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GET COFFEE W THEM!

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1. Connect with a friend over similar classes/major

2. Offering help to fix a to-go plate for a friend who can’t make it to dinner

3. Sharing something specific with a friend in a moment of closeness

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Invite them to riddle with you to chapter

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When I see another girl seems like she’s having a down day, go offer her something that would cheer her up without an explanation for why you’re doing it. When building trust, being a listener is super important and telling them you hear them is super important to making them feel like their feelings are cared for.

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If I notice a girl in my class isn’t doing as well, I can offer to help study with her or answer questions about the subject! Hopefully this can make her feel like she isn’t completely alone in the class and more confident about the class

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Complement them and talk with anyone alone

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Talk about your major or classes if they’re the same or similar

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sit with a girl I recognize but may not be quite close with for meals and begin conversation about their day or school. Do small things like putting her plate away or asking if she wants to grab a drink or snack with me.

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giving them advice when they ask

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Go out and make cupcakes

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Be more of a listener than a talker.

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Sit down with someone new at dinner and have a deep convo with them.

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Making conversation with girls I see often about popular interests to see if they have the same interests

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Making conversation with girls I see often about popular interests to see if they have the same interests

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Symmetry:

While hanging out, find things we have in common.

Solidarity:

If they need a favor or help, lend them a hand. Offer your help.

Secrecy:

Keep our topics we talk about inside our circle.

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Sending POTB(pat on the back call out)  Or small wins when I hear someone accomplished something.  Sending happy bday texts!

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Sending POTB(pat on the back call out)  Or small wins when I hear someone accomplished something.  Sending happy bday texts!

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Find something you have in common, share your feelings about whatever it is and relate to them/ show that you care to listen about whatever it is.

Reach out to someone to either celebrate them, thank them, or check in on them to show you see them and you care to know them.

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Figure out what they want to get involved in on campus and go together!!

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Being with them in a slow, normal moment of life, not a party or social event, a daily life activity.

Share something vulnerable that will make them feel open and safe.

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Don’t automatically feel outcasted and shy away from speaking to girls. Be yourself no matter what and make those invites and ask genuine questions about themselves!

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if someone is hurt I would offer support, bandaids, and anything else they may need. I will tell them that it’s happened to be before and it’s not something to be embarrassed about. I will tell them it’s our secret and no one has to know.

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If my friends bf cheated on her I’ll buy her flowers

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Sit with someone new at lunch and ask them how their week has gone

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If I notice someone looks off/sad ask if they would like help

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If I notice someone looks off/sad ask if they would like help

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Invite someone who is sitting by themselves to come sit with you or your friends.

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Check in on them if you haven’t heard from them in a while and let them know that you’re thinking about them 

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Check in on them if you haven’t heard from them in a while and let them know that you’re thinking about them 

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Be more understanding of our older girls feedback and our exec!

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reach out in anyway that seems like it could help another girl out

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Be as inclusive as possible.

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maybe find someone who feels homesick and fill their time and offer your support and talk to them about it and relate and do something with then

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Making study groups with people in my major

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Making study groups with people in my major

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Have a sleepover with a friend!

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Open up about difficulties with class in conversation.

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Offer to take someone’s plate at lunch when theyre done!

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Offer to take someone’s plate at lunch when theyre done!

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be encouraging to others throughout the week

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be encouraging to others throughout the week

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If someone had a test ask them how it went!

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I think off the bat just being vulnerable with how you feel about your own friendship journey. I’ve done this and have found that I’m not the only one who feels a certain way. That then leads to a deeper conversation.

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Hype my friend up about her grades

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Connect over little conversations like at dinner and ask about how someones day has been to create a deeper connection

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Symmetry- You love ______ too! You’re literally me!

Solidarity- hey if you ever need help with biology I’ve got you!

Secrecy- don’t worry I will not tell anybody about this!

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Reach out and ask how they’re doing, go on a coffee and walk date, listen to what they have to say, be willing to take that time just to be all ears 

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Reach out and ask how they’re doing, go on a coffee and walk date, listen to what they have to say, be willing to take that time just to be all ears 

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If my friend is having a rough week I can go buy her a coffee

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Follow up, check in on them, keep communication and contact

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Follow up, check in on them, keep communication and contact

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i can make sure she knows i truly care about everything she has to say and that she always has my full attention when talking

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Being willing to just listen without commenting

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Go to the gym together

Run🏃

Motivate one another 👯 🔥

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Something I can do for another woman as a small gesture this week is offering to make someone a coffee for a pick me up

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Symmetry: talk about classes you might have together

Secrecy: talk about boyfriend drama

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Being a strong and trusted support system for my friends.

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Being a strong and trusted support system for my friends.

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offer them a hug

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i can invite her to do something we both share in common and while we are there talk about why we like to do that activity and what it means to us

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Daily text checking up on them, encouraging them through their week, ask if they need to talk about anything and let them know you are there to listen instead of gossip and tell their business 

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Daily text checking up on them, encouraging them through their week, ask if they need to talk about anything and let them know you are there to listen instead of gossip and tell their business 

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symmetry: wait you like sweet treats me too! Let’s go get one!

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Walking together to class or to the house from your dorm and getting that opportunity to talk and get to know each other

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giving someone a compliment

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I will try to be there for any friend who needs me. I will check in with them.

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if an important event is coming up support them and maybe shoot them a text to make them feel special

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if an important event is coming up support them and maybe shoot them a text to make them feel special

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try to sit with someone new at dinner or start a conversation and ask how they are doing

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helping a girl with her outfit for game day!

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I will be intentional with checking up on girls and asking about things we talked about earlier in the week

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I will be intentional with checking up on girls and asking about things we talked about earlier in the week

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talk to her about a certain situation that has made me upset or uncomfortable. show her that i feel safe with her and that she can reciprocate the same energy if she feels like she needs to

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Run errands together, offer to help her study

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Run errands together, offer to help her study

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be kind to all even if u don’t know someone very well

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Always be an open ear for someone to talk and really pour into listening and making them feel heard.

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giving uplifting comments on insta posts

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Take her to coffee and let her be vulnerable and I'd give it back so we can build that bond

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This week has been so hard with school and sorority life how are you handling everything

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Reach out to those who seem lonely

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Check back in on a girl who has shared something she’s struggling with.

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Me favorite thing is if someone in a conversation is being cut off or talked over i’ll personally engage what they’re saying and try to weave them into the main conversation

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Be positive and have a smile on your face at all times!

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compliment people i’m not super close with

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Invite someone to an event when they are feeling left out.

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Invite someone to an event when they are feeling left out.

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I can sit with her, share personal thoughts with her, and express my feelings

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Invite them to things!! Seems so simple but bring it up in conversation and then follow up afterwards too

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Letting that person know that if they ever need anything that I’m always there and reaching out to them

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Letting that person know that if they ever need anything that I’m always there and reaching out to them

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getting to know people you haven’t met yet

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I can tell someone I love their shoes and have the same ones.

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Helping a girl with her outfit for the swap

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invite a girl i know is a christian to my church and get icecream after 

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invite a girl i know is a christian to my church and get icecream after 

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Give her a little note of encouragement before a test

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sit with someone at meals who may be alone

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Always be an

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talk about classes and workload and support each other by working together

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go on a walk and talk about life at least once a week and give each other a safe space

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Showing that you’re there for them no matter what.

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text them how their test/day went if they mentioned being stressed 

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text them how their test/day went if they mentioned being stressed 

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Give them compliments and brighten their day ☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️🌇🌅🌄🌞🌇🌞🌄🌇☀️

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Study groups for girls in the same classes!!

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Invite people to walk to class together! Hey girl, I know we both have bio and live in the same dorm, do you want to walk to class together this week??

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share something personal so she feels safe doing the same 

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share something personal so she feels safe doing the same 

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Be someone to talk to

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Saying a positive when a negative is being talked about  

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Saying a positive when a negative is being talked about  

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offering to grab water for the girls sitting at your dinner table or take their dirty plates

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give a small compliment!!