felt like the right time to actually try to find someone. Being an introvert I don’t have a thriving social life that’s why trying my luck at finding a relationship online, it worked for me well in the past so let’s how it goes now.

I’ve been vegetarian for years, not the preaching kind, just someone who genuinely cares about animals. I’m spiritual rather than religious, drawn to non-duality and philosophy. I work fully remote, which I used to love and now have complicated feelings about. Office small talk sounds weirdly appealing at this point, which says a lot xD

I play chess, probably more than I should. I solve nonogram puzzles and can crack a mirror cube in under 2 minutes. I watch stand-up comedy online and the last in person show was Max Amini in Munich, right after I submitted my thesis. Needed that more than I can explain. I hike when I can, nothing hardcore, just enough to feel alive. Last big one was a 30km birthday climb in the Tatras in Slovakia. One of the better days of my life. I’m also into yoga, meditation, cooking, science, financial markets and educational podcasts. Basically someone who likes learning things and moving slow enough to actually absorb them.

What I’m looking for is someone curious, kind and genuinely interested in the world and in the person in front of her. I want the kind of relationship where we actually ask each other questions and showing up is mutual. Eventually I want a family. Not a pressure thing, just honesty about where I’m headed. Looking for someone that has similar relationship experience as me, is not gaming all the time and has something going for her in life.

If this sounds like your kind of person, say hi. Tell me something about yourself, what did you like about my post and what do you look like and we’ll figure out the rest. I’m also adding my pics and a voice so you have an idea what you’re getting yourself into. I know finding your person online/reddit sounds kinda embarrassing in today’s time but we can always stage it and tell people we met through friends, jk :’)

https://imgur.com/a/AVqvRHV

https://voca.ro/1ksmfCN6oG4z

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F4M Seeking my best friend and future husband...

39F alt/kinky/childfree lady looking for a long-term relationship that will eventually lead to marriage and a life of hilarious debauchery together. Must love dogs.

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34f

If I could find someone that would be great.

No kids maybe one in the future.

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[M4F]I often find myself lost in the spaces between thoughts, where the world fades and all that remains is a sense of connection to something unseen, yet deeply familiar. I’ve spent countless hours navigating paths less traveled, both in my mind and in places where others dare not venture.

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M4F 35 Vancouver

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[M4F] 27- looking for my forever

Hello there, I am looking forward to getting to know you and hopefully you are the one for me.

I am just a simple guy looking for my future wife and a woman to build a family with, very very clingy, I've never met anyone more clingy than I am. Hopefully we ll be inseparable and do everything together. Like playing games, watching movies, going out. From dates to just simple adventures.

How i look like: 174cm tall, light blue eyes, brown hair, slim/athletic build, shaved beard... I can send you pictures of myself so we can see if we match up well, I do think physical attraction is important, but personality is more important in the long run.

I am very simple, all i need from you is you, I need someone genuine and honest, to just be yourself.

Hobbies: Video games, anime, movies, series, long walks, exercising, nature, boats, climbing

I work with my family, we own a restaurant and a marina for boats so I am quite busy for the summer season, but I can always find time to talk. For the rest of the year I am free and have a lot of free time.

It would be amazing to find someone to move here to be with me and continue my family legacy, we can be here together, raise our kids here in nature as i ve been raised too, by the sea, forrests, olive trees and gardens...

I am quite dominant as a person and I want someone submissive, who can just relax and be mine, take care of me in her own way while I take care of all other things. Just stay by my side and let me lead.

I dont smoke or drink

Thank you for reading everything, there is a lot to talk about still so let me know if this caught your attention and want to talk more about it. I am a really open and honest person so I hope we can talk about everything

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Ponistra on telegram or .ponistra on discord

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F4M, NY. So many interesting things to do in this city, some wd be more fun w my person

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F4M, NY. So many interesting things to do in this city, some wd be more fun w my person

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F4M, 54, curious mind, lover of learning, listener of birds. If a kind, positive metalhead with an (almost) normie appearance, who loves hiking across the Hudson Valley and Palisades, is into art house & indie cinema, philosophical discussions, and an inclination to start dancing or headbanging when the right track drops sounds like the kind of person you like to hang out with, maybe we can see if we’re local activity buddies material, or perhaps a good match romantically.

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37 M4F looking for long term relationship. Love the outdoors, hiking, jogging, movies, tv, and gaming. I'm a foodie and would like to travel more.

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34mff looking to meet cool people and maybe my forever person

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Looking to meet someone genuine, kind, and easygoing. Someone who enjoys good conversations, travelling, trying new things, and laughing at dumb jokes.

Currently in India, but Canada is home 🇨🇦

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36 [F4M] #anywhere - Filipina tutor seeking an honest, patient partner 💛

Hi there! I'm a 36-year-old Filipina currently in China, working as an English tutor. I graduated with a degree in Medical Technology, though I'm not practicing right now.

I love watching anime, K-dramas, C-dramas, movies, and other series — as long as the story is interesting! I also really enjoy live-action adaptations (I actually enjoyed One Piece and Avatar — but I still prefer the animated versions!). I'm a huge fan of manga, manhua, web novels, and podcasts.

When it comes to reading, I especially love adventure books. My all-time favorite is Harry Potter — it felt like escaping to another world for me when I was younger. I also love Dune, Project Hail Mary, and I enjoy listening to audiobooks too!

When I'm not indoors with a book or show, I enjoy taking daily walks to improve my health — I love nature, but I always bring an umbrella to avoid the sun! 😄

I'm curious about new cultures and love trying traditional foods — though I'll pass on exotic animals like snakes or scorpions! I'm very respectful of people's beliefs and cultures.

I'll be honest — I've been so busy with life that I don't have much relationship experience. But I'm ready now, and I know what I want.

What I'm looking for:

· A man who is patient, honest, serious, and real · Someone who will respect me and accept me — even with all my life responsibilities and problems · A true partner — where we're a team, and no one is above or below the other

What love means to me:

I value loyalty above all — I've seen what cheating does to people, and I would never do that or accept it. I appreciate love in all forms: words, actions, understanding, and even gifts (I won't say no to those! 😄).

A little about how I show love:

I didn't grow up in a home where "I love you" was said often. So it's not always easy for me to say it out loud. But I do show love through actions — through being there, through care, through loyalty.

I'm not a naturally clingy person, and I'm still figuring out physical affection since I don't have much experience. But I've realized that I really appreciate hugs — my students hug me and it makes me feel so comforted and happy. So if you're someone who shows love through touch, please know I won't push you away. I might be shy at first, but I'm open to learning and growing with the right person. 💛

One more thing:

I believe respect comes first — even when we don't fully agree. And while I'm open to roles in a relationship, I don't want to be boxed in. I want us to be flexible, communicate openly, and build what works for us — not what society expects.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Let's see where this goes. 💛

P.S.

I have never been married, so no children. No tattoos, no vices except binge watching and binge reading?

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Anywhere in the world as long as its safe

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26M (M4F)

Hey! I'm pretty easygoing, and looking to meet someone for a real, long-term relationship. I’m a big fan of anime and gaming. I love a great storyline or a solid co-op session. I'd describe myself as low-maintenance, communicative, and always down for a good laugh. I’m looking for someone genuine, kind, and local who actually wants to build a meaningful connection. You definitely don’t need to be into gaming or anime.I love hearing about totally different passions, but if you share those interests, that’s an awesome bonus.

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Lets connect

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38 [M4F] Ich verstehe mich als stark systemorientierten Pragmatiker. Mein Denken basiert auf Ursache-Wirkungs-Prinzipien, ein ausgeprägtes Autonomiebedürfnis treibt mich an und meine Toleranz für Ineffizienz ist gering.

Wie ich Probleme und Prozesse angehe Ich betrachte meine Umwelt – egal ob Technik, Regelwerke oder alltägliche Abläufe – als funktionale Systeme. Mich interessieren selten nur die Symptome, sondern die zugrunde liegende Mechanik. Wenn ich mich in ein Thema eindenke, dann gründlich: Ich analysiere die Details, optimiere Stellschrauben und erarbeite mir nötiges Wissen eigenständig. Was unlogisch ist oder nicht funktioniert, wird korrigiert oder verworfen.

Meine Stärken & Kommunikation Kommunikation dient für mich primär dem lösungsorientierten Informationsaustausch. Ich spreche Mängel, Sicherheitsrisiken oder Fehler direkt und schnörkellos an.

Analyse- und Reparaturkompetenz: Ich erkenne Schwachstellen schnell und beseitige Fehlerursachen systematisch.

Substanz und Verlässlichkeit: Ich handle verbindlich, übernehme Verantwortung und verzichte komplett auf Selbstdarstellung oder soziale Fassaden.

Unabhängigkeit: Ich bin extrem selbstständig und brauche keine externe Validierung. Soziale Interaktion ohne Inhalt empfinde ich als energetische Verschwendung, weshalb ich Smalltalk konsequent filtere.

Meine Schwächen & Risikofaktoren Diese stark logische Ausrichtung bringt klare Schattenseiten mit sich:

Fehlanpassung bei Emotionalem: Ich wende Sachlogik auf emotionale Situationen an. Wenn Mitmenschen emotionale Nähe oder Bestätigung suchen, liefere ich eine Ursachenanalyse. Das wird häufig als kühle Distanz oder Härte missverstanden.

Projektion eigener Maßstäbe: Ich setze meine Standards bezüglich Präzision, Logik und Eigenverantwortung oft stumm bei anderen voraus, was zwangsläufig zu Frust führt.

Hang zum Overengineering: Ich laufe Gefahr, Zeit und Energie in die Perfektionierung von Details zu investieren, deren praktischer Mehrwert gering ist.

Soziale Verengung: Durch das konsequente Aussortieren von Oberflächlichkeiten ist der Pool an Menschen, die meinen Kriterien entsprechen, sehr klein. Das erhöht das Risiko einer strukturellen Isolation.

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Hi! M29 here from Europe :)

I work as a Sales Manager at an IT company.

I’m outgoing, communicative, and an active person, but at the same time I’d say I’m pretty calm on the inside. It takes a lot to throw me off, and I’m generally easygoing.

I get excited about all kinds of things—from traveling (whether it’s mountains, cities, or the sea) to AI, political discussions and debates, or picking up a new hobby.

I also love trying new things in general. Over the past year, for example, I ran my first half marathon, went skiing for the first time, and tried snorkeling for the first time.

Besides that, I enjoy all the usual things: music and concerts, movies, sports, the gym, running, cooking and good food, video games, and books.

I’d love to get to know you! 😃

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[F4M] I’m someone who loves getting lost in a good book, spending time with my family, and enjoying the little things in life. I can be a little shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I love having meaningful conversations, laughing, and just being myself.

I’m hoping to meet someone kind, genuine, and easy to talk to. Someone who values communication, has a good sense of humor, and is interested in building a real connection. I’m not looking for anything forced, just someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with and seeing where things go. ♡

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[F4M] 31 It's an interesting app, want to try 😂Kinda bored right now, I'm looking for long term relationship.

I'm looking near in our country or from the Philippines. Ive talked a lot seems like being far is the issue 😂

About me : I've never been married and no kids, don't do drugs , working but not today it's weekends 🤭( Have a back lag at work lol) I don't considered my self too small even though Im 5'2 . I'm overweight 70-73 kgs.

About you: 30-39 , never been married no kids, don't do drugs , don't have an anger issues ( I want peace of mind) 😂

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I am a Canadian who recently made a permanent move to Norway for a great job opportunity. I spend most of my mornings and evenings in call with my friends from back home which is becoming problematic for my sleep schedule and encouraging me to "work from home" more than I realistically should be. I just want to meet someone who is easy to be around, where time evaporates when we hang out. I adore being able to sit in silence with my person while we do different things. Just knowing someone is there is a comfort an introvert like me dreams of, without the pressure of constant entertainment.

My game selection is generally of the multiplayer variety: league, ow, and rivals being the mainstays. I'll play a lot of TFT if the set is good (Like now). I dabble with ARPGs, most shooters, and anything vaguely competitive. The only exceptions to this has been a couple of single player rogue-likes that consumed my life for days at a time. That Marathon game is interesting me lately, wouldn't mind trying it out. I wouldn't say I'm a snob but I generally prefer "quality" when it comes to most aspects of my life. So while I like anime, most of it is terrible and I'm only interested in watching stuff with good reviews/ratings. I play multiple card games which enabled me to travel all over North America and now Europe. Other interests include boxing, singing, finding good food (The best Mexican food I've had in my life has been in Oslo of all places), clothes, and by extension, shoes. The amount of people who stare at my sneakers in public here is crazy - Norway has a WEAK shoe game.

Making friends/dating in your mid-30s is borderline rocket science, and if you aren't at this geriatric age yet, you'll understand soon enough. I feel like an imposter, a borderline man-child, but I have to tell myself if that were true, I wouldn't be on the other side of the world. Still, I wonder how much better off I'd be if I were more normal. People are always shocked when they find out I'm 36, which forces me to explain that I don't have good genes; I just have a sun allergy and live like a cave troll indoors. That goes over great in a country where everyone hikes up a mountain before breakfast. Anyway, hopefully I can find someone to watch something with and maybe play some games. :')

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Sector 6 Rd, Sector 6 Dwarka, Dwarka, New Delhi, Delhi, 110075, India

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Chill by nature, respectful by default, and always up for a genuinely good conversation.

I value privacy, personal space, and the kind of connection where you can talk about everything from ridiculous little things to the deeper stuff that actually matters. I’m big on good hygiene, good energy, and treating people with the same respect I’d want in return.

Not looking to impress everyone , just hoping to meet someone with whom conversation feels effortless, silence feels comfortable, and being ourselves feels ea

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a guy who just to chill nextflix and enjoy a discreet relationship

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Piazza dei Mirti, 1, 00172 Roma RM, Italia

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Ciao, I'm an uni student looking for someone to enjoy life with!

Together we could walk and explore through all of Rome, share an aperitivo at sunset on Isola Tiberina, take the car for random endless trips, or go for odd activities like cacti shopping and flea markets rarities. Or maybe we can just share a blanket and a bottle of wine while watching unusual movies.

I enjoy engaging in random conversations, especially about weird facts, odd hobbies, animals and plants, or even philosophical and deeper topics.

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51M [M4F] - a gentleman looking for a lady, let's meet at the fountain, centre of Syntagma square

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M4F - 33 Ontario

Hey,

I’ve been feeling lonely lately and figured I’d put myself out there honestly.

I’m 33, living in Ontario. I was adopted as a baby from Guatemala and I’m completely open about it feel free to ask me anything.

I’m a bigger guy. Soft, solid, and comfy. I know that’s not for everyone, but if you’re someone who likes a soft place to land and cares more about what’s inside, we’ll probably get along.

I’m more of a night-in type than a nightlife guy. I’ve been a drummer for years and play in a band but mostly for fun, with the occasional bar gig. Music wise I’m all over the map: folk, blues, rock, southern rock, acoustic, and some Spanish tunes.

Outside of that I like fishing, traveling, learning about different cultures, podcasts, Xbox, good shows, and hockey (big Leafs fan).

I’m looking for a kind, caring, non-judgmental woman who’s emotionally open and wants something steady and honest. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if the connection feels right.

If that sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you.

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[M4F] 35

chill introvert nerdy dude looking for a long time and caring relationship; hobbies include motorcycling and making music; might be slow to reply as the contact point is not my main profile with privacy and all.

I can give you a short tour of Ulm although living in another smaller city closeby.

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About me: I'm a software engineer and founder, working online remotely. 6'4 (195cm) caucasian gym rat. My biggest values are kindness, compassion, mindfulness, purpose and hope. I have a big heart and i love very strongly. I'm in love with the work im doing and as a result i end up working a lot. My mission in life is probably as important to me as having a good relationship. I value good communication and I'm always looking to improve my communication and myself in general.

I've been working remotely and traveling for the last year and the experience is incredibly lonely. I'd like to fix that

Currently in Bogota but I'm all over the place basically.

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44 F4M In Florida

Looking for a man who likes do all the great things with. I enjoy exploring this world, and trying all that it has to offer. Looking for a partner to go to all the restaurants, attend rock concerts, and fight fascism with. Hopefully close to my age and established in a career. Also must love dogs.

Come find me.

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24 [M4F] Paris - Nerdy software engineer

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24 [M4F] Paris - Nerdy software engineer

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I'm looking for someone I could build mutual trust and loyalty with, as a neurodivergent (AuDHD) I'd like to find someone that I could have mutual understanding and communication with 🙂

I live in Paris, so if you live near Paris we could also hang out IRL, maybe even do some dates and ending in a serious relationship if we're compatible enough. I would prefer to be relatively geographically close for dating (Western Europe). In any case we can still do stuff like video games or just calling on Discord.

I'm all-or-nothing, if I find you interesting I can quickly get quite invested into the conversation, I love sending walls of text with multiple conversation threads at the same time x)

Also, I'm very direct, I value transparency a lot, you can ask for clarity anytime about what's going on, I don't find that awkward.

I'm the archetypical nerd, software engineer as a job, and as hobbies I enjoy imagining and creating lots of things, like modding video games and stuff, I'm a Minecraft content creator and I have a big project going on, but I also play other games (I'm open to any kind of game), I especially like indie games but also multiplayer, would be cool to play some together !

I also enjoy learning random science facts and anything about the world. About the outside world, I do bouldering as sports, enjoy nature walks and board games.

My AuDHD isn't impacting me that much in my day-to-day life and most people don't notice it on the surface, but there are many caveats in the way I live emotions and express them, I'd like someone atypical like me or at least open-minded to how my psychology works, I introspect a lot.

I don't relate to 99% of people, I feel like an alien in usual dating apps because of how different I feel to people there, that's why I'm posting here.

I'm cognitively intense, not saying this to brag about being smart, it's more like I feel my thoughts deeply, and I have a lot going on all the time.

I love thinking creatively and bringing complex abstractions and nuances to things. I'm quite curious about things and would love if you have a lot to say ! Like a specific subject you're working on or anything.

I would have so much else to say but it's better to let that come during conversations.

MBTI (if you're in typology) : INTJ 5w4

Physically I'm white, slim, 176cm and decent amount of brown hair, glasses. I can send pictures immediately in DMs if you want, I just prefer to avoid doing it publicly here.

About you : If you genuinely relate to the things I've written there, that's already a good sign ! Also I would appreciate if you are able to talk a lot too and tell me about your interests. Oh btw, I really love people who are kinda silly, chaotic random and sensitive it usually creates a nice dynamic.

Alright I think that will be enough, don't hesitate to directly DM me ! Please tell me where you are from and a little self-introduction would be nice.

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36M4F

Gamer, nerd, have 2 cats. I'm slim, I workout, I like going to the movies, hiking, skiing, swimming. Looking for long-term connection, that special someone.

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[M4F] Australian Male new to the Hills area and looking for LTR.

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Just a guy looking for his person! I enjoy going out for walks, kayaking in the summer, bike rides, collecting and painting miniatures, listening to my vinyl record collection, and more! I’m an easy going person who just wants someone to enjoy life with and make new memories together. I have 1 cat whom I love very much, own my own car, and have my own apartment. Feel free to message my reddit account u/trislamiq!

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I'll write this post in english, even if a part of me thinks i should do it in Italian but anyway... Hi, nice to meet you, thank you for your time. I'll go straight to the point I'm looking for a serious relationship, the one that starts with a friendship and evolves naturally in something serious, I'm fine with ldr but still don't have the chances to travel out of Italy. ABOUT ME I'm fit but not muscular, tall, blonde, i don't smoke and don't go party, I'm in my third year studing computer engeneering at university, I really like coding, and making small personal project. my other hobbies include, drawing, writing, playing with friends, Chess, TTRPGs, HEMA, LARP and Cosplay. Personality wise, I'm a reserved pearson, calm, sensitive, and competitive, a bit of an overthinker, so usually I don't share or ask too much early in the conversation out of fear the other pearson might find me too pushy, BUT on the opposite I'm fine when the other one asks me something, like their giving me a green flag to open up or something haha, but i promise once we have a connection i open up more. Obbiously there's more of me than what I can manage to write in this post, feel free to contact me on reddit or discord.

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M4F

Hiii there, 33M here, hope you are doing well, so I'm an Arab who enjoys innovation and love R&D, looking forward to a partner who enjoys a specialty cup of coffee or at least exploring and trying out new places and experiences, when it comes to the bedroom I'm a master/dominant, into rp too, I think it's good to know this in advance to see if we're compatible rather than get surprised later.

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I hope to find you soon ❤️ F4M 31

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I’ve never done anything like this before, so please bear with me 😅

I’ve never been in a relationship, I suppose it’s mainly because I’ve never really put myself out there. Up until the last year I didn’t give it any consideration in favor of focusing on school.

I’m 23 years old. I’d say my main hobbies are gaming and fitness. I love riding my bike around town (when it’s not triple digits 😵‍💫) and hitting the gym. Fitness is pretty important to me. Not being in the gym or active for long enough gives me cabin fever. Despite that, I’m not really big into traveling, I’m kind of a homebody. Right now my gaming consists of Vintage Story (one of the greatest games I swear) and Sons of the Forest. I have a good amount of games (PC) and I’m always looking for an excuse to play them! I also recently picked House of Leaves back up, it’s definitely an interesting read!

I’m not one for heavy drinking or smoking of any kind, and I despise politics. I don’t use social media basically at all. I would say my only “social media” account is Reddit, but if you see my profile you’d think it was a barren wasteland.

I guess I’m looking for a person who shares the same interests and hobbies. Personally, I don’t understand the whole “date for fun” type of thing. To me, if you’re not getting to know a person, spending time with them, all that, to build a deep, fulfilling relationship, then what’s the point?

Again, I’ve never really done this before, so forgive me if I haven’t done it right. I’d love to talk more if this little spiel left a lot to the imagination!

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M4F

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Hi, I am not sure what to say becasue this is apparently an ad for myself? I like to think in felt patterns becasue i preceive reality in that way (wow sounds great). And so I get a headache from all the contradictions we as society have in our thinking and laws we uphold. I do feel things and never trusted my intuition becasue I was always told I'm wrong. I spent now a lifetime proving myself I was right all along in what I preceive while actually thinking I was wrong. How I expirience reality is more animism, taoism, shintoism related. So bureaucracy and people who don't understand me are my final boss while I see fear or sadness as things that make sense. Existance is so strange. I can logic everything together better than most I have met, but it costs me so much energy, that I'm now triyng to not do that anymore (cue to why this post is such a strange rant. I'm constantly perceiving a tree in a felt sense but then have to compress it down with logic to one tiny singular branch to interact with people and that gives me burnout). My nervous system is super disregulated becasue I always tried to make myself fit in. Now I realised it doesnt make sense but my nervous system is not excited about being lonley. I'm looking for a competent, quiet, unbothered, doesn't waste words, knows things through doing not talking- person. And a second person that must be better at logic than I am and loves to logic around in reality because it is not fun to derive core concepts of reality by myself anymore. So probably: fast, bored, thinks they are the smartest in most rooms, lonely because of it, wants to be proven wrong.

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M4F) Honestly I figure I would give this a shot. Some things about me…I’m 30 years old and if I’m not at home, you can find me out with friends around the gaming table or catching a concert or two. I’m an aspiring writer while also holding down a part time job as well. As for what I’m looking for, it would be nice to find a romantic partner (so long as there are no kids in the picture…yet) but I’m also open to whatever may come. That said if you’re interested feel free to reach out and see if we click.

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I believe a life worth living is a life spent helping the world, I work at a charity during the day and do nonprofit work after hours, I'm a big idealist, so you'll be getting wild ideas on how we can help the world, I'm looking for a wife who has the same sentiment, someone altruistic and professional, who has big ambitions of changing the world for the better and helping quite a lot of people, I'd prefer a big family, a quiet estate on a ranch, a quiet yet impactful life, I do not post on social media, nor am I a public figure, I enjoy privacy and I'm waiting until marriage, and looking for someone who holds themselves to the same standard