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1. I have a serious crush on my teacher – should I tell her?

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1. I have a serious crush on my teacher – should I tell her?

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A:  According to what I have read from you first, we know it is highly important for you to express your feelings about her, but also you have to think about the way and the correct moment to admit you and say that you are deeply in love with her… you should have planned a form in which you reflect your true and real admiration that goes beyond the Physical and sexual attraction.
If you want that your plans work, you will have to put yourself in her shoes and imagine how you will to be falling in love her, then obviously you will be able to think in a clearer idea of what you are going to do. One good idea could be write her a lettrer in wich you tell her that you have real feelings for her and she is free to not answer right at the moment. The idea is that the letter does not sound like you will be forcing her for a quick answer you should be patient..

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2. My father is a womanizer. I'm terriefied  I'll become one, too.

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2. My father is a womanizer. I'm terriefied  I'll become one, too.

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A few words for a young man concerned about his status.

A: Relax dear friend, you can finds a practice or custom objectionable, others enjoys it and sees no basis for refuse it. People differ for many reasons. Brackgrounds vary greatly. Some, for instance, are acuately aware of their weakness with the women and they know have to live with that and they enjoy it.

People must understand that you don't share his view of this matter. Your family might have been deeply involved with women but you reasoned that you should put respect of the women ahead of our own, and that is very romantic.

Anyway you are not a mirror that should copy the actions of your father or grandfather, you can make a difference and you should have a lifestyle free of infidelity or lust.

I know that you feel fear of hurting a woman, it's not a disadvantage to want a cleansed conscience, rather, such affords you a marvelous opportunity to express your love only for a woman for ever.

So that, you can share special moments with your friends, forget to family of womanizer man, and you should began your life as a romantic man, that wish to change the history of his family.

Fondly...
Agony aunt

Yoerly Murcia

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3. My daughter is dating a man more than twice her age.

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3. My daughter is dating a man more than twice her age.

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Dear confused father:

A: First, at all, you must keep calm. Your daughter isn't the first young woman to fall for a mature man, but you have to understand that your daughter may well be romantically naive but she's a grown-up, she's 23, and she can take her own decisions. Maybe, she lost her father's full -time presence and it could explain her eagerness to establish a family.

Definitely, you ought to know her boyfriend and need to work out exactly what your objections with respecting him. You should be able to create an environment where a calm and reasoned discussion about this situation. You should try to support your daughter while she is able to elect.

If the past was hard and left you old wounds, the future can be different.

Take care!

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4. My family is great, but I feel as though I have no real friends.

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4. My family is great, but I feel as though I have no real friends.

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Dear good man

A: You should not feel sad, you must be happy because you have a beautiful family and you can enjoy their love, you are not alone, you are able to share with them.

However, you have to remember that when a person marries, his life changes and he acquires other lifestyle, how you say the world evolves and therefore people need also evolve.

You haven’t to be jealous because you see others at events; they will be forced to change their lifestyle too.

Though, you could organize your time, you ought to consider  that if you are a professional man, a good father and an excellent husband, of course, you can be a great friend and get true friendships! Of your same lifestyle to share with them, without disconnecting from your family and your work, so that you may take some time thus you might meet new friends and discover that you are able to make good friendships.

All the best!

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5. I left my home for freedom in Europe but I’m terriblylonely. 

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5. I left my home for freedom in Europe but I’m terriblylonely. 

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A: Hi dear and lonely young,

Do not worry, everything is part of life, feeling alone is good, you come from a different culture, and for you everything is new, everything depends on your attitude, you have to open your mind, and you should see things from another point of view.

You must remember, that you come from another culture and that the things that were right for you, are not for others, you can understand this and accept that you must change your way of thinking.

You should not judge that there is something wrong with you, and not blame yourself for this, you should talk more with people and learn more about new cultures, you should not isolate yourself at home you have to leave! and meet people, maybe it would help you meet people of your own nationality, and know their testimonies, this should help you a lot.

you can change your wardrobe, and do things you did not do, you do not have to worry much, remember if you chase the butterflies, they will go, but if you stay still they will come to you, good luck !!

With love.

Agony aunt.

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Some of me thinks that I can’t fight it, but I am different. 

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Some of me thinks that I can’t fight it, but I am different. 

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HELP ME !!!