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Couple conflicts are a normal reality that occur in the life cycle of an affective relationship.  These difficulties sometimes generate misunderstandings that have a significant scope: they are couple crises that question and put the relationship to the test.

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Today we will take the case of Jeff and Chay.  They are a couple who have been living together for 2 years and are currently going through many conflicts that they do not know how to resolve.  From what Chay tells us, Jeff is a person who finds it difficult to communicate and express what he has in mind.  While Jeff uses the phrase "If we don't understand each other anymore to keep the relationship stable, you have to break up with me."  Chay thinks that Jeff has been hiding an infidelity from him for days and that's why he wants to separate from her.  While Jeff indicates that there is no infidelity, but he thinks that separating can help solve those conflicts since they are both a little stressed by their studies and their jobs. Chay asks Jeff why their relationship has these problems after 2 years and Jeff replies with the following: "If I knew the answer, I would say it to you." That is why Jeff and Chay ask us for help to take care of their relationship and overcome this conflict.

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That is why today we recommend several steps that you could follow to overcome these situations:

1. You should choose the right time to talk about the problem.  Wait for both of you to calm down and sit down to talk quietly.

2. You should reflect on your arguments, use clear words and express in a way that is understood why you think it is wrong or the reason for the conflict, so that both parties find a peaceful dialogue.

3. You should empathize with the other party, listen to their arguments and think what you would do if you were in their place.  It is not about winning but about finding the best solution as a team.

4. You should focus on the problem, the problem is now, speak clearly about the current problem, do not remember past problems, that could make the conflict bigger and more difficult to solve.  5. You should remember that problems must be solved immediately.

5. You should apologize if your behavior was not appropriate.  Apologies are important because, even if the problem is resolved, certain words you say could have affected your partner a lot.  You should show your partner understanding and the desire to overcome the difficulties that arise.

6. You should take advantage of the discussion to learn more about your partner, what bothers him, the issues with which he disagrees.  This can improve your communication.

If the situation continues like this.  They should see a specialist or take couples therapy.  If it gets a little difficult to the point of hurting each other and the conflict continues despite the different ways you have tried to resolve it, you should end your relationship without looking back.

You should remember that love should not hurt and if it hurts it is not love.

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Children must have responsibilities in order to be responsible for themselves and learn to assume the consequences of their actions, calmly facing what that means and thus enhancing their autonomy and nurturing their independence.

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I'll tell you about Luna's case. She is a super imperative girl but her parents often question her about how she behaves at the same time her parents ask her to behave well that she study to make an effort as well if you also have her responsibilities as daughter of her That is why you should show that despite the demands that your parents give you, they are for your good.

But sometimes Luna feels bad because she doesn't have a little brother to play with or little friends, so she should always be at home watching TV or talking with her parents.

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Parents should properly educate their children to avoid any future inconvenience, such as giving specific messages. It is not enough to say "behave well", but to explain what behaviors we want you to have (feet off the sofa, speak without shouting, keep the room tidy...)

1. It should be better in positive sentences

2. Calmly and firmly

3. They should not cedar

4. Give alternatives

5. They should spend time transmitting these values.

6. Be patient.

7. Correct with love.

8. Educate positively.

9. Get ahead of events.

10. You should always push, and never impose.

11. Avoid threats.

12. Educate individually

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Hello friends, today we are going to talk about a topic that is approaching society, a topic that is getting out of hand of many families that are going through this serious problem such as "Drugs".

If this blog is not enough to inform young people, we will take other measures to help our young people.

Drugs are substances that, when introduced into the body, act on the central nervous system. This causes changes that can affect behavior, mood or perception. In addition, their use can lead to:

Psychological Dependence, Physical Dependence and Tolerance.

It is ingested by various methods: smoked, snorted (inhaled), injected, etc. Drugs can cause many health problems and can cause mental problems, because when you consume this type of substance you lose your mind, you become another person. This means that if you consume too much of this toxic substance, it can cause death. That's why, dear friends, I have taken the liberty to address this very important topic. If you are not well informed on this subject, you can become a victim of this dangerous substance.

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Ariel is an 18 year old young man who fell into this unfortunate vice because of his friends who gave him bad advice, silly ideas but Ariel let himself be fooled by all these things. Ariel felt like a super powerful guy, he felt that the guys looked up to him, he had a part time job, he started to arrive late to work, he was not the same worker as before until one day the boss found out what Ariel had become and told him the following: If you had had another mentality and another kind of friend, you would not be out of work practically the boss fired him. Ariel continued with the same drug problem, the time came when his parents found out because of Ariel's behavior, they did not know the Ariel they had raised with good values, ethics and morals.

Ariel went out every day, drank with his friends in dangerous neighborhoods, was selling substances until one day Ariel was out of work and no longer had to buy drugs so he began to steal became a bad boy until he left home his mother cried day and night called him every hour to come home, begged him to leave the bad vices in every call of "If you had everything here at home, come here" he did not care what he thinks and suffers his family continued in the same. Ariel would leave everything if he wanted to, but he liked the easy life. One day Ariel's mother received a call from the police telling her that she should go to the police station because her son was detained for several things, she went with tears in her eyes begging to be released but it was an impossible case, the day of the hearing Ariel was told "If you want the life you had before" he only said "If my mother was eternal, I want to die forever", he only said "If my mother was eternal, I want to die forever", he said "If my mother was eternal, I want to die forever".

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1. If young people were more informed, they would not have to go through this great evil.

2. If you show interest to the person who is in that world of drugs, the person would feel alone and without support.

3. Respect the decision of those who want, as well as those who do not want to make it. Neither give nor let them give you the rod. If you don't want to drink, don't drink. Decide for yourself and do not let yourself be pressured to consume.

4. If you find yourself in the situation of having tried a drug pressured by your group of friends, it is time for you to change your friends and places of entertainment. In this way neither certain places nor certain friends will decide for you.

Well these are some of my tips that I can give you and I hope I can help.

If you, my dear friends, learn more and read more blogs like this, I assure you that you would have no problem understanding this drug issue.