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Surround her with love. Let her understand that family will always be there for her w

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Always be open and honest with her, and let her know about her disease progression.

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She's already going to go

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tell her everything - children can be smarter than we think they are

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let her know what's going on in her life

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let her know what's going on in her life

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At the end of the day, she is still a person. Don't expect less of her just because she has a dangerous condition.

As she grows, explain the situation to her, and give her control over her bodily autonomy. But don't give in to everything she wants.

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Think about what Hwee Suan needs in the future: emotionally-ready for what's to come

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one step at a time. everything is so uncertain

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one step at a time. everything is so uncertain

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surround her with love and support

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She definitely requires more attention due to her condition, but the other children's needs shouldn't be neglected

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But her family will probably prioritise her needs anyway

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No, but there isn't really a choice at the moment the parents decide to save the child and put her on artificial life support.

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There should be a balance in prioritizing of the needs. Cannot entirely prioritize one above the other

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It's a life, that's worth compromising for

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Balance - not prioritize
The other kids are important too! #equalrights

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Not her fault that she's sick

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Accommodate the child as best they can, but the caregivers do not need to feel guilty for having a life with other priorities.

Also, being blunt: the other children are likely to live longer than her, need just as much if not more care and guidance.

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Money problem can always be resolved. Life does not work the same way

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No. let her live happily and comfortably 

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No. let her live happily and comfortably 

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No money no baby

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I literally have no more money

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Start a kick-starter project on social media

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Life can't be measured in monetary terms

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Is it even legal?

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Try to explain as best as possible to the child about the non-financial aspects (e.g. pain) of the treatment; ask the child if they still want to pursue it.

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If prognosis is not a dead-end prognosis

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expensive, unsustainable

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Blaming self for child condition

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did I do something wrong in my past life?

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did I do something wrong in my past life?

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Is my child going to survive? Probably not since this is a course on death

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mixed emotions

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Incompetent and guilty as mother who cannot even feed her own child

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Unfair that this has to happen to her. She's just a baby.

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Scared

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How can we help her ?

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The world is unfair

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Sad that my child has to go through pain. Unable to feel the joy of eating as easily as others.

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How can we better prepare Hwee Suan for her future?

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Should her need be prioritised above everything else? Why?

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Should treatment be continued? Why?

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As Hwee Suan's parents, how would you feel?