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i feel like their is a lack of immaturity in this chapter. if you are sitting here and feel like you are being attacked or don’t understand why we are doing this, than that’s part of the problem.

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going off of the littles telling stuff i was sitting in a group n the girl said “oh everyone wanted you guys the most” and not me really really hurt me and it shouldnt be happening because now im insecure that my littles dont like me

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the littles are going around saying who was ranked where on peoples lists and how 3 specific girls were all they wanted and coming from a big that really hurts and i would have much rather gone without hearing that people didnt want me in the top

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there is more than one person that was cornering the girls but that’s even worse

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there’s more than one person who has cornered people and asked about their fav movie

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I hate Padlet because I wish people would just say this out loud

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its not fair to invite people over and get super close with them and dont give any of the rest of us a chance to get to know them.

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some sisters are extremely power hungry with their positions. Like if you’re going to act like you have a hold on everyone and are going to act rude with it, then you’re not mature enough to have that position. Like it’s  so annoying to see it with multiple people in this chapter. Please just grow up.

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people need to stop being power hungry. its not suppost to be an attacking us type of thing this is supposed to be an organization and have fun with eachother not put eachother down

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The sisters who were dirty littling we’re not getting in trouble but the sisters who weren’t we’re getting accused

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i’m really disappointed in the way that everyone has been acting. it feels like there is a huge lack of respect and consideration for others. it seemed like things were changing and people’s attitudes were improving but hearing all of this is a huge disappointment, not only to me but i’m sure to all the new girls as well

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inviting new members out and then not telling the rest of us that your going is awkward. and seeing people out in “cliques” and not hanging with the rest of us is awkward and makes us feel like you dont want to hangout with us

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Even at the end of scrapbooking, the last shift was not okay with the amount of standing around and only caring about going out. Initiated members make the influence on how we should act. So many girls only cared about going out and not cleaning or helping the ladies

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im annoyed that modt of the problems in this chapter are coming from initiated members

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Several new girls also told me that there was only a select group of girls being invited to a group of bigs every time and the ones not invited felt very left out and uncomfortable

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im annoyed that people actually asked the new girls what their favorite movie was before big little night and then went around asking everyone what they had n then saying “i know who you have” and actually seeing the texts it just made me more anxious that week than i should have been

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ive been told by some of the littles that initiated members went up to some of the new girls and cornered them at a pregame and asked them what their favorite movies are for big/little. I just think that’s extremely immature and selfish. how hard is it to wait a week to find out who your little is? and then you are ruining a surprise for them because of your own selfishness.

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I was told by several new members that a couple bigs were cornering them and asking what their favorite movie was and had the reveal spoiled for them

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i understand wanting to get to know the new girls as bigs. but inviting them to hangout n then not inviting any of the other bigs is unfair and could easily have based their judgement on that and could have been seen as we dont wanna hang with them either when really we just didnt know what was going on and it was sneaky and now makes the rest of us look like we werent involved

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initiated sisters negatively influencing new members